Titus

The Book of Titus offers profound wisdom on church leadership, sound doctrine, and living a life reflective of Christ's teachings. Charles Spurgeon once remarked, "The grand object of the gospel is to teach men to deny ungodliness and worldly lusts, and to live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present world," echoing the heart of Paul's message to Titus.

Session 1: "Faithful Leadership for Faithful Churches"- Titus 1:1-16
— Printable Handout

Focus: Qualifications for church leadership and confronting false teaching

Purpose Statement: To understand God's design for church leadership and the importance of sound doctrine in maintaining a healthy church

READ: Titus 1:1-16

LEAD-IN QUESTION:

Paul lists specific qualifications for elders in verses 6-9. Which of these qualities do you find most essential for church leaders today, and why?

In verses 10-16, Paul warns about "empty talkers and deceivers." What false teachings or unbiblical ideas have you encountered in your Christian journey, and how did you discern truth from error?

OVERVIEW:

Faithful Leadership for Faithful Churches
In Paul’s letter to Titus, he lays out clear instructions for what makes a leader in the church trustworthy and effective. Leadership isn’t just about skill or charisma—it’s about character. The qualifications for church leadership in Titus 1:1-16 remind us that God’s design for leaders isn’t based on external success but on the foundation of sound doctrine and integrity. Leaders must reflect godliness in their lives and hold firmly to the truth of the gospel. As we look at this passage, we’re not just evaluating qualifications for pastors or elders, but we are reflecting on the kind of leaders that we are called to be in our own lives—leaders who uphold God's word and guide others toward truth. "An overseer is entrusted with God’s work." – Titus 1:7a

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

In Titus 1:5-9, Paul outlines a detailed list of qualities for church leaders, but there’s a challenge that comes with the way Paul speaks about leaders confronting false teaching. In verse 10-16, Paul doesn’t hesitate to call out those who would twist the truth, describing them as rebellious, empty talkers, and deceivers. You may be surprised to see how strongly Paul responds to false teaching, urging leaders to confront it boldly. In today’s world, we often shy away from addressing differences in doctrine for fear of conflict. But Paul’s instructions to Titus remind us that guarding sound doctrine is not only necessary for the health of the church but also for the salvation of those who are being misled. We must learn to address false teaching firmly, but with the goal of restoration and protection of the church.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In a world that prizes tolerance and relativism, the idea of confronting false teachings or upholding strict standards for church leadership can feel out of place. Today’s culture often encourages a “live and let live” mindset, where all beliefs are viewed as equally valid. But Titus 1 challenges us to remember that truth matters. When it comes to the church, a faithful community can only exist when the teachings align with the truth of God’s word. In today’s church environment, where new teachings or popular ideas might try to shape what it means to follow Christ, this passage reminds us that leaders must remain vigilant in their commitment to sound doctrine, especially when culture might try to pull us away from it.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Right Tool for the Job"

Imagine you’re building a house. You want it to be sturdy, able to withstand storms, and last for generations. Now, what if the builders used rotten wood for the foundation or hired workers who didn’t know what they were doing? The house might look fine at first, but over time, cracks would appear, and the whole structure could collapse.

In 1981, the Hyatt Regency walkway collapse in Kansas City shocked the nation. A hotel walkway, built with flawed design and poor oversight, collapsed under the weight of people, killing 114 and injuring many more. The disaster could have been prevented if the right standards had been followed, but shortcuts and misjudgments led to tragedy.

The church is like that building. God has given specific qualifications for church leaders because they are responsible for keeping the church strong in faith and sound in doctrine. If leaders lack integrity or don’t stand firm in truth, the church can crumble spiritually. Paul reminds Titus that church leaders must be people of strong character, “blameless, faithful to their spouse, self-controlled, and disciplined” (Titus 1:6-8). When the right people lead with wisdom and faithfulness, the church can stand firm, just like a well-built house that endures through the storms of life.

Reflection Question:

What are some ways you can encourage and support faithful leadership in your church?

Would you like discussion questions or an activity idea to go with this?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Faithful Leadership for Faithful Churches"- Titus 1:1-16

→Trait→Description→Scripture Reference

→Sound Doctrine→A growing leader holds firmly to the trustworthy word and teaches sound doctrine.→Titus 1:9

→Blameless Character→A faithful leader develops integrity in personal and family life, avoiding scandal.→Titus 1:6-7

→Self-Control→They exhibit discipline, not ruled by anger, addiction, or greed.→Titus 1:7-8

→Hospitality and Kindness→A godly leader shows love for others through generous and kind behavior.→Titus 1:8

→Discernment Against False Teaching→They grow in spiritual discernment, refuting false teaching and protecting others.→Titus 1:10-11

→Devotion to God’s Work→They are increasingly committed to God's purposes over personal gain.→Titus 1:1, 1:7

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

God’s plan for leadership in the church is not about hierarchy or power but about servanthood, integrity, and a commitment to the truth. Leaders are meant to be models of godliness, guiding the church by example and by the soundness of the gospel. The role of a church leader is a great responsibility—it’s about protecting the people of God from false teachings and upholding the gospel’s purity. But this passage doesn’t just apply to pastors or elders; it applies to all of us. We are all called to be leaders in some capacity, whether it’s in our homes, workplaces, or communities. As we live our lives, we should ask ourselves: Are we modeling godly leadership, and are we committed to the truth of God’s word in all areas of life?

