1, 2 & 3 John

Session 1: "Anchored in Truth" — 1 John 1:1-2:2

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: The certainty of Christ's reality, the blessing of fellowship with God, and God's faithful forgiveness.

— Audio & Text for this series of study 

Hymn to Hum:  The Church's One Foundation-Piano — The Solid Rock-Gospel — Standing On the Promises of God-Congregational

What to Look For

As you read this passage, watch for John's emphasis on what he personally saw and touched in Jesus. Notice how he connects our fellowship with God to walking in the light. Pay attention to God's promise about confessing our sins.

Personal Reflection Questions

If you could have dinner with any person from your past who has gone to heaven, what would you most want to tell them about how your faith has grown since they knew you?

When you think about all the changes you've witnessed in your lifetime, what about Jesus has remained most constant and comforting to you?

Read: 1 John 1:1-2:2

Audio:  (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Word of Life- 1 John 1:1–4

Why Study 1 John?- 1 John 1:1–4

Three Spurious Claims- 1 John 1:5–2:2 

Overview

John wrote this letter as an elderly man, probably in his 80s or 90s. He had watched the early church grow and face many challenges. False teachers were saying Jesus wasn't really human or that sin didn't matter for believers. John writes like a grandfather protecting his spiritual family. In our time, we also face confusing messages about who Jesus really is and whether our past mistakes define us. John's words speak directly to hearts that have walked with Christ for decades but sometimes wonder if they truly matter to God anymore.

This May Surprise You

Many people think "walking in the light" means being perfect and never sinning. But look carefully at verses 8-10. John says if we claim to have no sin, we're fooling ourselves. Walking in the light actually means being honest about our failures and bringing them to God. It's like the difference between hiding a health problem from your doctor versus being completely honest so you can get help. God can't heal what we won't reveal.

Seeds for Thought

"That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes..." (v.1) Comment: John emphasizes that faith isn't based on wishful thinking. He and the other apostles actually lived with Jesus for three years. They heard His voice, watched Him eat, and touched His scars after the resurrection.

"We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us" (v.3) Comment: John shares his experiences not to brag, but to invite others into the same relationship. Fellowship here means much more than church attendance. It means sharing life with God and with other believers.

"If we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another" (v.7) Comment: Walking in the light means living openly and honestly before God. When we do this, it naturally brings us closer to other believers who are doing the same thing.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins" (v.9) Comment: This isn't about confessing to a priest, but about honestly admitting our failures to God. He promises to forgive not because we deserve it, but because Jesus paid for our sins.

"If anybody does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One" (2:1) Comment: An advocate is like a defense lawyer who speaks for us. Even when we fail, Jesus is there representing us before the Father.

Take-Home Thought

After decades of following Christ, it's easy to feel like our best years of service are behind us. Maybe you can't teach Sunday school anymore or serve on committees like you used to. John reminds us that our faith isn't built on what we do for God, but on what Jesus has already done for us. The same Christ who called you to follow Him years ago is still with you today. Your prayers still matter. Your example still influences others. Your fellowship with God is just as real whether you're leading a ministry or sitting quietly in your living room.

God's plan has always included seasons of active service and seasons of quiet faithfulness. Think about how many people in the Bible made their greatest impact in their later years. Moses was 80 when he led Israel out of Egypt. Abraham was 100 when Isaac was born. Anna was 84 when she recognized baby Jesus in the temple. Your anchor in Christ is just as secure now as it ever was, and God still has purposes for your life.

Quotes

Charles Spurgeon: "I have learned to kiss the wave that throws me against the Rock of Ages."

John Chrysostom: "Let us not ask whether we are able to do great things, but whether we are able to do small things with great love."

Biblical Connections

"In the beginning was the Word" (John 1:1) - John's phrase "from the beginning" echoes his Gospel's opening, connecting Jesus to creation itself.

"God is light; in him there is no darkness at all" (1 John 1:5) - This connects to Jesus saying "I am the light of the world" (John 8:12) and "You are the light of the world" (Matthew 5:14).

"The blood of Jesus...purifies us from all sin" (1 John 1:7) - This echoes Hebrews 9:22: "Without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness."

"He is faithful and just" (1 John 1:9) - This connects to Deuteronomy 32:4: "He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong."

"Jesus Christ, the Righteous One" (1 John 2:1) - This title connects to Isaiah 53:11: "My righteous servant will justify many" and Acts 3:14: "You disowned the Holy and Righteous One."

Devotional Thought— Anchored in Truth

There’s an old story about a lighthouse keeper who tended a lonely beacon off the rocky coast of Maine. Year after year, storms would rage, waves would crash, and ships would pass by—some lost in the fog, others guided safely home. He rarely saw anyone, but he kept the lamp burning without fail. When asked why, he simply said, “Because someone out there is depending on the light, even if they never see me.”

In 1 John, we hear from one who did see the Light—John walked with Jesus, touched Him, listened to Him. And now he writes to assure us that Jesus is not just a memory or a figure in a dusty book. He is real, eternal, and still shining today. “We write this to make our joy complete,” John says, because when we know Jesus is still our Light, even in the fog of age or regret, joy begins to rise again.

Yes, we may no longer teach Sunday School or serve on the committee, but we are still keepers of the light. We are not forgotten. His fellowship is still ours, and His forgiveness—full and fresh—still flows.

As John Stott once said, “The gospel is good news of mercy to the undeserving. The symbol of the religion of Jesus is the cross, not the scales.”

So today, let’s rest in this: Christ is real. He has never left us. And He still calls us His own.

Culture Connection

In a world that prizes certainty and truth, 1 John 1:1-2:2 reminds us that our faith is rooted in a real person, not just ideas. Today’s constant changes can leave us unsettled, but this passage calls us back to the solid ground of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. Embracing that reality helps us live with confidence and share hope with those around us.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Confident Trust
Description: Believing fully in Jesus’ real presence and power in our lives, even when we can’t see him.
Reference: 1 John 1:1
Comment: When we trust that Christ is truly with us, we face doubts and regrets with hope instead of fear.
Reflection Questions:

How does remembering Jesus’ real life on earth help me face today’s worries?

In what situation this week can I choose to trust Christ first?

Community Fellowship
Description: Cherishing honest, open relationships with other believers and with God.
Reference: 1 John 1:3
Comment: A fellowship mindset reminds us that we belong together. It nudges us to reach out instead of withdrawing.
Reflection Questions:

Who in our church family might need a phone call or visit this week?

What keeps me from sharing my struggles, and how can I be more open?

Forgiving Attitude
Description: Embracing God’s promise to forgive our sins and offering forgiveness to ourselves and others.
Reference: 1 John 1:9
Comment: Letting go of past mistakes helps us live in the freedom and peace Christ provides.
Reflection Questions:

What regrets am I holding onto that need to be confessed to God today?

Is there someone I need to forgive this week to reflect God’s grace?

Session 2: "Faithful Hearts, Faithful Lives" — 1 John 2:3-17

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: How a lifetime of knowing God shows itself in continued obedience and wisdom about worldly distractions.

Hymn to Hum: At Calvary-Congregational — Great is Thy Faithfulness-Duet — My Hope is Built on Nothing Less-Church Choir

What to Look For

Notice how John connects truly knowing God with keeping His commands. Watch for the contrast between loving the world and loving the Father. Pay attention to what John says about things that pass away versus things that last forever.

Personal Reflection Questions

What habit or value that seemed important to you 30 years ago now seems less significant, and what has grown more precious to you over time?

If you could give one piece of wisdom to a young person about what really matters in life, what would it be based on what you've learned through the years?

