1 Thessalonians
1 Thessalonians is Paul’s heartfelt letter to new believers, urging them to stand firm in faith and live in readiness for Christ’s return. As F. F. Bruce noted, "The message of 1 Thessalonians is profoundly relevant to our own day, as it speaks to the challenges of living faithfully in expectation of Christ's return."
Session 1:
"Hearts Connected Across Miles" - 1 Thessalonians
1
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Focus:
Paul's gratitude for the Thessalonian believers and their reputation
of faith
Purpose
Statement:
To explore how genuine faith creates lasting impressions and spreads
influence far beyond our immediate circle, encouraging participants
to reflect on their own faith journey and testimony.
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 1
Audio: (NLT)
OVERVIEW: We meet Paul, Silas, and Timothy as they write to beloved friends in Thessalonica - a bustling commercial city where these missionaries had planted a church under difficult circumstances. Though separated by distance and time, Paul's heart overflows with thanksgiving as he recalls how this young church embraced the Gospel with such authenticity that their faith became famous throughout Macedonia and beyond. We'll discover how genuine conversion transforms not just individuals, but entire communities, creating ripple effects that extend far beyond what we might imagine.
"The Gospel is only good news if it gets there in time." - Carl F.H. Henry
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: When Paul says the Thessalonians "turned to God from idols" (1:9), he's not just talking about wooden statues in temples. In Paul's time, anything that took priority over God was considered an idol - including money, status, family honor, or even religious traditions. Many of the Thessalonian converts were likely God-fearing Gentiles who already attended synagogue but hadn't fully committed to following Christ. Paul's phrase suggests they made a complete break with their former way of life, abandoning not just pagan worship but any competing loyalty that might interfere with wholehearted devotion to Jesus. This wasn't just changing religions; it was reordering their entire value system.
CULTURE CONNECTION: In our social media age, we face the same challenge of modern idolatry - the pursuit of likes, followers, career success, material comfort, or even family approval can quietly take God's place in our hearts. Just as the Thessalonians had to turn from culturally accepted priorities, we're called to examine what truly drives our decisions and emotions. When we find ourselves anxious about our image, bank account, or achievements more than our relationship with God, we're experiencing the same tension they faced. The influence on life today is profound: genuine faith still creates a reputation that speaks louder than our words, and our authentic transformation still impacts our communities in ways we may never fully realize.
MAIN POINT & SCRIPTURE CONNECTION:
Authentic Faith Creates Lasting Impact - "For not only has the word of the Lord sounded forth from you in Macedonia and Achaia, but your faith in God has gone forth everywhere, so that we need not say anything" (1:8). The Thessalonians' genuine transformation spoke so loudly that Paul didn't need to give them testimonials - their lives were their testimony. This shows us that real faith doesn't need marketing; it markets itself through authentic change that others can't ignore.
The Gospel Comes with Power, Not Just Words - "For our gospel came to you not only in word, but also in power and in the Holy Spirit and with full conviction" (1:5). Paul reminds them that their conversion wasn't just intellectual agreement but a powerful encounter with God that transformed their entire existence. This demonstrates that true Christianity involves divine power working in ordinary lives, creating extraordinary change.
Genuine Conversion Changes Everything - "And you became imitators of us and of the Lord, for you received the word in much affliction, with the joy of the Holy Spirit" (1:6). Despite facing persecution, the Thessalonians experienced supernatural joy that could only come from God. Their willingness to endure hardship while maintaining joy proved their faith was real and became a powerful witness to others watching their response to trials.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Front Porch Light"
“We
always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our
prayers. We remember before our God and Father your work produced by
faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by
hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.”
—
1
Thessalonians 1:2–3
When I was a child, I remember walking home from school in the wintertime. The sky dimmed early, and shadows grew long. But there was one house near the corner—Mrs. Eleanor’s house—that always had her front porch light on.
That light never seemed extraordinary in the daylight. But in the cold, dark dusk, it became a beacon. Whether it was for a wayward child, a delivery man, or a neighbor needing help—people remembered that porch light. They talked about it. It became a quiet reputation of welcome and safety.
I didn’t know much about Mrs. Eleanor then. She was elderly, not very mobile, and rarely seen. But now, looking back, I realize—she ministered to our neighborhood with nothing more than a steady light. She probably never knew the influence that little act had on us, but it became part of our memory and our story.
That’s what Paul saw in the Thessalonian church. They were a “porch light” in Macedonia and Achaia—shining brightly with faith, love, and hope. And Paul didn’t just thank God for what they believed—he thanked God for how their belief was lived out: faith that worked, love that labored, and hope that endured.
These weren’t loud acts. They weren’t on stage. But people noticed.
Even when separated by distance, Paul felt connected to them—heart to heart.
Reflection for Our Group
Many of us may feel like our days of great action are behind us. We don’t travel like we used to, and the world can feel far away. But genuine faith never retires. Just like Mrs. Eleanor’s porch light, our quiet witness can reach further than we realize.
A phone call to someone who’s lonely.
A consistent prayer for someone across the miles.
A word of encouragement to a nurse or neighbor.
A smile at church that says, “You’re seen and loved.”
These are faith impressions. They may seem small to us, but in God’s kingdom, they echo far.
So here’s
the question:
Where
is your porch light shining today?
And
who might be finding their way home because of it?
Quick Quiz Questions
Paul
commends the Thessalonians for their "work produced by faith"
and how their faith has become known everywhere (vv. 3, 8).
➤
In
what ways can our daily choices reflect a faith that leaves a lasting
impression beyond our immediate circles?
The
Thessalonian believers became "imitators of us and of the Lord"
and were a model to others (v. 6-7).
➤
Who
has modeled genuine faith for you, and how are you becoming a model
of faith to others—even from afar?
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously ""Hearts Connected Across Miles" - 1 Thessalonians 1
Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
Faith in Action→A faith that produces visible works and obedience to God→1 Thessalonians 1:3
Labor of Love→Selfless service and care for others motivated by love→1 Thessalonians 1:3
Steadfast Hope→Enduring trials with confident expectation in Christ’s return→1 Thessalonians 1:3, 10
Imitation of Christ→Embracing the gospel and modeling Christlike behavior, even in suffering→1 Thessalonians 1:6
Serving God Wholeheartedly→Living a life of devotion and active service to God→1 Thessalonians 1:9
Eager Anticipation of Christ→Living with a forward-looking hope, awaiting Jesus’ return→1 Thessalonians 1:10
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT: God's grand design has always been about influence rippling outward from transformed hearts. The Thessalonians didn't just receive the Gospel; they became living advertisements for its power, their faith spreading "not only in Macedonia and Achaia but everywhere" (1:8). This reveals a fundamental truth about God's plan - He doesn't just save individuals, He creates communities of influence that become launching pads for His kingdom. Every genuine conversion becomes part of a larger story where ordinary people in ordinary places become extraordinary witnesses to God's transforming power.
When we grasp this bigger picture, we realize our own faith journey isn't just about personal salvation but about participating in God's ongoing mission to reach the world. The Thessalonians became Paul's "glory and joy" (2:20) not because they were perfect, but because they allowed God's work in their lives to influence others. Today, whether we're in retirement homes, neighborhood coffee shops, or family gatherings, we're part of this same divine strategy where authentic faith creates authentic influence, and God's kingdom advances one transformed life at a time.
CROSS-REFERENCE
1. Romans 1:8
“First,
I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you, because your
faith is being reported all over the world.”
Just
like in 1 Thessalonians, Paul expresses gratitude for believers whose
faith is so genuine and impactful that it is known far and wide.
2. Philippians 1:3–5
“I
thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of
you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel
from the first day until now.”
This
passage echoes the theme of heartfelt gratitude for fellow believers
and acknowledges their enduring commitment to spreading the Gospel,
similar to the Thessalonians’ influential faith.
3. Matthew 5:14–16
“You
are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they
put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In
the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see
your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”
Jesus’
words align with the purpose of 1 Thessalonians 1 — encouraging
believers to live out a visible, contagious faith that reaches beyond
their immediate surroundings.
Session 2:
"Ministry from the Heart" - 1 Thessalonians 2
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Printable Download
Focus:
Paul's tender, authentic approach to ministry and
relationship-building
Purpose
Statement:
To examine how Paul's example of gentle, sacrificial love provides a
model for how we can care for and encourage others in our families,
church, and community.
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 2
Audio: (NLT)
OVERVIEW: Paul opens his heart and reveals the tender side of an apostle who could have demanded respect and support, but instead chose to work with his own hands while nurturing new believers like a loving parent. We encounter the opposition Paul faced in Thessalonica - angry mobs, jealous religious leaders, and political pressure - yet see how he responded with gentleness rather than harshness. His ministry philosophy comes alive as he describes himself as both a nursing mother tenderly caring for children and a loving father encouraging his own sons and daughters.
"A saint is not someone who is good but someone who experiences the goodness of God." - Thomas Merton
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: When Paul describes himself as being "gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children" (2:7), this was a shocking image in the ancient world. Male leaders were expected to be authoritative and distant, especially religious teachers. By comparing himself to a nursing mother, Paul was deliberately using feminine imagery to describe his ministry approach - something that would have been considered undignified by Greek and Roman standards. This wasn't weakness but revolutionary strength, showing that true spiritual authority comes through nurturing care rather than domineering control. Paul was redefining leadership itself.
CULTURE CONNECTION: In today's leadership-obsessed culture, where influencers demand attention and CEOs project power, Paul's maternal leadership model remains revolutionary. Whether we're grandparents, mentors, team leaders, or simply friends, his example challenges our assumptions about what makes someone truly influential. The most lasting impact often comes through gentle encouragement, patient listening, and sacrificial care rather than commanding presence or forceful personality. The influence on life today shows up in how we choose to guide others - through intimidation or inspiration, through demanding respect or earning trust through consistent love and genuine concern for others' wellbeing.