The importance of sound doctrine is not just a church matter; it’s a matter of spiritual health. A church that embraces truth and sound teaching can thrive and grow, but a church that tolerates false teachings risks being led astray. God’s design for church leadership is aimed at protecting the health of the whole body, and we all have a part to play in keeping the church faithful to its calling.

QUICK QUIZ:

According to Titus 1, what are the key qualifications for a church leader, and why is sound doctrine so important for the health of the church?

In Titus 1:10-16, Paul addresses the issue of false teaching. Why do you think Paul emphasizes confronting false teachings so strongly, and what can we learn about how to handle such issues in the church today?

KEY POINTS to Reflect On

Point: The Role of a Church Leader
Verse: Titus 1:1-3
Reflection: Church leaders are called to serve God and help others understand the truth of the Gospel. They are entrusted with the responsibility to lead by teaching and setting an example.
Discussion Prompt: What qualities do you think are most important for someone in a leadership role in the church? How can we support our leaders to live out their calling?

Point: The Importance of Being Above Reproach
Verse: Titus 1:6-7
Reflection: Leaders must live a life that is blameless and above reproach. This doesn’t mean they are perfect, but they must strive to be honest, reliable, and consistent in their faith.
Discussion Prompt: Why do you think being above reproach is so important for someone in a leadership role? How does this apply to all Christians, not just leaders?

Point: Confronting False Teaching
Verse: Titus 1:10-11
Reflection: False teaching can lead people away from the truth of the Gospel. Church leaders must be willing to confront these errors and protect the integrity of the church.
Discussion Prompt: Have you ever encountered teachings that seemed to go against the Bible? How did you handle it, and what can we learn from that?

Point: The Need for Sound Doctrine
Verse: Titus 1:9
Reflection: Leaders must hold firmly to sound doctrine and be able to teach it effectively. Sound teaching helps the church grow in faith and protects it from falsehood.
Discussion Prompt: What do you think it means to hold firmly to sound doctrine? How can we encourage each other to grow in our understanding of God's Word?

Point: Leaders Must Be Good Examples
Verse: Titus 1:8
Reflection: Church leaders are called to live godly lives as examples for others to follow. Their actions and attitudes should reflect their relationship with Christ.
Discussion Prompt: In what areas of life can we set a better example for others? How can we encourage one another to live out our faith consistently?

CROSS-REFERENCE

Here are some other passages from the New Testament that speak to similar themes of leadership, sound doctrine, and confronting false teaching:

Qualifications for Leaders

1 Timothy 3:1-7: "Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach..."
Similar Message: Both Titus and Timothy emphasize the character and behavior of leaders in the church, stressing the importance of being above reproach and faithful to the truth.

Confronting False Teachings

2 Timothy 4:3-4: "For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear."
Similar Message: This passage warns against the danger of false teachings and the importance of staying true to sound doctrine, which resonates with the call in Titus to confront false teachings.

Holding to Sound Doctrine

1 Timothy 4:16: "Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers."
Similar Message: Just as in Titus 1:9, this verse in 1 Timothy highlights the need for leaders to hold to sound doctrine, both for their own sake and for the sake of those they lead.

Godly Living as an Example

1 Peter 5:3: "Not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock."
Similar Message: Peter encourages leaders to lead by example rather than by domineering. This aligns with Titus 1:8, where leaders are called to be good examples for others.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Discussion Question: How do you think a church can maintain its health and unity when false teachings start to spread?
Commentary: False teachings, as we see in Titus, can divide and confuse the church. It's essential for leaders to address these issues quickly, but also for the congregation to be knowledgeable in Scripture so they can recognize and avoid them. Leaders and members working together to maintain doctrinal purity ensures the church stays focused on Christ’s truth.

Discussion Question: Why do you think Paul emphasizes the importance of leaders being “above reproach” in both their personal lives and in their role in the church?
Commentary: Being above reproach means a leader is above accusations or criticisms that could undermine their authority or credibility. It reflects their integrity and the respect they should have in the church community. This is important because leaders are not just teaching; they are also role models, and their lives need to reflect the message of the Gospel.

Discussion Question: In today’s world, what are some practical ways we can support our church leaders in staying faithful to God’s Word and their calling?
Commentary: Supporting leaders can be done in various ways: through prayer, encouragement, and holding them accountable in love. It’s also important to be a congregation that values sound teaching, participates actively in the life of the church, and provides leaders with the tools they need to grow spiritually and fulfill their calling.

Session 2: "Living Grace-Filled Lives"- Titus 2:1-10
— Printable Handout

Focus: Age and role-specific instructions for godly living in the Christian community

Purpose Statement: To explore how different groups within the church can live out their faith in ways that adorn the gospel

READ: Titus 2:1-10

LEAD-IN QUESTION:

Paul gives specific instructions to different age groups and roles. As you reflect on the guidance for your demographic group, what aspect presents the greatest challenge for you personally?