Read: 1 John 2:3-17

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Word of Life- 1 John 1:1–4

Why Study 1 John?- 1 John 1:1–4

Three Spurious Claims- 1 John 1:5–2:2

Overview

John is writing to people who have been Christians for a while, just like your group. He's not giving basic lessons about becoming a Christian, but deeper truths about living as a mature believer. In John's day, the Roman world was obsessed with wealth, entertainment, and social status. Sound familiar? Today we're surrounded by messages about success, youth, and having the latest things. But John reminds us that people who have walked with God for years develop a different perspective. You've seen fads come and go. You've watched some friends chase after things that didn't satisfy them. Your experience has taught you what John is saying here - that some things last and some things don't.

This May Surprise You

When John talks about keeping God's commands, he's not creating a checklist for earning God's love. Look at verse 5 - he says keeping commands is how "God's love is made complete in us." It's like the difference between a child obeying rules to avoid punishment versus an adult child caring for aging parents out of love. After years of knowing God's goodness, our obedience flows from gratitude, not fear. The commands aren't burdens but ways to express the love that's already in our hearts.

Seeds for Thought

"We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands" (v.3) Comment: This isn't about perfect rule-following but about the natural response of a heart that truly knows God. After decades with Christ, obedience becomes less about duty and more about love.

"But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them" (v.5) Comment: The word "complete" here means mature or fully developed. Like a marriage that grows deeper over years, our love for God matures through faithful obedience.

"I am writing to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning" (v.13) Comment: John specifically addresses mature believers. Your years of experience have given you a deep, settled knowledge of Christ that younger believers are still developing.

"Do not love the world or anything in the world" (v.15) Comment: This doesn't mean we can't enjoy God's creation, but that we shouldn't let temporary things become our main focus or source of security.

"The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever" (v.17) Comment: You've lived long enough to see this truth. Fashion changes, technology becomes outdated, but acts of love and faithfulness have eternal value.

Take-Home Thought

There's something beautiful about Christians who have been faithful for decades. You've developed what we might call "spiritual instincts" - you can sense when something doesn't align with God's heart. You're not easily fooled by get-rich-quick schemes or flashy promises. You've learned to find joy in simple things like a phone call from a friend, a beautiful sunset, or time spent in prayer.

This passage celebrates the wisdom that comes with spiritual maturity. While the world tells us that aging means becoming less relevant, God sees it differently. Your quiet faithfulness in reading your Bible, praying for others, and showing kindness in small ways is incredibly valuable to Him. You may not be able to serve in all the ways you once did, but your character has been shaped by years of walking with Christ. That's not something that can be learned quickly or faked.

John reminds us that the things the world chases after don't last. But the love you've shown, the prayers you've prayed, the faithful example you've set - these things have eternal value. Your life is a testimony that following Christ is worth it, not just for a season, but for a lifetime.

Quotes

A.W. Tozer: "The man who has God for his treasure has all things in One. Many ordinary treasures may be denied him, or if he is allowed to have them, the enjoyment of them will be so tempered that they will never be necessary to his happiness."

Elisabeth Elliot: "The fact that I am a woman does not make me a different kind of Christian, but the fact that I am a Christian makes me a different kind of woman."

Biblical Connections

"Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did" (1 John 2:6) - This connects to Jesus' words in John 13:15: "I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you."

"I write to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven" (1 John 2:12) - This echoes Ephesians 4:32: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."

"The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life" (1 John 2:16) - This directly parallels the temptation of Eve in Genesis 3:6: "The woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eyes, and also desirable for gaining wisdom."

"Do not love the world" (1 John 2:15) - This connects to Jesus' words in John 15:19: "If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world."

"Whoever does the will of God lives forever" (1 John 2:17) - This echoes Jesus' promise in John 8:51: "Whoever obeys my word will never see death."

Devotional Thought — Faithful Hearts, Faithful Lives

There’s a tale of an old orchard keeper who tended the same grove for over 50 years. In spring, he pruned. In summer, he watched and watered. In autumn, he harvested. One day, a visitor asked him, “Don’t you ever get tired of the same trees?” He smiled and said, “I don’t watch the bark—I watch the fruit.”

John writes, “We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands” (1 John 2:3, NIV). For many of us, it’s been a long road of daily choosing Christ. Maybe it hasn’t always been exciting, and we certainly haven’t been perfect. But the fruit has come—quiet obedience, learned wisdom, and a heart slowly shaped by love.

Sometimes the world rushes past with new voices, flashy ideas, and distractions that promise more but deliver less. But John reminds us not to chase those things. “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever” (v. 17).

Though our service may be quieter now—perhaps unseen by most—it is not forgotten by God. As A.W. Tozer said, “It is not what a man does that determines whether his work is sacred or secular, it is why he does it.”

So today, we give thanks—not for fast results or loud applause—but for a steady, faithful walk. Our lives, anchored in Christ, are bearing fruit that lasts.

Culture Connection

Today’s world often chases the new and the flashy, but 1 John 2:3-17 reminds us that steady faithfulness counts more than passing trends. In an age of constant distraction, living out decades of obedience shows that our quiet, daily choices still honor God and stand firm against fleeting pleasures.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Obedient Faithfulness

Description: Real love for Jesus is proven by following his commands every day.
Reference: 1 John 2:3-6
Comment: After many years of walking with Christ, obedience becomes a natural expression of our faith and love for him.
Reflection Questions:

When have I experienced peace by choosing to obey God’s word?

Which command of Jesus feels most challenging for me right now?

Wise Discernment

Description: Learning to recognize and reject the world’s empty promises in favor of lasting truth.
Reference: 1 John 2:15-17
Comment: As we grow older, we learn that pleasures of the flesh and pride of life fade, but a heart aligned with God endures.
Reflection Questions:

What worldly distraction tempts me most, and how can I redirect my focus to Christ?

How can I practice pausing before I give in to a fleeting desire?

Eternal Focus

Description: Fixing our hearts on the things that last forever rather than on temporary gains.
Reference: 1 John 2:17
Comment: Embracing an eternal perspective brings peace, reminding us that our service to God has everlasting value.
Reflection Questions:

What hope of eternity brings me the greatest comfort when I feel limited by age or health?

How can I remind myself each morning that my life in Christ has lasting significance?

Session 3: "Holding Fast in Changing Times" — 1 John 2:18-27

Session Notes— Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Using spiritual maturity to discern truth from error in our rapidly changing world.
Purpose Statement: To draw on years of biblical knowledge and spiritual experience to navigate confusing teachings and cultural changes, while finding confidence in the unchanging truth we've treasured for decades.

Hymn to Hum: I Am Resolved-Congregational — I Know Whom I Have Believed-Lively Group — I'd rather have Jesus-Gospel

What to Look For

Watch for John's warnings about people who deny that Jesus is the Christ. Notice how he reminds his readers that they already have knowledge and don't need anyone to teach them basic truths. Pay attention to his call to remain faithful to what they heard "from the beginning."

Personal Reflection Questions

What's one change in society or the church that has surprised you most in your lifetime, and how has your faith helped you process that change?

When you hear confusing or contradictory religious ideas today, what biblical truth do you find yourself returning to as your anchor?

Read: 1 John 2:18-27

Alistair Begg Sermon    A Word of Warning- 1 John 2:18–27 

Overview

John was writing during a time when false teachers were spreading new ideas about Jesus. Some said He wasn't really God, others claimed He wasn't truly human. These teachers made their ideas sound sophisticated and appealing to people who wanted something "fresh" or "deeper." Sound familiar? Today we hear similar confusion about who Jesus really is. Some say He was just a good teacher, others claim Christianity needs to be updated for modern times. But John reminds his readers that they don't need the latest spiritual fad. You've lived long enough to see many religious trends come and go. Your years of Bible study and faithful living have given you something precious - the ability to recognize truth from error based on what you've known all along.

This May Surprise You

When John says "you do not need anyone to teach you" in verse 27, he's not saying we should never learn from others or that pastors and teachers aren't important. He's talking about the Holy Spirit's work in mature believers who already know the basic truths of faith. Think of it like this - if someone tried to convince you that your spouse wasn't really your spouse, you wouldn't need an expert to tell you they were wrong. You know your spouse personally. After decades of walking with Christ, you have that same kind of personal knowledge that helps you spot false teaching.

