Encouraging One Another - New Testament Subjects
Session
1. "Encourage One Another Daily"- Hebrews 3:13
— Printable Handout
Focus:
The importance of daily encouragement
Purpose
Statement:
To emphasize that encouragement should be a daily practice among
believers.
Discussion Questions:
Why do you think encouragement is so important in our daily lives?
How has someone’s encouragement helped you grow in faith?
Scripture:
Hebrews 3:13 "But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘Today,’ so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness."
1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
Ephesians 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Colossians 3:16 "Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts."
Galatians 6:2 "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
Romans 15:2 "Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up."
OVERVIEW:
In Hebrews 3:13, the author exhorts believers to encourage one another daily, underscoring the urgency and importance of consistent encouragement in the Christian community. The passage reminds us that encouragement is not a one-time act but a daily, ongoing practice that serves as a shield against the deceitfulness of sin. It’s easy for our hearts to grow cold and our faith to falter when we face the trials of life alone. Encouragement from fellow believers helps protect us from this spiritual decline, offering support and perspective that reminds us of God’s faithfulness and promises. As Christians, we are called to encourage one another—not only in times of difficulty but every day, creating a community where hope, love, and faith are continually nourished through shared words and actions. This session invites us to reflect on how we can make daily encouragement a practice in our lives, showing love and care to those around us and building each other up in the faith.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Many
people might be surprised to realize that Hebrews
3:13
emphasizes daily
encouragement.
It’s easy to think that encouragement is something we do only in
times of crisis or when someone is struggling. However, the author of
Hebrews teaches us that encouragement
should be part of our daily routine,
a consistent habit among believers. Encouraging one another isn't
just for the low moments—it’s also about reminding
each other of God's goodness
every day, celebrating victories, and building one another up in all
circumstances. Just as physical nourishment is essential for our
well-being, spiritual
encouragement is necessary for our growth and endurance in the faith.
When we neglect daily encouragement, we risk allowing sin’s
deceitfulness
to take root in our hearts, leading us away from God. So,
encouragement is not just a nice idea—it’s a spiritual
necessity
that helps preserve
our hearts
and strengthen
our faith.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s fast-paced, digitally-driven world, it’s easy to feel disconnected from others despite the constant flow of communication. While social media and texting can provide quick updates and surface-level interaction, they often lack the depth and intentionality of true, personal encouragement. In a culture that often values individual success over community, and self-reliance over mutual support, the idea of daily encouragement might seem difficult or even unnecessary. However, Hebrews 3:13 calls us to create a culture of daily encouragement within the body of Christ, offering support, prayer, and love regularly. Whether it’s through a text, a phone call, a kind word, or a heartfelt prayer, we have the opportunity to build each other up every day. Encouragement is a simple yet powerful way to make a meaningful impact in someone’s life, especially in a culture that often feels disconnected, lonely, and overwhelmed.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and biblical scholars often emphasize the profound impact of daily encouragement in sustaining believers in their walk with Christ. John Piper writes, “Encouragement is vital for the Christian life, especially when we are confronted with discouragement, isolation, or sin. Without the daily reminder of God’s truth and love, we are prone to fall into despair and temptation.” William Barclay also points out that daily encouragement is essential to combat the spiritual hardening that can occur when believers grow weary or disconnected. He says, “The Christian life is lived in community, and encouragement is the fuel that keeps the spiritual fire burning bright.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer, in his book Life Together, notes that Christian community is built on the regular exchange of words of encouragement, as they help to reinforce the gospel’s power in the lives of believers. When we encourage each other daily, we remind one another that we are not alone, and God is at work in us.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "A Daily Call to Courage"
Imagine a lighthouse keeper on the rugged coast, tending the light each night so sailors can find their way home. He never misses a night, knowing that even one evening of neglect could lead to shipwreck. His daily commitment, though small, has life-saving power.
Encouragement works the same way. It may seem like just a kind word, a gentle smile, or a reassuring touch, but over time, it keeps people from drifting into despair. Hebrews 3:13 reminds us to "encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘Today,’ so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness." Just as a lighthouse keeper faithfully tends the light, we are called to faithfully encourage one another—every single day.
Think about World War II. During those years, handwritten letters were the only way many soldiers and families stayed connected. A mother’s words, a wife’s encouragement, a pastor’s prayers—these messages strengthened hearts and kept hope alive. Even now, in our fast-paced world, a simple text, phone call, or personal visit can be the lifeline someone needs.
Who in your life needs encouragement today? A neighbor, a fellow church member, a family member? Don’t wait. Be a lighthouse. Be a letter of hope. Be the one who brightens another’s day—because today, like every day, someone needs it.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
Daily encouragement is not just a nice gesture—it is a spiritual practice that strengthens and protects our faith. In a world that is often full of distractions and discouragements, encouraging one another daily serves as a spiritual safeguard. Encouragement is a tool God uses to help us stay grounded in His truth, and it prevents our hearts from growing hardened by sin and negativity. As believers, we are called to build each other up every day, reminding each other of God’s promises, and standing together in faith. Let’s make daily encouragement a habit, for it will not only strengthen the church but will also serve as a beacon of hope to the world around us.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
Why is daily encouragement essential to the Christian faith, according to Hebrews 3:13?
How can we make encouragement a regular practice in our everyday lives?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “Let’s commit to encouraging one another daily—because sometimes, all someone needs is a reminder that they’re not alone. #EncourageOneAnother #StrengthInFaith #DailyEncouragement” — @HopeInChrist, Instagram
Newspaper Article: “In a time when many feel isolated, daily encouragement could be the catalyst for deepening relationships and strengthening faith. How can we make this a priority in our daily lives?” — Christian Living Weekly, March 2024
Session 2. "Building Each Other Up"- 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Purpose
Statement:
To highlight our role in strengthening one another.
Discussion
Questions:
What are some practical ways we can “build each other up” in our church and community?
How does encouragement help us stay strong in our faith?
Scripture:
1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
Romans 15:2 "Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up."
Ephesians 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Colossians 2:6-7 "So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness."
Hebrews 10:24-25 "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."
2 Corinthians 13:11 "Finally, brothers and sisters, rejoice! Strive for full restoration, encourage one another, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you."
OVERVIEW:
In 1 Thessalonians 5:11, Paul calls believers to actively encourage one another and build each other up, emphasizing the importance of mutual support within the Christian community. Encouragement is not just a kind gesture, but a vital part of strengthening each other's faith. As Christians, we are not meant to walk this journey alone; rather, we are called to foster a community of believers that edify, inspire, and uphold one another in times of trial, doubt, and joy. Building each other up involves not just comforting one another in difficult times but also encouraging spiritual growth and holding each other accountable. This session invites us to reflect on how we can play an active role in encouraging others, reminding them of God's promises, and providing the support they need to keep moving forward in their faith.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on Encouragement and Building Up
You
might be surprised to discover that the biblical concept of building
others up
goes beyond merely offering kind words or emotional support—it also
involves actively
strengthening one another’s faith.
It’s easy to assume that encouragement is just about making someone
feel better in the moment, but true biblical encouragement is about
helping
others grow in their relationship with God.
In Ephesians
4:29,
Paul urges believers to speak words that are helpful
for building others up according to their needs,
meaning encouragement should be aimed at spiritual
growth and maturity.
This kind of encouragement challenges others to continue walking
faithfully, to stand firm in the face of difficulties, and to build
their lives on the solid foundation of Christ. Encouragement is not
just a temporary boost but a lifelong
commitment to help each other thrive spiritually.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s society, the idea of encouragement can often be reduced to simple words of affirmation or praise. While these are important, the Bible teaches that encouragement goes much deeper. In a culture that often values individual success over community and personal achievement over collective growth, it’s easy to overlook the powerful role that mutual support plays in our spiritual journeys. Building each other up involves creating a culture of shared faith, where we actively seek to encourage one another in both big and small ways, whether through prayer, accountability, or shared wisdom. Today’s culture often encourages independence, but the Bible teaches us that we are called to encourage and strengthen one another as we grow in faith together. Encouraging others in their walk with Christ is a reflection of the unity that is found in Him—and it’s a powerful testimony to the world that God’s love is at work in our relationships.
WHAT IS SAID:
Commentators and theologians emphasize the importance of mutual encouragement within the Christian community as essential to spiritual growth. John Stott writes, “The Christian life is never meant to be lived in isolation. It is lived in community and the mutual encouragement of one another.” He further notes that the body of Christ is designed to strengthen each member, helping each believer to persevere and grow. William Barclay highlights that encouragement is essential not just in times of distress but in building up the strength of the church as a whole. Martin Luther also underscores the importance of building each other up through encouraging words and actions, saying, “If we are truly to love our neighbors, we must work to help them flourish in their faith.” Theologians agree that true encouragement is not simply about offering comfort; it’s about helping each other grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ (2 Peter 3:18).
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Power of a Brick"
If you've ever watched a mason build a wall, you know that each brick matters. Laid one at a time, each brick supports the next, held together by mortar that gives strength and stability. But if a single brick is weak or missing, the wall becomes vulnerable.
In 1 Thessalonians 5:11, Paul reminds us, "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." Our faith community is like that brick wall—each of us playing a role in strengthening one another.
Think back to the Great Depression. Times were hard, jobs were scarce, and hope was fragile. But communities came together—churches shared food, neighbors helped neighbors, and people leaned on each other to survive. They didn't just build shelters or soup kitchens; they built each other up with words of hope and acts of kindness.
Today, the needs may be different, but the calling is the same. A simple "I’m praying for you," a listening ear, or a shared scripture can be the mortar that holds someone’s faith together. Who in your life needs strengthening today? Ask God to show you how to be a brick in their wall—because when we build each other up, we stand stronger together.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
Encouragement is not just about making people feel good; it is a commitment to help one another grow in faith. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 reminds us that we are part of a community of believers whose responsibility is to build each other up. This is not a passive process but an active choice to encourage, to strengthen, and to speak life into one another’s spiritual journeys. In the Christian life, we are not meant to go it alone—God has given us the church to spur one another on toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24-25). Whether it’s through prayer, wise counsel, or simple acts of kindness, every believer has a role to play in strengthening others in the faith. Encouragement is a reflection of God’s love and His desire for us to grow stronger together in Christ.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does 1 Thessalonians 5:11 teach us about our role in the lives of other believers?
In what ways can we practically encourage one another to grow in faith, according to Ephesians 4:29?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “In a world full of negativity, let’s choose to build each other up with words of encouragement and faith. #EncourageOneAnother #BuildEachOtherUp #FaithInAction” — @GraceFilled, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “Encouragement isn’t just a passing compliment; it’s a deep, intentional act that helps others grow in their walk with Christ. We need each other to stay strong in faith.” — Faith Today Magazine, February 2024
Session
3. "A Word in Season"- Proverbs 25:11
Purpose
Statement:
To encourage speaking words that uplift rather than tear
down.
Discussion
Questions:
How have words of encouragement impacted your life?
What are ways we can be intentional in speaking encouraging words?
Scripture:
Proverbs 25:11 "A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver."
Ephesians 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Colossians 4:6 "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."
James 1:19 "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."
Matthew 12:36-37 "But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned."
Proverbs 16:24 "Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones."
OVERVIEW:
In Proverbs 25:11, Solomon describes the power of well-timed, encouraging words as being "like apples of gold in settings of silver"—beautiful, valuable, and precious. Just as carefully crafted words can bring warmth and encouragement to others, they can also create an atmosphere where hope and joy can flourish. This proverb reminds us of the weight and value of our words. Our words have the power to either build up or tear down, and choosing to speak words that are timely, wise, and loving has the ability to deeply impact the lives of others. In a world that often feels harsh and critical, believers are called to use our words to encourage, to share hope, and to speak life. This session challenges us to become intentional in our speech, choosing to speak life-giving words that inspire, uplift, and encourage, rather than words that wound or discourage.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
It
may surprise you to realize that Proverbs
25:11
is not just about speaking polite words, but it emphasizes the deep
impact
of carefully chosen words.