Verse 10 speaks of "adorning the doctrine of God our Savior." How might your daily conduct either enhance or detract from others' perception of the gospel message?

OVERVIEW:

Living Grace-Filled Lives
In Titus 2:1-10, Paul gives clear instructions to different groups in the church—older men, older women, younger men, and slaves—on how to live godly lives that reflect the grace of God. The message is clear: the gospel isn’t just about what we believe, but also how we live. Each person in the church, regardless of age or role, is called to live in a way that honors God and sets an example for others. This passage shows that Christian living is not one-size-fits-all; it’s tailored to different stages of life and circumstances. But no matter who we are or where we are in life, the way we live should always point others to the gospel. "In the same way, encourage the young men to be self-controlled." – Titus 2:6

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

One surprising thing about this passage is how Paul addresses groups that might seem unlikely to be part of the church leadership or teaching roles—like slaves. In Paul’s day, slaves had a significantly different role in society, yet he emphasizes their importance in living godly lives. He encourages slaves to be respectful, trustworthy, and diligent, living in a way that “adorns the teaching of God our Savior” (Titus 2:10). This might feel surprising in a world where the focus is often on those in positions of power and leadership. But in God's kingdom, no role is too small or insignificant to reflect His glory. Regardless of where we find ourselves in life—whether in a position of authority or in a humble place—we are all called to live lives that demonstrate God's grace.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today’s world, we tend to think of faith as a private matter that doesn’t necessarily affect our everyday roles or relationships. However, Paul’s instructions in Titus 2 show us that our faith should shape how we interact with others in every area of life, no matter our age, gender, or social standing. This passage reminds us that our behavior is a reflection of the gospel. For example, when Paul instructs older women to teach younger women how to live, it emphasizes the importance of mentorship and community in the church—something that is often neglected in a fast-paced, individualistic culture. In a society where everyone is expected to “do their own thing,” Titus 2 challenges us to live in a way that intentionally influences others for Christ, showing that the gospel isn't just something we believe, but something that changes how we live and interact with others.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Recipe for a Grace-Filled Life"

Have you ever tried baking a cake but skipped an ingredient? Maybe you forgot the eggs, left out the sugar, or didn’t follow the instructions carefully. The result? A cake that didn’t rise, tasted awful, or crumbled apart.

Living a godly life in the church is like following a recipe. In Titus 2, Paul gives specific instructions for different groups—older men, older women, younger men, and even workers—because each person has a role in creating a healthy, grace-filled church. If one ingredient is missing, the church’s witness isn’t as strong.

When each person—whether older or younger, teacher or worker—lives out their faith with love and integrity, they “make the teaching about God our Savior attractive” (Titus 2:10, NIV). Just like a well-balanced recipe makes a delicious cake, a church where each person fulfills their role in godly living becomes a beautiful testimony of God’s grace to the world.

Reflection Question:

What “ingredient” might God be asking you to add to your life to help make your church a sweeter reflection of His grace?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Living Grace-Filled Lives"- Titus 2:1-10

→Trait→Description→Scripture Reference

→Recognition of God’s Grace→Understands that God’s grace offers salvation to all people.→Titus 2:11

→Renunciation of Ungodliness→Lives a life that consciously turns away from sinful desires and behaviors.→Titus 2:12

→Self-Discipline in Godliness→Practices self-control as a response to God’s grace working in their life.→Titus 2:12

→Hopeful Waiting→Lives with hopeful anticipation for the blessed hope of Christ’s return.→Titus 2:13

→Zeal for Good Works→Motivated by grace to eagerly do what is good and pleasing to God.→Titus 2:14

→Obedience and Readiness→Responds obediently to God’s commands, ready to live faithfully in every situation.→Titus 2:15

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

God’s grace is not just a doctrine to believe in; it’s a power to live by. In Titus 2, Paul shows how the grace of God impacts every part of life—whether you are young or old, male or female, or in any kind of role. As believers, we are all part of God’s family, and we have a responsibility to live in a way that honors Him, no matter our stage in life. The way we live should be a reflection of the gospel, and we are all called to be role models for one another. Older generations are to mentor the younger, teaching them how to live godly lives that adorn the gospel. This passage challenges us to think about how we can live out our faith in practical ways and how we can help others do the same.
This passage also shows us that the Christian life is lived in community. We’re not meant to walk this journey alone. Whether we are older or younger, we are meant to walk alongside one another, encouraging, teaching, and modeling godly living. This builds up the body of Christ and makes the gospel visible to the world around us.

QUICK QUIZ:

In Titus 2, Paul gives specific instructions to different age groups and roles. How can we live out these instructions in our church community today?

Why is it important that the way we live "adorns the gospel"? How can our everyday actions reflect the grace of God in practical ways?

KEY POINTS to Reflect On

Point: Teaching Sound Doctrine
Verse: Titus 2:1
Reflection: Paul reminds Titus that it’s essential to teach the congregation to live according to sound doctrine. This teaching isn’t just for the leaders, but for everyone, ensuring the church remains grounded in truth.
Discussion Prompt: What does "sound doctrine" look like in our daily lives? How can we be more intentional about living according to God's Word?