Seeds for Thought

"Dear children, this is the last hour; and as you have heard that the antichrist is coming" (v.18) Comment: John isn't trying to scare people but to remind them that opposition to Christ has always existed. Every generation faces people who try to undermine faith in Jesus.

"They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us" (v.19) Comment: Sometimes the most dangerous false teachers are those who once seemed to be part of the church. Their departure reveals what was always true about their hearts.

"But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and all of you know the truth" (v.20) Comment: The Holy Spirit living in believers gives them the ability to recognize truth. This is especially strong in mature Christians who have years of experience with God's Word.

"Who is the liar? It is whoever denies that Jesus is the Christ" (v.22) Comment: The central issue isn't about minor disagreements but about the identity of Jesus. Anyone who teaches that Jesus isn't both fully God and fully human is spreading dangerous error.

"See that what you have heard from the beginning remains in you" (v.24) Comment: The gospel you learned years ago is still the gospel today. God's truth doesn't need to be updated or made more relevant for modern times.

Take-Home Thought

In a world that seems to change daily, it's comforting to know that some things never change. The Jesus you gave your heart to decades ago is the same Jesus who saves people today. The Bible you've studied and loved all these years is still God's reliable Word. The faith that has sustained you through life's ups and downs is still solid and true.

Your years of experience have given you something precious - spiritual discernment. When you hear new religious ideas, something inside you can sense whether they align with what you know about God's character and His Word. That's not stubbornness or closed-mindedness; that's wisdom. You've seen enough spiritual fads come and go to know that what sounds new and exciting often turns out to be old error dressed up in modern language.

Don't let anyone make you feel like your long-held faith is outdated or simple. The truth you've clung to for years has produced good fruit in your life. It's given you peace in storms, hope in dark times, and purpose through every season. John reminds us that mature believers like you are guardians of truth, not because you're perfect, but because you've learned to distinguish between what passes away and what lasts forever.

Quotes

Charles Spurgeon: "Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right."

John Stott: "We must allow the Word of God to confront us, to disturb our security, to undermine our complacency and to overthrow our patterns of thought and behavior."

Biblical Connections

"You know the truth" (1 John 2:21) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 8:32: "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

"The anointing you received from him remains in you" (1 John 2:27) - This echoes 1 Corinthians 2:12: "What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us."

"Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father" (1 John 2:23) - This directly connects to Jesus' words in John 14:6: "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

"What you have heard from the beginning" (1 John 2:24) - This phrase echoes 1 John 1:1 and connects to 2 John 1:6: "This is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love."

"This is what he promised us—eternal life" (1 John 2:25) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 10:28: "I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand."

Devotional Thought— Holding Fast in Changing Times

A wise old captain once said, “The stars don’t move, even if the sea does.” He had spent a lifetime guiding ships, not by the noise of the wind or the waves, but by the steady constellations overhead. He trusted what had proven true again and again.

In this passage, John speaks to seasoned believers—those who have walked with Christ long enough to notice when something doesn’t sound quite right. “You have an anointing from the Holy One, and all of you know the truth” (1 John 2:20, NIV). We may not be scholars, but we know our Shepherd’s voice.

Today’s world shifts quickly. New teachings come and go. Culture changes its mind overnight. But the truth of Christ does not change. And neither does the Spirit He gave us to help us discern right from wrong. John reminds us that “the anointing you received from him remains in you” (v. 27). That means we don’t need to chase after every new idea. We already have what we need—God’s Word and God’s Spirit.

Charles Spurgeon once said, “Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right.”

So even if the world feels unfamiliar, we are not lost. The truth is still steady, and our years of walking with the Lord are not just memories—they are anchors.

Culture Connection

In a culture that often measures worth by youth, productivity, or social status, 1 John 2:28–3:10 reminds us that our true value comes from being God’s children. No matter our age or ability, we have a secure place in his family. This truth gives purpose and dignity when we feel overlooked by society.

Traits to Help our Thinking

1. Discernment: Thinking with a Spirit-led Filter

Description:
Discernment is learning to see the difference between what is true and what just sounds good. It means not taking everything at face value, especially in a world full of mixed messages—even from people who claim to speak for God.

Reference:
“But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and all of you know the truth.” – 1 John 2:20 (NIV)

Comment:
As seasoned believers, we've heard many teachings through the years—some solid, some not. Discernment helps us rely on the Holy Spirit and the Bible to spot when something doesn’t line up with Christ. This trait becomes more important as we see culture shift and even some churches change their message.

Reflection Questions:

When have you sensed something wasn’t right spiritually, even if others accepted it?

How does your personal time with the Bible help you recognize truth?

2. Confidence in Christ: Holding to What You Already Know

Description:
This mindset is about being grounded. It's the steady belief that what we've learned and lived in Christ is still true, even when everything else feels unsure.

Reference:
“See that what you have heard from the beginning remains in you.” – 1 John 2:24a (NIV)

Comment:
Some people chase new ideas or try to "update" the faith, but God’s truth doesn’t change. There’s peace in remembering that what was true 50 years ago—about Jesus, salvation, love, and grace—is still true today. That gives us strength to stand firm.

Reflection Questions:

What truths about Jesus have carried you through the hardest seasons of life?

How do you remind yourself of those truths when life feels uncertain?

3. Perseverance in Faith: Staying the Course Until the End

Description:
This is a mindset of staying faithful over the long haul. It means not giving up on God, even when you feel tired, overlooked, or confused by the world around you.

Reference:
“As for you, the anointing you received from him remains in you... remain in him.” – 1 John 2:27b (NIV)

Comment:
God hasn’t left us. His Spirit still teaches, comforts, and strengthens us—even in our older years. Perseverance means staying rooted in Christ, trusting His Spirit to help us finish well, and encouraging one another to do the same.

Reflection Questions:

What helps you keep your faith strong when you feel alone or discouraged?

How can you encourage others to keep walking with Jesus as they age?

Session 4: "Still God's Beloved Children" — 1 John 2:28-3:10

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: The enduring identity and worth we have as God's children, regardless of age or ability.
Purpose Statement: To embrace our continuing identity as cherished children of God, finding purpose and dignity in this relationship even when physical limitations or loneliness tempt us to feel forgotten or less valuable.

Hymn to Hum: Leaning on the Everlasting Arm-Congregational — O For A Thousand Tongues To Sing-Quartet — They'll Know We are Christians-Small Group

What to Look For

Notice John's amazement at being called "children of God." Watch for the promise about what we will be like when Jesus appears. Pay attention to how John describes the difference between God's children and those who belong to the devil.

Personal Reflection Questions

When you think about being called a "child of God," does that feel more meaningful to you now than when you were younger, and if so, why?

What's one way you've seen God's family resemblance showing up in your life as you've grown older in faith?

Read: 1 John 2:28-3:10

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Children of God- 1 John 2:28–3:3

Sinlessness: Fact or Fiction? — Part One- 1 John 3:4–10 

Overview

John writes with the wonder of someone who still can't quite believe the incredible truth - we are actually God's children. Not just servants or followers, but beloved sons and daughters. In John's culture, being someone's child meant security, inheritance, and belonging. It meant your identity was secure no matter what happened. Today, we live in a culture that often makes older adults feel invisible or burdensome. Nursing homes are full of people who wonder if anyone remembers them. But John reminds us of a truth that age and physical limitations can never change - if you belong to Christ, you are still God's cherished child. Your heavenly Father's love for you hasn't decreased one bit since you first believed.

This May Surprise You

When John talks about not continuing to sin in verses 6 and 9, he's not saying Christians become perfect. The Greek grammar here suggests ongoing, deliberate rebellion against God rather than occasional failures. Think of it like this - a child might disobey their parents sometimes, but they don't stop being part of the family. However, someone who completely rejects the family's values and walks away wasn't truly a child to begin with. John is describing the general direction of a believer's life, not demanding sinless perfection from elderly saints who know their own hearts all too well.