The term “aptly spoken” means that the words are not
just nice,
but timely,
fitting, and wise,
resonating with the needs and hearts of others. In our culture, it
can be easy to speak without thinking, to use words in a hurry, or to
speak out of frustration. However, the scripture
reminds us that words should be measured, intentional, and
thoughtful,
offering encouragement and building others up. While it may feel
easier to speak quickly or react impulsively, this verse teaches us
that words,
spoken wisely and graciously, carry great weight—they
can bring healing, comfort, and joy. This is why the Bible warns that
we
will be held accountable
for every word we speak (Matthew 12:36-37). Each
word we choose carries significance,
and we should be conscious of using them for the good of others,
building them up rather than tearing them down.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s culture, words are more easily shared than ever before, especially through social media and digital platforms. The speed at which we can comment, post, and reply can sometimes lead to hurried or careless words. However, Proverbs 25:11 challenges us to rethink how we communicate, urging us to choose our words wisely. The internet may allow for instantaneous responses, but it also brings the responsibility of carefully considering how our words might impact others. In a world full of noise and criticism, Christians are called to stand out by speaking words that encourage, inspire, and bring peace, following the example of Christ, whose words were always filled with grace and truth. This scripture offers an opportunity to shift the way we engage in conversations—whether in person or online—by choosing to speak with love, respect, and encouragement.
WHAT IS SAID:
Charles Spurgeon, in his reflections on Proverbs 25:11, notes that, “A well-spoken word is like a precious jewel. It is beautiful to the hearer, and it has the power to brighten the soul.” In this context, a word spoken at the right time, with the right tone, can bring healing, joy, and restoration. John Wesley also underscores the importance of speech, noting, “It is not enough to avoid harshness, but we should use our speech to uplift and edify others, making our words full of grace.” Theologians remind us that words, when guided by the Spirit, can become instruments of encouragement that draw people closer to God. As Christians, we are called to speak life, reflecting the love of Christ through our words. The scriptures warn of the power of unwholesome speech (Ephesians 4:29), urging believers to be mindful of how their words can either tear down or build up.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Right Word at the Right Time"
During World War II, British Prime Minister Winston Churchill stood before his weary nation and spoke these words: "Never, never, never give up." At a time when fear and exhaustion threatened to overwhelm the people, those words became a rallying cry. They didn’t change the war overnight, but they gave people the courage to keep going.
Proverbs 25:11 says, "Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a ruling rightly given." The right words, spoken at the right time, have great value—offering life, hope, and strength. Just as Churchill’s words encouraged a nation, our words have the power to lift up those around us.
Think about a time when someone’s words made a difference in your life. Maybe a teacher who told you they believed in you, a friend who reminded you of God’s faithfulness, or a simple “You’ve got this” when you felt uncertain. Encouraging words don’t have to be grand speeches; sometimes, they’re as simple as reminding someone of God’s love, His promises, and their worth.
Who in your life needs a word in season today? A struggling friend, a discouraged family member, or someone sitting alone at church? Ask God to help you speak life. Your words, given at the right time, may be the very thing that keeps them going.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
Words are not just casual tools of communication—they are powerful instruments that can bring either life or destruction. Proverbs 25:11 highlights how carefully chosen, timely, and gracious words are like a beautiful work of art—precious and valuable. When we speak words that encourage, build up, and reflect the heart of Christ, we are not only showing love to those around us, but we are also creating an environment where faith can grow and thrive. In a world that often speaks harshly or thoughtlessly, Christians are called to speak words of grace, wisdom, and encouragement that reflect God’s love for humanity. Let’s take the challenge to speak life today, offering words that heal, comfort, and uplift.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does Proverbs 25:11 teach us about the value of carefully chosen words?
How can we apply Ephesians 4:29 in our everyday conversations to encourage others?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “Words matter. Let’s choose to speak encouragement today and offer grace to everyone we encounter. #SpeakLife #EncourageOneAnother #PowerOfWords” — @FaithInAction, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “In a world where words can be used to tear down, let’s be the ones who build up with words of life. Each word we speak has the potential to change a life.” — Encouragement Today Magazine, March 2024
Session
4. "Love One Another Deeply"- 1 Peter 4:8
Focus:
Encouragement through love
Purpose
Statement:
To show that deep, Christlike love is the foundation of
encouragement.
Discussion
Questions:
How does love encourage others?
In what ways can we show deep love to those who are struggling?
Scripture:
1 Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
John 13:34-35 "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
Romans 13:10 "Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law."
Ephesians 4:2-3 "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
Galatians 5:13-14 "You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’"
OVERVIEW:
In 1 Peter 4:8, we are called to love one another deeply, for love is the foundation of true encouragement. Christlike love is not surface-level, fleeting, or conditional; it is a deep, sacrificial love that is willing to forgive, bear with others, and serve selflessly. This kind of love builds others up, offering them the strength and courage to endure trials. When we love each other with the depth and sincerity that Christ has shown us, we not only reflect His character but also become instruments of encouragement to one another. Peter's call to love deeply highlights that our relationships with one another should be marked by compassion, forgiveness, and an unwavering commitment to each other’s well-being. Encouragement flows naturally from this kind of love, as it empowers others to feel valued, supported, and strengthened in their faith journey.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
You
might be surprised to learn that 1
Peter 4:8
doesn’t just speak about love as an abstract concept, but as a
practical,
action-oriented choice.
The phrase “love covers a multitude of sins” is often
misunderstood as excusing wrongdoing or sweeping it under the rug. In
reality, this verse highlights the power
of love to forgive and heal.
Rather than ignoring or denying the reality of sin, deep,
Christlike love
works through forgiveness and reconciliation. It is not love that
dismisses sin, but love that chooses
to forgive, to bear with one another, and to help others move
forward.
True love protects,
restores, and covers
the weakness or mistakes of others with grace, helping them to rise
above their shortcomings and grow in faith.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s culture, love is often viewed as a fleeting feeling—something that is conditional and dependent on circumstances. However, the love described in 1 Peter 4:8 is different. It’s unconditional, sacrificial, and enduring. In a world where relationships can often feel transactional or superficial, the love Christ calls us to is a radical departure from what is often seen around us. Christlike love isn’t about feeling good or being comfortable—it’s about sacrificing for others and choosing to care deeply for them, even when they fall short. This type of love is not only a foundation for strong personal relationships but also an example to the world of God’s unconditional love for humanity. In a society that often promotes self-interest and individualism, Christians are called to a deeper, more selfless love, one that encourages, restores, and builds up others for the sake of the Kingdom of God.
WHAT IS SAID:
John Stott explains that “Christian love is not a mere feeling; it is a volitional commitment to the well-being of others.” This love is self-giving and seeks to build up rather than tear down. William Barclay writes, “Love that covers a multitude of sins is not a love that pretends that there are no faults or errors, but it is a love that chooses to overlook them in the service of reconciliation and healing.” J.I. Packer affirms this by saying, “True Christian love is the bond that holds believers together and enables them to encourage one another in their walk with Christ.” This teaching on love challenges believers to reflect the same sacrificial love that Christ demonstrated on the cross, where He gave Himself up for the salvation and encouragement of others. Love is, therefore, not just a feeling, but a choice to actively encourage and serve others, especially when it’s difficult.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Quilt of Love"
During the Dust Bowl of the 1930s, when families lost everything to drought and dust storms, many struggled just to survive. Yet in those desperate times, communities came together in love. Women would gather scraps of fabric—old shirts, worn-out dresses, anything they could find—to sew quilts for families in need. Each stitch was a labor of love, providing not just warmth, but a reminder: You are not alone. We care for you.
1 Peter 4:8 reminds us, "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." Just as those handmade quilts covered cold and weary bodies, love covers hearts weighed down by burdens. Love is the foundation of encouragement, a shelter in the storms of life.
Encouragement isn’t just about words—it’s about showing up. It’s bringing a meal to a sick friend, sitting beside someone in grief, or offering a gentle touch to say, I see you. You matter. Like those quilts of old, our love—woven through acts of kindness and encouragement—warms the hearts of those who need it most.
Who in your life needs to feel the covering of Christ’s love today? Stitch together a moment of encouragement through your words and actions. A simple act of love could be the warmth they need to keep going.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
Love is not just a feeling; it is a commitment—a deep, intentional decision to encourage and support one another. The kind of love described in 1 Peter 4:8 requires us to go beyond surface-level interactions and invest in each other’s well-being. It is a love that sees past the faults and failures of others and chooses to forgive, encourage, and build them up. As we love one another deeply, we not only reflect Christ's love for us but also create an environment where encouragement thrives. Encouragement through love is rooted in selflessness, sacrifice, and grace, and it holds the power to heal relationships, strengthen faith, and draw others closer to Christ. This deep love is the foundation for all encouragement in the Christian community.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does 1 Peter 4:8 teach us about the relationship between love and encouragement?
How does the love described in 1 Peter 4:8 differ from the world’s view of love?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “Love each other deeply, because love is the greatest encouragement. It covers over so many struggles. Let’s walk in grace today. #LoveOneAnother #DeepLove #Encouragement” — @ChristianLiving, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “True Christian love isn’t about perfection—it’s about bearing with one another’s weaknesses and encouraging them in the grace of Christ. This is the love that changes lives.” — Faithful Hearts Magazine, February 2024
Session
5. "Spur One Another On"- Hebrews 10:24-25
Focus:
Encouraging one another to grow in faith and good works
Purpose
Statement:
To inspire believers to motivate one another in faith.
Discussion
Questions:
What does it mean to “spur one another on” in faith?
How can encouragement help us stay faithful to God’s calling?
Scripture:
Hebrews 10:24-25 – "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds..."
Romans 12:10: "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves."
1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
Ephesians 4:29: "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Galatians 6:2: "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
Colossians 3:16: "Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts."
1 Peter 4:10: "Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."
OVERVIEW:
The theme of spurring one another on is foundational to the Christian faith. We are called to motivate and encourage each other in our walk with Christ, helping one another grow in faith and good works. In Hebrews 10:24-25, the writer urges believers to not give up meeting together but to encourage each other all the more as we await Christ’s return. This theme isn’t merely about social interaction; it’s a command to support one another spiritually. The apostle Paul captures this spirit in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, where he says, "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." As believers, we must take up this challenge, intentionally creating an environment where encouragement thrives.
Quote: “The church is not a collection of perfect people but a gathering of those who need to help one another walk in grace.” - John Stott, Theologian and Preacher
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: Clarifying a Difficult Teaching
Many Christians struggle with the interpretation of Hebrews 10:25, which emphasizes the importance of not neglecting meeting together. In a world where people are increasingly isolated or attend church services less frequently, this can be challenging. Some may feel guilty or burdened by this verse, believing that church attendance alone is a measure of their faithfulness. However, the intent of this teaching is not about religious obligation but the deep need for community. The word “meeting together” refers not just to attendance in a worship service but to mutual encouragement and accountability. The purpose is to spur one another on in love and good works, not simply to check off a spiritual box. It is about the quality of relationships, not the quantity of church events attended. As the body of Christ, we gather to help each other stay strong in our faith.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s culture, where individualism often reigns supreme and online communities replace in-person interactions, Hebrews 10:24-25 takes on an even greater relevance. Social media, for instance, can connect us to a broad audience, but it often leaves us isolated in terms of genuine relationships and spiritual growth. This scripture reminds us of the importance of authentic, face-to-face community. Encouraging one another can’t happen through likes and shares alone—it requires real connection, deep conversation, and shared lives. In the same way that a coach pushes an athlete to perform better, Christians must encourage one another in faith, holding each other accountable and cheering each other on. This scripture isn’t just a call to attend church; it’s a call to be present in each other’s lives, especially in a time where isolation can be all too easy.
