Ruth
The book of Ruth is a powerful story of faithfulness, redemption, and God’s providence, showing how He works through ordinary people to fulfill His divine plan. Ruth’s commitment to Naomi and her trust in God led her to become part of the lineage of Christ, demonstrating that our everyday choices can have eternal significance. As Warren Wiersbe once said, “When you trust in the Lord, no matter how difficult your circumstances may be, the best is yet to come.”
Session
1: "A Time of Trouble" – Ruth 1:1-14
READ -Ruth
1:1-14 -
Famine, grief, and difficult choices.
OVERVIEW
Ruth 1:1-14 opens with a time of severe famine in Bethlehem, leading Elimelech and his family to move to Moab. In Moab, Elimelech dies, leaving his wife Naomi and their two sons. The sons marry Moabite women, Orpah and Ruth, but eventually die as well, leaving Naomi and her daughters-in-law widowed. Naomi decides to return to Bethlehem and urges her daughters-in-law to stay in Moab for a better chance at remarriage and stability. Orpah stays, but Ruth clings to Naomi, showcasing deep loyalty and love. "But Ruth replied, 'Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay'" (Ruth 1:16). The story of Ruth teaches us about God's sovereignty and provision, even in the midst of hardship and loss.
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
Famine and Grief: The opening verses of Ruth 1 describe a dire situation in Bethlehem, with famine driving Elimelech and his family to seek sustenance in Moab. This move, however, leads to further hardship as Elimelech and his sons die, leaving Naomi, Orpah, and Ruth in grief. This scenario highlights the harsh realities of life and the pain of loss. Pastor John Piper reflects, "In times of deep sorrow and loss, we are reminded of our dependence on God's grace and the need for community and support."
Difficult Choices: Naomi faces the difficult choice of returning to Bethlehem, a place of uncertainty, and urges her daughters-in-law to stay in Moab for their own good. Ruth's decision to stay with Naomi, despite the risks and uncertainties, exemplifies extraordinary loyalty and faith. "But Ruth replied, 'Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay'" (Ruth 1:16). Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Ruth's choice to stay with Naomi reveals a heart of steadfast love and commitment, trusting in God's provision even in the face of the unknown."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can understand the profound themes of loyalty, faith, and God's sovereignty in the midst of adversity. Ruth 1:1-14 provides timeless lessons on navigating life's challenges with unwavering faith and love.
KEY THOUGHTS
Hard Times Come to Everyone – The famine in Bethlehem forced Naomi’s family to leave their home. Life is full of seasons of hardship, but God is always present.
Grief and Loss Can Overwhelm Us – Naomi lost her husband and two sons in Moab, leaving her heartbroken. Grief is a part of life, but we are not alone in it.
Difficult Choices Require Faith – Naomi decided to return to Bethlehem, and her daughters-in-law had to choose whether to go with her or stay in Moab. Sometimes, the hardest choices lead us closer to God.
God is at Work Even When We Don’t See It – Naomi felt empty and bitter, yet her return to Bethlehem set the stage for God’s redemption through Ruth.
Tell the Story
There was a famine in Bethlehem, forcing a man named Elimelek to take his wife, Naomi, and their two sons to Moab, a foreign land. While in Moab, tragedy struck—Elimelek died, and later, both of Naomi’s sons also passed away. Naomi was left with her two daughters-in-law, Ruth and Orpah, in a land that wasn’t her home.
Hearing that the famine in Bethlehem had ended, Naomi decided to go back. She told Ruth and Orpah to stay in Moab, where they could find new husbands and build new lives. At first, both women insisted on going with her, but Naomi urged them to stay. Orpah kissed her goodbye and stayed behind, but Ruth clung to Naomi, determined to stay with her no matter what.
Naomi was grieving. She had lost everything and felt like her life was over. She believed that God had turned against her. But what she didn’t see yet was that God was still working, even in her sorrow.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
God’s
Presence in Hard Times – Romans 8:28
In
Ruth 1, Naomi felt like her life was ruined, but God had a plan
beyond what she could see. In the New Testament, Romans 8:28 reminds
us, “And
we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love
him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
Even when life feels hopeless, God is still working behind the scenes
to bring about His plan.
Jesus’
Compassion for the Grieving – John 11:32-35
Just
as Naomi grieved the loss of her husband and sons, Mary and Martha
grieved when their brother Lazarus died. When Jesus saw their pain,
He wept (John 11:35). This reminds us that God sees and understands
our sorrow. Like Jesus comforted Mary and Martha, He comforts us in
our grief.
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever felt like life just wasn’t fair? Maybe you faced a season of loss, like Naomi, where everything seemed to fall apart. A loved one passed away, your plans crumbled, or you felt alone in your grief. Hard times come to all of us, and when they do, it’s easy to wonder, Where is God in all of this?
Naomi experienced deep sorrow—losing her husband and both sons in a foreign land. She felt empty and hopeless. But even in her grief, God was leading her back to Bethlehem, where He would begin writing a new chapter in her life. She couldn’t see it yet, but God had a plan.
Sometimes, when we are in the middle of trouble, we don’t see how God is working. But just because we don’t see Him doesn’t mean He’s not there. Like Naomi, we may feel bitter today, but God is still moving behind the scenes, preparing something good ahead.
A Quote to Reflect On:
"Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God." — Corrie ten Boom
When we face difficult choices, grief, or times of trouble, we can trust that God sees the bigger picture. We might not understand everything today, but He is always working things together for good.
Can you think of a time in your life when you didn’t see God working until later? How does that encourage you today?
LEAD-IN QUESTION "Have you ever had to make a difficult decision during a time of hardship? For example, many of us remember having to decide whether to move closer to our children as we got older, or stay in the home where we raised our family."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"In verses 1-2, we read that Elimelech took his family to Moab because of a famine. What would it feel like to leave your hometown because you couldn't feed your family?"
—This helps connect the ancient story to modern experiences of difficult moves or changes. The famine represents any crisis that forces us to make hard choices. Note how Elimelech chose an unexpected solution - moving to Moab, a nation often in conflict with Israel.
"Naomi lost her husband and both sons in Moab (verses 3-5). How do you think she felt about being in a foreign land when all this happened?"
—This question explores the compounded nature of Naomi's grief - loss of family combined with being away from her support system and familiar surroundings. It can lead to discussions about how we handle multiple challenges at once.
"Look at verses 8-9. Why do you think Naomi encouraged her daughters-in-law to return to their mothers' homes?"
—This highlights Naomi's selfless love, putting their welfare above her own needs. It also shows how sometimes loving someone means letting them go.
"In verses 11-13, Naomi says she's too old to provide new husbands for Ruth and Orpah. What does this tell us about the cultural expectations of that time? How might this relate to expectations we face today?"
—This can lead to interesting discussions about how society's expectations affect our choices, both in biblical times and now.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 1:1-14 by recognizing God's presence and guidance in times of trouble, showing loyalty and love to those in need, and making difficult choices based on faith and trust in God. The story of Naomi and Ruth highlights the reality of famine, grief, and hardship, but also demonstrates that God is with us even in the most challenging times. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). This reminder encourages us to seek God's comfort and strength during difficult seasons.
Ruth's decision to stay with Naomi, despite the uncertainty and risk, is a powerful example of loyalty and selfless love. Her actions reflect the kind of commitment and faithfulness that God calls us to demonstrate in our relationships. Pastor John Piper reflects, "Ruth's loyalty to Naomi is a beautiful illustration of covenant love and faithfulness, mirroring God's unwavering love for His people." By supporting and standing by others in their times of need, we can reflect God's love and bring hope to those around us.