MAIN POINT & SCRIPTURE CONNECTION:
True Ministry Flows from Genuine Love - "But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children. So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us" (2:7-8). Paul's ministry wasn't a job but a relationship of deep love. He was willing to give not just his message but his very life because the people had become precious to him. This shows that effective ministry - whether formal or informal - must be rooted in genuine care for others.
Integrity Validates Our Message - "For you remember, brothers, our labor and toil: we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you, while we proclaimed to you the gospel of God" (2:9). Paul supported himself financially rather than burden the new believers, proving his motives were pure. His actions backed up his words, showing that credibility comes through consistent character rather than impressive credentials.
Patient Encouragement Builds Strong Believers - "For you know how, like a father with his children, we exhorted each one of you and encouraged you and charged you to walk in a manner worthy of God" (2:11-12). Paul combined the tenderness of a mother with the strength of a father, providing both comfort and challenge. This balance of encouragement and accountability creates the environment where people can grow strong in their faith.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Knitted Blanket"
“We
were gentle among you, like a mother caring for her little children.
We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not
only the gospel of God but our lives as well…”
—
1
Thessalonians 2:7–8
Years ago, a woman in our church—Sister Mabel—took up a quiet ministry in her retirement: knitting blankets for newborns in the congregation. She didn’t speak from the pulpit. She didn’t lead committees. But week after week, stitch by stitch, she worked those blankets with her hands and her heart.
She knew the names of the babies. She prayed over each child as she knitted. And she always included a little card: “This blanket was made with love and prayer. You are wrapped in both.”
One Sunday, years later, a young woman walked into the church holding a toddler. When she saw Sister Mabel, her eyes filled with tears. “You don’t know me,” she said, “but my son still sleeps with the blanket you made. We call it his ‘Jesus blanket.’ It reminds me of how God cared for us even when we were far from Him.”
Paul wasn’t a distant preacher. He didn’t just come to Thessalonica, preach a sermon, and leave. He came with his whole heart. He says in verse 8, “We were delighted to share not only the gospel… but our lives as well.”
He didn’t lead with pride. He led like a parent—gently, sacrificially, and consistently. He wasn’t trying to impress them—he was trying to nurture them. He served them with love so deep it looked like family.
And they felt it.
Reflection for Our Group
Some think ministry only happens in pulpits or big church programs. But Paul shows us—and Sister Mabel reminds us—that real ministry is heart-to-heart.
It happens when:
You listen without rushing.
You serve without expecting credit.
You forgive even when it hurts.
You share a story, a meal, a prayer.
Ministry from the heart is often quiet and unseen, but it leaves eternal fingerprints.
Here’s a
question to ponder today:
Who
needs a “Jesus blanket” from you this week—not made of yarn,
but made of love, time, and care?
Quick Quiz Questions
Paul
describes his ministry as one marked by gentleness, like “a nursing
mother caring for her children” (v. 7) and “a father dealing with
his own children” (v. 11).
➤
What
does this balance of tenderness and guidance teach us about how to
care for others in our own spheres of influence?
Despite
opposition, Paul remained bold in sharing the gospel out of genuine
concern, not selfish motives (vv. 2–6).
➤ When
is it hardest for you to love or serve others with sincerity—and
what helps you stay grounded in a ministry “from the heart”?
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Ministry from the Heart" - 1 Thessalonians 2
Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
Boldness in Adversity→Courageously sharing the gospel despite suffering or opposition→1 Thessalonians 2:2
Pure Motives→Serving without deceit, flattery, or selfish ambition→1 Thessalonians 2:3–5
God-Pleasing Focus→Seeking to please God rather than gain human approval→1 Thessalonians 2:4
Gentle Care→Nurturing others with tenderness, like a mother with her children→1 Thessalonians 2:7
Selfless Love→Willingness to share not just the gospel, but one’s very life→1 Thessalonians 2:8
Hard Work and Integrity→Laboring diligently without burdening others→1 Thessalonians 2:9
Blameless Conduct→Living uprightly as a model of holiness and righteousness→1 Thessalonians 2:10
Encouraging Leadership→Exhorting, comforting, and urging others like a father guiding his children→1 Thessalonians 2:11–12
Receptive to God’s Word→Embracing the message as divine truth, not mere human teaching→1 Thessalonians 2:13
Endurance in Suffering→Remaining faithful even when facing persecution→1 Thessalonians 2:14
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT: God's plan for building His kingdom operates on completely different principles than worldly power structures. Through Paul's example, we see that divine influence flows through vulnerability, authenticity, and sacrificial love rather than authority, control, or manipulation. Paul could have demanded respect as an apostle, but instead he chose to work with his hands, serve like a nurse, and encourage like a father. This wasn't just Paul's personality - it was God's strategy for creating lasting change in human hearts.
The bigger picture reveals that God builds His eternal kingdom through ordinary people who choose extraordinary love. When we lead through service, influence through care, and teach through example, we're participating in God's upside-down kingdom where the last become first and the servant becomes the leader. This divine approach creates deep, lasting transformation rather than surface compliance. Whether we're caring for grandchildren, mentoring younger believers, or simply being good neighbors, we're given the incredible privilege of representing God's heart to others through the same gentle strength Paul demonstrated.
CROSS-REFERENCE
1. 2 Corinthians 6:3–6
“We
put no stumbling block in anyone’s path, so that our ministry will
not be discredited. Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves
in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and
distresses... in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the
Holy Spirit and in sincere love.”
This
mirrors Paul’s emphasis in 1 Thessalonians 2 on integrity,
endurance, and a loving heart in ministry—even in the face of
hardship.
2. Philippians 2:3–4
“Do
nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility
value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but
each of you to the interests of the others.”
Paul's
selfless and nurturing care for the Thessalonians reflects this call
to humility and others-centered love—central themes in authentic,
heart-driven ministry.
3. John 13:34–35
“A
new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you
must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my
disciples, if you love one another.”
Jesus'
command to love sacrificially echoes Paul’s tender, familial
affection for the Thessalonians—a ministry rooted in love that
draws people into deeper relationship with God.
Session 3:
"Standing Strong When Life Gets Hard" - 1
Thessalonians 3
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Focus:
Encouragement during trials and the importance of Christian
community
Purpose
Statement:
To understand how believers can support one another through difficult
seasons and find strength in knowing that trials are part of the
Christian journey.
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 3
Audio: (NLT)
OVERVIEW: We witness Paul's pastoral heart as he sends Timothy back to check on the struggling Thessalonian believers, unable to bear the uncertainty of their spiritual condition any longer. The new Christians were facing persecution from their own families and neighbors, experiencing the reality that following Christ often brings opposition. Through Timothy's encouraging report, we see a church that not only survived trials but grew stronger through them. Paul's joy explodes from the page as he receives news of their continued faith and love, reminding us that Christian community can sustain us through life's hardest moments.
"God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world." - C.S. Lewis
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: Paul tells the Thessalonians that "we sent Timothy... to establish and exhort you in your faith, that no one be moved by these afflictions. For you yourselves know that we are destined for this" (3:2-3). The surprising part isn't that Christians face trials, but Paul's matter-of-fact statement that believers are "destined" or "appointed" for afflictions. This doesn't mean God causes our suffering, but rather that opposition is the natural result when God's kingdom confronts the world's broken systems. Paul wasn't preparing them for the possibility of trials - he was preparing them for the certainty of them, while assuring them that trials don't mean God has abandoned them.
CULTURE CONNECTION: In our comfort-seeking society where we're often told that following God should make life easier, Paul's message cuts against popular prosperity thinking. Whether we face health challenges, family conflicts, financial struggles, or simply the loneliness that comes with standing for biblical values in a secular culture, Paul reminds us that these difficulties don't indicate spiritual failure. The influence on life today means we can face hardships with realistic expectations rather than false guilt, knowing that our struggles often signal we're living authentically rather than compromising our faith. This perspective helps us support others in crisis without offering shallow platitudes, instead providing the deep comfort of shared understanding and genuine hope.
MAIN POINT & SCRIPTURE CONNECTION:
Trials Are Part of God's Plan, Not Signs of His Absence - "That no one be moved by these afflictions. For you yourselves know that we are destined for this" (3:3). Paul doesn't promise easy lives but prepares believers for reality. Afflictions aren't detours from God's plan - they're part of it. Understanding this helps us maintain faith during difficult seasons instead of questioning God's love or our spiritual condition when troubles come.
Our Faithfulness Encourages Others - "For this reason, when I could bear it no longer, I sent to learn about your faith, for fear that somehow the tempter had tempted you and our labor would be in vain" (3:5). Paul's deep concern shows how interconnected our faith journeys are. When we stand firm during trials, it strengthens not just ourselves but everyone watching our response. Our perseverance becomes a testimony that faith in God is worth maintaining even when life gets hard.
God's Strength Sustains Us Through Every Storm - "But now that Timothy has come to us from you, and has brought us the good news of your faith and love... for this reason, brothers, in all our distress and affliction we have been comforted about you through your faith" (3:6-7). The Thessalonians' continued faithfulness during persecution actually encouraged Paul in his own struggles. This reveals the beautiful truth that when we rely on God's strength to endure our trials, we become sources of strength for others facing their own battles.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: "The Tree That Didn’t Fall"
“We
sent Timothy… to strengthen and encourage you in your faith, so
that no one would be unsettled by these trials. For you know quite
well that we are destined for them.”
—
1
Thessalonians 3:2–3
After a powerful storm swept through a small town in the Midwest, a local farmer walked the edge of his field and surveyed the damage. Fences were down. A few barns lost roofing. But what struck him most was a massive old oak tree—one that had stood on the edge of his property since his grandfather’s time.
Though battered and wind-whipped, the tree was still standing.
Curious, the farmer called his neighbor who had once studied forestry. “Why do you think it didn’t fall?”
The neighbor smiled, “Because over the years, it grew roots deep and wide. But it’s not just that. Look around. That oak is part of a grove—the trees around it helped block the wind and shared strength underground. That’s how they make it through the storms.”