WHAT IS SAID:
Commentaries and theologians agree that Hebrews 10:24-25 stresses the importance of the Christian community. Theologian William Lane writes, "The author of Hebrews calls for mutual encouragement and stimulation to good works, rather than withdrawal from the community." In the same way, John Piper emphasizes that "faith is not a solitary pursuit but a communal one." Other historians note that early Christian gatherings, which were often in homes, were not just for worship but for mutual encouragement, prayer, and service. These scriptures encourage believers not only to meet but to actively support and strengthen each other’s faith, ensuring the Christian life is one of mutual care and responsibility.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Power of a Running Partner"
In the 1936 Olympics, American runner Louis Zamperini was far from the favorite to win his race. But in the final stretch, completely exhausted, he heard his brother’s words in his mind: "A moment of pain is worth a lifetime of glory." Those words pushed him forward, helping him finish strong.
Hebrews 10:24-25 says, "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." Like a running partner who won’t let you quit, we are called to push each other forward in faith.
Think about a time when someone’s encouragement kept you going. Maybe it was a friend who challenged you to grow spiritually, a mentor who wouldn’t let you give up, or a fellow believer who reminded you of your purpose. Faith isn’t a solo race—it’s a marathon we run together.
Who in your life needs a little push to keep running? Maybe it’s someone who’s struggling to stay faithful or someone who needs encouragement to step into a new calling. Be the voice that says, Keep going! You’re not alone. The finish line is worth it.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
God’s plan for the church is beautifully illustrated in the mutual encouragement we offer one another. In Ephesians 4:16, we are told that "the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work." The church, as God designed it, is a place where all members contribute and encourage one another. Every act of kindness, every word of encouragement, and every moment of fellowship contributes to the larger picture of God’s kingdom. Through these acts, we grow stronger in faith, building each other up until Christ returns.
The bigger picture of God’s plan is that His people would shine brightly, not just individually but as a community. When we invest in one another, we reflect the love of Christ and demonstrate His power to change lives. Encouraging one another in faith is not only for our benefit; it is a testimony to the world of the unity and love found in Christ.
QUICK QUIZ:
How can we practically encourage others in their faith, according to Hebrews 10:24-25?
What are some barriers that might prevent us from spurring others on in good works? How can we overcome them?
PUBLIC THOUGHTS ON THIS SUBJECT:
Social Media Post: "Sometimes, all someone needs is a little reminder that they are not alone in their faith journey. Hebrews 10:24-25 teaches us to encourage one another, and in doing so, we lift each other up. #EncourageOneAnother #FaithInAction"
Newspaper Article: "Church isn’t just about Sundays. It’s about relationships. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us that the Christian life isn’t meant to be lived in isolation. We are called to encourage one another, and in this, we grow stronger together."
Session
6. "Bearing One Another’s Burdens"- Galatians 6:2
Focus:
Encouragement through supporting each other
Purpose
Statement:
To stress the importance of sharing one another’s
burdens.
Discussion
Questions:
How does carrying someone’s burdens bring encouragement?
How can we be more intentional in supporting others?
Scripture:
Galatians 6:2 – "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
Romans 15:1: "We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves."
1 Corinthians 12:26: "If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it."
Colossians 3:13: "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Philippians 2:4: "Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also to the interests of others."
1 Thessalonians 5:14: "And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone."
James 5:16: "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."
OVERVIEW:
The Christian walk is not one of individual achievement but a journey that we share with one another. In Galatians 6:2, Paul calls us to “bear one another’s burdens.” This isn’t merely a call to sympathize; it’s a call to actively share the weight of one another’s struggles. Whether those burdens are physical, emotional, or spiritual, we are called to enter into the lives of others, offering support and lifting them up. Jesus, who bore our burdens on the cross, calls us to walk in His footsteps by offering our strength to those in need. Bearing burdens is not only about offering practical help but also about offering spiritual and emotional support, fulfilling the law of Christ. As we grow in faith, we are reminded that true love is sacrificial, as we seek to ease the suffering of others.
Quote: “Christian love is not a passive sentiment, but an active, practical caring for the needs of others.” – John Stott, Theologian
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: Clarifying a Difficult Teaching
At first glance, bearing one another’s burdens might seem like a heavy and burdensome task in itself. After all, how can we possibly take on the weight of someone else’s struggles? However, what may surprise you is that this teaching is not a command to carry someone else’s burdens indefinitely. Rather, it’s a call to help, support, and lighten their load when they are struggling, knowing that we are in this together. Paul makes it clear in the surrounding verses that each person will eventually carry their own load (Galatians 6:5). The emphasis here is on mutual support, not dependency. The church body is meant to be a place where no one carries burdens alone, but rather, we share them and encourage one another. This shared responsibility strengthens the body of Christ, making us all more resilient in faith.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, where individualism and self-sufficiency are often celebrated, the idea of sharing burdens can seem countercultural. We are taught to be independent and self-reliant, and the idea of burden-sharing may feel uncomfortable or even unmanageable. However, Galatians 6:2 calls us to a different mindset—a mindset of community and connection. In a culture that often isolates people, especially in times of struggle, this scripture challenges us to be present in one another’s lives, not just in good times, but also during moments of hardship. The Christian community is designed to be a place where we step in to help when others fall, where we offer emotional, practical, and spiritual support. By choosing to bear one another’s burdens, we fulfill Christ’s law of love and offer a radically different way of living to a world that desperately needs it.
WHAT IS SAID:
Commentaries and theologians highlight the importance of bearing one another’s burdens in the Christian life. According to John Stott, “The Christian life is not just about believing, it’s about being involved in the life of the community and seeking the welfare of others.” Paul’s teaching in Galatians 6:2 emphasizes this involvement as not merely a good deed but a fulfillment of the law of Christ. In this, we are reminded that love is more than an emotional response—it’s an active choice to care for others. Theologian William Barclay notes that “bearing one another’s burdens is not just about alleviating someone’s pain, but about walking with them through it, giving them the strength to continue on.” Early church writers understood this as well, seeing the burden-sharing among believers as one of the key hallmarks of the church's life.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Farmer’s Fence"
In the heartland of America during the Great Depression, times were tough. Crops failed, banks closed, and families struggled just to make ends meet. But when one farmer faced hardship, his neighbors didn’t let him carry the burden alone. If a barn needed raising, the whole town showed up. If a fence fell, hands came together to rebuild it. No one asked, Why should I help? They simply knew: We’re in this together.
Galatians 6:2 reminds us, "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Just like those farmers helping each other, we are called to step in and support one another—not just in the good times, but especially in the hard ones.
Maybe you know someone carrying a heavy load today. A widow facing loneliness, a friend struggling with illness, a family going through financial hardship. Sometimes bearing burdens means lending a helping hand, but other times, it’s as simple as sitting with someone in their pain, praying with them, and reminding them they’re not alone.
Look around you. Who needs their “fence” rebuilt today? Who is struggling under a weight too heavy to carry alone? Take a step—offer a hand, a word, or a prayer. Because when we carry each other’s burdens, we’re not just helping—we’re fulfilling the love of Christ.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
God’s plan is that His people live in community, not as isolated individuals. Galatians 6:2 challenges us to share the burdens of others, and this reflects the heart of God. The ultimate example of bearing burdens is found in Jesus Christ, who took the weight of our sin upon Himself. As His followers, we are called to walk in His footsteps, sharing the emotional, spiritual, and physical burdens of those around us. By doing so, we are fulfilling the law of Christ. But it’s not just about helping others; it’s about growing together as a community. Through bearing one another’s burdens, we deepen our relationships and grow more Christlike in the process. This is how the church becomes a place of healing and strength.
QUICK QUIZ:
What are some practical ways you can bear someone else’s burdens today?
How can we create a culture in our church where people feel comfortable sharing their burdens with others?
PUBLIC THOUGHTS ON THIS SUBJECT:
Social Media Post: "Bearing one another’s burdens isn’t just a good idea—it’s a command from Galatians 6:2. Let’s be the kind of community that lifts each other up in love. #BearOneAnother #CommunityInChrist"
Magazine Article: "In a world that celebrates independence, the Christian community offers a radical call to interdependence. Galatians 6:2 reminds us that we are not meant to walk alone—when we bear one another’s burdens, we fulfill Christ’s love in action."
Session
7. "Let Your Words Give Grace"- Ephesians 4:29
Purpose
Statement:
To use our words to uplift, not tear down.
Discussion
Questions:
How can we use our words to bring encouragement and healing?
What are some habits that can help us avoid negative speech?
Scripture:
Ephesians 4:29 – "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up..."
Proverbs 12:25: "Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up."
Colossians 4:6: "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."
Matthew 12:36: "But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken."
James 1:19: "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."
Proverbs 15:1: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
OVERVIEW:
The power of words is immense. With a single phrase, we can either build someone up or tear them down. Ephesians 4:29 urges us to be mindful of the impact our words have on others: "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Our words have the ability to bring grace, healing, and encouragement into people’s lives. Just as a harsh word can wound, a kind and gracious word can bring comfort, hope, and a renewed sense of strength. In a world where negativity often dominates conversations, Christians are called to be different—to be agents of grace in the way we speak to and about others. When we speak in ways that build others up, we reflect Christ’s love and create a community that thrives in encouragement.
Quote: “Words are containers for power, you choose what kind of power they carry.” – Joyce Meyer, Author and Speaker
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: Clarifying a Difficult Teaching
It’s easy to assume that the command to speak graciously only applies when we’re directly encouraging someone. However, Ephesians 4:29 is more comprehensive—it also speaks against any words that might tear down, criticize, or gossip. This can be challenging because there are times when we feel frustrated or upset, and our words might not reflect grace. Some might be surprised to learn that even small, seemingly insignificant remarks can have a lasting negative impact on others. The surprising truth here is that our words don't just affect the person we are speaking to, but they also affect us. When we choose to speak in a way that is uplifting, we align ourselves with God’s will and promote peace in our hearts and relationships. Speaking with grace transforms not just the lives of others but our own attitude and perspective as well.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, words can be a powerful weapon. Social media platforms are filled with both encouraging and harmful words that can go viral in seconds. The culture today often embraces a “speak your truth” mentality, which sometimes promotes speaking harshly or without concern for others’ feelings. However, as Christians, Ephesians 4:29 calls us to a higher standard. We are urged to use our words not to bring division but to promote unity, peace, and understanding. In a world that can be quick to judge and criticize, our words should be a beacon of light, offering grace and kindness. When we choose to use words that build others up, we reflect Christ's love in a world that desperately needs encouragement.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and commentators agree that Ephesians 4:29 speaks to the profound impact that words have on relationships and community. Theologian John Stott emphasizes that “Paul’s prohibition of unwholesome talk is a reminder that speech can be a destructive force. But it is not enough simply to refrain from speaking ill; Christians are called to use their words to build up, to encourage, and to impart grace.” William Barclay notes that Paul emphasizes “speech as a means of grace” and highlights that when we speak in kindness and truth, we reflect the character of Christ. Early church leaders often spoke about the importance of the tongue and its power to either build up the body of Christ or tear it down. In this, the biblical teaching is clear: our words are a reflection of our hearts, and therefore, we must choose to use them wisely.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Carpenter’s Touch"
A skilled carpenter knows that a rough piece of wood needs careful sanding before it’s useful. If left rough, it can splinter and cause harm. But with patience and the right touch, the carpenter smooths the edges, turning it into something strong and beautiful.
Our words work the same way. Ephesians 4:29 says, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Our words can either tear down like splintered wood or build up like a master carpenter shaping something new.
Think about the great speeches in history—like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s "I Have a Dream." His words weren’t just words; they shaped hearts, built hope, and inspired action. But encouragement doesn’t have to be spoken on a grand stage. A kind word to a friend, a note of appreciation, or a heartfelt prayer can shape someone’s spirit in ways we may never fully see.