Seeds for Thought

"And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident" (v.28) Comment: John calls mature believers "dear children" because our relationship with God keeps us young at heart. Continuing in Christ means staying close to Him through all of life's seasons.

"See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!" (3:1) Comment: The word "lavished" suggests extravagant, overwhelming generosity. God didn't reluctantly adopt us - He poured out His love to make us His own.

"And that is what we are!" (3:1) Comment: John emphasizes this isn't just a nice title or future hope. Right now, today, you are God's beloved child. Age, health, or circumstances don't change this identity.

"Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known" (3:2) Comment: The best is yet to come. Whatever limitations you face now, they're temporary. Your future in Christ holds wonderful surprises.

"But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him" (3:2) Comment: One day all the aches, pains, and limitations of aging will be gone. We'll have bodies like Jesus' resurrection body - perfect and eternal.

"No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in them" (3:9) Comment: God's nature lives inside His children. Like a seed that grows into a plant, His character gradually transforms us from the inside out.

Take-Home Thought

There's something beautiful about older Christians who truly understand they are God's children. They have a dignity and peace that comes from knowing their identity is secure. They don't have to prove their worth through accomplishments or worry about being forgotten. Their heavenly Father knows exactly where they are and loves them completely.

This passage reminds us that being God's child isn't about what we can do but about who we are. You may not be able to serve in all the ways you once did. Your body may not cooperate like it used to. You might spend more time at home than you'd like. But none of that changes your standing with God. You are still His beloved child, and He delights in you just as much as He ever did.

John also gives us hope for the future. The limitations and struggles of aging are temporary. When Jesus returns, we'll receive new bodies that never tire, never hurt, and never wear out. Until then, we live with the confidence that comes from being part of God's family. We have His nature growing in us, His love surrounding us, and His promises sustaining us. That's an identity worth celebrating, no matter how many candles are on your birthday cake.

Quotes

Max Lucado: "You are not an accident. You are not a mistake. You are not a problem to be solved or a puzzle to be figured out. You are a child of God, and your Abba is very fond of you."

Corrie ten Boom: "When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don't throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer."

Biblical Connections

"Children of God" (1 John 3:1) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 1:12: "Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God."

"We shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is" (1 John 3:2) - This echoes 1 Corinthians 15:49: "And just as we have borne the image of the earthly man, so shall we bear the image of the heavenly man."

"Everyone who has this hope in him purifies himself" (1 John 3:3) - This connects to Titus 2:11-12: "For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say 'No' to ungodliness and worldly passions."

"Whoever does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous" (1 John 3:7) - This echoes Jesus' words in Matthew 5:48: "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."

"The one who does what is sinful is of the devil" (1 John 3:8) - This connects to Jesus' confrontation in John 8:44: "You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desires."

"This is how we know who the children of God are" (1 John 3:10) - This connects to Jesus' teaching in Matthew 7:20: "Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them."

Devotional Thought— Still God's Beloved Children

There’s a memory many of us share: a child running into a parent’s arms after a long day, no explanations needed—just trust, just love. No matter how old we are now, that image still stirs something deep inside. It reminds us of who we are.

John writes with tender assurance: “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1, NIV). Notice the present tense. Not “were,” not “will be”—are. This identity hasn’t expired with time or been reduced by our slower pace or quieter lives.

Even when we feel overlooked or left out of the action, God sees us. He knows us by name. And He never stops calling us His own.

Yes, our hands may no longer serve the way they once did, and our days may look different than they did years ago. But our worth has never been measured by activity. It has always been rooted in identity—we are God’s children.

Corrie ten Boom, who suffered through great darkness, once wrote: “There is no pit so deep that God’s love is not deeper still.”

So we hold our heads high. Not because of what we’ve done lately, but because of who we are always—beloved children of the living God.

Culture Connection

In a culture that often measures worth by youth, productivity, or social status, 1 John 2:28–3:10 reminds us that our true value comes from being God’s children. No matter our age or ability, we have a secure place in his family. This truth gives purpose and dignity when we feel overlooked by society.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Secure Identity
Description: Recognizing that our identity is rooted in God’s love, not in what we can do.
Reference: 1 John 3:1
Comment: When we see ourselves first as God’s beloved children, we live without fear of rejection or loss of worth.
Reflection Questions:

What reminders can I use each day to affirm that I belong to God?

How does knowing I’m God’s child affect how I handle feelings of loneliness?

Compassionate Heart
Description: Viewing others as fellow children of God and responding with kindness.
Reference: 1 John 3:10–11
Comment: A family mindset moves us to reach out in love, just as Christ loved us, strengthening community and care.
Reflection Questions:

Who in our church might need to experience God’s love through me this week?

How can I show compassion to someone who seems distant or discouraged?

Hopeful Expectation
Description: Living with confidence in the promise that we will be fully like Christ when he appears.
Reference: 1 John 3:2
Comment: This forward-looking hope helps us endure present struggles, knowing our ultimate transformation is guaranteed.
Reflection Questions:

When I feel weak or limited, how can I refocus on the hope of Christ’s return?

What daily habits help me live in the light of future glory?

Session 5: "Love That Endures and Encourages" — 1 John 3:11-24

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Expressing Christ-like love through prayer, encouragement, and acts of caring within our limitations.
Purpose Statement: To discover meaningful ways to show love to others even from home, through prayer, phone calls, cards, and small acts of kindness, while receiving assurance that God sees and values every loving gesture.

Hymn to Hum: Love Lifted Me-Congregational — How Great Thou Art -Solo — We Bring The Sacrifice-Praise Chorus

What to Look For

Notice the stark contrast John draws between Cain's hatred and Christ's love. Watch for how John defines real love through actions, not just words. Pay attention to how love gives us confidence before God and assurance in our prayers.

Personal Reflection Questions

What's one simple act of love or kindness you've received in recent years that meant more to you than the giver probably realized?

When you think about the ways you can still show love to others from where you are now, what comes to mind first - and how might that be exactly what someone needs?

Read: 1 John 3:11-24

Alistair Begg Sermon

Loving One Another- 1 John 3:11–18

Salvation: Can We Know for Sure?- 1 John 3:19–24

Overview

John knew his readers had probably heard the command to love one another countless times. But he also knew that as people age and face limitations, they might wonder how they can still show meaningful love. Some of his readers couldn't travel to help others or host big gatherings like they once did. Sound familiar? John addresses this by showing that love isn't about grand gestures or physical strength. Real love is often quiet, personal, and happens one heart at a time. A phone call to someone who's lonely, a card sent at just the right moment, or faithful prayers for family members are all powerful expressions of Christ's love. God sees every act of love, no matter how small it seems to you.

This May Surprise You

When John says "let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth" (verse 18), he's not dismissing the power of encouraging words. Words can be incredibly powerful acts of love, especially for people who are isolated or struggling. What John opposes is empty talk that isn't backed up by genuine care. A heartfelt phone call, a handwritten note, or words of comfort are absolutely "actions" when they come from a heart that truly cares. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do for someone is simply listen to them or remind them that they matter.

Seeds for Thought

"This is the message you heard from the beginning: We should love one another" (v.11) Comment: Love isn't a complicated theological concept. It's the simple, foundational truth of Christian living that never goes out of style or becomes outdated.

"Do not be like Cain, who belonged to the evil one and murdered his brother" (v.12) Comment: Cain's problem wasn't anger management - it was jealousy and selfishness. Love chooses to celebrate others' blessings rather than resent them.

"We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other" (v.14) Comment: Love is evidence of spiritual life. When you feel love for others, even when they're difficult, that's God's life flowing through you.

"This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us" (v.16) Comment: Real love is sacrificial. It gives up something for another's benefit. This might mean giving up your time, comfort, or preferences to help someone else.

"If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?" (v.17) Comment: Love notices needs and responds. Even if your resources are limited, you can still share what you have - whether that's money, time, or encouragement.

"Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth" (v.18) Comment: Genuine love shows itself in practical ways. It does something, even if that something is praying faithfully or making a caring phone call.

Take-Home Thought

One of the beautiful things about getting older is that you often have a clearer understanding of what really matters. You've learned that the most meaningful moments in life aren't usually the big, dramatic ones - they're the quiet acts of love that happen between ordinary people on ordinary days. A friend who calls when you're feeling lonely. A neighbor who checks on you during a storm. A grandchild who listens to your stories one more time.

John reminds us that these simple acts of love are incredibly powerful. When you pray for your family members, God hears every word. When you send a card to someone who's struggling, you might be the only bright spot in their week. When you offer a word of encouragement to a younger person, you're sharing wisdom that could shape their future. None of these require youth or perfect health - they just require a heart that cares.

Your season of life actually gives you unique opportunities to love. You have time to pray that busy people don't have. You have life experience that can comfort people going through struggles you've already survived. You have the perspective that comes from years of seeing God's faithfulness. These aren't consolation prizes for getting older - they're genuine gifts you can offer to others. God sees every loving gesture, values every prayer, and uses every act of kindness in ways you may never know this side of heaven.

Quotes

Mother Teresa: "We cannot all do great things, but we can do small things with great love."

Billy Graham: "God has given us two hands, one to receive with and the other to give with."

Biblical Connections

"We should love one another" (1 John 3:11) - This echoes Jesus' command in John 13:34: "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another."

"Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer" (1 John 3:15) - This connects to Jesus' teaching in Matthew 5:21-22: "You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'You shall not murder,' but I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment."

"Jesus Christ laid down his life for us" (1 John 3:16) - This directly connects to Jesus' words in John 15:13: "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends."

"And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters" (1 John 3:16) - This echoes Paul's teaching in Philippians 2:3-4: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."

"This is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another" (1 John 3:23) - This connects to Jesus' summary in Matthew 22:37-39: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself."

"Those who keep his commands live in him, and he in them" (1 John 3:24) - This echoes Jesus' promise in John 14:23: "Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them."

Devotional Thought— Love That Endures and Encourages

In a quiet town, there lived a woman named Ruth who rarely left her porch. Her body was slowing down, but her heart was wide open. She kept a list of names in her worn Bible—people she prayed for every morning. She wrote cards on holidays, called someone every Sunday, and always ended her notes with, “You are loved, and I’m praying for you.”

Most would say Ruth didn’t “do much” anymore. But heaven would surely disagree.

John tells us, “Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:18, NIV). That doesn’t always mean big gestures. Sometimes, love looks like a quiet prayer whispered at night. A card sent at just the right time. A voice on the other end of the phone saying, “I’ve been thinking of you.”

God doesn’t measure our love by size, but by sincerity. Every prayer, every kind word, every bit of encouragement counts. John goes on to say, “This is how we know that we belong to the truth... if our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts” (v. 19–20). In other words, even when we doubt our usefulness, God sees the love we give—and He values it deeply.

Elisabeth Elliot once said, “You can never lose by giving love.”

So let’s keep loving—in letters, in prayers, in gentle faithfulness. It matters more than we know.

Culture Connection

In a time when people often feel isolated behind screens or distant by choice, 1 John 3:11-24 reminds us that real love reaches out with caring actions and sincere words. These verses show us that small, thoughtful gestures still carry the power to encourage and connect us in meaningful ways.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Generous Compassion
Description: Letting the needs of others move us to share what we have, whether time, resources, or a listening ear.
Reference: 1 John 3:17-18
Comment: When we give from the heart instead of out of obligation, our actions mirror Christ’s sacrifice and bring hope to those who feel alone.
Reflection Questions:

What is one thing I can share this week—a meal, a blanket, a story—that might meet someone’s need?

How does giving cheerfully change the way I view my own blessings?

Encouraging Communication
Description: Choosing words and deeds that uplift others, reminding them they are loved and not forgotten.
Reference: 1 John 3:23
Comment: Speaking hope and love into someone’s life builds unity and shows that our faith is active, even in simple phone calls or cards.
Reflection Questions:

Which promise from Scripture could I share today to bring comfort to a friend?

How can I turn a brief greeting into a moment of genuine encouragement?

Prayerful Dependence
Description: Relying on God in prayer for strength, guidance, and the ability to love well.
Reference: 1 John 3:22-23
Comment: When we bring others’ needs to God, our love flows from His power, reminding us that every caring act begins with communion with Him.
Reflection Questions:

How can I include specific requests for others in my daily prayers?

In what ways does knowing God hears me deepen my commitment to serve my church family?

Session 6: "Wisdom for Discernment" — 1 John 4:1-6

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Using spiritual maturity and biblical knowledge to help others discern truth.
Purpose Statement: To recognize how our years of faith experience equip us to be wise counselors and prayer warriors who can help younger believers and families discern God's voice in a confusing world.

Hymn to Hum: When I Survey the Wondrous Cross-Congregational — The Old Rugged Cross-Country Solo — Precious Memories -All Star Quartets

What to Look For

Notice John's call to test the spirits rather than believe everything we hear. Watch for the clear test he gives about Jesus Christ coming in the flesh. Pay attention to the contrast between the spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.

Personal Reflection Questions

What's one piece of bad advice or false teaching you encountered earlier in life that your experience has taught you to recognize and avoid?

When younger family members or friends come to you with spiritual questions or concerns, what do you find yourself saying most often to help guide them?

Read: 1 John 4:1-6

Alistair Begg Sermon

Testing the Spirits- 1 John 4:1–6 

Overview

John is writing to people who have been around long enough to see various spiritual trends come and go. They've watched some teachers gain popularity and then fade away when their ideas proved harmful. In our day, spiritual confusion seems worse than ever. Social media spreads new religious ideas instantly. TV preachers make bold claims. Self-help gurus mix psychology with bits of Christianity. Young people especially can feel overwhelmed trying to figure out what's true. But here's the good news - your years of walking with Christ have given you something invaluable: spiritual discernment. You've seen enough false promises to recognize them quickly. You know what genuine faith looks like because you've lived it. God wants to use your wisdom to help others navigate these confusing times.

This May Surprise You

When John talks about testing the spirits, he's not encouraging us to be suspicious or critical of everyone. The word "test" here is like testing gold to see if it's genuine. A skilled jeweler can quickly spot fake gold because they've handled so much of the real thing. Your years of studying Scripture and experiencing God's faithfulness have given you that same kind of trained eye. You're not being negative when you sense something is "off" about a teaching - you're using the discernment God has developed in you through decades of experience. Trust those spiritual instincts that come from years of knowing God's character.

Seeds for Thought

"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God" (v.1) Comment: Just as you wouldn't take medicine without checking the label, we shouldn't accept spiritual teaching without examining it carefully against God's Word.

"Because many false prophets have gone out into the world" (v.1) Comment: False teaching isn't new - it's been around since the early church. Your experience has probably shown you that every generation faces people who twist the truth.

"This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God" (v.2) Comment: The test is simple but crucial. Any teaching that diminishes who Jesus is - fully God and fully human - is dangerous, no matter how appealing it sounds.

"But every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God" (v.3) Comment: This includes teachings that make Jesus just a good teacher, just a prophet, or just an example to follow. He must be acknowledged as Lord and Savior.

"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world" (v.4) Comment: You have the Holy Spirit living in you, giving you the power to recognize and resist false teaching. That's stronger than any deceptive voice in the world.

"They are from the world and therefore speak from the viewpoint of the world, and the world listens to them" (v.5) Comment: False teachers often become popular because they tell people what they want to hear rather than what they need to hear.

Take-Home Thought

There's something wonderful about older Christians who have developed strong spiritual discernment. When a younger person is confused about a relationship, a job decision, or a spiritual question, they often seek out someone with experience - someone like you. They instinctively know that wisdom comes from walking with God over many years, through different seasons and challenges.