This is the heart of Paul’s message in 1 Thessalonians 3.
He knew the young church was facing pressure—opposition, confusion, and emotional strain. So what did he do? He sent Timothy—not just to teach doctrine, but to strengthen their hearts. Paul didn’t pretend trials were rare. He says clearly, “We were destined for them.” The Christian life is not pain-free—but it is never meant to be walked alone.
The secret to standing strong isn’t just inner resolve—it’s rooting ourselves in faith and linking arms with the body of Christ.
Reflection for Our Group
Every person in this room has weathered storms:
Health scares
Loss of loved ones
Family heartbreak
Loneliness
And sometimes we wonder: “Will I still be standing when the storm passes?”
If you’re here today, the answer is already yes.
Like the oak tree, your roots in Christ and connection to the church have helped you endure. And maybe more than ever, you’re called now to be the grove that shelters others.
So here’s
the question:
Who
around you needs your strength today? Who is standing next to you in
life’s wind—and how can you help hold them up?
Quick Quiz Questions
Paul
sent Timothy to strengthen and encourage the Thessalonians in their
faith so they wouldn’t be unsettled by trials (vv. 2–3).
➤
Who
has helped strengthen your faith during a hard season, and how can
you be that kind of support to someone else right now?
Paul
rejoices because the Thessalonians are “standing firm in the Lord”
despite hardship (v. 8).
➤ What
helps you stay grounded in your faith when life gets overwhelming—and
how does community play a role in that?
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Standing Strong When Life Gets Hard" - 1 Thessalonians 3
Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
Encouraging Others→Strengthening and uplifting fellow believers in their faith→1 Thessalonians 3:2
Expecting Trials→Recognizing that suffering is part of the Christian journey→1 Thessalonians 3:3–4
Spiritual Concern→Caring deeply about the faith and well-being of others→1 Thessalonians 3:5
Joy in Others’ Faith→Finding joy and strength in seeing others stand firm in the Lord→1 Thessalonians 3:7–9
Persistent Prayer→Praying earnestly for spiritual growth and connection→1 Thessalonians 3:10
Abounding Love and Holiness→Growing in love and striving to live blamelessly before God→1 Thessalonians 3:12–13
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT: God's plan includes difficulty not as punishment but as the natural consequence of light confronting darkness. When Paul tells the Thessalonians they're "destined" for afflictions, he's revealing a profound truth about how God's kingdom advances - not through ease and comfort, but through faithful endurance that demonstrates the reality of our hope. Trials become testimonies, and struggles become the very means by which God's power is displayed most clearly.
The bigger picture shows us that our difficulties serve a purpose far beyond our individual experience. When we stand firm through health crises, remain faithful through family tensions, or continue serving despite discouragement, we're participating in God's ancient strategy of using ordinary people's extraordinary faith to shine light into darkness. Our perseverance becomes encouragement for others facing similar battles, and our hope becomes a beacon pointing toward God's ultimate victory. Understanding this transforms our perspective on suffering from "Why me?" to "How can God use this?" - a shift that turns victims into victors and pain into purpose within God's grand redemptive plan.
CROSS-REFERENCE
1. James 1:2–4
“Consider
it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of
many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces
perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be
mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
Like
Paul in 1 Thessalonians 3, James encourages believers to view trials
as a means of spiritual growth, reinforcing that hardship is part of
the Christian walk.
2. Galatians 6:2
“Carry
each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of
Christ.”
This
highlights the importance of Christian community, echoing Paul’s
concern for the Thessalonians and the mutual support believers should
offer during seasons of suffering.
3. Romans 12:12
“Be
joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.”
This
short but powerful verse summarizes the spiritual posture Paul
encourages—remaining hopeful and prayerful while enduring
affliction, supported by a community of faith.
Session 4:
"Living
to Please God"
- 1 Thessalonians 4
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Printable Download
Focus:
Practical Christian living and hope in Christ's return
Purpose
Statement:
To discover what it means to live a life that honors God in daily
choices while holding onto the blessed hope of Christ's second coming
and reunion with loved ones.
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4
Audio: (NLT)
OVERVIEW: Paul transitions from encouragement to instruction, addressing the practical questions that young believers always ask: "How should we live now?" We encounter early Christians learning to navigate sexual purity in a culture that celebrated immorality, discovering what it means to love one another genuinely, and wrestling with grief over loved ones who had died. Paul addresses their confusion about Christ's second coming with one of Scripture's most comforting passages about reunion in heaven. Here we meet believers learning to live holy lives while maintaining hope in Christ's return, balancing earthly responsibilities with eternal perspective.
"You are not only responsible for what you say, but also for what you do not say." - Martin Luther
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: When Paul writes about Christ's return in 4:16-17, saying believers will be "caught up together... in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air," the word "meet" (Greek: apantesis) was a technical term for the ancient custom of citizens going out to escort an important dignitary back into their city. Paul isn't describing believers being permanently taken away from earth, but rather going out to meet Christ and then accompanying Him back to establish His kingdom on earth. This challenges the popular notion that the "rapture" means escaping earth forever. Instead, Paul is painting a picture of believers joining Christ's royal procession as He returns to reign over a renewed creation.
CULTURE CONNECTION: In our escapist culture, where many people fantasize about leaving their problems behind, Paul's vision offers something different - not escape from responsibility but transformation of reality. Rather than waiting to be rescued from this world, we're called to be part of God's renewal project right here and now. The influence on life today means we invest in our communities, care for creation, work for justice, and build relationships knowing that nothing we do in love is wasted. This perspective changes how we approach everything from environmental stewardship to social issues, from career choices to retirement planning - we're not just passing time until heaven, we're preparing for God's kingdom to fully come to earth.
MAIN POINT & SCRIPTURE CONNECTION:
Death Cannot Separate Us from God's Love - "But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope" (4:13). Paul addresses the believers' confusion about loved ones who had died before Christ's return. He doesn't forbid grief but transforms it by reminding them that Christian sorrow is different because it's mixed with hope. Death is temporary separation, not permanent loss, for those who belong to Christ.
Christ's Return Brings Reunion, Not Division - "For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air" (4:16-17). Paul emphasizes "together" - the living and the dead, all believers united in Christ's presence. This isn't about escape from earth but about reunion with loved ones and restoration of all things under Christ's reign.
Our Present Hope Shapes Our Current Living - "Therefore encourage one another with these words" (4:18). Paul's teaching about Christ's return wasn't meant to create speculation about timing but to provide comfort in present grief and motivation for current faithfulness. Understanding our eternal future with Christ should change how we treat each other today, making us more loving, patient, and hopeful in all our relationships.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: “The Clean Front Porch”
“As
for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to
live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask
you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more.”
—
1
Thessalonians 4:1
There’s something deeply comforting about a clean front porch.
One woman in our church—Miss Evelyn—was known for sweeping hers every morning. Even if it rained, even if she wasn’t expecting visitors, she’d be out there with her little broom, making it tidy. One day, a neighbor asked her, “Why sweep it every day when it’s just going to get dirty again?”
She smiled and said, “Because someone I love might come by today, and I want things to be ready.”
That’s what Paul is saying in 1 Thessalonians 4.
He encourages believers to live holy, loving, honorable lives—not out of guilt, but out of devotion to Christ, who could return at any time. Paul doesn’t just talk about purity and love in the abstract—he connects it to anticipation, to hope. The Christian life is about living clean because we’re expecting company.
Paul reminds them:
Live set apart (vv. 3–8)
Love one another more and more (vv. 9–10)
Lead quiet, responsible lives (vv. 11–12)
And always look forward to the return of Jesus, and the glorious reunion with those who’ve gone before us (vv. 13–18)
For
seniors, this passage holds a double gift:
Clear
daily direction
for how to live, and
Powerful
eternal hope
that the story doesn’t end here.
Reflection for Our Group
Sometimes, the older we get, the more the world feels messy. Our energy changes. Our bodies ache. Friends go home to be with the Lord. It can be tempting to feel like our purpose is winding down.
But Paul would say: Your porch still matters.
Whether it’s:
Speaking kind words instead of complaints
Praying faithfully for your church
Showing patience when it’s hard
Choosing joy in the waiting
These are the daily sweeps of a porch prepared for a King.
So here’s
the question:
What
are you sweeping today—not because you have to, but because you
love the One who might come by?
Quick Quiz Questions
Paul
urges believers to live in a way that pleases God—“more and more”
(v. 1).
➤
What
does “pleasing God” look like in your everyday life, and where
might He be calling you to grow “more and more”?
Verses
13–18 offer hope about Christ’s return and the reunion with those
who’ve died in Him.
➤ How
does this promise shape the way you live today—and how might it
bring comfort in times of loss or uncertainty?
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Living to Please God" - 1 Thessalonians 4
Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
Pursuit of Holiness→Living a sanctified life, set apart for God, especially in moral purity→1 Thessalonians 4:3–7
Self-Control→Exercising discipline over one’s body and desires in a way that honors God→1 Thessalonians 4:4–5
Respect for Others→Avoiding harm or exploitation in relationships, especially in matters of love→1 Thessalonians 4:6
Brotherly Love→Growing in sincere, active love toward fellow believers→1 Thessalonians 4:9–10
Quiet Diligence→Leading a peaceful life, minding one’s own affairs, and working faithfully→1 Thessalonians 4:11
Living Respectably→Earning the respect of outsiders through integrity
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT: God's ultimate plan isn't evacuation but renovation - not rescuing us from this world but renewing this world through us. Paul's imagery of believers meeting Christ in the air and accompanying Him back to earth reveals the beautiful truth that we're not just saved from something, we're saved for something. We're being prepared to participate in God's cosmic restoration project where heaven and earth become one, and everything sad comes untrue.