Making difficult choices based on faith, like Ruth did, requires trusting in God's plan and provision. Ruth's choice to leave her homeland and follow Naomi to an unknown future demonstrates a deep trust in God. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Faith is stepping out into the unknown with confidence that God will provide and guide." In our own lives, we are called to make decisions that honor God, even when the path is uncertain, trusting that He will lead us and provide for us.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 1:1-14
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Faith During Crisis →Despite famine and personal loss, Ruth and Naomi model trusting God in hardship. →Ruth 1:1–5
→Courage to Journey On →Naomi decides to return to Judah; a symbol of moving forward despite pain. →Ruth 1:6–7
→Loyalty in Relationships →Ruth’s steadfastness to Naomi reflects enduring commitment and love. →Ruth 1:14
→Listening to God’s Direction →Naomi interprets her circumstances through God’s providence and acts in faith. →Ruth 1:6, 13
→Wisdom in Decision-Making →Orpah and Ruth make different choices; Ruth shows discernment in clinging to Naomi. →Ruth 1:8–14
→Compassionate Leadership →Naomi considers the needs of her daughters-in-law before her own. →Ruth 1:8–9
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan in the story of Ruth 1:1-14 reveals His sovereignty and care, even in the midst of famine, grief, and difficult choices. Through the experiences of Naomi and Ruth, we see that God's providence is at work, guiding their steps and providing for their needs. "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). This assurance helps us to trust that God is working in our lives, even when we face challenges and uncertainties.
Moreover, the story of Ruth and Naomi teaches us about the power of loyalty, love, and faithfulness. Ruth's unwavering commitment to Naomi and her willingness to embrace an uncertain future inspire us to show the same kind of steadfast love and faith in our relationships. From Preacher Notes:, "The story of Ruth is a testament to the beauty of selfless love and the blessings that come from trusting in God's plan."
By understanding and embracing these lessons, we can navigate life's challenges with confidence and hope, knowing that God is with us and working for our good. Embracing the principles of loyalty, love, and faith demonstrated in the story of Ruth enables us to live lives that reflect God's character and bring glory to His name.
Session
2: "Where You Go, I Will Go"
– Ruth 1:15-22
READ
-Ruth
1:15-22
- Ruth's commitment to Naomi and stepping into the unknown.
OVERVIEW
In Ruth 1:15-22, Ruth demonstrates unwavering commitment to Naomi by refusing to leave her side, despite Naomi's insistence. Ruth's profound loyalty and dedication lead her to step into the unknown, choosing to accompany Naomi back to Bethlehem. "But Ruth replied, 'Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God'" (Ruth 1:16). Ruth's decision to stay with Naomi is a powerful testament to the strength of loyalty and faith, even in the face of uncertainty.
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
Ruth's Commitment: Ruth's commitment to Naomi is highlighted in her refusal to leave Naomi, despite Naomi's urging. Ruth 1:16-17 captures this beautifully: "But Ruth replied, 'Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.'" This demonstrates Ruth's deep loyalty and love for Naomi, as well as her willingness to embrace Naomi's people and faith. Pastor John Piper reflects, "Ruth's commitment to Naomi shows the depth of conventional love, mirroring God's unwavering commitment to His people."
Stepping into the Unknown: Ruth's decision to accompany Naomi back to Bethlehem involves stepping into the unknown, leaving behind her familiar life in Moab. This act of faith and courage is significant, as Ruth places her trust in Naomi's God and embraces an uncertain future. Ruth 1:22 concludes the chapter with their arrival in Bethlehem: "So Naomi returned from Moab accompanied by Ruth the Moabite, her daughter-in-law, arriving in Bethlehem as the barley harvest was beginning." Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Ruth's journey into the unknown is a testament to the power of faith and the willingness to trust in God's provision, even when the path ahead is uncertain."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can understand the profound themes of loyalty, faith, and stepping into the unknown with trust in God's guidance. Ruth 1:15-22 provides timeless lessons on navigating life's uncertainties with unwavering commitment and faith.
KEY THOUGHTS
Loyalty in Uncertainty – Ruth chooses to stay with Naomi even when it makes no logical sense for her future.
Faith Over Fear – Ruth steps into the unknown, trusting in God rather than her circumstances.
God’s Providence – Even in hardship, God is at work, preparing a greater purpose for Ruth.
A Picture of Redemption – Ruth’s choice sets the stage for God's bigger plan, leading to Jesus' lineage.
TELL THE STORY
Naomi had lost everything—her husband, her sons, and her hope. She decided to return to her homeland of Bethlehem, but she encouraged her two daughters-in-law, Orpah and Ruth, to stay in Moab. Orpah eventually agreed, but Ruth clung to Naomi, making one of the most powerful declarations of love and commitment in the Bible: "Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God." (Ruth 1:16, NIV)
With these words, Ruth made a life-altering decision. She was choosing Naomi’s people, her faith, and an uncertain future over the familiar comforts of home. They arrived in Bethlehem as widows with no security, yet God was already at work behind the scenes. This journey of faith and loyalty would lead to blessings neither woman could have imagined.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
Ruth’s commitment to Naomi reflects the call of Jesus in the New Testament. Just as Ruth left everything behind to follow Naomi, Jesus calls His followers to leave their old lives and trust Him completely.
Parallel in the New Testament
In Luke 9:57-62, Jesus speaks about the cost of discipleship, saying:
"No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God." (Luke 9:62, NIV)
Like Ruth, believers are called to step forward in faith, leaving behind comfort and security to follow God’s path, even when the future is unclear. Ruth’s story reminds us that when we trust God, He leads us into something greater than we could ever plan for ourselves.
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever had to make a difficult choice, not knowing how things would turn out? Maybe it was moving to a new place, starting over after a loss, or stepping out in faith when God called you to something new.
Ruth faced that kind of moment. She could have stayed in Moab, where life was familiar. But instead, she chose to follow Naomi into the unknown. She didn’t have a plan—just a heart full of love and trust.
Faith often works like that. We don’t always get a clear road map, but we do get a promise: God will be with us. Ruth’s journey reminds us that when we follow God, He takes care of the rest.
“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.”— Martin Luther King Jr.
Like Ruth, we are sometimes called to walk forward without all the answers. The question is: Are we willing to trust God, even when the future is uncertain?
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LEAD-IN QUESTION: "Have you ever had to make a big decision to support someone you love? Maybe moving to be closer to family or changing your lifestyle to help care for them?"
— Share this story: "Sarah was comfortable in her home of 40 years, but when her daughter became ill, she made the difficult choice to sell her house and move across the state to help care for her grandchildren. Like Ruth, she left behind what was familiar to support someone she loved."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"In verse 16, Ruth says 'Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay.' What do you think made Ruth so determined to stay with Naomi?" —Ruth's devotion went beyond typical family loyalty. Despite having the option to return to her own family and find a new husband, she chose to accompany her mother-in-law into an uncertain future. This speaks to both Ruth's character and the special bond she must have developed with Naomi.
"Notice how Ruth mentions 'your people will be my people, and your God my God.' What does this tell us about the depth of Ruth's commitment?" —Ruth wasn't just making a geographical move; she was embracing a whole new life - new culture, new faith, new identity. This would be like moving to a completely different country today and starting fresh.
"Looking at verse 20, Naomi asks to be called 'Mara' meaning bitter. How do you think Ruth's presence might have been a comfort to Naomi during this bitter time?" —Sometimes just having someone walk alongside us in our pain can be healing. Ruth's presence showed Naomi she wasn't alone, even when Naomi couldn't see past her grief.
"What risks was Ruth taking by going with Naomi? How might this relate to times when we need to step out in faith?" —As a Moabite woman in Bethlehem, Ruth would face potential prejudice, poverty, and uncertainty. Yet she trusted that following this path was right. Sometimes our own acts of faith might mean stepping into uncomfortable or uncertain situations.