Point: Older Men as Examples of Godly Living
Verse: Titus 2:2
Reflection: Older men are called to be sober-minded, dignified, and self-controlled. Their example of faithfulness and wisdom is crucial for the younger generation in the church.
Discussion Prompt: How can older men in the church serve as examples for others? In what ways can younger members learn from their example of living a godly life?

Point: Older Women as Teachers and Encouragers
Verse: Titus 2:3-4
Reflection: Older women have a unique role in teaching and encouraging younger women. This is a mutual, generational responsibility to pass on wisdom and faith.
Discussion Prompt: What is the importance of older women teaching the younger women? How can we create opportunities for this kind of intergenerational mentorship in the church?

Point: Younger Women: Focus on the Home and Family
Verse: Titus 2:4-5
Reflection: Younger women are encouraged to love their husbands, love their children, and manage their homes well. This doesn't mean women should only focus on family, but that godly living at home is a vital expression of faith.
Discussion Prompt: How can we encourage young women in the church to embrace their role in the home as a way to honor God? How does this align with the broader calling to live a grace-filled life?

Point: Younger Men: Being Self-Controlled and Sound in Faith
Verse: Titus 2:6-8
Reflection: Younger men are called to be self-controlled and set a good example in speech, conduct, love, and faith. Their behavior should reflect the grace of God at work in their lives.
Discussion Prompt: What challenges do younger men face in today's culture? How can they better demonstrate self-control and godly character in their everyday lives?

Point: Slaves or Servants: Godliness in Work
Verse: Titus 2:9-10
Reflection: Even in their work, slaves (or employees) are called to act in a way that honors God. This includes being respectful, not stealing, and showing faithfulness in their responsibilities.
Discussion Prompt: How can we view our work and daily responsibilities as a way of living out our faith? In what ways does honoring God in our work impact others around us?

CROSS-REFERENCE

Here are some other New Testament passages that align with the themes in Titus 2:1-10:

Older Men as Examples of Godliness

1 Timothy 5:1-2: "Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity."
Similar Message: Both passages emphasize the need for respect and wisdom in relationships, especially between generations in the church.

Teaching Younger Women

1 Timothy 5:14: "So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander."
Similar Message: This reinforces the Titus call for younger women to focus on their roles at home, showing how their everyday responsibilities glorify God.

Younger Men and Self-Control

1 Timothy 4:12: "Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, and in purity."
Similar Message: Both passages stress the importance of young men setting a godly example in all areas of life, encouraging them to live with self-control and purity.

Godliness in Work

Ephesians 6:5-6: "Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart."
Similar Message: Both Titus and Ephesians show that all believers, regardless of their work situation, are to serve with godliness and integrity, viewing their work as service to Christ.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Discussion Question: How do you think living a grace-filled life in our everyday roles helps us "adorn the gospel" and make it attractive to others?
Commentary: When we live out our faith in practical ways—whether as parents, workers, or older individuals—it reflects the grace of God in action. Our lives should make the Gospel appealing to those who don’t yet know Christ. A life lived in accordance with God’s Word becomes a living testimony to His goodness and truth.

Discussion Question: What are some of the challenges that people in different age groups (younger men, older women, etc.) face in living out these instructions from Titus 2?
Commentary: Different age groups face unique challenges in today’s culture. Younger people might struggle with establishing identity and dealing with peer pressure, while older individuals may face issues related to loneliness or relevance. Understanding these challenges helps us be more supportive of one another, particularly in encouraging people to live out God’s design for their lives in whatever season they are in.

Discussion Question: How can we, as a church community, create more opportunities for different generations to learn from one another and encourage godly living in all areas of life?
Commentary: Encouraging intergenerational relationships is vital for the health of the church. Younger people can benefit from the wisdom and experience of older generations, while older individuals can find energy and fresh perspectives from younger members. This mutual support helps the church grow in unity and faith, and strengthens the body of Christ.

Session 3: "Transformed by Grace"- Titus 2:11-15
— Printable Handout

Focus: The power of God's grace in believers' lives

Purpose Statement: To grasp how God's grace not only saves us but also teaches us to live godly lives in anticipation of Christ's return

READ: Titus 2:11-15

LEAD-IN QUESTION:

Verse 12 says that God's grace trains us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions. What specific areas of your life has God's grace been "training" you in recently?

Paul emphasizes that we are waiting for "the blessed hope" of Christ's appearance (v.13). How does the anticipation of Christ's return influence your daily decisions and priorities?

OVERVIEW:

Transformed by Grace
Titus 2:11-15 highlights the power of God’s grace in the lives of believers. Grace isn’t just the means by which we are saved; it is also the power that teaches us to live godly lives while we await Christ’s return. Paul paints a picture of grace as a teacher, one that shapes us and guides us away from worldly desires, toward living in a way that honors God. The grace that saves us is also the grace that enables us to live with purpose, focus, and hope. As believers, we are called to live differently, in a way that reflects the redemption we have received. “For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people.” – Titus 2:11