This bigger picture transforms how we live today. Every act of love, every moment of faithfulness, every effort to bring healing and hope becomes part of God's eternal kingdom breaking into the present. The comfort we offer grieving friends, the patience we show difficult family members, the care we give to struggling neighbors - all of it matters eternally because it's preparing us for our role in God's renewed creation. When we understand that Christ's return isn't the end of our earthly story but the beginning of our eternal collaboration with God in His perfect world, it changes everything about how we invest our time, energy, and love right now.
CROSS-REFERENCE
1. Colossians 3:1–2
“Since,
then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things
above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your
minds on things above, not on earthly things.”
This
verse encourages believers to live with an eternal perspective—just
as Paul urges the Thessalonians to live holy lives in light of
Christ’s return.
2. Titus 2:11–13
“For
the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It
teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and
to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age,
while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of
our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ.”
Titus
aligns directly with 1 Thessalonians 4 by connecting godly living
with the anticipation of Christ’s second coming.
3. Philippians 1:27
“Whatever
happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of
Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my
absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving
together as one for the faith of the gospel.”
This
verse reflects the call to live consistently with the Gospel—much
like Paul’s instruction to the Thessalonians to please God in all
things, especially in conduct and community.
Session 5:
"Ready and Waiting" - 1 Thessalonians 5
—
Printable Download
Focus:
Being prepared for Christ's return and living as children of
light
Purpose
Statement:
To explore how believers can live with anticipation and readiness for
Christ's return while actively encouraging one another and growing in
spiritual maturity.
Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5
Audio: (NLT)
OVERVIEW: Paul concludes his letter with a rapid-fire series of practical instructions for Christian living, like a loving father giving final advice before a long journey. We encounter believers learning to live as "children of light" in a dark world, discovering how to encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, and be patient with everyone. Paul addresses the tension between watching for Christ's return while continuing to live responsibly in the present. His closing instructions read like a handbook for healthy church life - from respecting leaders to praying without ceasing - culminating in his prayer that God would keep them blameless until Christ's coming.
"The Christian life is not a constant high. I have my moments of deep discouragement. I have to go to God in prayer with tears in my eyes, and say, 'O God, forgive me,' or 'Help me.'" - Billy Graham
THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU: “We Belong to the Day” Means More Than You Think
(Based on 1 Thessalonians 5:5–8, NIV)
“You
are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not
belong to the night or to the darkness.”
(v.5)
This may surprise you: Paul is not just talking about moral behavior here — he is giving a powerful identity statement. In the ancient world, light and darkness were often used symbolically: light stood for truth, visibility, and the presence of God; darkness implied ignorance, chaos, or sin. But Paul isn’t only saying, “Be good people.” He’s saying, “That’s not who you are anymore.” For believers, identity is not rooted in current behavior but in who we now belong to — Jesus, the Light of the World (John 8:12). So when Paul says we “belong to the day,” he’s urging us to live as if the final day — the Day of the Lord — is already casting its light on how we live now. Even more surprising, this identity is not conditional on our perfection but is already true because of our union with Christ. That means spiritual readiness isn’t based on fear, but on walking in the confidence of who we are in Him — alert, sober, and armored with faith, love, and hope (v.8).
CULTURE CONNECTION: Influence on Life Today
In today’s fast-paced and uncertain world — where news of war, economic instability, and social tension fills our screens — this passage offers a grounding truth: we are not people of fear, but people of light. While the culture encourages distraction, instant gratification, and self-preservation, God calls us to live with clear purpose, eternal focus, and active love. The message of being “ready and waiting” is not about panic or prophecy charts, but about living every day with faith, hope, and love — knowing that how we live today reflects the kingdom we truly belong to. It’s a challenge to live counter-culturally: not asleep in spiritual apathy, but alert, encouraging, and anchored in Christ, who is surely coming again.
MAIN POINT #1: Christ’s Return Will Be Sudden — So Stay Spiritually Awake
Scripture Connection:
“For
you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in
the night.”
(1
Thessalonians 5:2, NIV)
Explanation:
Paul
reminds believers that Jesus' return will be sudden and unexpected —
not something we can predict or put on a calendar. The world will be
claiming “peace and safety,” but destruction will come suddenly
(v.3). This isn’t meant to scare believers, but to call us to
watchfulness.
Staying spiritually awake means living each day with intention —
alert in prayer, sober in our choices, and anchored in the hope of
salvation. We’re not caught off guard because we live in
expectation, not ignorance.
MAIN POINT #2: You Are Children of the Light — So Live Like It
Scripture Connection:
“You
are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not
belong to the night or to the darkness.”
(1
Thessalonians 5:5, NIV)
Explanation:
Paul
tells the Thessalonians they are already marked by their new identity
in Christ. The “light” is both a symbol of truth and of belonging
to God’s Kingdom. This is a call to action: live
consistently with your identity.
Just as we dress for the day with faith, love, and the hope of
salvation (v.8), we are to walk in spiritual alertness, reflecting
the light of Christ in a dark world. It’s not just about waiting
for His return — it’s about how
we live while we wait.
MAIN POINT #3: Encourage and Build Each Other Up
Scripture Connection:
“Therefore
encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you
are doing.”
(1
Thessalonians 5:11, NIV)
Explanation:
Anticipating
Christ’s return isn’t meant to isolate us in fear or
introspection. Paul gives a relational
command:
to support and uplift one another in the faith. This is especially
important for a community facing trials or uncertainty. Spiritual
readiness includes building up fellow believers, offering comfort,
and affirming one another’s growth. Encouragement is not a side
note to discipleship — it’s central
to the Christian life.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT: “The Candle in the Window”
“So
then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake
and sober. … For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to
receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ.”
—
1
Thessalonians 5:6, 9
In the early 1940s, a mother in a small town near the train station would place a candle in her front window each evening. Her son had gone off to war, and while she didn’t know the day or hour he’d return, she was determined not to be caught unready.
Neighbors noticed. They’d walk past her house and whisper, “She’s still waiting.”
Some thought it odd… until the day he came home—unexpected, late at night. And sure enough, that candle was still burning.
He said later, “That light told me one thing—Mom was ready for me. She hadn’t forgotten.”
That’s the heart of Paul’s final chapter to the Thessalonian church.
Christ will return—suddenly, unexpectedly, like a thief in the night (v. 2). But as children of light, we aren’t supposed to live in fear or slumber. We live awake, sober, and hopeful—like people with a candle in the window.
Paul encourages believers not to obsess over dates, but to focus on how they live:
Be alert, self-controlled (v. 6)
Arm yourself with faith, love, and hope (v. 8)
Encourage and build up one another (v. 11)
Respect your leaders, live in peace, and keep your joy lit (vv. 12–16)
Never quench the Spirit, test all things, and hold onto good (vv. 19–22)
And then he ends with a promise that carries us even when we feel weak:
“The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.” (v. 24)
Reflection for Our Group
The world feels dark at times—headlines, health reports, even the aches of loneliness. But we are not people of the night. We are children of light. And the world needs to see our candles burning.
Your candle might look like:
Praying over your children and grandchildren daily
Writing notes of encouragement to others in your church
Refusing to grumble when it’s easier to complain
Remaining joyful and expectant, even in declining strength
We don't just wait for Jesus idly—we wait actively, in love and service, with light in our eyes and faith in our hearts.
So here’s
the question:
Is
your candle burning? And who might see it and be encouraged to keep
theirs burning too?
Quick Quiz Questions
Paul
calls believers “children of light” and urges them to be alert
and self-controlled as they await Christ’s return (vv. 5–8).
➤
What
does it look like to live as a “child of light” in today’s
world—and what habits help you stay spiritually alert?
Throughout
the chapter, Paul encourages mutual support, saying “build each
other up” (v. 11) and “encourage the disheartened” (v. 14).
➤
How
are you actively encouraging others in their walk with Christ—and
who is encouraging you?
SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Ready and Waiting" - 1 Thessalonians 5
Trait →Description →Scripture Reference
Spiritual Alertness→Staying awake and watchful, not lulled into complacency→1 Thessalonians 5:6
Sober-Mindedness→Living with clarity, self-control, and purpose→1 Thessalonians 5:6, 8
Faith, Love, and Hope→Wearing spiritual armor: faith and love as a breastplate, hope as a helmet→1 Thessalonians 5:8
Encouraging Others→Building up fellow believers with words and actions→1 Thessalonians 5:11
Respectful Community Life→Honoring leaders, living in peace, and supporting one another→1 Thessalonians 5:12–15
Joyful and Prayerful Living→Rejoicing always, praying continually, and giving thanks in all things→1 Thessalonians 5:16–18
TAKE-HOME THOUGHT
The message of 1 Thessalonians 5 draws our eyes toward the horizon of God’s grand plan — the return of Christ and the fulfillment of His Kingdom. But what may surprise us is how deeply this future hope shapes our present identity and behavior. God doesn’t ask us to simply wait passively for Jesus’ return; He calls us to live as citizens of the coming Kingdom now — alert, clothed in faith, love, and the hope of salvation. The "Day of the Lord" isn't meant to terrify believers, but to awaken them to their calling: to reflect Christ's light in a dark world and to support one another in growing spiritual maturity.
God’s bigger picture is that He has not destined us for wrath but for salvation through Jesus Christ (v.9). This is not just a theological concept — it’s a relational truth. We are part of a community being shaped into the image of Christ, not by fear, but by grace. When we live with readiness, encouragement, and love, we become walking signposts pointing others to the hope of Christ. In a world filled with confusion, living with purpose and anticipation becomes a powerful witness. That’s what it means to be “children of the day.”
CROSS-REFERENCE
1. Matthew 24:42–44
“Therefore
keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come.
But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time
of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not
have let his house be broken into. So you also must be ready, because
the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect
him.”
Jesus’
teaching here mirrors Paul’s exhortation for believers to stay
spiritually awake and prepared, living with constant readiness.
2. Romans 13:11–12
“And
do this, understanding the present time: The hour has already come
for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer
now than when we first believed. The night is nearly over; the day is
almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the
armor of light.”