"In verses 16-17, Ruth makes a covenant promise to Naomi. What examples of covenant promises do we see God making with us?" —God's faithfulness to us, like Ruth's to Naomi, is unwavering. He promises never to leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5), just as Ruth promised to stay with Naomi until death.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 1:15-22 by demonstrating loyalty, faith, and commitment in their relationships, and by trusting God as they step into the unknown. Ruth's unwavering commitment to Naomi is a profound example of loyalty and faithfulness. In our own lives, we can strive to be loyal and supportive to our loved ones, especially during times of hardship. "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity" (Proverbs 17:17). From Preacher Notes:, "Loyalty in relationships reflects God's steadfast love for us and strengthens the bonds of trust and support."
Stepping into the unknown, as Ruth did, requires faith and courage. By trusting in God's plan and provision, we can face uncertainties with confidence. Ruth's decision to leave her homeland and follow Naomi to an unfamiliar place is a powerful testament to her faith. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Faith is about stepping out into the unknown with the assurance that God is with us and will guide our steps." As we encounter new and uncertain situations, we can trust that God will provide and lead us through.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 1:15-22
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Unwavering Commitment →Ruth’s declaration to stay with Naomi shows deep loyalty and dedication beyond convenience. →Ruth 1:16
→Faithfulness in Relationships →Ruth’s faithfulness to Naomi models a lifestyle of honoring and supporting loved ones. →Ruth 1:17
→Trust in God’s Provision →Returning to Bethlehem symbolizes hope and trust that God will provide in uncertain times. →Ruth 1:19
→Courage to Embrace Change →Ruth steps into a new culture and life, embracing change with bravery and faith. →Ruth 1:18–19
→Hope Amid Loss →Despite Naomi’s bitterness, the journey back is an act of hope for a better future. →Ruth 1:20–21
→Community and Belonging →The arrival in Bethlehem marks a return to community, emphasizing the importance of belonging. →Ruth 1:22
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan associated with Ruth 1:15-22 reveals His sovereignty and faithfulness, even in times of uncertainty and hardship. Ruth's commitment to Naomi and her willingness to embrace the unknown demonstrate the power of faith and loyalty. "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). This assurance helps us trust that God is working in our lives, even when we face challenges and uncertainties.
Reflecting on Ruth's journey, we see that loyalty, faith, and commitment are integral to living a life that honors God. Ruth's example inspires us to be steadfast in our relationships and to trust in God's plan, even when the future is uncertain. Pastor John Piper reflects, "Ruth's loyalty to Naomi and her faith in God's provision are a beautiful illustration of covenant love and trust in God's sovereignty."
By understanding and embracing these lessons, we can navigate life's challenges with confidence and hope, knowing that God is with us and working for our good. Embracing the principles of loyalty, faith, and trust in God's plan enables us to live lives that reflect His character and bring glory to His name.
Session
3: "Favor in the Fields"
– Ruth 2
READ
-Ruth 2 -
Ruth meets Boaz, the power of kindness, and divine appointments.
OVERVIEW
In Ruth 2, Ruth gleans in the fields of Boaz, a wealthy and kind relative of Naomi. Boaz notices Ruth's dedication and kindness towards Naomi and shows her favor and protection. This chapter highlights the power of kindness and the concept of divine appointments, as Ruth's hard work and loyalty lead to unexpected blessings. "May the Lord repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge" (Ruth 2:12). Many teachers observes, "Ruth's story teaches us that God's providence often works through ordinary events and acts of kindness."
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
Ruth Meets Boaz: Ruth 2:1-3 introduces Boaz, a man of standing in Bethlehem, who owns the field where Ruth happens to glean. "Now Naomi had a relative on her husband’s side, a man of standing from the clan of Elimelech, whose name was Boaz." Ruth, driven by her commitment to provide for Naomi, goes to glean in the fields. This encounter underscores the importance of diligence and trust in God’s provision. Christian author Max Lucado notes, "Ruth's hard work and faithfulness set the stage for God's blessings through Boaz, illustrating that divine appointments often come through our ordinary efforts."
The Power of Kindness: Boaz's kindness towards Ruth is evident as he ensures her safety and provides for her needs. Ruth 2:8-9 records Boaz instructing Ruth to glean in his field and stay close to his servant girls for protection. "My daughter, listen to me. Don’t go and glean in another field and don’t go away from here. Stay here with my servant girls. Watch the field where the men are harvesting, and follow along after the girls." Boaz’s actions reflect God's kindness and provision. Pastor Rick Warren explains, "Boaz's kindness to Ruth exemplifies God's heart for the vulnerable and the importance of showing compassion to others."
Divine Appointments: The chapter highlights how divine appointments can come through everyday actions. Ruth 2:11-12 shows Boaz recognizing Ruth's loyalty to Naomi and blessing her for it. "Boaz replied, 'I’ve been told all about what you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband… May the Lord repay you for what you have done.'" This encounter is a testament to God's orchestration of events for His purposes. Theologian John Piper reflects, "God’s providence is at work in our lives, often in the most ordinary and unexpected ways, guiding us towards His divine plan."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can see the significance of diligence, kindness, and recognizing divine appointments in our daily lives. Ruth 2 offers timeless wisdom on how God’s provision and blessings often come through our faithful actions and the kindness of others.
KEY THOUGHTS
God’s Provision Comes in Unexpected Ways – Ruth went to glean in the fields to provide for herself and Naomi, not knowing she would meet Boaz. This reminds us that God often works through ordinary circumstances to bring about His plans.
Kindness Changes Lives – Boaz shows kindness to Ruth, despite her being a foreigner. His generosity reflects God’s heart for those in need.
Divine Appointments Are Not Coincidence – Ruth "happens" to glean in Boaz’s field, but this is no accident. God orchestrates events to fulfill His purposes.
A Picture of Redemption – Boaz’s kindness foreshadows Christ, our ultimate Redeemer, who welcomes outsiders into His family.
TELL THE STORY
Imagine Ruth, a Moabite widow, stepping onto a field in Bethlehem, hoping to gather enough leftover grain to survive. She doesn’t know anyone, and she doesn’t expect special treatment. But God is already working behind the scenes.
As Ruth picks up the fallen stalks, she catches the attention of Boaz, the owner of the field. He has heard of Ruth’s loyalty to Naomi and is impressed by her character. Instead of treating her like an outsider, Boaz welcomes her, offers protection, and ensures she has plenty of food.
Overwhelmed by his kindness, Ruth asks why he is treating her this way. Boaz responds that he sees her faithfulness and knows that God is blessing her. What Ruth thought was just another day of hard work turns into a divine encounter—one that will change her life forever.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
Boaz’s kindness toward Ruth mirrors how Jesus welcomes those who feel unworthy. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus says:
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
Just as Boaz provided for Ruth, Jesus offers us grace, provision, and rest. Ruth, a foreigner and outsider, found favor in Boaz’s eyes, just as we—through Christ—find favor in God’s eyes.
Additionally, Boaz acts as a kinsman-redeemer, a foreshadowing of Jesus, our ultimate Redeemer, who rescues us and brings us into His family (Ephesians 1:5).
Like Ruth, we can trust that when we follow God, He will lead us to places of blessing—even when we least expect it.
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever had a time in life when you ended up in the right place at the right time? Maybe you ran into an old friend just when you needed encouragement. Or perhaps an opportunity opened up that seemed like pure coincidence—but later, you realized it was part of God’s plan.
That’s what happened to Ruth. She wasn’t looking for a life-changing moment—she was just trying to survive. But God was guiding her steps, leading her to Boaz’s field, where kindness and provision awaited. What seemed like an ordinary day was actually a divine appointment.
God still works this way in our lives. He places people in our path to encourage us, and He uses us to be a blessing to others. Like Boaz, we can be people of kindness, offering help and hope. And like Ruth, we can trust that God is working—even when we can’t see the full picture.