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

You may be surprised to learn that God’s grace is not only about forgiveness but is also a teacher. We often think of grace in terms of mercy and forgiveness, which it is, but in this passage, Paul reveals that grace also trains us to live godly lives. Verse 12 says, “It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives.” This view of grace might be unexpected because we usually focus on grace as something that covers our mistakes, rather than something that actively shapes our behavior. However, grace is far more than just pardon for sin—it is the divine power that enables believers to resist temptation and live in a way that reflects God’s holiness. It’s a grace that trains, equips, and empowers us to live out the life God has called us to, while we eagerly wait for Christ’s return.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today’s culture, grace is often seen as something that’s unearned, and people may think of it as merely an excuse for imperfections. We live in a time where “grace” can be misunderstood as leniency or overlooking bad behavior, but this passage challenges that view. God’s grace does not simply excuse sin—it changes us and teaches us to reject it. In a world that encourages self-indulgence and following one’s desires, Titus 2:11-15 calls Christians to live differently, to say “no” to worldly temptations and “yes” to lives of integrity, hope, and godliness. In a culture that often idolizes instant gratification and ease, we are called to live with a longer-term perspective—fixing our hope on the return of Christ. Grace trains us to look beyond the moment, to live with self-control, and to eagerly anticipate the promise of Christ’s return. Grace helps us live out a transformed life, one that stands in stark contrast to the world around us.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Coach Who Changed Everything"

Imagine a sports team full of players with bad habits—skipping practice, ignoring the rules, and caring more about themselves than the team. Now, picture a new coach stepping in. But instead of just yelling at them to "do better," he trains them, guides them, and shows them how to play the game with skill and discipline. Over time, the players improve—not just because of the rules, but because they respect and trust their coach.

That’s what grace does in our lives. Titus 2:11-12 tells us that God’s grace not only saves us but also teaches us to say no to sin and live in a way that honors Him. God doesn’t just rescue us and leave us to figure things out on our own. His grace coaches us daily, shaping us to live with self-control, godliness, and hope as we wait for Christ’s return.

Like an athlete who listens to a great coach, we grow when we respond to God's grace with a heart that desires to change. His grace doesn’t just forgive our past—it transforms our present and prepares us for an eternal future with Him.

Reflection Question:

How has God’s grace been a "coach" in your life, helping you grow in godliness?

Would you like an activity or discussion questions to go with this?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Transformed by Grace"- Titus 2:11-15

→Trait→Description→Scripture Reference

→Recognition of God’s Grace→Acknowledges that God’s grace brings salvation to all people.→Titus 2:11

→Turning from Ungodliness→Actively renounces sinful desires and ungodly behavior.→Titus 2:12

→Living Self-Controlled Lives→Practices disciplined, godly living as a response to grace.→Titus 2:12

→Hope in Christ’s Return→Lives with eager anticipation for the “blessed hope” of Jesus’ appearing.→Titus 2:13

→Zeal for Good Works→Motivated by Christ’s love to do good and cleanse themselves from sin.→Titus 2:14

→Obedience and Readiness→Encouraged to be obedient, ready in every good work and to teach others boldly.→Titus 2:15

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

The grace of God is not only about salvation but is the power that transforms us. We are not saved by grace to continue in sin; we are saved by grace to be transformed by it. The beauty of God’s grace is that it doesn’t just forgive our past, it empowers our present and our future. In our everyday lives, we can experience the ongoing work of grace, teaching us how to live uprightly and godly, while we wait for the glorious return of Jesus Christ. Grace is a personal, ongoing teacher that helps us say “no” to ungodliness and “yes” to a life that reflects our Savior.
As we look ahead to Christ’s return, we should live each day in light of that hope. Grace doesn’t just change us in the moment; it sets us on a trajectory of eternal life, helping us live now in a way that aligns with the promises of God. This passage reminds us that our future hope should affect the way we live today, living in a way that reflects the grace of God in all areas of our lives.

QUICK QUIZ:

According to Titus 2:11-15, what role does grace play in the life of a believer? How does it impact our behavior?

How can the hope of Christ’s return shape the way we live today? What does it mean to live a life “waiting for our blessed hope”?

KEY POINTS to Reflect On

Point: Grace Brings Salvation to All People
Verse: Titus 2:11
Reflection: God's grace has appeared to all people, offering salvation. Grace is not limited to a particular group but is available to everyone, demonstrating God's desire to save all.
Discussion Prompt: How does knowing that God’s grace is available to everyone change the way we view people around us? What does this say about God’s heart for humanity?

Point: Grace Teaches Us to Say "No" to Ungodliness
Verse: Titus 2:12
Reflection: God’s grace doesn’t just save us; it teaches us to live differently. Grace teaches us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, leading us to self-control and godly living.
Discussion Prompt: How does God’s grace empower us to say "no" to the temptations and distractions of this world? What are some specific areas in life where you have experienced God's grace teaching you to live differently?

Point: Grace Leads Us to Live with Hope, Waiting for Christ’s Return
Verse: Titus 2:13
Reflection: The grace of God gives us hope, as we eagerly await the return of Jesus Christ, our Savior. This hope is not just for the future but also shapes the way we live today.
Discussion Prompt: How does the hope of Christ’s return influence how you live your life today? In what ways can this hope help us stay focused on living faithfully?