This
passage aligns with 1 Thessalonians 5 by encouraging believers to
live as “children of the light,” actively pursuing holiness in
view of Christ’s imminent return.
3. Hebrews 10:24–25
“And
let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good
deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of
doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the
Day approaching.”
This
verse reflects Paul’s closing encouragement in 1 Thessalonians 5
for mutual support, edification, and community life while living in
expectation of “the Day
1: "Hearts Connected Across Miles" - 1 Thessalonians 1
2: "Ministry from the Heart" - 1 Thessalonians 2
3: "Standing Strong When Life Gets Hard" - 1 Thessalonians 3
4: "Living to Please God" - 1 Thessalonians 4
5: "Ready and Waiting" - 1 Thessalonians 5
Overview and Explanation of 1 Thessalonians
1 Thessalonians is one of the Apostle Paul’s earliest letters, written to encourage and strengthen the young church in Thessalonica. Despite facing persecution, these believers had remained faithful, and Paul writes with deep affection to commend their endurance, clarify misunderstandings, and encourage holy living as they await Christ’s return. It’s a letter filled with hope, practical instruction, and reassurance that their labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Paul’s gratitude for the Thessalonians is evident from the start: “We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers” (1 Thessalonians 1:2, NIV). He commends them for their faith, love, and steadfast hope in the face of suffering—an encouragement that still speaks powerfully to us today. Like the Thessalonians, many in our group have experienced trials, loss, and endurance. Paul's reminder that Christ will return, and that the dead in Christ will rise, brings comfort: “Therefore encourage one another with these words” (1 Thessalonians 4:18).
Dr. Warren Wiersbe once said, “The return of Jesus Christ is not a doctrine to be argued about, but a truth to be lived.” That truth rings throughout this letter. Paul emphasizes that knowing Christ is coming should shape how we live now—in holiness, love, and quiet diligence. He reminds believers to respect their leaders, live peacefully, and not grow weary in doing good. In today’s world, just like in Paul’s day, these messages are timely and encouraging.
Historian and theologian F.F. Bruce noted, “The Thessalonian church, though young, had become a model for others.” This letter shows us that spiritual maturity isn't about age but about obedience and steadfastness in Christ. As we study together, we’ll reflect not only on what the Thessalonians did right but also on how we too can grow in faith, encourage one another, and look forward with hope to the return of our Savior.
1 Thessalonians is a letter written by the apostle Paul, who started the church in Thessalonica. Reading this letter is much like listening to someone talking on the phone: you hear only one side of the conversation, but you can often figure out what the other person is saying. The second coming seems to permeate the letter and may be viewed in some sense as its theme.
Session 1
- Being
an Example Worth Following -
1 Thessalonians 1:1-10
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 1:1–10 (NLT)
Greetings
from Paul
1 This letter is from Paul, Silas, and
Timothy. We are writing to the church in Thessalonica, to you who
belong to God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. May God give you
grace and peace.
The
Faith of the Thessalonian Believers
2 We always thank God
for all of you and pray for you constantly.
3 As we pray to
our God and Father about you, we think of your faithful work, your
loving deeds, and the enduring hope you have because of our Lord
Jesus Christ.
4 We know, dear brothers and sisters, that
God loves you and has chosen you to be his own people. 5 For
when we brought you the Good News, it was not only with words but
also with power, for the Holy Spirit gave you full assurance that
what we said was true. And you know of our concern for you from the
way we lived when we were with you. 6 So you received the
message with joy from the Holy Spirit in spite of the severe
suffering it brought you. In this way, you imitated both us and the
Lord. 7 As a result, you have become an example to all the
believers in Greece—throughout both Macedonia and Achaia.
8 And
now the word of the Lord is ringing out from you to people
everywhere, even beyond Macedonia and Achaia, for wherever we go we
find people telling us about your faith in God. We don’t need to
tell them about it, 9 for they keep talking about the
wonderful welcome you gave us and how you turned away from idols to
serve the living and true God. 10 And they speak of how you
are looking forward to the coming of God’s Son from heaven—Jesus,
whom God raised from the dead. He is the one who has rescued us from
the terrors of the coming judgment.
QUESTION: What do you want your life to say about your faith? If someone were to write a letter about how you lived for Jesus, what would they say?
OVERVIEW
Paul’s
first letter to the Thessalonians begins with gratitude and
encouragement. The church in Thessalonica was young but vibrant,
showing faith, love, and hope even during tough times. They
were recent converts from paganism (1:9)
and were left with little external support in the midst of
persecution. Paul, Silas, and Timothy wrote to recognize their
faithfulness and remind them of their calling to live as examples for
others.
This chapter highlights how God works in the lives of believers and how their faith can spread and inspire others. It challenges us to reflect on our own walk with Christ, especially in how our faith impacts others.
As Charles Spurgeon once said, “A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.”
DISCUSSION POINTS
Faith, Love, and Hope That Produce Results (Verses 2-3)
Paul praises the Thessalonians for their faith that works, love that labors, and hope that endures.
Quote: Oswald Chambers said, “Faith never knows where it is being led, but it loves and knows the One who is leading.”
Reflect: How does your faith lead you to action? What does love inspire you to do for others?
God’s Power at Work (Verses 4-5)
Paul reminds them they were chosen by God, and the gospel came with power through the Holy Spirit.
Quote: A.W. Tozer wrote, “God is looking for those with whom He can do the impossible—what a pity that we plan only the things we can do by ourselves.”
Reflect: How has God’s power shown up in your life? Are you open to His Spirit leading you?
Being an Example Worth Following (Verses 6-8)
Despite hardships, the Thessalonians became role models for other believers. Their faith became known far and wide.
Quote: John Wesley said, “Catch on fire with enthusiasm, and people will come for miles to watch you burn.”
Reflect: What kind of example are you setting for others, especially younger generations?
Turning Fully to God (Verses 9-10)
The Thessalonians turned from idols to serve the living God and wait for Jesus’ return.
Quote: Tim Keller said, “An idol is whatever you look at and say, ‘If I have that, then I’ll feel my life has meaning.’”
Reflect: Are there “idols” in your life that distract you from fully serving God?
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
My three-year-old granddaughter is full of life and joy. Every time she runs into our house or I walk into theirs, she shouts, “Grandma, my ‘mini me’!” She is thrilled as she shouts the good news. No one can miss it. I have often suggested that she might be my “mini me” (since she is a lot like me), but she insists that I am her “mini me.” We share mannerisms and a flare for shopping, and we both tend to be optimistic. We have serious discussions about life, giggle about nothing, and enjoy afternoon naps.
Paul commends the church at Thessalonica that they have stayed strong in faith by following his example and that of other leaders—and ultimately by following Jesus, despite the hardship and suffering in their life. They have set an example of how to serve and live by the Spirit with joy. They have learned to access all the empowerment and energy they need in order to live through the Spirit.
Whoever we are, on any given day we are following someone or leading someone. Our challenge is to follow those who imitate Jesus and to lead those who need to know him. (from https://todaydevotional.com/)
TAKE
HOME
It’s
all too easy to be cynical about the possibility of people changing.
‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks’, we sometimes say. And
yet, at the heart of the Christian faith is the claim that people can
be changed, that people can be born again, that people can cross over
from death to life, that people can be transplanted from the kingdom
of darkness into the kingdom of light, that people who were lost can
be found, that people who were dead in Adam can become new creations
in Christ. The Bible expresses in many different ways the radical
change that God brings about as part of his overarching mission to
bring salvation to all nations. As transformed people, we are called
to be a part of that, just like the Thessalonians.
Hearing about the flourishing faith of someone you passed your faith onto is a cause for deep and thankful rejoicing. Is there any nobler desire than for someone to know, experience and love our God for themselves?
Faith, love and hope. For the believers in Thessalonica these were not mere sentiments, but life-changing influences that led to action. These produced, prompted and inspired how they lived.
As followers of Jesus we live a life that overflows. One that overflows from our faith in God, our experience of His love and our hope in His certain return.
Paul’s letter reminds us that our faith is not just personal—it’s meant to encourage others and shine a light for Jesus. Let’s take time this week to reflect on how our lives reflect God’s love, power, and hope.
What steps can you take to live a life that encourages and inspires others in their walk with Christ?
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
1. Thanksgiving for Believers - 1 Thessalonians 1:2: "We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers."
Philippians 1:3-5: "I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now."
Colossians 1:3-4: "We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all God’s people."
2. Faith, Love, and Hope - 1 Thessalonians 1:3: "We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ."
1 Corinthians 13:13: "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
Romans 5:1-5: "Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ... Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."
3. The Gospel’s Transforming Power - 1 Thessalonians 1:5: "Our gospel came to you not simply with words but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction."
Romans 1:16: "For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes."
2 Corinthians 5:17: "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"
4. Imitating Christ and Apostolic Examples - 1 Thessalonians 1:6: "You became imitators of us and of the Lord, for you welcomed the message in the midst of severe suffering with the joy given by the Holy Spirit."
Ephesians 5:1-2: "Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God."
Philippians 3:17: "Join together in following my example, brothers and sisters, and just as you have us as a model, keep your eyes on those who live as we do."
5. Becoming an Example to Others - 1 Thessalonians 1:7: "And so you became a model to all the believers in Macedonia and Achaia."
1 Timothy 4:12: "Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity."
Matthew 5:16: "In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."
6. Turning from Idols to Serve God - 1 Thessalonians 1:9: "They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God."
Acts 14:15: "Friends, why are you doing this? We too are only human, like you. We are bringing you good news, telling you to turn from these worthless things to the living God, who made the heavens and the earth and the sea and everything in them."
Colossians 3:5: "Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry."
7. Waiting for Christ’s Return - 1 Thessalonians 1:10: "And to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead—Jesus, who rescues us from the coming wrath."
Philippians 3:20-21: "But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body."
Titus 2:13: "While we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ."