A Thought to Hold Onto: "When we trust God with our journey, we often find that He has already gone ahead to prepare the way."
Quotes on Kindness & Divine Appointments
"Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." — Mark Twain
"God never does anything accidentally, and He never makes mistakes." — Rick Warren
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.” — Psalm 37:23
LEAD-IN QUESTION: "Can you remember a time when a stranger showed you unexpected kindness? How did it make you feel?"
— Share this story: "Mary's car broke down on her way to a doctor's appointment. A gentleman stopped, helped her call a tow truck, and even drove her to her appointment so she wouldn't be late. Like Ruth in the fields of Boaz, Mary experienced the blessing of unexpected kindness from a stranger."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"Ruth goes out to gather leftover grain in the fields. What does this tell us about her character?" —Ruth showed initiative and humility by being willing to do hard work to provide for herself and Naomi. She didn't wait for help to come to her but took action while trusting God's provision.
"In verses 8-9, Boaz tells Ruth to stay in his fields and offers her protection. What strikes you about how he treated this foreign woman?" —Boaz went above and beyond what the law required. He didn't just allow Ruth to glean - he actively protected her and made sure she had water to drink. His kindness reflects God's heart for those in need.
"Look at verse 12, where Boaz says 'May the Lord repay you for what you have done.' What had Ruth done that impressed Boaz?" —Boaz had heard about Ruth's loyalty to Naomi and how she left her homeland to care for her mother-in-law. Sometimes our acts of kindness have a wider impact than we realize - people notice when we live faithfully.
"In verse 20, Naomi calls Boaz their 'kinsman-redeemer.' What does this term mean, and how might it have given Naomi hope?" —A kinsman-redeemer was a relative who could help a family in crisis by buying back their land or providing for their needs. This reminds us that God often works through people to provide help when we need it most.
"Ruth 'happened to come' to Boaz's field (verse 3). Do you think this was just luck? Have you ever experienced what seemed like a 'chance' meeting that turned out to be important?" —While it appeared random, we can see God's hand guiding Ruth to the right place. Sometimes what we call coincidences are actually God working behind the scenes in our lives.
"Notice how Ruth responds to Boaz's kindness in verses 10 and 13. What can we learn from her gratitude?" —Ruth showed genuine humility and appreciation for Boaz's kindness. She didn't take his generosity for granted, reminding us to be thankful when others show us kindness.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 2 by recognizing the importance of kindness, trusting in God's provision, and being open to divine appointments in their lives. Boaz's kindness towards Ruth serves as a powerful example of how we can show compassion and care for others. "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32). Pastor Rick Warren emphasizes, "Kindness is love in action; it reflects God's character and opens doors for His blessings." By actively showing kindness to those around us, we create an environment of love and support, mirroring God's heart for the vulnerable.
In addition to kindness, Ruth's experience teaches us to trust in God's provision. Ruth went to glean in the fields, not knowing what she would find, but trusting that God would provide. Her diligence and faith led her to Boaz, who showed her favor. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Faith involves stepping out in trust, believing that God will meet our needs and guide our steps." As we face uncertainties in life, we can take comfort in knowing that God is in control and will provide for us in unexpected ways.
Being open to divine appointments is another key lesson from Ruth 2. Ruth's encounter with Boaz was not a mere coincidence but a part of God's greater plan. Boaz recognized Ruth's loyalty and dedication and blessed her for it. "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). Pastor John Piper reflects, "God’s providence is at work in our lives, often in the most ordinary and unexpected ways, guiding us towards His divine plan." By being attentive to the opportunities God places before us, we can participate in His greater purpose.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 2
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Diligence and Hard Work →Ruth’s willingness to work in the fields shows a proactive attitude and faithfulness in effort. →Ruth 2:2–3
→Humility →Ruth humbly serves others, not demanding, but gratefully accepting God’s provision through people. →Ruth 2:7
→Trust in God’s Providence →Ruth experiences God’s favor through Boaz’s kindness, trusting that God provides through others. →Ruth 2:10–12
→Generosity and Kindness →Boaz’s generosity models how God’s people should show kindness and protection to the vulnerable. →Ruth 2:8–9, 15
→Respect for Authority →Ruth respects Boaz as a landowner and protector, reflecting respect for God’s established order. →Ruth 2:8, 13
→Gratitude and Recognition →Ruth openly expresses gratitude and acknowledges God’s blessings through people’s actions. →Ruth 2:10–13
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan associated with Ruth 2 reveals His sovereignty and care, orchestrating events for His purposes through acts of kindness, faith, and divine appointments. Ruth's story reminds us that God is at work in our lives, even in the ordinary and unexpected moments. "May the Lord repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge" (Ruth 2:12). This assurance helps us trust in God's provision and recognize the blessings that come from showing kindness and being open to His guidance.
Reflecting on Ruth’s journey, we see the significance of kindness, faith, and being open to divine appointments in our own lives. Boaz's kindness and Ruth's faithfulness led to their meeting and the unfolding of God's greater plan for their lives. Many teachers observes, "Ruth's story teaches us that God's providence often works through ordinary events and acts of kindness, guiding us toward His divine purposes." By understanding and embracing these lessons, we can navigate life's challenges with confidence, knowing that God is with us and working for our good.
Embracing the principles of kindness, faith, and trust in God's plan enables us to live lives that reflect His character and bring glory to His name. As we apply these lessons from Ruth 2, we can find hope, direction, and purpose in our relationship with God, knowing that He is guiding us through every step of our journey.
Session
4: "A Risk of Faith"
– Ruth 3:1-13
READ
-Ruth 3:1-13 -
Naomi's plan, Ruth’s bold request, and trusting God's timing.
OVERVIEW
In Ruth 3:1-13, Naomi devises a plan to secure Ruth's future by instructing her to approach Boaz at the threshing floor. Ruth obediently follows Naomi's guidance and boldly requests Boaz to act as her kinsman-redeemer. Boaz, recognizing Ruth's loyalty and virtue, reassures her and promises to resolve the matter. This passage highlights themes of faith, boldness, and trusting God's timing. "The Lord bless you, my daughter. This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor" (Ruth 3:10). Pastor John Piper notes, "Ruth's actions demonstrate a courageous faith that steps out into the unknown, trusting in God's provision and timing."
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
Naomi's Plan: Naomi's plan involves a significant risk, as she instructs Ruth to approach Boaz at night on the threshing floor. Ruth 3:1-4 outlines Naomi's instructions: "Then Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, 'My daughter, I must find a home for you, where you will be well provided for. Now Boaz, with whose women you have worked, is a relative of ours. Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. Wash, put on perfume, and get dressed in your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking.'" This plan requires faith and courage, as Naomi trusts in Boaz's integrity and God's provision.
Ruth’s Bold Request: Ruth faithfully follows Naomi's instructions and makes a bold request to Boaz. Ruth 3:7-9 describes the scene: "When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down. In the middle of the night something startled the man; he turned—and there was a woman lying at his feet! 'Who are you?' he asked. 'I am your servant Ruth,' she said. 'Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a guardian-redeemer of our family.'" This request signifies Ruth's appeal for protection and provision, invoking the role of kinsman-redeemer. Pastor Rick Warren notes, "Ruth's boldness is a testament to her faith and trust in God's provision through Boaz."
Trusting God's Timing: Boaz's response to Ruth's request reflects his admiration for her loyalty and virtue. Ruth 3:10-11 records his words: "The Lord bless you, my daughter. This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor. And now, my daughter, don’t be afraid. I will do for you all you ask. All the people of my town know that you are a woman of noble character." Boaz's reassurance highlights the importance of trusting God's timing and provision. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Trusting God's timing requires patience and faith, believing that He will work all things for our good according to His perfect plan."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can understand the profound themes of faith, boldness, and trusting God's timing in our own lives. Ruth 3:1-13 offers timeless wisdom on stepping out in faith and relying on God's provision and guidance.