How are you using your words? Are they sanding rough edges and building others up? Or do they leave splinters behind? Today, ask God to help you be a carpenter of encouragement—one word at a time.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
God has given us the incredible ability to speak. While this gift can be used for harm, it can also be used to build others up, encourage, and extend grace. Ephesians 4:29 reminds us that our speech is not neutral—it either builds up or tears down. As followers of Christ, we are called to be intentional about the words we use, to ensure that they reflect His love and mercy. The Christian community is meant to be a place of healing, and our words play a significant role in creating that environment. When we speak with grace, we not only fulfill God’s command but also create a space where people feel valued, loved, and supported.
As you go through the week, reflect on how you can use your words to uplift others. Whether through a kind compliment, a thoughtful message, or simply offering encouragement in conversation, your words can make a profound impact. Let’s choose to speak grace.
QUICK QUIZ:
Why do you think Ephesians 4:29 emphasizes “only what is helpful for building others up”? How can this guide the way we speak?
How do you handle situations where you feel tempted to speak negatively or criticize someone? What does the scripture say about this?
PUBLIC THOUGHTS ON THIS SUBJECT:
Social Media Post: "Words have the power to build up or tear down. Ephesians 4:29 reminds us to speak only what will encourage and strengthen others. Let’s use our words to reflect Christ’s grace! #SpeakGrace #EncourageOneAnother"
Magazine Article: "Words are powerful tools. They can heal, hurt, and everything in between. Ephesians 4:29 challenges us to use our words to encourage and build up, not to tear down. In a world filled with criticism, let’s choose to speak with grace."
Session
8. "Rejoice with Those Who Rejoice"- Romans 12:1
Focus:
Encouragement through shared joy
Purpose
Statement:
To learn the value of celebrating with others.
Discussion
Questions:
How does rejoicing with others encourage them?
Why is it important to both celebrate and grieve together?
Scripture:
Romans 12:15 – "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."1 Corinthians 12:26: "If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it."
Philippians 2:3-4: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
Galatians 6:2: "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."
Luke 15:6: "Then when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’"
James 5:13: "Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise."
OVERVIEW:
Romans 12:15 calls us to "rejoice with those who rejoice," emphasizing the importance of celebrating alongside others in their moments of happiness. It’s easy to feel jealousy or envy when others experience success or joy, but the Bible calls us to a different response—to truly celebrate with them. Sharing in the joy of others not only strengthens relationships but also deepens our understanding of the community and unity that Christ desires for His people. When we rejoice with others, we express empathy and love, fostering an environment where happiness is amplified and burdens are lighter. This kind of celebration is not just about shared moments, but about building up one another, nurturing a culture of mutual support and care.
Quote: “True joy comes from rejoicing in the blessings of others, not just our own.” – Tim Keller, Pastor and Author
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: Clarifying a Difficult Teaching
You might be surprised to learn that celebrating someone else’s success and joy can sometimes feel difficult or unnatural, especially if we are dealing with our own struggles or feelings of inadequacy. Many of us are conditioned to focus on our own challenges or even to feel envious when others have what we long for. However, Paul’s command to "rejoice with those who rejoice" is not a call to deny our own struggles, but rather to set aside our personal feelings of competition or jealousy and enter into the happiness of others. The surprising truth here is that rejoicing with others actually enriches our own joy. When we celebrate others’ victories, we begin to see the blessings of God in new ways and cultivate a spirit of gratitude that brings us closer to the joy of the Lord.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, social media often magnifies a culture of comparison, where people feel the pressure to measure up to the successes of others. Many times, this results in feelings of inadequacy or jealousy. Romans 12:15 challenges us to reject this mindset by encouraging us to genuinely celebrate the happiness and successes of others. Rather than feeling threatened by someone else’s good news, we are called to rejoice with them, seeing their joy as a reflection of God’s goodness and provision. In doing so, we shift our focus from our own insecurities to the beauty of community. Sharing joy can transform relationships, creating a culture of support and mutual encouragement, where the success of one person becomes the joy of the entire community.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and scholars agree that rejoicing with others is an important aspect of Christian community. John Stott points out, “The Christian life is meant to be lived in community, not in isolation. Rejoicing with others brings us together in mutual celebration, fostering an environment where joy becomes a collective experience.” In his commentary on Romans, William Barclay highlights that sharing in another person’s joy “not only strengthens the relationship but also reflects the selflessness that Christ demonstrated through His life.” Early church writings emphasize that true Christian love is expressed in both sharing in the sorrows and the joys of others, and that both contribute to the unity of the body of Christ. In this light, celebrating the good fortune of others is seen not only as an act of kindness but also as a demonstration of Christlike love.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Parade of Joy"
Imagine standing on a crowded sidewalk, watching soldiers return home after World War II. The streets are filled with people waving flags, cheering, and embracing one another. Strangers celebrate together, united by joy. No one is jealous that someone else's son, husband, or brother made it home—they simply rejoice, because victory is shared.
Romans 12:15 reminds us, "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." Just as we are called to bear one another’s burdens, we are also called to share in each other’s joys. True encouragement isn’t just lifting people up in hard times—it’s celebrating with them in good times.
But sometimes, rejoicing with others can be difficult. Maybe a friend gets the promotion you wanted. Maybe someone else’s prayers seem answered while you're still waiting. Yet, when we truly love one another, we don’t see blessings as competition—we see them as part of God’s goodness overflowing into all of our lives.
Who in your life has something to celebrate? A new job, a child’s achievement, a spiritual breakthrough? Take a moment today to share in their joy. Send a note, make a call, or simply smile and say, Praise God! Because when we rejoice together, joy multiplies, and encouragement grows.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
God has created us to live in community, and one of the greatest gifts of this community is the ability to share joy with one another. In a world often defined by competition, division, and comparison, Romans 12:15 calls us to a higher standard—rejoicing with those who rejoice. When we celebrate the successes and happiness of others, we reflect the love of Christ, who rejoices with us in our victories and comforts us in our losses. This attitude of shared joy builds unity within the body of Christ and strengthens our relationships. It also nurtures a spirit of gratitude and humility, as we recognize that the joy of one is a gift to all. Let’s commit to celebrating others and cultivating a culture of rejoicing together, knowing that in doing so, we bring glory to God.
QUICK QUIZ:
How do you typically react when someone you know experiences success or joy? What can you do to intentionally rejoice with them in the future?
How can sharing joy with others change the atmosphere in your church or community?
PUBLIC THOUGHTS ON THIS SUBJECT:
Social Media Post: "Rejoicing with others doesn’t diminish our own joy—it multiplies it. Romans 12:15 teaches us to celebrate with those who rejoice! #RejoiceWithOthers #CelebrateTogether"
Magazine Article: "In a world of comparison and competition, Romans 12:15 invites us to step away from envy and embrace the joy of others. Rejoicing with others not only strengthens relationships but builds a stronger, more united community."
Session
9. "Comfort Others with the Comfort We’ve Received"- 2
Corinthians 1:3-4
Purpose
Statement:
To use our experiences of God’s comfort to encourage
others.
Discussion
Questions:
How has God’s comfort helped you in difficult times?
How can we use our testimonies to encourage others?
Scripture:
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."
Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."
Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."
1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
2 Corinthians 7:6 "But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus."
Philippians 2:1-2 "Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind."
OVERVIEW:
As believers, we are not only recipients of God's comfort, but we are also called to pass it on to others in times of need. The Apostle Paul beautifully expresses this truth in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, where he describes God as "the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort." Through our own experiences of God’s comfort, we are empowered to comfort those around us. This is not just a task; it is an act of love that draws us closer to God and one another. As we consider the subject of comfort today, let us remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:4, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” Comforting others is both an act of obedience and a reflection of God's grace at work in our lives.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
It
may surprise you to realize that
God's comfort doesn't just serve to ease our pain in isolation. In 2
Corinthians 1:3-4, Paul teaches that God comforts us not
just for our own healing,
but so we can comfort
others.
Some might think that the purpose of God’s comfort is merely to
alleviate our own suffering, but there’s a profound, communal
aspect to it. God’s comfort is meant to be shared. Just as a
physician not only heals but trains others to care for the sick, we,
as recipients of God's comfort, are also called to pass that comfort
on. This truth can be difficult because it requires
vulnerability—acknowledging our own pain in order to help others
in theirs. Yet, in the very act of sharing our comfort, we experience
greater closeness with God and with others.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s fast-paced, individualistic world, we often hear phrases like “Take care of yourself” or “Focus on your own needs.” This mindset can make it hard to understand how God’s comfort calls us to do the opposite—to reach out and offer comfort to others, even when we may still be healing ourselves. In a world that promotes self-sufficiency, sharing comfort can feel vulnerable, yet it’s the very antidote to isolation. The “sharing” of God’s comfort is an act of love that binds us together, turning individuals into a community that embodies Christ's love. In today’s culture, whether it’s through a kind word, a prayer, or a gesture of compassion, the call to comfort one another is a tangible way of living out the Gospel.
WHAT IS SAID:
Many theologians have reflected on the powerful role of comfort in the Christian life. John Calvin writes, “The comfort that is given to us by God in our affliction becomes the instrument of His glory when we comfort others.” The Apostle Paul’s own example of being comforted and comforting others was a model for the early church. Theologically, comfort is not just about relief; it is about empathy, presence, and the extension of God’s grace. Bible commentator N.T. Wright emphasizes that comforting others is an essential aspect of Christian maturity—“a Christian is one who, in the midst of their own trials, reaches out with God’s comfort to a hurting world.” In today's context, this means actively listening, offering prayer, and being present with those in their moments of need, which echoes Jesus’ own ministry of care and compassion.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Wounded Healer"
In the years following World War I, many soldiers returned home with physical wounds, but even more carried unseen scars—grief, trauma, and loss. One of the most powerful sources of healing for them was not just doctors or chaplains, but fellow soldiers who had walked the same road. Those who had endured suffering themselves were able to offer the most comfort because they understood the pain firsthand.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 reminds us, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God." The comfort we receive from God is not meant to be kept—it’s meant to be shared.
Maybe you’ve walked through grief, illness, or hardship. Maybe you’ve felt the sting of loss or the weight of uncertainty. But through it all, God has sustained you. Now, He calls you to be a source of comfort for someone else.
Who in your life needs to hear, I’ve been there, and God was faithful? A grieving widow, a struggling single parent, a friend facing a diagnosis? Don’t let your story go unused. Be the wounded healer who reaches out, offering the same comfort God has given you. Because sometimes, the greatest encouragement comes from someone who truly understands.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
God's comfort is a transforming force that shapes our hearts and our actions. It is not meant to be hoarded or kept for ourselves but rather to be given freely to others. When we comfort others, we participate in the divine cycle of love that moves from God to us and then flows outward to those around us. As we comfort those who are struggling, we not only fulfill our Christian duty, but we also experience a deeper relationship with God, who is the source of all comfort. By sharing the comfort we have received, we help to build a stronger, more compassionate community that reflects the love of Christ to the world.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 tell us is the purpose of God’s comfort in our lives?
How can comforting others reflect the love of Christ in today’s culture?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “When I went through my hardest time, a friend’s kindness and listening ear made all the difference. That’s the power of God’s comfort—it’s meant to be shared.” — @FaithWalks, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “Comforting those around us isn't just a Christian duty; it's a reflection of God’s love and compassion that transforms both the giver and receiver.” — Faithful Living Magazine, January 2023
Session
10. "Encourage the Fainthearted"- 1 Thessalonians 5:14
Focus:
Encouraging those who are struggling
Purpose
Statement:
To remind believers to support those who are weak in faith.
Discussion
Questions:
What are some ways we can encourage those who feel weak?
How does patience play a role in encouraging others?
Scripture:
1 Thessalonians 5:14 "And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone."
Galatians 6:9-10 "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers."
Hebrews 12:12-13 "Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. Make level paths for your feet, so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed."