Session 2
- A
Life Worthy of God -
1 Thessalonians 2:1-16
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 2:1-16 (NLT)
1 You yourselves know, dear brothers and sisters, that our visit to you was not a failure. 2 You know how badly we had been treated at Philippi just before we came to you and how much we suffered there. Yet our God gave us the courage to declare his Good News to you boldly, in spite of great opposition. 3 So you can see we were not preaching with any deceit or impure motives or trickery.
4 For we speak as messengers approved by God to be entrusted with the Good News. Our purpose is to please God, not people. He alone examines the motives of our hearts. 5 Never once did we try to win you with flattery, as you well know. And God is our witness that we were not pretending to be your friends just to get your money! 6 As for human praise, we have never sought it from you or anyone else.
7 As apostles of Christ we certainly had a right to make some demands of you, but instead we were like children among you. Or we were like a mother feeding and caring for her own children. 8 We loved you so much that we shared with you not only God’s Good News but our own lives, too.
9 Don’t you remember, dear brothers and sisters, how hard we worked among you? Night and day we toiled to earn a living so that we would not be a burden to any of you as we preached God’s Good News to you. 10 You yourselves are our witnesses—and so is God—that we were devout and honest and faultless toward all of you believers. 11 And you know that we treated each of you as a father treats his own children. 12 We pleaded with you, encouraged you, and urged you to live your lives in a way that God would consider worthy. For he called you to share in his Kingdom and glory.
13 Therefore, we never stop thanking God that when you received his message from us, you didn’t think of our words as mere human ideas. You accepted what we said as the very word of God—which, of course, it is. And this word continues to work in you who believe.
14 And then, dear brothers and sisters, you suffered persecution from your own countrymen. In this way, you imitated the believers in God’s churches in Judea who, because of their belief in Christ Jesus, suffered from their own people, the Jews. 15 For some of the Jews killed the prophets, and some even killed the Lord Jesus. Now they have persecuted us, too. They fail to please God and work against all humanity 16 as they try to keep us from preaching the Good News of salvation to the Gentiles. By doing this, they continue to pile up their sins. But the anger of God has caught up with them at last.
QUESTION - What does it mean to live a life that reflects God’s truth, even when facing criticism or challenges?
OVERVIEW
In 1 Thessalonians 2:1–16, Paul reflects on his ministry among the Thessalonians. He defends his motives and methods, reminding the believers of the love and integrity he showed. Paul highlights his selfless approach, working to share the gospel not out of greed or self-interest but with a sincere desire to please God. He also acknowledges the suffering the Thessalonians faced for their faith, encouraging them to remain steadfast.
DISCUSSION POINTS
The
Integrity of Gospel Ministry (vv. 1–6):
Paul
reminds the church that his ministry was not in vain. His approach
was free of deceit or impure motives. He sought to please God, not
people, and avoided manipulation.
Application: Consider how we can ensure our own lives and actions reflect authenticity and faithfulness to God’s Word.
Quote: “A preacher’s life is the life of his preaching.” – Charles Spurgeon
The
Gentle Care of a Servant (vv. 7–9):
Paul
compares his care for the Thessalonians to a nursing mother’s care
for her children. His work among them was marked by gentleness and
self-sacrifice.
Application: Think about how we can show this kind of sacrificial love to others in our church and community.
Quote: “Love is the root of missions; sacrifice is the fruit of missions.” – R.A. Torrey
A
Life Worthy of God (vv. 10–12):
Paul
emphasizes his blameless conduct and his efforts to encourage,
comfort, and urge the Thessalonians to live lives worthy of God.
Application: Reflect on what it means to live a life that brings glory to God.
Quote: “God calls us to holy living, not as a condition for His love, but as a response to it.” – John Stott
Receiving
and Enduring God’s Word (vv. 13–16):
Paul
commends the Thessalonians for receiving the gospel as the Word of
God, which works powerfully in believers. He acknowledges the
suffering they endured, likening it to the persecution faced by other
believers.
Application: Discuss how we can remain faithful in times of difficulty, trusting in the power of God’s Word.
Quote: “The Bible was not given for our information, but for our transformation.” – D.L. Moody
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Or so we’re told. But not all imitation is flattering – as parents discover when children speak or act in a way that reflects their own worst traits! For good or ill, imitation is basic to life, ingrained into our relationships with those closest to us and most influential on us. From birth onward, what we believe and how we live is shaped by what we see and hear around us. The question is not whether we will imitate, but who or what we will imitate. For Paul, the engine that drives imitation in Christian discipleship is the gospel of the crucified king. Having already noted that the Thessalonians ‘became imitators of us and of the Lord’ (1:6), Paul now shows us how the message of Christ worked out in him and his companions, in contrast with others who lived a very different way. In tracing out this pattern, Paul calls the Thessalonians and us ‘to live lives worthy of God’ (2:12).
TAKE HOME
It is hard to over state the importance of integrity, especially in the context of leadership and discipleship. Who we are often speaks louder than what we say. Consider how you might encourage, comfort and urge another believer this week to join you in living lives worthy of God. There is such power in having a good role model, someone who is worthy of imitation to learn from. Who our heroes are often reveal much about who we want to become.
Thank God for those who've gone before you, that you were able to look up to and learn from. Deeper action: Consider who in your life is the kind of believer you are seeking to increasingly become like. Be intentional in seeking to learn from them.
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
Integrity and Pure Motives in Ministry (vv. 1–6)
2 Corinthians 4:2 – "Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God."
Galatians 1:10 – "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
Proverbs 16:2 – "All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord."
Gentle Care and Sacrificial Love (vv. 7–9)
Philippians 2:3–4 – "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
John 13:34–35 – "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
1 Corinthians 9:19 – "Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible."
Living a Life Worthy of God (vv. 10–12)
Ephesians 4:1 – "As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received."
Colossians 1:10 – "So that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God."
Micah 6:8 – "He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
Receiving and Enduring God’s Word (vv. 13–16)
Hebrews 4:12 – "For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart."
James 1:22 – "Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says."
Matthew 5:10–12 – "Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me."
Session 3
- Encouraging
Each Other’s Faith -
1 Thessalonians 2:17–3:13
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 2:17–3:13 (NLT)
Timothy’s Good Report about the Church
17 Dear brothers and sisters, after we were separated from you for a little while (though our hearts never left you), we tried very hard to come back because of our intense longing to see you again. 18 We wanted very much to come to you, and I, Paul, tried again and again, but Satan prevented us. 19 After all, what gives us hope and joy, and what will be our proud reward and crown as we stand before our Lord Jesus when he returns? It is you! 20 Yes, you are our pride and joy.
Chapter 3
1 Finally, when we could stand it no longer, we decided to stay alone in Athens, 2 and we sent Timothy to visit you. He is our brother and God’s co-worker in proclaiming the Good News of Christ. We sent him to strengthen you, to encourage you in your faith, 3 and to keep you from being shaken by the troubles you were going through. But you know that we are destined for such troubles. 4 Even while we were with you, we warned you that troubles would soon come—and they did, as you well know. 5 That is why, when I could bear it no longer, I sent Timothy to find out whether your faith was still strong. I was afraid that the tempter had gotten the best of you and that our work had been useless.
6 But now Timothy has just returned, bringing us good news about your faith and love. He reports that you always remember our visit with joy and that you want to see us as much as we want to see you. 7 So we have been greatly encouraged in the midst of our troubles and suffering, dear brothers and sisters, because you have remained strong in your faith. 8 It gives us new life to know that you are standing firm in the Lord.
9 How we thank God for you! Because of you we have great joy as we enter God’s presence. 10 Night and day we pray earnestly for you, asking God to let us see you again to fill the gaps in your faith.
11 May God our Father and our Lord Jesus bring us to you very soon. 12 And may the Lord make your love for one another and for all people grow and overflow, just as our love for you overflows. 13 May he, as a result, make your hearts strong, blameless, and holy as you stand before God our Father when our Lord Jesus comes again with all his holy people. Amen.
QUESTION - How do we stay connected to and encourage one another in faith, especially during times of separation or difficulty?
OVERVIEW
In this passage, Paul expresses his deep longing to see the Thessalonian believers again. Though separated from them, his love and concern for their spiritual growth remain strong. He sends Timothy to encourage and strengthen their faith, and he rejoices upon hearing of their steadfastness despite challenges. Paul ends with a heartfelt prayer for their continued faith and love to grow as they await the coming of Christ.
DISCUSSION POINTS
The
Power of Christian Fellowship (2:17–20):
Paul
shows his deep connection with the Thessalonians, calling them his
"glory and joy." He emphasizes the importance of fellowship
and how separation causes sorrow.
Application: Reflect on the value of relationships within the church and how we can encourage one another.
Quote: “The church is not an institution but a family, where love is both taught and caught.” – Warren Wiersbe
Encouraging
Each Other’s Faith (3:1–5):
Paul
sends Timothy to strengthen and encourage the Thessalonians, knowing
that trials could test their faith. He highlights the need for mutual
support during difficult times.
Application: Consider ways to reach out to others who may be struggling in their faith, offering words of encouragement.
Quote: “A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success.” – Unknown
Rejoicing
in Steadfast Faith (3:6–10):
Paul
rejoices upon hearing Timothy's report of the Thessalonians’ faith
and love. Their perseverance brings him comfort and joy despite his
own struggles.
Application: Share testimonies of faith and celebrate how God is at work in the lives of others.
Quote: “Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible.” – Corrie Ten Boom
Praying
for Growth in Love and Holiness (3:11–13):
Paul
ends this section with a prayer, asking God to strengthen the
Thessalonians' love for one another and prepare them for the coming
of Christ.
Application: Commit to praying for others in your church and family, asking God to help them grow in love and holiness.