KEY THOUGHTS
Faith Sometimes Requires Bold Action – Ruth’s decision to approach Boaz was risky. She stepped out in faith, trusting that God would work things out.
God Uses Ordinary Choices to Fulfill His Plan – Naomi had a plan, but ultimately, God was guiding Ruth’s steps toward something greater.
Waiting on God’s Timing is Essential – Boaz was willing to redeem Ruth, but there were legal matters to settle first. This reminds us that God's plans unfold in His perfect timing.
Redemption Comes Through a Willing Redeemer – Boaz’s willingness to redeem Ruth foreshadows Christ, who willingly redeems us through His love and sacrifice.
TELL THE STORY
Naomi, Ruth’s mother-in-law, saw an opportunity for Ruth’s future. She encouraged Ruth to go to Boaz at the threshing floor at night and present herself humbly, asking for his protection and redemption. This was a bold and risky move—Ruth was a foreigner, a widow, and had no real standing. But she trusted Naomi’s advice and, more importantly, she trusted God.
That
night, after Boaz had finished working and was asleep, Ruth quietly
approached, uncovered his feet, and lay down. When he awoke,
startled, Ruth made a simple but powerful request:
"Spread
the corner of your garment over me, since you are a guardian-redeemer
of our family."
(Ruth
3:9, NIV)
Boaz was moved by Ruth’s character and faithfulness. He promised to help, but he also knew there was another relative who had the legal right to redeem her first. Boaz assured Ruth that he would handle the situation honorably and that, one way or another, she would be taken care of.
Ruth’s act of faith and Boaz’s response remind us that God is always at work—even when we don’t know how things will turn out.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
Ruth's bold request and Boaz’s willingness to redeem her mirror our relationship with Christ. Just as Ruth sought redemption from Boaz, we seek redemption from Jesus, our ultimate Redeemer.
In
Galatians
4:4-5 (NIV),
Paul writes:
"But
when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman,
born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that we might
receive adoption to sonship."
Boaz had the ability and willingness to redeem Ruth, just as Jesus had the ability and willingness to redeem us. Both required faith—Ruth’s faith in approaching Boaz and our faith in trusting Jesus.
This story reminds us that God's timing is always perfect, and when we step out in faith, He meets us with His grace and provision.
KEY THOUGHTS
Faith Sometimes Requires Bold Action – Ruth’s decision to approach Boaz was risky. She stepped out in faith, trusting that God would work things out.
God Uses Ordinary Choices to Fulfill His Plan – Naomi had a plan, but ultimately, God was guiding Ruth’s steps toward something greater.
Waiting on God’s Timing is Essential – Boaz was willing to redeem Ruth, but there were legal matters to settle first. This reminds us that God's plans unfold in His perfect timing.
Redemption Comes Through a Willing Redeemer – Boaz’s willingness to redeem Ruth foreshadows Christ, who willingly redeems us through His love and sacrifice.
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever had to take a step of faith without knowing exactly how things would turn out? Maybe you applied for a job you weren’t sure you’d get, reached out to someone after years of silence, or made a decision that required complete trust in God’s plan.
Ruth found herself in that kind of situation. She had no guarantees—only Naomi’s advice and her faith that God was leading her. Approaching Boaz was risky. Would he accept her request? Would he reject her? Yet, instead of letting fear hold her back, Ruth stepped forward in faith.
Sometimes God asks us to trust Him with big decisions. He may not reveal the whole plan, but He calls us to take the next step. Ruth’s story reminds us that when we move forward in faith, God is already at work, preparing the way for His perfect plan to unfold.
A Thought to Hold Onto: "Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase." — Martin Luther King Jr.
LEAD-IN QUESTION: "Have you ever had to step out of your comfort zone to do something you believed God wanted you to do? How did you feel beforehand?"
— Share this story: "Martha, a shy widow, felt God calling her to start a prayer group in her retirement community. Though nervous about leading others, she took that first step of inviting neighbors over for coffee and prayer. Like Ruth approaching Boaz, Martha had to trust God while stepping into the unknown."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"In verses 1-2, Naomi wants to 'find a home' for Ruth. What does this tell us about how Naomi's attitude has changed since chapter 1?" —Remember how bitter Naomi was before? Now she's actively planning for Ruth's future. This shows how God can turn our hearts from bitterness to hope when we let Him work in our lives.
"Looking at verses 3-4, Naomi gives Ruth very specific instructions. Why do you think Ruth trusted Naomi's plan?" —Ruth had seen Naomi's faith and wisdom over time. Sometimes God works through the advice of those who have walked with Him longer than we have. Their experience can help guide us.
"In verse 9, Ruth asks Boaz to 'spread the corner of your garment over me.' This was a way of asking for marriage. What might Ruth have been feeling in this moment?" —Think about how vulnerable Ruth must have felt. She was a foreigner asking a respected man to marry her. This took great courage and trust in both God and Naomi's wisdom.
"Look at how Boaz responds in verses 10-13. What does his response tell us about his character?" —Boaz shows both kindness and integrity. He praises Ruth's character but also follows proper procedures by mentioning the closer relative. He puts Ruth's honor and reputation first.
"This whole chapter involves waiting for the right timing. What can this teach us about patience in our own lives?" —Sometimes we want immediate answers, but God often works in His perfect timing. Both Ruth and Boaz had to wait for things to be done properly, trusting God's plan.
"Naomi tells Ruth in verse 3 to 'put on your best clothes.' How might this detail remind us about approaching God with respect?" —While God accepts us as we are, there's also value in showing reverence and respect in how we approach both God and important moments in life. This isn't about outward appearance but about our heart attitude.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 3:1-13 by recognizing the importance of faith, courage, and trust in God's timing in their own lives. Naomi's bold plan for Ruth required a significant amount of faith, both in Boaz's integrity and in God's provision. In our lives, we are often called to make bold decisions that require us to step out in faith. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). Pastor Rick Warren emphasizes, "Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase. It is trusting that God will guide your steps and provide for your needs."
Ruth's bold request to Boaz is a testament to her trust in God's provision and timing. She did not hesitate to follow Naomi's instructions, even though it involved significant risk. This teaches us the importance of being bold in our faith and trusting that God will honor our steps of faith. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Faith involves stepping into the unknown with confidence, knowing that God is already there, preparing the way for us." As we face uncertainties in life, we can take courage from Ruth's example and trust that God is in control.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 3:1-13
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Courage to Take Risks →Ruth steps out in faith to approach Boaz, showing boldness despite uncertainty and vulnerability. →Ruth 3:3–4
→Wise Counsel and Listening →Naomi provides wise guidance, demonstrating the importance of seeking and heeding godly advice. →Ruth 3:1–4
→Trust in God’s Timing →Ruth and Naomi trust that God’s plan will unfold at the right time, rather than forcing outcomes. →Ruth 3:13
→Respect and Honor →Ruth approaches Boaz with humility and respect, reflecting integrity in relationships. →Ruth 3:7–9
→Hope Amid Uncertainty →Despite the risk, Ruth’s hope in God’s provision remains strong and steady. →Ruth 3:12
→Active Faith →Faith is expressed through action—Ruth does not wait passively but acts in obedience to God’s will. →Ruth 3:5
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan associated with Ruth 3:1-13 reveals His sovereignty and faithfulness in guiding our lives, even in times of uncertainty and risk. Naomi's plan and Ruth's bold actions show that God's provision and timing are perfect, even when the path ahead is unclear. "The Lord bless you, my daughter. This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor" (Ruth 3:10). This assurance helps us trust that God is working in our lives, orchestrating events for our good and His glory.