Your role as a wise counselor doesn't require you to have all the answers or to be perfect. It simply requires you to share what you've learned about God's character and His ways. When someone shares a problem with you, you can help them think through it by asking questions like: "Does this align with what we know about God's heart?" or "What do you think Scripture would say about this situation?" Often, people don't need you to solve their problems - they need someone to help them think clearly and remember biblical principles they already know.

Your prayers for younger believers are also incredibly powerful. You can intercede for children, grandchildren, and young families who are navigating decisions you've already walked through. You understand the spiritual battles they're facing because you've fought similar ones. When you pray for their discernment and protection, you're using your spiritual maturity to help them in ways they may never fully realize.

Don't underestimate the value of your spiritual wisdom. In a world full of confusion and competing voices, people need the steady, biblical perspective that comes from years of faithful living. God has equipped you to be a blessing to others through the discernment He's developed in you.

Quotes

A.W. Tozer: "The Word of God well understood and religiously obeyed is the shortest route to spiritual perfection. Nothing less than a whole Bible can make a whole Christian."

Martyn Lloyd-Jones: "There is nothing more important in the life of a Christian than discernment - the ability to distinguish between truth and error, between the voice of God and the voice of the stranger."

Biblical Connections

"Test the spirits" (1 John 4:1) - This connects to Paul's instruction in 1 Thessalonians 5:21: "But test them all; hold on to what is good."

"Jesus Christ has come in the flesh" (1 John 4:2) - This directly relates to John's Gospel opening in John 1:14: "The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us."

"The one who is in you is greater" (1 John 4:4) - This echoes Jesus' promise in John 14:17: "But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you."

"They are from the world" (1 John 4:5) - This connects to Jesus' prayer in John 17:14: "I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world."

"Whoever knows God listens to us" (1 John 4:6) - This relates to Jesus' teaching in John 10:27: "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me."

"This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood" (1 John 4:6) - This connects to Jesus' promise about the Holy Spirit in John 16:13: "But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth."

Devotional Thought— Wisdom for Discernment

Years ago, an old farmer taught his grandson how to tell a healthy tree from a sick one. “Look at the fruit,” he said, “but also listen to the wind. A good tree stands firm when the storm blows through.” The boy didn’t understand at first—but with time, he learned. You don’t just see truth; you sense it, because you've lived with it long enough to know what holds up in a storm.

John begins this passage by urging us, “Do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God” (1 John 4:1, NIV). That kind of discernment doesn’t come overnight. It grows through years of walking with the Lord, reading Scripture, watching prayers answered, and learning what peace feels like when truth is near.

Many of us carry decades of that kind of experience. We may not always know the latest lingo or technology, but we do know the Shepherd’s voice. And we can help others—especially younger believers—learn to recognize it too.

J.I. Packer once wrote, “Wisdom is the power to see, and the inclination to choose, the best and highest goal, together with the surest means of attaining it.”

So we pray. We listen. We speak when asked. We share what’s proven true. And we stand firm like the tree that’s weathered many storms—still rooted, still bearing witness, still quietly guiding others toward the Light.

Culture Connection

As voices clamoring for our attention multiply—on TV, online, and even in well-meaning conversations—1 John 4:1-6 reminds us to test every teaching by the Spirit and the Scriptures. Our years of walking with Christ equip us to spot error and point people back to the only true source of wisdom and life.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Spirit-led Testing
Description: Pausing to listen for the Holy Spirit’s witness in our hearts when we hear new ideas or teachings.
Reference: 1 John 4:1-3
Comment: By asking “Does this line up with what God’s Spirit confirms in me?”, we protect our faith and guide others away from falsehood.
Reflection Questions:

What practice will help me slow down and pray for the Spirit’s guidance before accepting a new teaching?

Can I recall a time when the Spirit warned me that something wasn’t from God?

Scripture Anchoring
Description: Holding every message up against the clear truth of God’s Word, studied over decades.
Reference: 1 John 4:4-6
Comment: Deep familiarity with Scripture lets us stand firm against shifting opinions and helps others find the Bible’s solid ground.
Reflection Questions:

Which verse could I commit to memory this week to remind me of God’s unchanging truth?

How has knowing Scripture well helped me recognize a misleading idea?

Mentoring Encouragement
Description: Using our long-held faith experiences to guide and support younger believers in their own journey of discernment.
Reference: 1 John 4:6
Comment: Sharing what we’ve learned—and praying together—shows newer Christians they’re not alone when culture confuses them.
Reflection Questions:

Who in my church or family could use my encouragement and insight right now?

How can I carve out time this week to listen, pray, and share what God has taught me about discerning truth?

Session 7: "Perfect Love, Eternal Hope" — 1 John 4:7-5:21

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Resting in God's perfect love and living with joyful confidence in eternal life.
Purpose Statement: To find deep peace in God's unchanging love for us and to face the future—including our eternal home—with joy and assurance, while being encouraged that our prayers and influence still matter greatly in God's kingdom.

Hymn to Hum: Love Lifted Me-Congregational — Standing on The Promises of God-Quartet — The Haven of Rest-Congregational

What to Look For

Notice how many times John mentions love in this passage and how he defines it. Watch for his confidence about eternal life and what we can know for certain. Pay attention to what he says about the power of our prayers and faith.

Personal Reflection Questions

When you think about going to heaven someday, what are you most looking forward to, and what brings you the most peace about that transition?

Looking back over your life of faith, what's one thing you're most grateful God's love has carried you through that you once weren't sure you could handle?

Read: 1 John 4:7-5:21

Alistair Begg Sermon

Let Us Love One Another- 1 John 4:7–12

Grounds of Assurance- 1 John 4:13–16

Perfect Love- 1 John 4:16–21

Faith Is the Victory- 1 John 5:1–5

Call the Witnesses!- 1 John 5:6–12

Christian Certainties- 1 John 5:13–21 

Overview

John ends his letter with some of the most comforting words in all of Scripture. He's writing to people who, like you, have walked with God for many years and are approaching the final chapters of their earthly lives. Some of his readers were probably dealing with health issues, the loss of loved ones, or questions about what comes next. John addresses these concerns by reminding them of two unshakeable truths: God's love for them is perfect and complete, and their eternal life with Him is absolutely certain. These aren't wishful thinking or religious platitudes - they're solid facts based on what Christ has already accomplished. As you face whatever the future holds, you can rest in these same promises that have sustained believers for nearly 2,000 years.

This May Surprise You

When John says "perfect love drives out fear" in verse 18, he's not talking about becoming fearless in general. He's specifically addressing the fear of judgment and punishment that can trouble believers, especially as they face the end of life. Some Christians worry that they haven't been good enough or faithful enough to earn God's acceptance. But John reminds us that God's love isn't based on our performance - it's based on what Jesus did for us. You don't have to fear meeting God because Jesus has already taken care of your sin problem. God sees you through Christ's righteousness, not your failures.

Seeds for Thought

"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God" (4:7) Comment: Every act of love in your life - from your children, grandchildren, friends - ultimately flows from God's heart. He is the source of all genuine love.

"This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son" (4:10) Comment: God's love isn't a response to ours - it's the reason ours exists. He loved you before you loved Him, and His love doesn't depend on your feelings.

"And so we know and rely on the love God has for us" (4:16) Comment: After years of walking with God, you've learned to depend on His love rather than your own worthiness. That's spiritual maturity.

"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear" (4:18) Comment: God's perfect love for you removes the fear of condemnation. You can face the future, including death, without terror because you know you're loved.

"I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life" (5:13) Comment: John wants you to have certainty, not doubt. If you believe in Jesus, eternal life isn't something you hope for - it's something you already possess.

"This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us" (5:14) Comment: Your prayers matter tremendously. God listens to every one, and when you pray according to His heart, He acts.

Take-Home Thought

As John closes his letter, he wants his readers to live with absolute confidence in two great truths that become more precious with age: God's perfect love and eternal life. These aren't distant, theoretical concepts - they're daily realities that can fill your heart with peace.