Quote: “Prayer does not fit us for the greater work; prayer is the greater work.” – Oswald Chambers
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
It’s not too difficult to accumulate hundreds of ‘friends’ on Facebook, even though studies suggest that we have never felt more lonely as a society. But friendship takes us to the heart of the biblical story – in a God who not only restores us to himself, but places us in relationship with others in the body of Christ. Deep friendships are formed over time through sharing life together, its highs and its lows. It’s that sort of commitment that allows us to be strong – together – in the face of struggles and opposition, and to make a difference in the places to which God has called us. Paul’s language in this passage is the sort that was used between friends expressing their feelings for each other and their commitment to each other. It allows us to plot something of what Christian friendship looks like, and what might be involved in a community that takes seriously the call to be devoted to one another.
TAKE HOME
There are many days where some extra faith strengthening and encouraging is very welcome! Paul and his companions didn't just hope that the Thessalonian believers were doing okay, they took action. Sending Timothy was a proactive choice meant to strengthen and encourage their faith.
Take time today and reach out to someone with the goal of helping to strengthen and encourage their faith. Consider what you could do today that would strengthen and encourage your own faith.
Paul wrote (and sent Timothy) to assure the Thessalonians that the trials they experienced were to be expected, and to not allow their circumstances to unsettle them in their faith. Following Jesus does not make us immune to hardship. However, our faith in Him can make all the difference when we are in the midst of hardship.
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
The Power of Christian Fellowship (2:17–20)
Hebrews 10:24–25 – "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."
Philippians 1:3–5 – "I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now."
Romans 12:10 – "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves."
Encouraging Each Other’s Faith (3:1–5)
Galatians 6:2 – "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
1 Corinthians 16:13–14 – "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love."
Isaiah 35:3–4 – "Strengthen the feeble hands, steady the knees that give way; say to those with fearful hearts, 'Be strong, do not fear; your God will come.'"
Rejoicing in Steadfast Faith (3:6–10)
Philippians 4:1 – "Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends!"
2 John 1:4 – "It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us."
3 John 1:4 – "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth."
Praying for Growth in Love and Holiness (3:11–13)
Ephesians 3:17–19 – "So that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ."
Colossians 1:9–10 – "For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God."
John 13:34–35 – "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
Session 4
- Living
a Quiet and Respectable Life -
1 Thessalonians 4:1-12
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12 (NLT)
1 Finally, dear brothers and sisters, we urge you in the name of the Lord Jesus to live in a way that pleases God, as we have taught you. You live this way already, and we encourage you to do so even more. 2 For you remember what we taught you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
3 God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. 4 Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor— 5 not in lustful passion like the pagans who do not know God and his ways. 6 Never harm or cheat a fellow believer in this matter by violating his wife, for the Lord avenges all such sins, as we have solemnly warned you before. 7 God has called us to live holy lives, not impure lives. 8 Therefore, anyone who refuses to live by these rules is not disobeying human teaching but is rejecting God, who gives his Holy Spirit to you.
9 But we don’t need to write to you about the importance of loving each other, for God himself has taught you to love one another. 10 Indeed, you already show your love for all the believers throughout Macedonia. Even so, dear brothers and sisters, we urge you to love them even more.
11 Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before. 12 Then people who are not believers will respect the way you live, and you will not need to depend on others.
QUESTION - What does it mean to live a life that pleases God, and how can we show this in our daily actions?
OVERVIEW
In 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12, the Apostle Paul encourages the believers in Thessalonica to continue growing in their faith by living lives that honor God. He focuses on three key areas: living in holiness, practicing love for one another, and leading a quiet, respectable life. Paul’s instructions are practical and aim to help believers demonstrate their faith in their everyday actions.
DISCUSSION POINTS
Living to Please God (Verses 1-2):
Paul urges the Thessalonians to excel in following the teachings they received. He reminds them that pleasing God is an ongoing effort.
Application: We should examine our own lives and ask if our actions align with God’s will.
Pursuing Holiness (Verses 3-8):
Paul specifically calls for believers to avoid sexual immorality and to control their bodies in a way that honors God. Holiness is about setting ourselves apart for God’s purposes.
Quote: Charles Spurgeon once said, "Holiness is not the way to Christ; Christ is the way to holiness."
Application: Reflect on areas in our lives where we need to seek God’s help to grow in holiness.
Loving One Another (Verses 9-10):
Paul praises the Thessalonians for their love but encourages them to increase it even more. Genuine love reflects God’s nature.
Quote: C.S. Lewis wrote, "Do not waste time bothering whether you 'love' your neighbor; act as if you did."
Application: Think of practical ways to show love to others in the church and community.
Living a Quiet and Respectable Life (Verses 11-12):
Paul advises believers to live quietly, mind their own affairs, and work with their hands. This lifestyle earns the respect of outsiders and avoids dependence on others.
Quote: John Stott observed, "Christianity is not a flight from reality but a commitment to engage with it."
Application: Reflect on how our work and behavior can be a testimony to others.
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
You can tell that things aren’t going well in a relationship if you see someone inflicting guilt or blame when it is not their place to bring judgment. That comes from the urge to force their way into the lives of others, even when they haven’t been invited into the picture.
There are many books on having proper personal boundaries because there are many of us who need to set boundaries in our lives. Some of us are not good at respecting the space of others in our relationships. Some of us should read at least one such book.
Paul addresses this weakness too. He commends his readers for their godly living and then urges them “to do this more and more.” Paul also calls them to mind their own business without being a burden to anyone. Others, whom he calls “outsiders,” are watching. We must win their respect to have a credible witness.
Now, minding our business doesn’t mean turning a blind eye to someone’s destructive behavior. No true friend or neighbor would do that, and we are all neighbors of one another (see Matthew 22:37-40). We are also to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). We must ask for wisdom on how to speak up and judge someone’s behavior, as well as on how to be quiet and trust that they know what they’re doing! It’s a matter of respecting others as we also wish to be respected.
TAKE HOME
Societies throughout the world live according to some ‘code’. At a basic level, we acknowledge it every time we drive a car and stop at red traffic lights, go on green, and travel the correct way around a roundabout. We’re aware when the ‘code’ gets broken, by ourselves or by others. Even in today’s so-called ‘secular’ society, where men and women have supposedly shaken off the shackles of religion, people still get upset when someone steals their money, spouse, or parking space. Most people live according to some code, which provides a framework for their life, decisions, and relationships. For Christians, being a follower of Jesus involves much more than changing a few features of our lifestyle here and there. It requires a complete reordering of the whole of our existence in loving service to Christ himself, whose call embraces every area of our lives and every relationship with others.
Why do you think Paul emphasizes avoiding sexual immorality as part of living a holy life? How can we practically grow in showing love for others, especially those who may be difficult to love? What does it look like to lead a "quiet life" in today’s busy and noisy world?
Living a life that pleases God isn’t about being perfect but about consistently seeking His will and reflecting His love to others. As we grow in holiness, love, and respectability, we not only honor God but also become a light to the world around us.
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
Living to Please God (Verses 1-2):
Philippians 1:9-11: Encourages believers to grow in love and live lives filled with the fruit of righteousness.
Colossians 1:10: Calls for living a life worthy of the Lord and pleasing Him in every way.
Pursuing Holiness (Verses 3-8):
1 Corinthians 6:18-20: Urges believers to flee sexual immorality and honor God with their bodies.
Hebrews 13:4: Highlights the sanctity of marriage and the importance of sexual purity.
Loving One Another (Verses 9-10):
John 13:34-35: Jesus commands His disciples to love one another as a sign of being His followers.
Romans 12:10: Encourages believers to love one another with brotherly affection and to outdo one another in showing honor.
Living a Quiet and Respectable Life (Verses 11-12):
Proverbs 31:27: Highlights the value of diligence and managing one’s affairs responsibly.
2 Thessalonians 3:10-12: Advises against idleness and promotes working quietly and independently.
Session 5
- Encourage
and Build Each Other Up -
1 Thessalonians 4:13-5:11
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 4:13-5:11 (NLT)
13 And now, dear brothers and sisters, we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died so you will not grieve like people who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and was raised to life again, we also believe that when Jesus returns, God will bring back with him the believers who have died.
15 We tell you this directly from the Lord: We who are still living when the Lord returns will not meet him ahead of those who have died. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven with a commanding shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God. First, the believers who have died will rise from their graves. 17 Then, together with them, we who are still alive and remain on the earth will be caught up in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. Then we will be with the Lord forever. 18 So encourage each other with these words.
Chapter 5
1 Now concerning how and when all this will happen, dear brothers and sisters, we don’t really need to write you. 2 For you know quite well that the day of the Lord’s return will come unexpectedly, like a thief in the night. 3 When people are saying, “Everything is peaceful and secure,” then disaster will fall on them as suddenly as a pregnant woman’s labor pains begin. And there will be no escape.
4 But you aren’t in the dark about these things, dear brothers and sisters, and you won’t be surprised when the day of the Lord comes like a thief. 5 For you are all children of the light and of the day; we don’t belong to darkness and night. 6 So be on your guard, not asleep like the others. Stay alert and be clearheaded. 7 Night is the time when people sleep and drinkers get drunk. 8 But let us who live in the light be clearheaded, protected by the armor of faith and love, and wearing as our helmet the confidence of our salvation.
9 For God chose to save us through our Lord Jesus Christ, not to pour out his anger on us. 10 Christ died for us so that, whether we are dead or alive when he returns, we can live with him forever. 11 So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.
QUESTION - What gives you hope in difficult times, especially when thinking about the future or the loss of loved ones?
OVERVIEW
In 1 Thessalonians 4:13-5:11, Paul addresses the hope believers have in the return of Christ and the importance of being prepared for that day. He comforts the Thessalonians by explaining what happens to those who have died in Christ and urges them to live alert and faithful lives, knowing that the Day of the Lord will come unexpectedly.
DISCUSSION POINTS
The Comfort of the Resurrection (4:13-18):
Paul assures believers that those who have "fallen asleep" in Christ will rise again when Jesus returns. This is a source of hope, not sorrow.