Reflecting on Ruth’s journey, we see that faith, courage, and trust in God's timing are integral to living a life that honors Him. Ruth's example inspires us to be bold in our faith and to trust in God's plan, even when the future is uncertain. Pastor John Piper reflects, "Ruth's courageous faith and trust in God's provision are a beautiful illustration of how God works through our bold steps of faith to accomplish His purposes."
By understanding and embracing these lessons, we can navigate life's challenges with confidence and hope, knowing that God is with us and working for our good. Embracing the principles of faith, courage, and trust in God's timing enables us to live lives that reflect His character and bring glory to His name.
Session
5: "A Redeemer Steps Forward"
– Ruth 3:14 - 4:12
READ
-Ruth 3:14 - 4:12
- Boaz fulfilling his role and God's design for redemption.
OVERVIEW
In Ruth 3:14 - 4:12, Boaz steps forward to fulfill his role as the kinsman-redeemer, securing Ruth and Naomi's future through his faithfulness and integrity. This passage highlights God's providence and design for redemption, showcasing Boaz's commitment to doing what is right. "The Lord bless him!" Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. "He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead" (Ruth 2:20). Pastor John Piper notes, "Boaz's actions reflect Christ's redemptive love, pointing to the ultimate redemption found in Jesus."
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
Boaz Fulfilling His Role: Boaz takes deliberate and honorable steps to fulfill his role as the kinsman-redeemer for Ruth and Naomi. In Ruth 3:18, Naomi reassures Ruth: "Wait, my daughter, until you find out what happens. For the man will not rest until the matter is settled today." This highlights Boaz's commitment and integrity. Boaz's actions exemplify the importance of honoring commitments and acting with integrity, reflecting God's character in our relationships and decisions.
God's Design for Redemption: In Ruth 4:9-10, Boaz officially redeems Ruth and Naomi: "Then Boaz announced to the elders and all the people, 'Today you are witnesses that I have bought from Naomi all the property of Elimelech, Kilion, and Mahlon. I have also acquired Ruth the Moabite, Mahlon's widow, as my wife, in order to maintain the name of the dead with his property, so that his name will not disappear from among his family or from his hometown. Today you are witnesses!'" This act of redemption mirrors God's greater plan of redemption through Jesus Christ. Pastor Rick Warren notes, "The story of Boaz and Ruth is a beautiful illustration of God's redemptive plan, showing how He brings restoration and hope through faithful individuals."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can understand the profound themes of faithfulness, integrity, and God's redemptive plan in our own lives. Ruth 3:14 - 4:12 offers timeless wisdom on how God works through faithful actions to bring about His purposes.
KEY THOUGHTS
Boaz Acts with Integrity – Boaz follows the proper steps to redeem Ruth, showing honesty, patience, and respect for God’s law.
God’s Plan for Redemption – The process of a "kinsman-redeemer" points to how God provides for His people.
A Future of Blessing – Ruth and Boaz’s marriage leads to a greater purpose: they become part of the family line of King David and ultimately, Jesus Christ.
TELL THE STORY
Ruth had spent the night at Boaz’s feet, following Naomi’s advice, as a sign that she was seeking his protection. Early in the morning, before it was fully light, Boaz sent her home with extra grain, showing his kindness and provision.
But there was a complication—another man was a closer relative and had the first right to redeem Ruth and Naomi’s land. Boaz, being a man of integrity, took the matter to the town elders. He offered the other relative the chance to redeem the land, but when the man learned he would also have to marry Ruth, he declined.
This opened the way for Boaz to step forward as Ruth’s redeemer. In front of witnesses, he made it official—he would buy Naomi’s land and take Ruth as his wife. The people in town rejoiced, asking for God’s blessing on their marriage, comparing Ruth to Rachel and Leah, the mothers of Israel’s twelve tribes.
Their marriage would lead to the birth of Obed, who would become the grandfather of King David—putting Ruth, a foreigner, directly in the family line of Jesus.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
Just as Boaz redeemed Ruth, Jesus is our ultimate Redeemer.
Boaz willingly stepped in to pay the price and bring Ruth into his family.
Jesus willingly paid the price for our sins, bringing us into God’s family (Ephesians 1:7).
Boaz followed the law while showing grace—just as Jesus fulfilled the law while offering salvation through grace (Matthew 5:17).
The people blessed Boaz and Ruth, not knowing their story would lead to Jesus—just as God’s redemption often works in ways we cannot yet see (Romans 8:28).
Boaz’s story is a beautiful reminder that redemption is not just about buying something back—it’s about love, sacrifice, and restoring broken lives. Just as Boaz stepped forward for Ruth, Jesus stepped forward for us!
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever had someone step in to help you when you were in need? Maybe a friend paid for your meal when you forgot your wallet, or a family member offered a helping hand when you couldn’t do something on your own. It feels good to know someone is willing to stand in the gap for us.
That’s exactly what Boaz did for Ruth. She was a widow, a foreigner, and had no way to provide for herself. But Boaz didn’t just offer temporary help—he took full responsibility for her future. He redeemed her, just as Jesus redeems us.
Like Boaz, Jesus didn’t hesitate to step in for us. He saw our need, took action, and made a way for us to be part of His family forever.
"Redemption is not just about being rescued—it’s about being restored." – Unknown
Think about a time in your life when someone helped you in a way you couldn’t help yourself. How did it feel to receive that kindness? Now, consider how Jesus has done the same for you in an even greater way.
LEAD-IN QUESTION: "Has someone ever gone out of their way to help solve a problem for you when they didn't have to? How did their actions impact your life?"
— Share this story: "John's grandson noticed how difficult it had become for John to mow his large yard. Without being asked, the grandson started coming over every weekend to take care of the lawn, just because he cared. Like Boaz, he saw a need and chose to help, even though no one required him to do so."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"In verse 3:14, Boaz sends Ruth home with grain. Why do you think he keeps providing for her even before anything is settled?" —Boaz shows his character through consistent kindness. He doesn't wait until everything is official to care for Ruth and Naomi's needs. This reflects how God often provides for us even while we're waiting for answers to prayer.
"Looking at chapter 4, verses 1-2, Boaz brings together ten elders at the town gate. Why do you think it was important to handle this matter publicly?" —Doing things the right way, in front of witnesses, protected everyone's reputation and rights. Boaz teaches us about integrity - doing what's right even when it takes extra effort.
"In verses 4-6, the closer relative first says yes, then no to redeeming the land. What changed his mind?" —When he learned he'd need to marry Ruth and possibly share his inheritance, he backed out. Sometimes what looks like a good deal on the surface requires more commitment than we expect. Boaz, however, was willing to accept the full responsibility.
"The people and elders bless Boaz in verses 11-12, comparing Ruth to Rachel and Leah. What does this tell us about how the community now viewed Ruth?" —Though Ruth started as a foreign widow, the community now accepted her as one of their own. They saw her character and blessed her as part of God's people. God can change how others see us through our faithful actions.
"Notice how Boaz follows through on his promise to Ruth without delay. What does this teach us about commitment?" —When Boaz said he would resolve the matter, he did it that very day. His actions remind us that true love and commitment show up in our actions, not just our words.
"Throughout this passage, we see God working through legal customs and traditions. How might God work through ordinary circumstances in our lives today?" —God often works through normal, everyday situations to accomplish His purposes. Just as He used property laws and customs to bring Ruth and Boaz together, He can use ordinary parts of our lives to fulfill His plans.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 3:14 - 4:12 by embracing the principles of faithfulness, integrity, and understanding God's design for redemption in their own lives. Boaz’s actions in fulfilling his role as kinsman-redeemer demonstrate the importance of commitment and doing what is right. "The Lord bless him!" Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. "He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead" (Ruth 2:20). Pastor Rick Warren emphasizes, "Integrity means doing the right thing even when no one is watching. It builds trust and reflects God's character." By being faithful and acting with integrity, we honor God and positively impact those around us.