Point: Grace Makes Us Zealous for Good Works
Verse: Titus 2:14
Reflection: Jesus gave Himself for us to purify us and make us zealous for good works. True grace leads us to live with purpose, seeking to glorify God in all that we do.
Discussion Prompt: What do you think it means to be “zealous for good works”? How can we cultivate a passion for living out our faith in practical ways?

Point: The Role of Grace in Godly Living
Verse: Titus 2:15
Reflection: Paul urges Titus to speak these truths with authority, reminding the church that the grace of God should shape how we live. Grace isn’t just a concept; it’s a lifestyle that transforms us.
Discussion Prompt: How does the grace of God shape the way you interact with others in the church and the world? How can we encourage one another to live according to this grace?

CROSS-REFERENCE

Here are some other New Testament passages that speak to the power and transforming nature of God’s grace:

Grace Brings Salvation

Ephesians 2:8-9: "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast."
Similar Message: Grace is the gift of salvation to all people, not earned by works but given freely by God. It emphasizes the unmerited nature of God's grace.

Grace Teaches Us to Live Godly Lives

Romans 6:12-14: "Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness."
Similar Message: God’s grace calls us to live differently, offering our lives to God as instruments of righteousness, resisting sin, and living with holiness.

Grace and Hope in Christ’s Return

1 Peter 1:13: "Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming."
Similar Message: Both Titus and 1 Peter encourage believers to live in anticipation of Christ’s return, grounding their hope in the grace of God.

Zealous for Good Works

Ephesians 2:10: "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."
Similar Message: Grace creates in us a desire to live out our faith through good works. These works don’t save us, but they are the natural outflow of God's grace in our lives.

Grace Transforms Lives

2 Corinthians 5:17: "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"
Similar Message: Grace transforms us into new creations, completely changing the way we live, think, and act.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Discussion Question: In what areas of life do you see God's grace actively teaching you to live differently? How does grace help you overcome struggles or temptations?
Commentary: Grace isn’t just a theological concept—it’s a force in the believer’s life. Grace empowers us to live differently, to reject ungodliness, and to embrace godly living. It’s important to recognize the areas where grace is at work in our lives, helping us grow and change for the better.

Discussion Question: How can we live with a greater sense of hope, knowing that Christ will return? What impact does this hope have on how we treat others and live our daily lives?
Commentary: The hope of Christ’s return is a powerful motivator in the Christian life. It reminds us that our present struggles are temporary, and it encourages us to live in light of eternity. This hope should inspire us to live with purpose and to treat others with kindness, knowing that our actions here reflect the coming Kingdom of God.

Discussion Question: What does it look like to be “zealous for good works”? How can we cultivate a passionate desire to serve God and others in our church and community?
Commentary: Zealousness for good works comes from the recognition that grace has transformed us, and we now have a new purpose in life. This isn’t about earning God’s favor, but about responding to His grace by serving others with joy. Being zealous means being eager and energetic in our efforts to glorify God through acts of love and kindness.

Session 4: "Good Works and Gracious Words"- Titus 3:1-15
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Focus: The Christian's conduct in society and relationships within the church community

Purpose Statement: To recognize how our salvation should inspire good works and gracious interactions with both believers and non-believers

READ: Titus 3:1-15

LEAD-IN QUESTION:

Paul reminds believers of their former state before Christ (verses 3-7). How does remembering your own spiritual journey affect how you view and interact with non-believers today?

In verses 9-11, Paul warns against "foolish controversies." What principles can we draw from this passage about how to handle disagreements within the church community?

OVERVIEW:

Good Works and Gracious Words
In Titus 3:1-15, Paul urges believers to live in a way that reflects the gospel, demonstrating good works and gracious speech in both their interactions with the outside world and within the church community. Paul emphasizes the importance of living peaceably, being considerate, and showing gentleness, not just towards fellow believers but also toward those who don’t yet know Christ. This passage challenges us to remember that our salvation isn’t only for us—it is meant to be demonstrated through how we live. Our good works and gracious words serve as a testimony to the world of God’s love and the power of the gospel. "But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us..." – Titus 3:4

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

One of the more surprising aspects of this passage is how Paul describes the importance of believers’ conduct not only towards one another but also towards those outside the church. In verses 1-2, Paul instructs the church to "be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone." At first glance, this might seem like a passive or weak approach, especially in a world where standing up for our rights is highly valued. But Paul isn’t suggesting weakness; he is emphasizing the power of humility, gentleness, and grace in a broken world. Living in such a way is a radical testimony to the difference the gospel makes in our lives. It can be surprising to think that showing kindness and avoiding conflict in a world filled with anger and division can actually have a greater impact for the gospel than responding with force. Our behavior should reflect the love and kindness God has shown us, drawing others to Christ through our good works and gracious words.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today’s society, we often see a culture of division, where people engage in heated debates, arguments, and even animosity towards those with different opinions. Social media and public discourse often amplify this conflict, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of “fighting fire with fire.” However, Paul’s instructions in Titus 3 challenge us to take a different approach, one that mirrors the graciousness we’ve received from God. Instead of returning insult for insult or being quick to speak against others, Paul calls us to “be peaceable and considerate.” In a world that thrives on confrontation, the way we conduct ourselves—both in public and within the church—should stand out as a testament to the transforming power of Christ. Our actions and words should be filled with grace, gentleness, and a desire to build bridges, not walls. This doesn’t mean avoiding difficult conversations, but it does mean engaging with others in a way that reflects Christ’s love and kindness, no matter their background or beliefs.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Ripple Effect"

Have you ever tossed a small rock into a still pond? The moment it hits the water, ripples spread outward in every direction. Even the tiniest pebble can create waves that travel far beyond where it first landed.