Romans 14:1 "Accept the one whose faith is weak, without quarreling over disputable matters."
2 Corinthians 4:16 "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day."
James 5:19-20 "My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins."
OVERVIEW:
In the Christian walk, not every believer is strong in faith at all times. In 1 Thessalonians 5:14, Paul urges us to encourage the fainthearted, showing us that there are those among us who may be struggling, either emotionally, spiritually, or physically. The focus here is on showing compassion and support for those who are weary, disheartened, or weak in their faith. In our busy lives, it can be easy to overlook the needs of others, but as followers of Christ, we are called to be attentive and patient with the weak, lifting them up as we are able. As the Apostle Paul reminds us in Romans 14:1, we are to "accept the one whose faith is weak," understanding that our role is to help, not judge.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
You
may be surprised to learn that encouraging the fainthearted isn’t
just about offering words of comfort—it's also about actively
walking with others through their struggles.
Paul’s directive in 1 Thessalonians 5:14 suggests more than a
casual conversation; it calls us to be patient and deeply
compassionate. It can sometimes be easy to feel like we’re not
making a difference when encouraging someone who's struggling, but
small
acts of support—a
kind word, a prayer, or even a presence—can be incredibly powerful
in renewing someone’s faith. The teaching of “encouraging the
fainthearted” requires persistence, humility, and an understanding
that we are all vulnerable at times, needing the strength of others
to help us press forward.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, many people are struggling in silence. With the constant pressure of work, personal challenges, and the barrage of information from social media, it’s easy to overlook the inner battles others may be facing. In modern culture, where people often feel isolated, there’s a need for communities to step in and provide the encouragement and support that the apostle Paul calls for in 1 Thessalonians 5:14. We may think of encouragement as simply sending a text or a “thinking of you” message, but true Christian encouragement goes beyond these easy gestures—it involves walking alongside those who are fainthearted, giving them the space to be vulnerable, and sharing the love of Christ through action and word.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and commentators highlight the significance of supporting those who are struggling in faith. John Stott writes, "The church is a family, and a family’s mission is to support its weakest members." This perspective aligns with Paul’s teaching in 1 Thessalonians 5:14. Theologian William Barclay notes that this scripture “calls believers to provide help not only for those who are overtly fallen but also for those who are fainthearted and struggling.” For many, this instruction can be difficult because it requires patience and deep care. It’s easy to overlook or ignore those struggling, but the community of faith is supposed to be a place of refuge where believers can strengthen one another. In today’s fast-paced world, this might mean taking extra time out of our busy schedules to be intentional in encouraging others.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Lift of a Teammate"
During the 1992 Olympics in Barcelona, British runner Derek Redmond tore his hamstring in the middle of his race. As he struggled in pain, determined to finish, his father ran onto the track, put his arm around him, and helped him cross the finish line. In that moment, the competition no longer mattered—what mattered was a father lifting up his struggling son.
1 Thessalonians 5:14 reminds us, "And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone." God calls us to be like that father—to come alongside those who are struggling and help them keep going in faith.
Maybe you know someone who feels like giving up—on their faith, on their marriage, or on hope itself. Encouragement doesn’t always mean fixing their problems; sometimes, it just means walking beside them, reminding them they’re not alone.
Who in your life needs someone to put an arm around them and say, I’ll walk this road with you? Today, be that encourager. A kind word, a helping hand, or simply being present can be the strength someone needs to keep running their race.
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
As we reflect on 1 Thessalonians 5:14, let us be reminded that the body of Christ is meant to support one another in times of weakness. Encouraging the fainthearted is not just a task but a reflection of God's love and compassion. When we care for those who are struggling in their faith, we are not just doing a good deed; we are fulfilling the law of Christ by embodying His love. We should ask ourselves, "Who among us is struggling? How can I help them not only to stand but to flourish in their faith?" The bigger picture is that as we support one another, we make the Church a place where all can find strength in the Lord.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What are some practical ways we can encourage those who are struggling in faith according to 1 Thessalonians 5:14?
Why is it important for the Christian community to support those who are weak in faith or struggling?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: "Sometimes, the most healing thing is not advice, but knowing someone cares enough to just sit with you and pray. It’s the kind of encouragement we all need when our faith feels weak." — @GraceInAction, Instagram
Magazine Quote: “In a world that often feels disconnected, Christians are called to be a source of hope and encouragement to the fainthearted, as we have been encouraged by God Himself.” — The Christian Times, March 2023
Session
11. "Do Not Grow Weary in Doing Good"- Galatians 6:9
Purpose
Statement:
To remind believers that their good works matter.
Discussion
Questions:
Why do we sometimes grow weary in doing good?
What encouragement do we find in knowing there is a harvest?
Scripture:
Galatians 6:9 "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
Romans 2:7 "To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life."
Hebrews 12:1-2 "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith."
James 1:12 "Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him."
2 Thessalonians 3:13 "As for you, brothers and sisters, never tire of doing what is good."
Matthew 25:23 "His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’"
OVERVIEW:
In our daily lives, it can be easy to grow tired of doing good, especially when we don’t see immediate results or when the world around us seems indifferent to acts of kindness. Galatians 6:9 reminds us to persevere in doing good because, at the right time, we will reap a harvest. This encouragement is not just about the tangible outcomes of our actions but also about knowing that our faithfulness to God’s calling is significant and has eternal value. As Christians, we are encouraged to keep pressing forward, even when the path feels long and weary. In James 1:12, we are reminded that those who persevere under trial will be rewarded with a crown of life. We do not labor in vain, and every act of goodness matters to God.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching of Perseverance in Doing Good
You
may be surprised to learn that the perseverance Paul speaks about in
Galatians
6:9
is not just about pushing through difficult circumstances, but also
about maintaining faith and commitment in our everyday
choices.
It’s easy to assume that perseverance in doing good requires
monumental acts, but Paul is reminding us that even
the small, seemingly insignificant acts of kindness
are a vital part of the kingdom of God. Perseverance in doing good
does not always have visible rewards immediately, but God sees every
effort, and at the proper time, He will bring the harvest. This
teaching may surprise us because we often want quick results, but the
promise is clear: in
due time, our faithfulness will bear fruit.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s fast-paced, instant-gratification culture, we are conditioned to expect immediate rewards for our efforts. We see this in social media, where likes and shares validate our actions almost immediately. However, Galatians 6:9 invites us to take a longer view—reminding us that some things take time to grow. Perseverance in doing good is countercultural in an age of impatience. Our culture often looks for fast results, but God calls us to be faithful in the small things, knowing that our good works are part of His larger plan. In today’s world, we are often tempted to give up when we don’t see instant results, but doing good is a continuous, lifelong process that bears eternal fruit.
WHAT IS SAID:
Many theologians emphasize the importance of perseverance in the Christian life. John Stott wrote, “The Christian’s task is not to do good only when it is easy, but to keep on doing good even when it is hard.” N.T. Wright similarly notes, "Doing good is not a sprint; it is a marathon. It requires the strength of faith to endure and the knowledge that every act of goodness is part of God’s larger plan." Commentator William Barclay also points out that Paul’s letter to the Galatians is an encouragement to remain steadfast in doing good works, even when the results are not immediate or visible. Perseverance in doing good is part of the Christian call to live counterculturally, embodying God's love even in a world that often seems indifferent to such actions. This long-term perspective helps us to endure and trust that God will honor our faithfulness.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Steady Light of a Lighthouse"
In 1914, when the Panama Canal was finally completed, it changed global trade forever. But it wasn’t just the massive locks and waterways that made it possible. Along the path of this great engineering marvel were lighthouses, steady beacons of light that guided ships safely through uncertain waters. These lighthouses didn’t work by moving with the tide or flickering in uncertainty—they stood firm, shining night after night, helping sailors reach their destination.
Our
calling as believers is much the same. Galatians
6:9
reminds us:
"Let
us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will
reap a harvest if we do not give up."
There are days when it feels like our kindness goes unnoticed. We serve, we love, we give—yet sometimes, it seems like no one is watching, and our efforts don’t matter. But just like those lighthouses, our consistency in doing good is what brings others safely through life's storms.
Think about a grandparent who prayed for their family every day, even when they didn’t see immediate change. Or a teacher who invested in a struggling student, not knowing that decades later, that student would become a leader. God promises that our perseverance in doing good will bear fruit, even if we don’t see it right away.
So today, keep shining. Your kindness matters. Your faithfulness makes a difference. Your light is guiding someone, even when you don’t realize it.
Reflection Question: Who in your life has been a “lighthouse” for you? How can you encourage someone today to keep shining?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
As we reflect on Galatians 6:9, we are reminded that our good works, no matter how unnoticed or unappreciated they may seem, are part of God’s grand plan. The promise of a harvest is not just a reward for us but a reflection of God’s glory. Our labor in the Lord is not in vain, and He sees every act of kindness, every step of perseverance, and every effort to reflect His love. Doing good matters, even when it doesn’t feel like it. In the larger scope of eternity, each action of faithfulness contributes to the kingdom of God. Let us not grow weary, for in God’s timing, we will see the fruit of our labor.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What is the promise given to those who do not grow weary in doing good, according to Galatians 6:9?
How can we remind ourselves to persevere in doing good in a world that often expects instant results?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “It can be hard to keep doing the right thing when it feels like no one notices. But remember, your good works do matter to God. Perseverance is key. #KeepGoing #Galatians6:9” — @FaithInAction, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “In a world of shortcuts and fast rewards, we are reminded by Galatians 6:9 that the long road of perseverance in doing good brings eternal rewards.” — Faith Matters Magazine, May 2023
Session
12. "Encourage One Another with These Words"- 1
Thessalonians 4:16-18
Focus:
Encouragement through the hope of Christ’s return
Purpose
Statement:
To remind believers that our ultimate hope is in Jesus.
Discussion
Questions:
How does the hope of Christ’s return encourage us?
How can we remind others of this hope?
Scripture:
1 Thessalonians 4:16-18 "For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words."
Titus 2:13 "While we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ."
Revelation 22:20 "He who testifies to these things says, 'Yes, I am coming soon.' Amen. Come, Lord Jesus."
Romans 8:18 "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us."
2 Peter 3:13 "But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells."
1 John 3:2-3 "Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure."
OVERVIEW:
The return of Christ is one of the central promises of the Christian faith, offering a future filled with hope and assurance. In 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18, Paul paints a powerful picture of Christ’s second coming, when the dead in Christ will rise and those still alive will be caught up to meet the Lord. This ultimate reunion and eternal presence with Jesus is the source of our hope, especially in times of struggle or uncertainty. The apostle calls believers to encourage one another with these words, reminding us that our hope is not grounded in earthly things but in the return of our Savior. As Christians, this hope sustains us through every trial, knowing that our ultimate future with Christ is secure.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching of Encouragement Through Christ’s Return
It
may surprise you to realize that Paul’s
encouragement
to the Thessalonian believers wasn’t just about looking to the
future with hope, but also about using that hope to empower
daily living.
Often, when we talk about Christ’s return, we focus on the future
and forget that this
hope shapes our present actions.