God's love for you isn't diminished by your age, your physical limitations, or your past mistakes. It's not weakened by the days when you feel useless or forgotten. His love is perfect, which means it's complete, lacking nothing, and unchanging. You are loved by the Creator of the universe with the same intensity today as when you first believed, and that love will continue throughout eternity.

Your eternal life isn't something that begins when you die - it's something you possess right now. Death, when it comes, will simply be a transition from one room in your Father's house to another. You'll finally be free from all the limitations and sorrows of this life. You'll be reunited with loved ones who have gone before. Most wonderfully, you'll see Jesus face to face and experience the fullness of joy that comes from being in His presence.

Until that day, your life still has tremendous purpose. Your prayers for family and friends have real power. Your example of faithfulness encourages others who are watching how you handle the challenges of aging. Your love, even expressed in small ways, reflects God's love to a world that desperately needs to see it. John's final words remind us that in Christ, we are not just surviving our final years - we are living with hope, love, and the absolute certainty that the best is yet to come.

Quotes

C.S. Lewis: "You have never talked to a mere mortal. Nations, cultures, arts, civilizations - these are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But it is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub and exploit."

Corrie ten Boom: "When I go home to be with Jesus, I want Him to say, 'Well done, good and faithful servant,' not 'Well done, good and successful servant.'"

Biblical Connections

"God is love" (1 John 4:8,16) - This connects to the greatest commandment in Matthew 22:37: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind."

"We love because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19) - This echoes Romans 5:8: "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

"Everyone born of God overcomes the world" (1 John 5:4) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 16:33: "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

"The one who believes in the Son of God accepts this testimony" (1 John 5:10) - This relates to Jesus' words in John 5:24: "Whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life."

"So that you may know that you have eternal life" (1 John 5:13) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 10:28: "I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand."

"If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us" (1 John 5:14) - This echoes Jesus' teaching in John 15:7: "If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you."

"We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin" (1 John 5:18) - This connects to Jesus' promise in John 8:36: "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed."

Devotional Thought— Perfect Love, Eternal Hope

Picture a well-loved quilt, hand-stitched over many years. Each patch tells a story—some worn thin, some bright and new—but all held together by careful hands and steady thread. That’s what life in Christ looks like: love woven through the seasons, held together by a faithful God.

John writes, “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear...” (1 John 4:18, NIV). We may not fear much anymore—not the way we once did. But even now, fear can whisper: Have I done enough? Am I still useful? What comes next?

And God answers with love.

His love is not based on what we produce. It’s not shaken by age or weakness. It is complete, constant, and forever. “We love because he first loved us” (v. 19). That means our lives—every prayer, every kindness, every faithful step—have always been a response, not a requirement.

And what joy it brings to know that we have eternal life—not just someday, but now. John says, “I write these things... so that you may know that you have eternal life” (1 John 5:13). We don’t hope in the dark. We hope with confidence.

Billy Graham once said, “For the believer, there is hope beyond the grave, because Jesus Christ has opened the door to heaven for us.”

So we rest. We rejoice. We keep loving, praying, and living with our eyes fixed not on fading days, but on forever.

Culture Connection

In a world that often feels uncertain and full of worry, 1 John 4:7–5:21 reminds us that God’s perfect love gives us real rest and peace. Instead of living under anxiety about tomorrow, we learn to lean into His love and face each day with confidence shaped by eternity. This truth helps us stay calm and hopeful, even when life changes around us.

Traits to Help our Thinking

Fearless Assurance
Description: Understanding that God’s perfect love drives out all fear in our hearts.
Reference: 1 John 4:18
Comment: When we believe we are deeply loved by God, we don’t have to live in fear of aging, illness, or loneliness.
Reflection Questions:

What fear am I holding onto that God’s love can dispel?

How can I remind myself each morning that His perfect love is with me?

Victorious Confidence
Description: Trusting that our faith in Jesus gives us victory over the world’s struggles.
Reference: 1 John 5:4
Comment: This victory mindset helps us stand firm in trials and encourages others to trust God’s power too.
Reflection Questions:

When have I seen God give me strength in a hard time?

How can my confidence in Christ’s victory inspire someone else today?

Assured Prayer
Description: Believing that God hears our prayers and responds according to His will.
Reference: 1 John 5:14-15
Comment: Knowing our prayers matter fuels a consistent prayer life and reminds us our intercession partners with God’s work.
Reflection Questions:

Which prayer request can I bring to God today with fresh trust?

How does knowing God hears me change the way I pray for others?

Session 8: "Rooted in Love, Firm in Truth" - 2 John 1–6

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: How God's truth anchors us in our later years and empowers genuine love in our relationships.
Purpose Statement: To encourage one another to remain grounded in the gospel, showing love through obedience and deepening our fellowship even when we can't meet as often.

Hymn to Hum: The Old Rugged Cross-Church Group — This Is My Father's World-Piano — Whispering Hope -All Star Quartets

What to Look For

Watch for how John connects truth and love as partners, not enemies. Notice how he speaks to "the lady chosen by God" with deep personal care. See how walking in truth becomes the foundation for everything else in our Christian life.

Personal Reflection Questions

When you think about the phrase "walking in the truth," what mental picture comes to mind from your own life journey?

John writes to someone he calls "the lady chosen by God." If someone wrote you a letter today, what encouraging title would you hope they might use to describe you?

Read: 2 John 1-6

Audio: (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

Truth and Love- 2 John 1:1–3

Response, Request, Reminder- 2 John 1:4–6 

Overview

John's second letter reads like a personal note between old friends who care deeply about each other. In our world of text messages and social media, we can miss the warmth of a handwritten letter. John writes to encourage believers to stay strong in their faith while showing genuine love to others. This message speaks directly to us as older adults who have walked with Christ for many years. We understand that real love is not just feelings but actions rooted in God's truth. When we cannot gather as often as we once did, these truths become our anchor.

This May Surprise You

Many people think that emphasizing truth makes us harsh and unloving. But John shows us the opposite. He mentions "truth" five times in just the first four verses, yet the entire letter overflows with love and warmth. The surprise is that the more firmly we stand on God's truth, the more freely we can love others. Truth does not make us rigid. It makes us secure enough to love without fear. When we know what we believe and why we believe it, we can reach out to others with confidence and grace.

Seeds for Thought

The elder's greeting (verses 1-2): John calls himself "the elder," showing his years of experience and wisdom earned through faithful service. Comment: There is honor in growing older in the faith. Our years of walking with Christ give us authority to speak into others' lives with love.

Chosen by God (verse 1): The lady and her children are described as "chosen by God," reminding us of our special place in His family. Comment: No matter our age or circumstances, we remain God's chosen people with purpose and value.

Truth that lives in us (verse 2): John speaks of truth that "lives in us and will be with us forever." Comment: The truth we have learned over decades of faith becomes part of who we are. It does not fade with age but grows stronger.

Walking in the truth (verse 4): John expresses joy at finding some of the children "walking in the truth." Comment: Walking suggests steady, daily progress rather than running or racing. Our faith journey at this stage is about faithful steps, not speed.

Love one another (verses 5-6): The command to love is not new but needs constant reminding and practice. Comment: Love proves itself through obedience to God's commands. This is love we can show even when physical strength fails.

Take-Home Thought

God's plan for our later years includes being both teachers and students of His truth. We have spent decades learning what it means to walk in truth, and now we have the privilege of encouraging others in that same walk. Our love is not weakened by age but refined by it. We have learned that true love is not just emotion but commitment, not just words but actions.

The beautiful thing about John's message is that it shows us how truth and love work together in our daily lives. When we are rooted in God's truth, we can love others without fear of being deceived or led astray. When we are committed to genuine love, we want to know and share God's truth because we care about others' spiritual well-being. This balance becomes especially important as we encourage younger believers and support our peers in the faith journey.