Additionally, the story of Boaz and Ruth teaches us about God's provision and His redemptive plan. Boaz’s willingness to redeem Ruth and Naomi showcases God’s care and providence. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "God’s provision often comes through people who are faithful and willing to be used by Him." As believers, we can trust that God has a plan for our lives and that He will provide for us through His divine orchestration. This encourages us to be open to God's leading and to trust in His timing and provision.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 3:14 - 4:12
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Faithfulness in Commitment →Boaz steps up as a redeemer, showing responsibility and faithfulness to family and community. →Ruth 3:14–18
→Boldness in Advocacy →Boaz publicly claims his role as redeemer, demonstrating courage to act on God’s behalf. →Ruth 4:1–6
→Integrity and Justice →Boaz follows legal customs carefully, ensuring fairness in redeeming Ruth and Naomi’s inheritance. →Ruth 4:4–6
→Community Participation →The elders and townspeople witness and support the redemption, highlighting the power of community. →Ruth 4:9–11
→Gratitude and Praise →Naomi, Ruth, and the community bless God for His provision and faithfulness. →Ruth 4:13–17
→Hope in God’s Plan →The birth of Obed symbolizes God’s ongoing faithfulness and the fulfillment of His promises. →Ruth 4:13–17
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan associated with Ruth 3:14 - 4:12 reveals His sovereignty and faithfulness in guiding our lives and His ultimate design for redemption. Boaz’s actions reflect Christ’s redemptive love, pointing to the ultimate redemption found in Jesus. "For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people" (Titus 2:11). Pastor John Piper notes, "Boaz’s role as kinsman-redeemer is a foreshadowing of Christ’s redeeming work on the cross, where He paid the ultimate price to redeem us."
Reflecting on the story of Ruth and Boaz, we see that faithfulness, integrity, and trust in God’s provision are integral to living a life that honors Him. Boaz’s example inspires us to be faithful in our commitments and to trust in God’s redemptive plan, even when the path is uncertain. Many teachers observes, "The story of Ruth is a beautiful illustration of how God uses ordinary people and actions to bring about His extraordinary purposes."
By understanding and embracing these lessons, we can navigate life’s challenges with confidence and hope, knowing that God is with us and working for our good. Embracing the principles of faithfulness, integrity, and trust in God’s redemption enables us to live lives that reflect His character and bring glory to His name.
Session
6: "A Son is Given"
– Ruth 4:13-22
READ
- Ruth 4:13-22
- The birth of Obed, the joy of restoration, and the genealogy
leading to Christ.
OVERVIEW
In Ruth 4:13-22, the birth of Obed marks a moment of great joy and restoration for Naomi and Ruth. Obed becomes the grandfather of King David, placing Ruth and Naomi in the direct lineage leading to Christ. This passage underscores God's providence and faithfulness in bringing about redemption and fulfillment of His promises. "Then Naomi took the child in her arms and cared for him. The women living there said, 'Naomi has a son!' And they named him Obed. He was the father of Jesse, the father of David" (Ruth 4:16-17). Pastor Timothy Keller remarks, "The genealogy in Ruth shows that God's redemptive plan spans generations, culminating in the birth of Jesus, our ultimate Redeemer."
THOUGHT BY THOUGHT
The Birth of Obed: Ruth 4:13-15 highlights the birth of Obed and the restoration it brings to Naomi. "So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. When he made love to her, the Lord enabled her to conceive, and she gave birth to a son. The women said to Naomi: 'Praise be to the Lord, who this day has not left you without a guardian-redeemer. May he become famous throughout Israel! He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. For your daughter-in-law, who loves you and who is better to you than seven sons, has given him birth.'" This birth symbolizes God's restoration and blessing in their lives. Obed's birth is a testament to God's faithfulness and His ability to bring joy and renewal out of difficult circumstances.
The Joy of Restoration: Naomi's joy is evident as she embraces Obed, her grandson. Ruth 4:16-17 captures this moment: "Then Naomi took the child in her arms and cared for him. The women living there said, 'Naomi has a son!' And they named him Obed." This scene illustrates the deep joy and restoration that God provides. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "God's restoration brings hope and new beginnings, reminding us that He can turn our mourning into joy and our losses into gains."
The Genealogy Leading to Christ: Ruth 4:18-22 lists the genealogy leading to King David, and ultimately to Jesus Christ. "This, then, is the family line of Perez: Perez was the father of Hezron... Salmon the father of Boaz, Boaz the father of Obed, Obed the father of Jesse, and Jesse the father of David." This genealogy underscores the significance of Ruth and Boaz's story in God's redemptive plan. Pastor John Piper notes, "The genealogy in Ruth points to the unfolding of God's promise to bring a Savior, highlighting the importance of every individual in His divine plan."
By reflecting on these biblical principles, we can understand the profound themes of restoration, joy, and God's overarching plan for redemption through Christ. Ruth 4:13-22 offers timeless wisdom on how God works through generations to fulfill His promises and bring about His redemptive purposes.
KEY THOUGHTS
God’s Faithfulness in Restoration – Naomi, once bitter and broken, now experiences joy as God restores her family through the birth of Obed. Her story reminds us that God is always working, even when we don’t see it.
A Bigger Plan at Work – Obed wasn’t just a baby; he was part of a much larger plan. He would become the grandfather of King David, and through this family line, Jesus would be born. God’s plans always go beyond what we can see in the moment.
Ordinary People, Extraordinary Purpose – Ruth was a Moabite, an outsider, yet God used her in His plan to bring about the Savior of the world. This shows us that God often chooses unexpected people to accomplish His will.
TELL THE STORY
The story of Ruth and Naomi began with sorrow. Naomi lost her husband and both of her sons, leaving her with no hope for the future. Ruth, her loyal daughter-in-law, chose to stay with her, even though it meant facing an uncertain life.
But in Ruth 4:13-22, we see how God turned their sorrow into joy. Ruth and Boaz were married, and soon after, Ruth gave birth to a son named Obed. This was more than just a happy occasion—it was a sign of God’s faithfulness. The women of Bethlehem rejoiced with Naomi, saying, "Praise be to the Lord, who this day has not left you without a guardian-redeemer" (Ruth 4:14, NIV).
Obed became a blessing to Naomi, restoring her hope and future. But this story doesn’t end here. Obed would be the grandfather of King David, and through David’s lineage, Jesus Christ would one day be born.
What started as a story of loss and struggle became a story of redemption and promise. This reminds us that God is always working, even when life feels uncertain.
NEW TESTAMENT CONNECTION
This passage connects directly to Jesus Christ, who is called "the Son of David" in the New Testament (Matthew 1:1). The genealogy in Matthew 1 traces Jesus’ family line all the way back to Ruth and Boaz, showing that God’s plan of salvation was in motion long before Jesus was born.
Just as Obed’s birth brought joy and restoration to Naomi, the birth of Jesus brought ultimate joy and restoration to the world. Jesus is our true Redeemer, the one who came to restore our relationship with God.
Luke 2:10-11 (NIV) – "But the angel said to them, ‘Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.’"
Ruth’s story reminds us that God’s plans are always greater than what we see. Just as He used Ruth and Boaz to bring about the birth of Obed—and ultimately Jesus—He is also at work in our lives today.
THINK ABOUT THIS
Have you ever been surprised by how God brings things together in your life? Maybe you’ve gone through a hard season—loss, disappointment, or uncertainty—only to look back later and see how God was working behind the scenes all along.
Ruth and Naomi experienced deep sorrow. Naomi lost her husband and both of her sons. Ruth left everything she knew behind. But in the end, God provided restoration and joy. The birth of Obed was not just a happy ending—it was the beginning of something even greater. Obed would become the grandfather of King David, and generations later, from this very family line, Jesus would be born!