In 1
Thessalonians 4:16-18,
Paul isn’t simply reassuring the Thessalonians of a future event,
but also urging them to live in light of that event. The truth of
Christ’s return isn’t just for comfort in times of loss; it’s a
call to live
expectantly and with purpose
today. The hope of Jesus' return fuels our perseverance and
encourages us to live with endurance and a focus on eternity, not
just the challenges we face now.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In a world that places great emphasis on the present and immediate satisfaction, the concept of waiting for something grand in the future can seem difficult to grasp. We live in a society that celebrates instant gratification—where everything from food to entertainment is available at our fingertips. However, the hope of Christ’s return invites us to live with an eternal perspective, which often requires patience and faith. In today’s culture, it can be challenging to live with anticipation for a future event that may seem far away. Yet, the return of Christ offers a hope that transcends our current struggles, teaching us to hold on to something greater than the fleeting nature of our earthly concerns. This perspective can deeply affect how we approach daily challenges, relationships, and our overall sense of purpose.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and commentators often highlight the profound impact the hope of Christ's return has on the believer’s life. John Stott notes, "The second coming of Christ is not just a doctrine to be believed; it is a reality that transforms our lives." This echoes the sentiment that the early Christians were not merely waiting for an event but were living in a way that reflected their anticipation of Christ’s return. N.T. Wright emphasizes that the hope of Christ's return shapes how Christians live today, particularly in how they deal with suffering and how they engage in their communities. The hope of the resurrection and Christ’s return fuels a Christian’s ability to endure hardship with joy, knowing that their ultimate future is secure with Christ. The words of encouragement that Paul calls believers to share with each other in 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18 are not only for moments of grief but for every day, to help the believer live with hope, joy, and anticipation in Christ.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Sound of the Train Whistle"
During the Great Depression, families were often separated as fathers and brothers traveled far to find work. Those left behind would listen for the distant whistle of the train, a sound that meant someone was coming home. It didn’t matter how hard the days had been or how long the wait had lasted—when that whistle blew, hope stirred.
Paul reminds us in 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18:
"For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words."
Just as families once listened for the train whistle with eager expectation, we wait for the return of Christ with hope. The days may seem long, and the burdens of life heavy, but our waiting is not in vain. The promise of Jesus’ return isn’t just a distant theological idea—it’s the source of our greatest encouragement. One day, we will hear the trumpet call, and the waiting will be over. Home is coming.
So as we journey through life, let’s remind one another of this hope. The struggles of today will not last forever. The pain will pass. And when that final trumpet sounds, we will be gathered with Christ in a joy that never fades.
Reflection Question: If Jesus returned today, what would you be most excited about? How can you encourage someone today with the hope of His coming?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
As we reflect on 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18, we are reminded that our hope is not based on the fleeting joys of this world but on the eternal promise of Christ’s return. This hope is the cornerstone of our faith, offering not just comfort in times of sorrow but also a source of strength to live faithfully today. While the world may offer temporary solutions, the return of Jesus offers a lasting and glorious future, where all things will be made new. Encouraging one another with these words means reminding each other that no matter what we face today, the ultimate victory has already been won in Christ. The promise of His return sustains us and reminds us that we are never without hope.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
Why does Paul instruct believers to encourage one another with the words of 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18?
How does the hope of Christ’s return change the way we approach suffering in our lives today?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “In the midst of life’s challenges, I hold onto the hope that one day I will meet Jesus face to face. His return is our ultimate hope! #HopeInChrist #Thessalonians #JesusIsComingSoon” — @LivingHope, Instagram
Magazine Quote: "The return of Christ offers an eternal perspective that gives purpose to our present suffering and encourages us to live with joy, knowing our ultimate future is secure." — Eternal Hope Magazine, February 2024
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Session
13. "Bear with One Another"- Colossians 3:13
Focus:
Encouragement through patience and forgiveness
Purpose
Statement:
To foster unity by showing grace to one another.
Discussion
Questions:
How does patience help in encouraging others?
How does forgiveness uplift both the giver and receiver?
Scripture:
Colossians 3:13 "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Ephesians 4:2 "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love."
Matthew 18:21-22 "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.'"
Luke 6:37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."
Romans 15:7 "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God."
James 5:16 "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."
OVERVIEW:
In the body of Christ, relationships can sometimes be challenging, and it’s easy to become frustrated with others. Yet, the Apostle Paul, in Colossians 3:13, reminds believers to bear with one another and offer forgiveness as a reflection of the grace God has shown us. Our ability to forgive others, especially when it’s difficult, fosters unity in the body of Christ and strengthens our relationships. This forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of past hurts—it’s a way to honor the grace God has extended to us through Jesus. Patience and forgiveness are vital tools for preserving peace and encouraging one another to grow in love. Paul’s call to bear with each other in patience and grace is a central part of living as Christ’s representatives in the world, pointing others to the transforming power of forgiveness.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on Bearing with One Another
The
command in Colossians
3:13
to "bear with each other" might seem like a passive act at
first glance, but in reality, it’s a proactive
and intentional choice
to respond to others with patience, grace, and understanding. The
Greek word for "bear" (ἀνÎχομαι, anechomai)
implies not just enduring or tolerating one another but actively
choosing to lift
up
one another even in challenging circumstances. Forgiving
as the Lord forgave you
means offering the same kind of grace to others that God has extended
to us—unearned and often undeserved. It’s important to understand
that forgiveness is not about forgetting; it’s about choosing to
release others from the debt of their offenses, just as Christ has
done for us. This might surprise some, as forgiveness can often feel
counterintuitive when we are hurt. But true
forgiveness is about freedom and healing,
both for the one forgiving and the one being forgiven.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s culture, forgiveness is often misunderstood. The world tends to prioritize justice and retribution, with an emphasis on "getting even" or making things right by holding others accountable for their wrongs. Patience and forgiveness may seem weak or passive in a world that values self-assertion and immediate resolution. However, the biblical model of forgiveness is radical because it acknowledges that, while people may fail us, we are called to release others from their offenses out of love and grace. In a world that fosters division and encourages holding grudges, Christians are called to model patience and forgiveness, demonstrating a countercultural response that honors Christ’s sacrifice and promotes peace and unity. By forgiving others as Christ forgave us, we invite healing, restoration, and an opportunity for others to witness God’s grace in action.
WHAT IS SAID:
Many theologians emphasize the role of forgiveness and patience in fostering unity within the church. John Stott wrote, “The church is a community of forgiveness, and forgiveness is the lifeblood of its unity.” William Barclay adds, “Forgiveness is the oil which keeps relationships in the church running smoothly.” In his commentary on Colossians, N.T. Wright stresses that forgiveness should never be seen as optional but as essential to the life of the Christian community, as it reflects the heart of the gospel message. Forgiveness doesn’t just heal personal wounds; it is also a witness to the world of Christ’s love and grace. Paul’s instruction to “bear with one another” highlights that the Christian life is not about avoiding conflict, but about navigating conflict with grace and patience, showing the world that God's kingdom is one of mercy, healing, and reconciliation.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Quilt of Grace"
Many years ago, during the Great Depression, communities came together in remarkable ways to support one another. One tradition that emerged was the making of patchwork quilts. Families would gather scraps of old fabric—some torn, some faded, some seemingly worthless—and stitch them together into something beautiful. No single piece was perfect, but when bound together, the quilt became a covering of warmth, comfort, and love.
Paul writes in Colossians 3:13:
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
The church is much like a patchwork quilt. We are all different—imperfect, worn, and sometimes frayed by life’s hardships. We may have personalities that clash or past wounds that make it hard to trust. But when we choose patience and forgiveness, God stitches us together in love.
Think about a time when someone showed you grace instead of judgment. Or a moment when you had to be patient with a friend, family member, or fellow believer. That patience and forgiveness are what hold us together. Just like a quilt, unity isn’t found in perfection—it’s found in the willingness to be stitched together by love.
Reflection Question: Is there someone you need to show grace to today? How can you be a peacemaker in your relationships?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
In Colossians 3:13, we are reminded that unity within the church is built on a foundation of grace and forgiveness. We are called to be patient with one another, recognizing that everyone has weaknesses and flaws. Just as Christ extended grace to us, we are to extend the same grace to others, even when it’s difficult. Forgiveness is not just an act of kindness; it’s a reflection of God’s character. When we forgive, we demonstrate the transforming power of the gospel. It’s easy to hold onto grudges and allow bitterness to grow, but God calls us to release others from the debt of their wrongs and to bear with them in love. When we forgive, we not only experience healing ourselves but also help to heal the relationships around us. By showing grace and patience to one another, we contribute to a community that reflects the love of Christ and encourages others in their faith.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does it mean to "bear with one another" according to Colossians 3:13?
How does forgiveness reflect the character of Christ in our relationships with others?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “Forgiving others isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. Patience and grace make our relationships stronger. #Forgive #GraceInAction #UnityInChrist” — @GraceForAll, Twitter
Magazine Quote: "In a world that encourages division and holding grudges, the Christian call to forgive and bear with one another stands as a radical testimony to the love and grace of Christ." — The Christian Life Journal, March 2024
Session
14. "Serve One Another in Love"- Galatians 5:13
Purpose
Statement:
To encourage believers to serve one another.
Discussion
Questions:
How does serving others encourage them?
What are some simple ways we can serve and uplift others?
Scripture:
Galatians 5:13 "You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love."
John 13:34-35 "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
Mark 10:45 "For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."
Philippians 2:3-4 "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
1 Peter 4:10 "Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."
Romans 12:10 "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves."
OVERVIEW:
As followers of Christ, we are called not only to experience His love but also to express it through humble service to one another. Galatians 5:13 reminds us that our freedom in Christ is not for selfish purposes but for the service of others in love. Jesus Himself modeled this for us by coming not to be served, but to serve (Mark 10:45). In serving one another, we demonstrate the heart of Christ and fulfill His command to love one another. Serving is a powerful way to encourage others—whether it's through small, everyday acts of kindness or through larger, sacrificial deeds. As we serve one another humbly in love, we reflect the love of Christ and build a community where people feel valued, supported, and cared for.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on Serving One Another in Love
It
might surprise you that serving
one another in love
is not only about performing good deeds but also about the
attitude behind those deeds.
In Galatians
5:13,
Paul emphasizes serving "humbly"
and not out of obligation or for personal recognition. The act of
serving is not just about doing something nice for someone else; it’s
about doing it with a heart that seeks nothing in return but only the
well-being of others. Serving others out of love, rather than duty,
is what sets the Christian practice of service apart from mere social
or volunteer activities. True
Christian service is motivated by love,
and this love is the same kind that Jesus demonstrated to
us—sacrificial and unconditional. The surprise here is that
service,
when done in love,
becomes an act of worship and a powerful witness to the world.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s culture, service is often viewed as a transactional activity—what can I gain from helping others? But Christian service goes beyond this transactional mindset. Serving one another in love as Paul writes in Galatians 5:13 doesn’t rely on reciprocation or expectation of rewards. It’s rooted in the idea of sacrificial love, the kind of love that Jesus exemplified in His life and death. In a world that values individualism and personal gain, serving others out of love is a countercultural act. It calls us to put others’ needs above our own, and in doing so, we reflect Christ’s love to those around us. This service isn’t just about giving time or resources; it’s about sacrificing our own desires for the sake of others, fostering a culture of care and mutual support.
WHAT IS SAID:
Commentators often point out that service is a hallmark of Christian discipleship. John Stott writes, "True Christian freedom is freedom to serve, not freedom to indulge oneself." N.T. Wright notes, "The kingdom of God is not about getting, but about giving; not about taking but about serving." Serving others is not just an act of kindness, it is a reflection of the heart of the gospel. The act of serving, especially when done out of love, draws us closer to Christ because it mirrors His sacrificial service toward us. Jesus’ life and His ultimate act of service on the cross set the pattern for how we should live: in humble, loving service to one another. Commentaries on Galatians emphasize that freedom in Christ isn’t an excuse to live for ourselves but an opportunity to live for others, to love and serve the body of Christ.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Old Shoe Shiner"
In the busy streets of New York City during the 1940s, there was an elderly man who shined shoes for a living. Unlike the hurried workers around him, he always greeted his customers with a warm smile and a kind word. But what set him apart wasn’t just his skill—it was his heart for serving. If a man came to him with worn-out shoes, he would quietly slip an extra polish and repair in, free of charge. If a young boy came without enough money, he’d shine the shoes anyway. He saw his work not as a job, but as a way to serve others in love.
Paul reminds us in Galatians 5:13:
"You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love."
Sometimes, we think of service as something big and dramatic—mission trips, large donations, or grand gestures. But in reality, true service is found in the small, unseen acts of love. A kind word. A meal for a neighbor. A ride for someone in need. Service isn’t about recognition—it’s about love.