Our actions and words work the same way. In Titus 3, Paul reminds believers to "be ready to do whatever is good" (Titus 3:1, NIV) and to "show true humility toward all people" (Titus 3:2). Why? Because the way we treat others—both in the church and in the world—creates a ripple effect. Our kindness, patience, and good works don’t just stay with us; they impact our families, friends, coworkers, and even strangers.

Think about the people who have influenced your life. Was it a teacher who encouraged you? A friend who showed you kindness when you didn’t deserve it? Just like their actions left an imprint on you, our words and deeds can point others toward Christ—or push them away. Because we’ve been saved by God’s mercy (Titus 3:5), our lives should reflect His grace in the way we speak and act every day.

Reflection Question:

What kind of ripples are you creating in your relationships—with your family, church, and community?

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SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Good Works and Gracious Words"- Titus 3:1-15

→Trait→Description→Scripture Reference

→Obedience to Authorities→Shows respect and submission to governing authorities for God’s sake.→Titus 3:1

→Gentleness and Courtesy→Demonstrates kindness and gentle behavior toward all people.→Titus 3:2

→Avoiding Quarrels→Avoids foolish disputes, quarrels, and divisive arguments.→Titus 3:9

→Remembrance of God’s Mercy→Lives with gratitude for the mercy and kindness shown through Christ.→Titus 3:4-7

→Renewed by the Holy Spirit→Shows transformation by the Holy Spirit, leading to good works.→Titus 3:5-8

→Helping Others and Hospitality→Actively aids those in need, showing generosity and welcoming spirit.→Titus 3:14-15

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

The grace that saves us is also the grace that shapes us. Paul’s instructions in Titus 3 remind us that the way we live matters. Our salvation isn’t just a ticket to heaven—it’s a call to live a life that reflects the character of Christ in everything we do. The good works and gracious words we show to others are not only a reflection of the gospel, but they are also a powerful testimony to those around us, whether believers or non-believers. How we respond to others, especially in moments of tension or disagreement, says something about the faith we profess. Grace teaches us to be humble, to treat others with respect, and to do good works, all while remembering that our salvation is a gift from God, not something we can earn. As we interact with the world, our behavior should be shaped by the reality of God's kindness and love, pointing others to Christ through both our actions and words.

As we reflect on how our salvation should inspire our behavior, we should ask ourselves: Are our good works and gracious words drawing others closer to Christ? Are we living in a way that shows the world the power of God’s grace to transform lives?

QUICK QUIZ:

What does Paul mean when he calls Christians to "be subject to rulers and authorities" and "to slander no one"? How does this apply to our interactions with both believers and non-believers?

In Titus 3:8, Paul says that "those who have trusted in God may be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good." Why is it important that our good works reflect the gospel, and what role do gracious words play in this?

KEY POINTS to Reflect On

Point: Be Submissive to Authorities and Obey the Law
Verse: Titus 3:1
Reflection: As believers, we are called to be submissive to authorities, to be obedient, and to live peaceably with others. This reflects our witness as citizens of both God’s Kingdom and the world.
Discussion Prompt: How can our obedience to the law and respect for authority reflect our Christian faith? Are there specific situations in your life where this has been difficult, and how can we pray for one another in those moments?

Point: Avoid Fighting and Strife, Be Gentle and Considerate
Verse: Titus 3:2
Reflection: We are instructed to avoid quarreling and to be gentle, showing humility and kindness to everyone. Our conduct should be characterized by peace and respect, especially in difficult situations.
Discussion Prompt: How does it feel to interact with someone who is gentle and considerate, even when there is disagreement? In what areas of life can you practice more gentleness and humility?

Point: We Were Once Foolish, but God Saved Us Through His Mercy
Verse: Titus 3:3-5
Reflection: Paul reminds us that we were once foolish and disobedient, but God, in His mercy, saved us through Jesus Christ. This transformation should inspire us to live differently, showing mercy and grace to others.
Discussion Prompt: How does remembering our past and God’s mercy change the way we treat others? What is the connection between receiving mercy from God and offering it to others?

Point: Salvation and New Birth Come Through the Holy Spirit
Verse: Titus 3:5-6
Reflection: Our salvation is a work of God, made possible by His grace, and it involves a spiritual rebirth through the Holy Spirit. This new life empowers us to live differently, motivated by God’s love and grace.
Discussion Prompt: What does it mean to be "born again" in the Holy Spirit? How does the Holy Spirit help us live out our salvation in everyday life?

Point: Christians Should Be Eager to Do Good Works
Verse: Titus 3:8
Reflection: Good works are the natural result of being saved by grace. We are called to be eager to do what is good, not to earn God’s favor but because of the transformation that grace has worked in us.
Discussion Prompt: In what ways can we be more intentional about doing good works in our community and church? How does this relate to our gratitude for the salvation we’ve received?