God often works in ways we don’t expect, and sometimes we only see His plan in hindsight. Can you think of a time when you didn’t understand what God was doing, but later saw His goodness in it?
“God moves in a mysterious way, His wonders to perform.” — William Cowper
As we reflect on Ruth 4:13-22, let’s remember that God is always writing a bigger story than we can see. Just as He used an ordinary family in Bethlehem to bring the Savior into the world, He is working in your life today—even in ways you don’t yet understand.
LEAD-IN QUESTION: "Can you think of a time when something difficult in your life led to an unexpected blessing? Perhaps a challenge that ended up bringing joy you couldn't have imagined?"
— Share this story: "Jane lost her job at 60 and thought her working days were over. But while babysitting her grandchildren to help her daughter, she discovered she had a gift for childcare. Now at 70, she runs a beloved story time at her local library. Like Naomi, what seemed like an ending became a beautiful new beginning."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
"In verse 13, we read that 'the Lord enabled her to conceive.' How does this remind us about God's timing in our lives?" —Ruth and Boaz's marriage and Ruth's pregnancy weren't just lucky events - God was working. Sometimes what we think is the end of our story is actually just the beginning of God's bigger plan.
"Look at verses 14-15. How do the women's words to Naomi show how drastically her life has changed since chapter 1?" —Remember how Naomi wanted to be called "Bitter"? Now she's holding a grandson, surrounded by women praising God. God can turn our sorrow into joy in ways we never expect.
"The women say Ruth is 'better to you than seven sons.' For that time period, what was significant about this statement?" —Sons were considered the greatest blessing in their culture. By saying Ruth was better than seven sons, they were giving her the highest praise possible. Sometimes our greatest blessings come through unexpected people.
"In verse 16, Naomi takes the baby and cares for him. What does this tell us about healing and restoration?" —The woman who once felt abandoned by God is now nurturing a new generation. God didn't just give Naomi a grandson - He gave her a new purpose and joy in life.
"Looking at the genealogy in verses 18-22, we see this story connects to King David and eventually to Jesus. What does this teach us about God's bigger plan?" —What seemed like a simple love story between Ruth and Boaz was actually part of God's plan to bring Jesus into the world. Our daily acts of faithfulness might be part of God's bigger plan in ways we can't see.
"This book began with death and emptiness but ends with life and fullness. How does this mirror God's work in our own lives?" —Just as God transformed Naomi's empty life into one of joy and purpose, He can bring new beginnings out of our endings. No situation is too bitter for God to turn into something beautiful.
APPLY THIS CONTENT
Christians today can apply the lessons from Ruth 4:13-22 by recognizing the significance of God’s providence, embracing the joy of restoration, and understanding the broader impact of our actions in God's redemptive plan. The birth of Obed symbolizes the fruition of God's promises and the restoration of Naomi's and Ruth's lives. "Then Naomi took the child in her arms and cared for him. The women living there said, 'Naomi has a son!'" (Ruth 4:16-17). Many teachers observes, "God’s faithfulness is evident in the way He brings hope and renewal even out of our darkest times." Embracing this truth helps us trust that God will bring restoration and blessings in our own lives, even when we face challenges.
Understanding that our actions can have far-reaching consequences, just as Ruth's faithfulness and Boaz's integrity led to the birth of Obed and ultimately to the lineage of Christ, encourages us to live with purpose and integrity. Christian author Max Lucado writes, "Every decision we make, no matter how small, can be part of God's bigger picture." By striving to live faithfully and honorably, we contribute to God's plan and reflect His character in our daily lives.
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Learns from- Ruth 4:13-22
→Growing Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
→Hope in God’s Faithfulness →The birth of Obed demonstrates God’s faithful fulfillment of His promises even after hardship. →Ruth 4:13
→Joy in New Beginnings →The community celebrates new life and restoration, encouraging joy amid past sorrow. →Ruth 4:14–15
→Legacy and Purpose →Obed’s birth connects Ruth and Naomi to the lineage of King David, highlighting lasting impact. →Ruth 4:17
→Gratitude for God’s Blessings →Naomi’s restoration is a testimony to giving thanks for God’s provision and mercy. →Ruth 4:14, 21
→Community Witness →The genealogy underscores the importance of community memory and shared history. →Ruth 4:18–22
→Trust in God’s Plan →The entire narrative concludes with trust in God’s sovereign plan unfolding perfectly. →Ruth 4:22
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The bigger picture of God’s plan associated with Ruth 4:13-22 reveals His sovereignty and faithfulness in fulfilling His promises through generations. The birth of Obed and the genealogy leading to King David and ultimately to Christ underscores the continuity of God's redemptive plan. "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). Pastor Timothy Keller remarks, "The genealogy in Ruth shows that God's redemptive plan spans generations, culminating in the birth of Jesus, our ultimate Redeemer."
Reflecting on this passage, we see that God’s faithfulness extends beyond our immediate circumstances. Naomi’s and Ruth’s story teaches us that God is working through our lives, often in ways we cannot see, to bring about His purposes. "The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy" (Psalm 126:3). By embracing the joy of restoration and recognizing the impact of our faithfulness, we can live with confidence and hope, knowing that God’s plan is perfect and He is always at work for our good.
The book of Ruth is a story of loyalty, faith, and God's providence, detailing how Ruth's dedication to her mother-in-law Naomi leads to unexpected blessings and the fulfillment of God's redemptive plan. Through Ruth's journey, we see how God's faithfulness transforms hardship into hope. Pastor John Piper notes, "Ruth's unwavering faith and loyalty remind us that God's providence often works through ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary purposes."
Session 1: "A Time of Trouble" – Ruth 1:1-14
Session 2: "Where You Go, I Will Go" – Ruth 1:15-22
Session 3: "Favor in the Fields" – Ruth 2
Session 4: "A Risk of Faith" – Ruth 3:1-13
Session 5: "A Redeemer Steps Forward" – Ruth 3:14 - 4:12
Session 6: "A Son is Given" – Ruth 4:13-22
The book of Ruth is a beautiful and deeply meaningful story of loyalty, faith, and divine providence. Set in the time of the Judges, when Israel was often caught in cycles of disobedience and hardship, Ruth's story stands out as a testament to God's unwavering care and redemption. It follows a Moabite woman, Ruth, who, after the death of her husband, chooses to remain with her Israelite mother-in-law, Naomi. Her famous declaration, "Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God" (Ruth 1:16, NIV), highlights her deep commitment not only to Naomi but also to the God of Israel. Through Ruth’s faithfulness and the kindness of Boaz, we see a beautiful foreshadowing of Christ, our ultimate Redeemer.
For Christians today, studying the Old Testament—especially books like Ruth—is essential to understanding the full narrative of God's work throughout history. While some may wonder how these ancient stories apply to modern faith, Jesus Himself affirmed the Old Testament’s importance, saying, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them” (Matthew 5:17, NIV). The Old Testament provides the foundation upon which the New Testament stands, showing God's faithfulness from generation to generation. Pastor and theologian Warren Wiersbe once noted, “The past is a rudder to guide you, not an anchor to drag you. We must learn from the past but not live in it.” The story of Ruth is one such guide, reminding believers of God’s ongoing plan for redemption, which ultimately finds its fulfillment in Jesus Christ.
Additionally, Ruth’s story teaches that God works through ordinary people and everyday choices. Charles Spurgeon once remarked, “Little do we know what may happen to us when we are going forth upon our ordinary business.” Ruth’s faithfulness in the small things—gleaning in the fields, caring for Naomi—led her to be part of God’s grand design, as she became the great-grandmother of King David and part of the lineage of Christ. This serves as an encouragement to believers today, especially senior Christians, that no stage of life is without purpose. God continues to work through us, using our faithfulness to bless others and further His kingdom.