Like the old shoe shiner, we can serve right where we are. Not for applause, but because Jesus first served us. And in those quiet acts of love, we reflect His heart to the world.
Reflection Question: What is one small act of service you can do for someone today? How has someone’s kindness impacted your life?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
As we reflect on Galatians 5:13, we are reminded that serving one another in love is a central aspect of the Christian life. It is not a burdensome duty but a privilege and a reflection of the freedom we have in Christ. When we serve others in love, we are emulating the heart of Christ, who came to serve and not to be served. Service isn’t limited to grand gestures; it’s in the everyday moments where we have the opportunity to encourage others—whether through listening, offering help, or just being present. Serving one another creates unity in the body of Christ and is a tangible way to show God’s love to the world. Each act of service, no matter how small, has the potential to make a powerful impact, both on the person being served and on the person doing the serving. Let us ask God to give us eyes to see the opportunities to serve around us and the heart to do so with love.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
According to Galatians 5:13, how should we serve one another?
Why is serving others in love considered a reflection of the freedom we have in Christ?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: “Serving others is never about what we get, but about what we give. Let’s serve one another in love! #ServeInLove #Galatians513 #ChristlikeLove” — @LivingFaith, Instagram
Magazine Quote: "When we serve one another in love, we reflect the heart of Christ and build a community that encourages and supports one another." — The Church Advocate, January 2024
Session
15. "A Friend Loves at All Times"- Proverbs 17:17
Focus:
Encouragement through friendship
Purpose
Statement:
To highlight the power of friendship in faith.
Scripture:
Proverbs 17:17
Discussion
Questions:
How can Christian friendships be a source of encouragement?
What qualities make a good encourager?
Scripture:
Proverbs
17:17
"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born
for a time of adversity."
John
15:13
"Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s
life for one’s friends."
1
Thessalonians 5:11
"Therefore encourage one another and
build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
Ecclesiastes
4:9-10
"Two are better than one, because they have a good
return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help
the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them
up."
Romans
12:10
"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another
above yourselves."
Proverbs
27:17
"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens
another."
OVERVIEW:
Proverbs 17:17 offers a powerful reminder about the value of true friendship. A friend who loves at all times is someone who remains faithful through both good times and bad. This kind of friendship is essential in the life of faith, as it not only provides emotional support but also strengthens our walk with God. In the New Testament, Jesus calls us to a love that mirrors His own sacrificial love, where a friend lays down their life for others (John 15:13). Genuine friendships provide encouragement, accountability, and the kind of deep connection that sharpens us as believers. As we face the challenges of life, having friends who support us in faith and love is not just comforting but vital. This kind of friendship is a beautiful reflection of God's design for community—where believers come together to uplift and strengthen one another.
THIS
MAY SURPRISE YOU:
When
we think of friendship, we often focus on the good
times
shared, but the true power of Proverbs
17:17
is in its emphasis on constancy
and loyalty
during difficult moments. A friend who loves at all times isn't only
there for the joyous celebrations, but is also a source
of support in adversity.
This may be surprising because we often view friends as companions
for fun or casual company. However, true
friendship in the biblical sense goes beyond shared hobbies or
interests.
It is a commitment to stand by each other, especially during life's
trials. In the New Testament, Jesus teaches that the greatest love is
shown in sacrificial
friendship,
laying down one's life for another (John 15:13). This deep, enduring
love is what makes friendship such a powerful force for encouragement
and spiritual growth.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s individualistic culture, it’s easy to prioritize personal achievement and self-reliance. Many people may feel they can handle their struggles alone or view friendship as a superficial connection. Yet, Proverbs 17:17 challenges this view by reminding us that true friendship is marked by loyalty and support in all circumstances. In a world that values independence, the Bible shows us that friendship rooted in faith is essential for growth and resilience. It’s not about having a large circle of acquaintances but having deep, authentic relationships with a few who can help us navigate the storms of life. In today’s context, this means building friendships that encourage spiritual growth, offer accountability, and provide emotional support. Friendship in Christ isn’t just about fun times; it’s about being there for one another through thick and thin.
WHAT IS SAID:
Many theologians and Bible commentators highlight the importance of friendship in a believer’s life. C.S. Lewis, in his book The Four Loves, writes, "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" Lewis reflects on how friendship deepens through shared experience and mutual understanding, especially in faith. Similarly, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, in Life Together, speaks of Christian fellowship as one of the greatest gifts, emphasizing that “the Christian community is a place where friends support and encourage one another in the Lord.” In the New Testament, Paul frequently speaks of his deep affection for his friends in the faith, showing how true friendship is an essential part of the Christian walk. Friendship in Christ isn’t about social status or shared interests but about sacrificial love and encouragement. Friends in the faith sharpen one another spiritually, as Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Two Soldiers"
During World War I, two soldiers formed a deep friendship in the trenches. They fought side by side, looking out for each other through hunger, exhaustion, and danger. One day, during a fierce battle, one of them was wounded and left stranded in no-man’s land. His friend saw him lying there and wanted to go after him, but his commanding officer said, "It’s too dangerous. He’s probably gone."
Ignoring the warning, the soldier crawled through the mud, dodging bullets, and reached his friend. He managed to carry him back to safety, but by then, his friend was barely alive. The officer, shaking his head, said, "I told you it wasn’t worth it."
The soldier, now wounded himself, looked up and said, "Yes, it was worth it. Because when I got there, he was still alive. And his last words to me were, 'I knew you’d come.'”
The Bible tells us in Proverbs 17:17:
"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."
True friendship isn’t about convenience. It’s about being there in the hard moments. A real friend doesn’t just stand by when times are easy—they show up in the struggles, the heartbreaks, and the dark nights of the soul. That’s the kind of love God calls us to have for one another.
Think about the friends in your life. Who has been that kind of friend for you? And just as importantly, who needs you to be that kind of friend today?
Reflection Question: How can you be a better friend to someone this week? Is there a friend who might need a call, a visit, or a word of encouragement?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
True friendship goes beyond surface-level interactions—it’s a deep, sacrificial commitment to encourage, support, and challenge one another in love. Proverbs 17:17 reminds us that a friend loves at all times, particularly in moments of hardship. Friendship rooted in Christ is not just a companionship but a mutual partnership that nurtures spiritual growth and provides unwavering support. The New Testament’s emphasis on sacrificial love teaches us that the ultimate act of friendship is to lay down our lives for one another. In a world that often sees friendship as optional or disposable, God’s Word calls us to invest in and nurture relationships that reflect His love. Through friendship, we grow stronger, and we are reminded that we are not alone in our struggles.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does Proverbs 17:17 teach us about the nature of true friendship?
How can friendship in Christ encourage spiritual growth and provide support during difficult times?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: "True friendship isn’t just about shared fun moments. It’s about being there for each other in both good times and bad. #AFriendLovesAtAllTimes #Proverbs1717 #ChristianFriendship" — @FaithfulFriends, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “Friendship rooted in Christ isn’t just about companionship, it’s about growing together in love and encouragement, sharpening each other in faith.” — Faith and Friendship Magazine, March 2024
Session
16. "Encouraging Through Prayer"- James 5:16
Focus:
Strengthening others through prayer
Purpose
Statement:
To recognize the power of interceding for others.
Discussion
Questions:
How has someone’s prayer encouraged you?
How can we be more intentional in praying for others?
Scripture:
James 5:16 "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."
1 Thessalonians 5:17 "Pray continually."
Romans 8:26 "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans."
Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Matthew 18:19-20 "Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them."
Colossians 1:9 "For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives."
OVERVIEW:
James 5:16 highlights the profound power of prayer in the life of a believer. Not only does it connect us with God, but it also empowers us to intercede for others, offering spiritual support and encouragement in their time of need. Prayer is a vital means of grace by which we strengthen and uplift one another in Christ. James encourages us to pray for each other so that we may experience healing—both physically and spiritually. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective, reminding us of the incredible impact our prayers can have on others’ lives. Through prayer, we join with God in His work to heal, restore, and encourage our brothers and sisters in Christ.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on Prayer and Intercession
It
might surprise you that prayer
doesn’t just change circumstances,
but it changes
people.
James 5:16 teaches us that prayer is not merely a request we make to
God, but it’s a tool of transformation—both
for the one praying and the one being prayed for.
The passage reminds us that the
prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
This does not necessarily mean that God will always answer prayers in
the way we expect or desire. Rather, it signifies that God
works through our prayers,
often in unseen and profound ways, to bring about healing,
restoration, and transformation. It’s not just about speaking
words, but about being in alignment with God’s will and trusting
that our prayers are making a difference. Interceding
for others
can be a profound act of encouragement, not just for those we pray
for, but also for ourselves, as we witness God's faithfulness and
power in action.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, prayer can seem like a private or personal act that’s done in isolation, often without the understanding of its powerful impact on others. However, James 5:16 calls us to see prayer as a collective, community-building act. Intercessory prayer is not about asking for personal gain, but about lifting others up. In a society that values individualism, prayer provides an opportunity to focus outward, strengthening those around us. Prayer becomes a bridge, connecting people in times of difficulty, need, and joy. In our busy, often distracted culture, we may overlook the spiritual power we have to intercede on behalf of others. Yet, as we practice prayer for others, we engage in the deeply relational and sacrificial act that mirrors Christ’s love for us, showing the world that we are not alone in our struggles, and that God is actively working through us to bring healing and restoration.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and Bible scholars emphasize the transforming power of intercessory prayer. Matthew Henry, in his commentary, notes, “The prayer of faith is the prayer of the righteous, and it is an evidence of their union with Christ, and a means of spreading His grace.” Commentators on James highlight that intercession is not only an act of love, but also a powerful tool in the hands of the believer. John Calvin wrote that prayer “draws us nearer to God, and in doing so, it strengthens the body of Christ.” The apostle Paul often exemplified this in his letters, continuously praying for the believers he served, asking for their spiritual growth and spiritual well-being (e.g., Colossians 1:9). Prayer builds unity and encourages growth in the faith, not only in the one being prayed for but also in the one offering prayer.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Power of a Praying Grandmother"
There’s a story told about a grandmother who, every night, knelt by her bedside and prayed for each of her grandchildren by name. She prayed for their protection, their faith, their future. Some of them wandered away from God, others faced struggles they never spoke about—but she never stopped praying.
Years later, at her funeral, one of her grandsons stood up and shared, "I believe the only reason I’m here today, walking with the Lord, is because my grandmother never stopped praying for me."
James 5:16 tells us:
"Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."
Prayer isn’t just something we do in passing—it’s one of the greatest ways we can encourage and strengthen others. Sometimes, we feel helpless when we see a loved one struggling. We don’t know what to say or how to fix things. But prayer invites God into the situation, and He can do what we never could.
Who in your life needs prayer today? A struggling friend? A wandering family member? A weary pastor? Never underestimate the power of your prayers. Someone’s breakthrough might be on the other side of your faithfulness.
Reflection Question: Who has prayed for you in the past? How can you commit to praying intentionally for someone this week?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
The power of intercessory prayer is one of the most profound tools we have as Christians to encourage and strengthen one another. In James 5:16, we are reminded that prayers for others have the ability to heal, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually. Through prayer, we participate in God’s work in the lives of others, aligning our hearts with His will and asking Him to move on their behalf. Prayer unites us as believers and encourages us in our faith, showing that we are not walking this journey alone. Whether praying for a friend in need, interceding for a family member, or lifting up a fellow believer, prayer becomes a means of grace that strengthens the body of Christ. Let’s commit to praying for others regularly, trusting in the power of God to heal, restore, and encourage.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does James 5:16 teach us about the power of prayer for others?