Quote: "The resurrection of the dead is the Christian’s hope; it is the mainspring of all our joy." – Charles Spurgeon
Application: Encourage one another with the promise of eternal life and reflect on how this hope impacts our grief and daily living.
The Day of the Lord (5:1-3):
Paul explains that Christ’s return will come like a thief in the night—unexpected and sudden. This underscores the need to live ready and faithful lives.
Quote: "The Christian’s whole life is lived in preparation for the coming of the Lord." – John Stott
Application: Consider whether our lives reflect readiness for Christ’s return and what changes we might make to stay spiritually alert.
Living as Children of Light (5:4-8):
Believers are called to live as children of the light, marked by faith, love, and the hope of salvation. This contrasts with the darkness of the world.
Quote: "Faith is the eye that sees Him, love is the hand that clings to Him, and hope is the anchor that holds us steady until He comes." – Warren Wiersbe
Application: Reflect on how we can strengthen our faith, love, and hope in practical ways each day.
Encourage and Build Each Other Up (5:9-11):
Paul reminds believers that God has destined them for salvation, not wrath. This truth should encourage and inspire mutual support within the community.
Quote: "Encouragement is oxygen to the soul; we need it daily to thrive in our faith." – Anonymous
Application: Look for ways to uplift others in their walk with Christ, reminding them of God’s promises.
Discussion Questions:
How does the promise of Christ’s return shape the way we approach challenges and loss?
What does it mean to live as children of light in a world often filled with darkness?
How can we encourage one another to stay ready and hopeful for the Lord’s return?
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
‘I hope to get a pay-rise this year.’ ‘I hope it doesn’t rain much next week.’ ‘I hope UK wins this season.’ Unlike those wishes – which may or may not happen – hope in the Bible is always sure. Christians might disagree on the finer details about what will happen in the future, but we share a conviction that God’s good plan for all things will come to pass: Jesus will return, evil and suffering will be done away with, we will be given resurrected bodies, and will live in a new heaven and earth. In the meantime, this amazing hope allows us to endure and be resilient in the face of difficulties, and brings confidence and joy as we live in anticipation of that great day
TAKE HOME
How many of us do not like being in an unfamiliar place when it is dark? Driving at night in a place I am not familiar with can cause us to become more alert.
We are living in very dark times in our world today, and we need to be more alert to all that is going on around us. But as followers of Jesus, we may be surrounded by the dark, sin, and evil of this world. But we have the light of the World living in us!
Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 5: 4-6, “But you (followers of Jesus) aren’t in the dark about these things, dear brothers and sisters, and you won’t be surprised when the day of the Lord comes like a thief. For you are all children of the light and of the day; we don’t belong to the darkness and night. So be on your guard, not asleep like others. Stay alert and be clear-headed.”
As followers of Jesus, we do not need to be surprised and shocked by all that is going on in this dark, sinful, evil world. God’s Word clearly tells us that this is what is going to happen in our world.
But as followers of Jesus, we must:
Be on your guard! Be ready, be prepared, and be right with the Lord! Be filled with the oil of the Holy Spirit, and be ready with the Word of God in our lives. I must be prepared and ready today to meet the Lord!
Be awake! This is not the time to become weary, tired, and spiritually apathetic. This is the time to be awake and ready to accomplish what God wants me to do today! Be awake and be alert!
Be clear-headed! This means to be focused on Jesus and to be focused on His priorities in my life! This is not the time to become confused, overwhelmed, and fearful! We need to be clear-headed and think with a sound mind. “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of love, and of power and of a sound mind.”
Yes, we are living in a dark world, but we are not of this world! Lord, help me today to be alert, awake, and clear-headed on my journey!
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
Resurrection Hope
"Jesus said to her, 'I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?'"
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead"
"For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep."
The Lord's Return
"He is not here; he has risen! Remember how he told you, while he was still with you in Galilee: 'The Son of Man must be delivered over to the hands of sinners, be crucified and on the third day be raised again.'"
"The angel said to the women, 'Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay.'"
Encouragement for Believers
"If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you."
"We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life."
These scriptures reinforce the themes of resurrection hope, the Lord's return, and encouragement for believers found in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-5:11.
Session 6 - Stay
Spiritually Alert -
1 Thessalonians 5:12-28
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TEXT - 1 Thessalonians 5:12-28 (NLT)
12 Dear brothers and sisters, honor those who are your leaders in the Lord’s work. They work hard among you and give you spiritual guidance. 13 Show them great respect and wholehearted love because of their work. And live peacefully with each other.
14 Brothers and sisters, we urge you to warn those who are lazy. Encourage those who are timid. Take tender care of those who are weak. Be patient with everyone.
15 See that no one pays back evil for evil, but always try to do good to each other and to all people.
16 Always be joyful. 17 Never stop praying. 18 Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.
19 Do not stifle the Holy Spirit. 20 Do not scoff at prophecies, 21 but test everything that is said. Hold on to what is good. 22 Stay away from every kind of evil.
23 Now may the God of peace make you holy in every way, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes again. 24 God will make this happen, for he who calls you is faithful.
25 Dear brothers and sisters, pray for us.
26 Greet all the brothers and sisters with a sacred kiss.
27 I command you in the name of the Lord to read this letter to all the brothers and sisters.
28 May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.
QUESTION-“What does it look like for a church to live in harmony and grow together as God’s family?”
OVERVIEW
In 1 Thessalonians 5:12-28, Paul gives the Thessalonian church practical instructions for living in community and preparing for Christ's return. He speaks about respecting church leaders, living peacefully with others, and fostering spiritual growth. He concludes with encouragement to pray, rejoice, and depend on God’s faithfulness. These teachings remind us how to live as a reflection of God's love, no matter our stage in life.
DISCUSSION POINTS
Respect and Support Your Leaders (vv. 12-13)
Paul urges believers to respect and love those who lead and guide the church.
Teaching Point: What are ways we can show gratitude to our pastors and elders today?
Quote: “A great leader’s courage to fulfill his vision comes from passion, not position.” – John C. Maxwell
Live in Harmony with One Another (vv. 14-15)
Paul calls the church to encourage the timid, help the weak, and be patient with everyone.
Teaching Point: How can we better reflect patience and forgiveness in our relationships?
Quote: “True Christian love is not measured by what we feel but by what we do.” – Charles Spurgeon
Rejoice, Pray, and Give Thanks (vv. 16-18)
These three commands form a way of life that keeps us close to God in all circumstances.
Teaching Point: How can daily habits of rejoicing, prayer, and gratitude change our perspective?
Quote: “To be grateful is to recognize the love of God in everything He has given us—and He has given us everything.” – Thomas Merton
Stay Spiritually Alert (vv. 19-22)
Paul warns against quenching the Spirit and encourages testing everything to hold onto what is good.
Teaching Point: How can we remain open to God’s Spirit while discerning truth?
Quote: “We need never shout across the spaces to an absent God. He is nearer than our own soul, closer than our most secret thoughts.” – A.W. Tozer
Trust in God’s Faithfulness (vv. 23-24)
Paul reminds the church that God will sanctify them completely and keep them blameless until Christ’s return.
Teaching Point: How does trusting in God’s faithfulness help us endure life’s challenges?
Quote: “God is too good to be unkind and too wise to be mistaken. And when we cannot trace His hand, we must trust His heart.” – Charles Spurgeon
Final Blessing and Closing (vv. 25-28)
Paul ends with a prayer request, a reminder of the importance of fellowship, and a blessing of grace.
Teaching Point: Why is fellowship essential to our spiritual growth and encouragement?
Quote: “The church is not a museum for saints but a hospital for sinners.” – Augustine
DEVOTIONAL THOUGHT
‘I love humanity; it’s people I can’t stand.’ So says Linus in one of Charles M. Schultz’s Peanuts comic strips. Many Christians have their variation of that sentiment which goes along the lines of getting along fine with Jesus but struggling with the church. Wouldn’t we be better off just loving Jesus and not worrying about church? In fact, however, being a Christian is bound up with belonging to the church. The gospel which saves us as believers in Christ is also the gospel which incorporates us into the body of Christ. As individual followers of Jesus, we’re brought into the family of God (five times in this passage Paul calls us ‘brothers and sisters’), with a set of responsibilities in how we relate to each other and what we do when we meet together.
TAKE HOME
God walks with you—walk beside your friend
It seems everything we do in life is based on performance and how well we do it. The pressure put on society to be the very best at everything we do is immense. How many of us struggle because we can’t keep up with all this performance-driven stuff! The pop song “You’ll Never Walk Alone” is loved by so many. Why? Because it sends a message we each need, that someone will walk through daily life with us. If you’re married, hopefully your partner is that person who is your best and most supportive friend. I think being married to the wrong person would be hell on earth.
God walks with you today as your friend. You may have heard the poem about the man who walked along the beach and saw a second pair of footprints in the sand. He was told the second pair of footprints were God’s. But then he became angry, as he realized that there were times when only one set of footprints was there. Where was God for him then? “It was then that I carried you”, God replied.
Learning to have that trust in God is so valuable not only for our faith, but also our peace of mind. When you live knowing that you are held by the hands of God at all times, you breathe a little easier, sleep a little sounder and worry just a little less. Because you trust in God to always be there for you—and most importantly to never leave. Psalm 71:5 says: “For You are my hope; O Lord God, You are my trust from my youth and the source of my confidence.”
SCRIPTURE RESEARCH
Respecting Church Leaders
"Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account." (Hebrews 13:17)
"The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching." (1 Timothy 5:17)
Living in Peace and Mutual Support
"Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord." (Hebrews 12:14)
"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2)
Rejoicing, Praying, and Giving Thanks
"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!" (Philippians 4:4)
"And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests." (Ephesians 6:18)
"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Testing Prophecies and Holding to Good
"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1)
"But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil." (Hebrews 5:14)
God's Faithfulness in Sanctification
"Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." (Philippians 1:6)
"To him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy." (Jude 1:24)