Point: Avoid Divisive and Unproductive Debates
Verse: Titus 3:9
Reflection: Paul warns against getting caught up in foolish debates and arguments that don’t lead to anything productive. As Christians, we are to focus on what is beneficial and edifying, avoiding division within the church.
Discussion Prompt: What are some practical ways we can avoid divisiveness in our conversations, both in the church and in society? How can we encourage unity while maintaining strong convictions?

Point: Show Grace in Your Relationships with Fellow Believers
Verse: Titus 3:12-15
Reflection: Paul gives personal instructions on how to live in harmony within the church, showing grace, encouragement, and support to one another. Our relationships should be marked by love, respect, and a desire for unity.
Discussion Prompt: How can we demonstrate grace and kindness toward one another in the church community? Are there any relationships in the church that need healing or reconciliation?

CROSS-REFERENCE

Here are some additional New Testament passages that connect with the themes in Titus 3:1-15, such as Christian conduct, graciousness, and good works:

Submissive to Authorities

Romans 13:1-2: "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God."
Similar Message: Just as Titus encourages submission to authorities, Romans emphasizes that God has established governing authorities, and Christians are called to respect them as part of God’s sovereign plan.

Be Gentle and Avoid Quarreling

2 Timothy 2:24-25: "And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth."
Similar Message: Both passages stress the importance of gentleness and kindness, especially in interactions with those who may disagree with us.

The Mercy of God in Salvation

Ephesians 2:4-5: "But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved."
Similar Message: Both Ephesians and Titus highlight the mercy and grace of God in saving us, despite our past failures.

Doing Good Works

Ephesians 2:10: "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."
Similar Message: Good works are the natural result of our salvation. Both passages encourage believers to be actively involved in doing what is good.

Avoiding Divisive Behavior

Romans 16:17: "I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them."
Similar Message: Just as in Titus, Romans warns against divisive behavior that threatens the unity of the church.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Discussion Question: How does the reminder of God’s mercy in saving us help us interact graciously with others, even those who may be difficult or disagree with us?
Commentary: Reflecting on God’s mercy toward us should inspire us to show the same mercy to others. When we remember that God saved us despite our flaws, it becomes easier to be patient and kind, even with people who challenge us.

Discussion Question: What are some specific examples of “good works” that we can engage in as individuals and as a church to serve both believers and non-believers?
Commentary: Good works are the natural outcome of a life transformed by grace. These works can range from helping those in need, to being a supportive presence in the church, to sharing the Gospel with others. It’s important that these works reflect our love for God and others, and not as a means to earn favor with God.

Discussion Question: How can we avoid divisiveness in our discussions, both within the church and with the broader society? What role does grace play in maintaining unity?
Commentary: Avoiding divisiveness involves being quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. It’s about approaching disagreements with humility and a willingness to understand, not just to win an argument. Grace allows us to focus on the bigger picture—the unity of the body of Christ—while still standing firm in truth.

The book of Titus provides instructions for establishing and maintaining healthy church communities, emphasizing the importance of sound doctrine and godly living, particularly in the challenging cultural context of Crete. As John MacArthur states, "Titus is a manual for church order, a pastoral guide to the establishment of sound doctrine and godly living in a hostile environment."

1: "Faithful Leadership for Faithful Churches"- Titus 1:1-16

2: "Living Grace-Filled Lives"- Titus 2:1-10

3: "Transformed by Grace"- Titus 2:11-15

4: "Good Works and Gracious Words"- Titus 3:1-15

The Book of Titus, one of the Apostle Paul's pastoral epistles, serves as both a guide for church leadership and a reminder of living out faith in practical ways. Written to Titus, a trusted companion of Paul and leader on the island of Crete, this letter emphasizes the importance of sound doctrine, good works, and the transformative power of God’s grace. Paul urges Titus to appoint elders in every town who are “blameless, faithful to their spouse, and not given to dishonest gain” (Titus 1:7-8). This instruction reflects the need for strong, Christ-centered leadership in the early church, which remains relevant today as we consider the qualities of those who lead and teach.

A central theme of Titus is the connection between belief and behavior. Paul stresses that God’s grace, revealed through Jesus Christ, teaches us to “say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age” (Titus 2:12, NIV). This message reminds us that our faith is not just about what we believe but how we live. Charles Spurgeon aptly summarized this by saying, “The true aim of the Christian life is conformity to the character of Christ—both in inner spiritual condition and outward behavior.”

Additionally, the letter underscores the power of good works as a reflection of faith, though not the foundation for salvation. Paul writes, “But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy” (Titus 3:4-5, NIV). This passage beautifully captures the heart of the gospel: salvation is a gift, and good works are a grateful response to God’s mercy. John Stott noted, “Doctrine and duty are married; they must not be divorced. If Christian truths are unimportant, so are Christian morals. Conversely, if morals are unimportant, so is doctrine.”

As you study Titus, consider how its themes can inspire your daily walk with Christ. Reflect on the qualities of godly leadership, the transformative impact of grace, and the importance of aligning our actions with our faith. These lessons from Titus resonate across generations, offering guidance, encouragement, and a call to live with purpose for the glory of God.