Why is intercessory prayer such an important way to encourage others in the Christian community?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: "When words fail, prayer prevails. Let’s lift each other up in prayer. It’s powerful! #PrayForEachOther #James516 #EncourageThroughPrayer" — @FaithfulPrayers, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “Prayer is the most powerful tool for encouragement. When we pray for others, we help strengthen their faith and bring healing to their hearts.” — Christian Life Magazine, February 2024
Session
17. "Encouragement Through the Holy Spirit"- John 14:26
Focus:
The Holy Spirit as our ultimate encourager
Purpose
Statement:
To help believers recognize the Holy Spirit’s role in comforting
and guiding us.
Discussion
Questions:
How does the Holy Spirit encourage and strengthen us in daily life?
How can we be more aware of the Holy Spirit’s guidance?
Scripture:
John 14:26 "But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you."
Romans 8:26 "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans."
Acts 9:31 "Then the church throughout Judea, Galilee, and Samaria enjoyed a time of peace and was strengthened; living in the fear of the Lord and encouraged by the Holy Spirit, it increased in numbers."
John 16:7 "But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you."
Galatians 5:22-23 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Ephesians 3:16 "I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being."
OVERVIEW:
In John 14:26, Jesus promises that the Holy Spirit will be sent as our Advocate—our ultimate encourager, teacher, and guide. The Holy Spirit's role in our lives is vital, for He brings comfort, peace, and strength when we face trials. As believers, we are never left alone; the Spirit is with us to help us remember God's promises, guide us in truth, and intercede on our behalf. The Holy Spirit is not just a comforter in times of grief but is also our daily companion, strengthening our hearts, reminding us of God's Word, and empowering us to live as faithful followers of Christ. By recognizing the Spirit's active role in our lives, we are reminded that we are not walking this journey of faith alone.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on the Holy Spirit’s Role as Encourager
You
may be surprised to realize that the
Holy Spirit is not just a passive presence in our lives,
but a dynamic,
active source of encouragement.
In John 14:26, Jesus identifies the Holy Spirit as our Advocate,
a word that implies a deep, personal involvement in our lives. The
term "Advocate" (Greek: Parakletos)
means one who is called alongside to help, encourage, and support.
While many people think of the Spirit primarily as a guide in moral
or doctrinal matters, the
Holy Spirit is also an active source of emotional and spiritual
comfort.
He intercedes for us when we are weak, helps us pray when words fail,
and reminds
us of God’s promises
when we feel overwhelmed or forgotten. Far from being a distant or
impersonal force, the Holy Spirit’s role is to encourage us deeply,
both in our faith and in our everyday struggles.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In today’s world, many people look for encouragement and guidance from external sources—whether it’s advice from friends, motivational speakers, or self-help books. While these can be helpful, they are temporary solutions to the deeper need for lasting comfort and guidance. In contrast, the Holy Spirit offers eternal encouragement, drawing us closer to God’s truth and empowering us to live according to His will. Our culture often values independence, but the Bible teaches that we are not meant to journey alone. The Holy Spirit is the ultimate encourager who walks alongside us, offering comfort and strength beyond what human sources can provide. Whether facing uncertainty, loss, or stress, believers are assured that the Spirit is ever-present to guide, teach, and encourage.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and Bible commentators often highlight the deeply relational nature of the Holy Spirit as our encourager. J.I. Packer, in his book Knowing God, writes, “The Holy Spirit is not only the agent of God’s power but also the personal presence of God who empowers, teaches, and strengthens the believer.” Similarly, John Stott, in his commentary on the Gospel of John, emphasizes that the Holy Spirit’s role as Advocate is essential to our understanding of the Christian life. Stott writes, “The Spirit not only reminds believers of Jesus’ teachings but also helps them apply those teachings to daily life, bringing personal encouragement and spiritual growth.” Early church writers such as Augustine noted that the Holy Spirit’s presence comforts and strengthens the believer in their faith journey, assuring them of God’s ongoing love and care. The Holy Spirit’s encouragement is not just a temporary experience but a constant, life-giving presence that strengthens and empowers the believer to persevere in faith.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Whisper in the Storm"
In 1989, a massive earthquake struck San Francisco, collapsing buildings, destroying highways, and leaving people trapped in the rubble. Rescue workers searched frantically for survivors, but one father refused to wait. He dug through the debris with his bare hands, calling out his son’s name. Hours passed, then an entire day. People told him to give up.
But he refused.
After 38 hours, he heard a faint voice call back, “Dad? I knew you’d come.” His son and a small group of classmates had survived, and because the father didn’t give up, they were saved.
Jesus tells us in John 14:26:
"But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you."
Sometimes, life feels like an earthquake—everything crashes down, and we feel trapped in fear, loneliness, or doubt. But Jesus promised that we are never alone. The Holy Spirit is our advocate, our guide, our comforter. He whispers in our hearts, reminding us of God’s truth when everything seems lost.
Just like that father never stopped searching for his son, God never stops reaching for us. The Holy Spirit is His voice, His presence, His encouragement—even when we feel buried under the weight of life.
Reflection Question: When have you felt the Holy Spirit encouraging you? How can you be more aware of His presence in your daily life?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
The Holy Spirit is not just a force that operates in the background of our lives—He is our constant encourager. In John 14:26, Jesus assures us that the Spirit will be our Teacher and our Advocate, reminding us of everything He has said and bringing to mind the truths we need in times of trouble. The Holy Spirit’s work in our lives is not a one-time event but a continuous presence. When we feel weak, overwhelmed, or alone, the Spirit is there to strengthen and comfort us, to lead us back to the promises of God’s Word, and to encourage us to keep going. It is through the Holy Spirit that we are empowered to live the Christian life, not in our own strength, but in His. As we rely on the Spirit to guide us, we are reminded that we are never truly alone in our journey of faith.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
What does John 14:26 teach us about the role of the Holy Spirit in the life of a believer?
How does the Holy Spirit encourage us in times of weakness or struggle?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: "When I don’t have the words to pray, I know the Holy Spirit is praying for me. So thankful for the comfort and strength He gives me. #HolySpirit #EncouragementThroughPrayer #NeverAlone" — @FaithInTheSpirit, Twitter
Magazine Quote: “In every season of life, the Holy Spirit walks with us, teaching, guiding, and encouraging us to trust in God's faithfulness.” — Spirit-Filled Living, January 2024
Session
18. "Encouraging One Another in Christ"- Philippians 2:1-2
Focus:
Christ as our greatest source of encouragement
Purpose
Statement:
To remind believers that true encouragement comes from abiding in
Christ.
Discussion
Questions:
How does being united with Christ encourage us?
What are ways we can reflect Christ’s encouragement to others?
Scripture:
Philippians 2:1-2 "Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind."
John 15:4-5 "Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me."
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."
Romans 15:5-6 "May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ."
1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
Colossians 2:2-3 "My goal is that they may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that they may have the full riches of complete understanding, in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge."
OVERVIEW:
In Philippians 2:1-2, Paul calls believers to be encouraged in Christ and to reflect that encouragement through unity and love. True encouragement does not come from our circumstances, our own strength, or fleeting motivations but from a deep, abiding relationship with Jesus Christ. When we are united with Him, we experience comfort from His love, sharing in the Spirit, and compassion that flows from Him. Christ is the ultimate source of our encouragement, and as we grow in our relationship with Him, we are empowered to encourage others in the same way. Paul challenges us to be like-minded, having the same love, and being united in spirit, which not only brings joy to God’s heart but builds unity and peace in the body of Christ. It is through abiding in Christ that we find the strength and joy to encourage one another, reflecting His love and grace to those around us.
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:
Clarifying
the Teaching on Christ as Our Source of Encouragement
It
might surprise you to learn that the greatest
source of encouragement
does not come from external circumstances, human support, or success
in life, but from our abiding
relationship with Christ.
Many people look for encouragement from friends, family, or
accomplishments, but the deepest
and most lasting encouragement
comes from being rooted
in Christ’s love.
Philippians 2:1-2 encourages us to be united with Christ and to
experience the comfort
and love
He offers. In doing so, we are able to encourage
others
not just through kind words or actions, but by drawing from the
limitless resources of God’s love and Spirit within us. This
teaching flips the idea of encouragement upside down—it’s not
about what we can offer, but about what Christ offers us that
overflows into our relationships. When we are connected
to the vine,
as Jesus describes in John 15:4-5, we become vessels of His
encouragement and love.
CULTURE CONNECTION:
In a world that constantly seeks validation and encouragement through social media likes, affirmations from others, and external achievements, Christ offers a different kind of encouragement—one that is not dependent on circumstances or people’s opinions. Today's culture values self-sufficiency, independence, and external success, but the Bible calls believers to find their strength and encouragement in Christ alone. Our encouragement, joy, and peace do not hinge on how well we perform or how well others perceive us, but on the unshakeable foundation of Christ’s love and grace. This shift in perspective is especially important in an age where external validation can feel like the only source of motivation. Christ’s encouragement is timeless, constant, and infinitely more fulfilling than anything this world offers.
WHAT IS SAID:
Theologians and scholars often point to the profound encouragement that comes from abiding in Christ. John Piper in his writings on Philippians explains that, “The encouragement of Christ is the foundation of all Christian encouragement. Without knowing Christ’s love and experiencing His comfort, we cannot truly comfort others.” Commentators note that the key to encouragement in the Christian life is not our ability to muster up strength or positivity, but our continual connection to Christ’s love and presence. William Barclay also highlights that in Philippians 2:1-2, Paul calls for a unity of spirit and love, which is only possible when believers are filled with Christ’s love. Charles Spurgeon writes, “The comfort that comes from the love of Christ is not a fleeting feeling, but a lasting peace that strengthens and sustains us in every trial.” This deep, abiding relationship with Christ is not just the source of encouragement, but the means through which we can share that encouragement with others.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Violin That Played Again"
In the early 1900s, an old, worn-out violin was put up for auction. The auctioneer, seeing its scratches and broken strings, started the bidding at just one dollar. The crowd wasn’t interested. It looked useless.
Then, an elderly man stepped forward, picked up the violin, and began to play. The room fell silent as a beautiful melody filled the air. When he finished, the bidding started again—but this time, the price soared. The violin’s worth wasn’t in its appearance but in the hands of the master musician.
Paul writes in Philippians 2:1-2:
"Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind."
Just like that violin, our lives can feel worn out, broken, or unimportant. But in Christ’s hands, we are restored and given new purpose. True encouragement doesn’t come from our circumstances—it comes from abiding in Him. When we remain in Christ, His love strengthens us, and we, in turn, can encourage others.
So, let’s lift one another up, reminding each other that no one is too broken for God to use. When Christ plays His song through us, even the most weary hearts can be revived.
Reflection Question: How has Christ encouraged you in a difficult time? Who in your life needs a reminder of their worth in Him today?
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:
Encouragement in the Christian life is not just about positive thinking or kind words—it is about abiding in Christ and drawing from His infinite love, peace, and joy. In Philippians 2:1-2, Paul calls believers to experience the encouragement of Christ, which flows from being united with Him in heart, mind, and spirit. The more we recognize and experience Christ’s comfort and love, the more we are equipped to encourage one another. Our unity in Christ is what makes our encouragement powerful, as it is His strength that flows through us. Let us remember that true encouragement comes not from our own strength, but from being rooted in Christ and allowing His love to overflow to others.
QUICK QUIZ QUESTIONS:
How does abiding in Christ serve as the ultimate source of encouragement for believers?
What is the connection between encouragement and unity in Christ, as seen in Philippians 2:1-2?
WHAT THE PUBLIC SAYS: (if your interested)
Social Media Post: "When life gets tough, remember to abide in Christ. His encouragement is what sustains us, and it’s what we can offer to others. #AbidingInChrist #TrueEncouragement #Philippians2" — @ChristianEncourager, Instagram
Magazine Quote: “The encouragement we receive from Christ is not a temporary fix, but an eternal wellspring that we can continually draw from to encourage others.” — Living in Christ Magazine, March 2024