Quotes

Charles Spurgeon: "The mark of a true Christian is that he walks in the truth; he not only knows it and loves it, but he practically exhibits it in his daily conduct."

John Chrysostom: "Where love reigns, there is no room for pride; where truth dwells, there is no place for falsehood. These two virtues, like twin sisters, support and strengthen each other."

Biblical Connections

"Walking in the truth" (verse 4) directly echoes 3 John 1:3-4, where John uses nearly identical language about his joy in hearing that his spiritual children walk in truth.

"Love one another" (verse 5) Quotes Jesus' words from John 13:34-35 and 15:12, where Christ gave this as His new commandment to the disciples.

"This is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands" (verse 6) reflects the teaching found in 1 John 5:3, where John explains that loving God means keeping His commands.

The concept of being "chosen by God" (verse 1) connects to 1 Peter 2:9, where believers are called "a chosen people," and Ephesians 1:4, which speaks of being chosen before the creation of the world.

Devotional Thought: “Rooted in Love, Firm in Truth”

Imagine an old oak tree. It doesn’t move much. Its days of stretching tall are long past. But its roots run deep. That’s what keeps it steady through storms, wind, and passing seasons. In many ways, that’s what it means to grow old in the Lord. We may not go like we used to, but we’re rooted deeper in the truth—and that truth keeps us standing.

John writes, “I ask that we love one another. And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands” (2 John 1:5–6, NIV). It’s not flashy. It’s not new. But it’s steady. Love rooted in truth shows up in simple things: a phone call, a prayer, a note slipped into someone’s mailbox. It’s in listening, in forgiving, in staying faithful when no one’s watching.

John Stott once said, “Love needs truth to give it direction, and truth needs love to give it warmth.” We need both. Truth without love grows cold and sharp. Love without truth turns soft and shallow. But together, they keep us grounded in Christ and connected to each other.

Even if our circles have grown smaller and our gatherings less frequent, we are still part of something strong and steady. God’s truth anchors us. His love moves through us. Let’s keep walking in both.

Culture Connection

In today’s world, truth often feels like it’s shifting. What’s “true” one day might be questioned the next. But in the midst of this confusion, 2 John reminds us that God’s truth never changes. It shows us how to love others not based on our feelings or the world’s ideas, but rooted in the unchanging truth of Jesus Christ. That kind of love speaks clearly and calmly in a culture full of noise.

Traits to Help our Thinking

1. Staying Steady in the Truth

Description: A heart and mind that hold tightly to God’s truth, even when culture or feelings pull in other directions.

Reference: 2 John 1:2 – “Because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever.”

Comment: This mindset helps believers stay grounded. When we hold on to truth, we don’t get lost in doubt or drift with every new idea. It keeps us calm and clear-headed.

Reflection Questions:

What truths about God have helped you stay steady in hard times?

How can you gently share those truths with someone who feels unsure?

2. Loving Through Obedience

Description: A way of thinking that sees love and obedience as working hand-in-hand—not as separate things.

Reference: 2 John 1:6 – “And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands.”

Comment: Love isn’t just about warm feelings. It’s about choosing to do what pleases God, even when it’s hard. That kind of love can bring peace to relationships and clarity to our decisions.

Reflection Questions:

When have you found it hard to show love through obedience?

What helps you remember that obeying God is a way to love others?

3. Valuing Fellowship, Even from a Distance

Description: A heart that sees connection with other believers as a treasure, even if it's through a call, a letter, or a prayer.

Reference: 2 John 1:5 – “I ask that we love one another.”

Comment: As we get older, we might not gather like we used to. But love and fellowship are still possible—and still needed. Reaching out in small ways can make a big difference.

Reflection Questions:

How can you continue to build fellowship with others, even if you can’t leave home?

Who might need a word of encouragement from you this week?

Session 9: "Preserving Our Spiritual Heritage" - 2 John 7–13

Session Notes — Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Discernment between authentic teaching and subtle errors, and how to set healthy boundaries without closing our hearts.
Purpose Statement: To equip us to guard the faith we've cherished for decades, so that future generations inherit a church marked by both truth and warm hospitality.

Hymn to Hum: Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus-Congregational — Rock Of Ages-Congregational — Precious Memories -All Star Quartets

What to Look For

Notice how John balances protection with love throughout this passage. Watch for his strong warning about deceivers while maintaining his warm, caring tone. See how he connects guarding our faith with receiving our full reward from God.

Personal Reflection Questions

Over your years of church attendance, can you recall a time when someone's teaching just didn't sit right with you, even though you couldn't put your finger on why?

How do you balance being welcoming to newcomers while staying true to what you've always believed about Jesus?

Read: 2 John 7-13

Alistair Begg Sermon

Confessional Christianity- 2 John 1:7–13

The Danger of Deception- 2 John 1:7–13 

Overview

John shifts from encouragement to warning in these verses, much like a loving grandparent who must sometimes speak firmly to protect their family. In our current culture, we are told that all religious ideas are equally valid and that questioning anyone's beliefs is unkind. But John shows us that real love sometimes requires us to draw clear lines. As older believers, we have seen many teaching trends come and go. We have learned to recognize when something sounds spiritual but lacks the heart of the gospel. Our years of experience have taught us that not every religious idea leads to life and truth.

This May Surprise You

John tells believers not to welcome certain teachers into their homes or even greet them. This sounds harsh to our modern ears that value tolerance above all else. The surprise is that John gives this strong warning immediately after emphasizing love. But this is not hatred or fear speaking. It is the same protective love that would keep harmful medicine away from someone we care about. John understands that false teaching about Jesus is not just wrong information but spiritual poison that can destroy faith. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is say no to ideas that would harm those we care about.

Seeds for Thought

Many deceivers have gone out (verse 7): John warns that deceivers are actively working to spread false ideas about Christ. Comment: Deception rarely announces itself. It comes disguised as helpful teaching or new insights. Our years of Bible study help us recognize when something is off track.

They do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh (verse 7): The specific error John addresses denies Christ's full humanity. Comment: Any teaching that makes Jesus less than fully God or fully human attacks the heart of our salvation. We can spot these errors because we know our Savior.

Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for (verse 8): John urges careful attention to preserve the spiritual progress already made. Comment: After decades of growing in faith, we must guard against teachings that would steal away what God has built in our lives.

Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ (verse 9): The warning is against those who claim to go beyond Christ's teaching. Comment: New is not always better. The gospel that saved us decades ago is the same gospel that saves today. We do not need to chase after every new religious idea.

Do not take them into your house or welcome them (verse 10): John gives specific instructions about how to respond to false teachers. Comment: This is not about being rude to visitors but about protecting our spiritual family from harmful influences. Wisdom knows when to close the door.

I have much to write but do not want to do so with paper and ink (verse 12): John prefers face-to-face conversation over written communication. Comment: Even in our digital age, nothing replaces sitting together and talking through important matters. Personal relationships matter most.

Take-Home Thought

God has entrusted us with a precious spiritual heritage that we must both enjoy and protect. Like family heirlooms passed down through generations, the truths we have learned about Jesus Christ are meant to be carefully preserved and handed on to others. This does not make us narrow-minded or unloving. It makes us faithful stewards of what God has given us.

The challenge for us as older believers is learning to discern between being closed-minded and being discerning. We want to remain open to learning and growing, but we also want to protect the core truths that have sustained us through decades of life. John shows us that we can be both warm and watchful, both loving and careful. We can welcome sincere seekers while being cautious about teachers who would lead people away from the Christ we have known and loved for so many years. Our spiritual maturity gives us both the responsibility and the ability to guard what matters most.

Quotes

John MacArthur: "Tolerance of error is not love; it is actually hatred because it allows people to go on in that which will damn their souls."

Martyn Lloyd-Jones: "The church that marries the spirit of this age will find itself a widow in the next. We must be so rooted in eternal truth that we can discern between what changes and what never changes."

Biblical Connections

"Many deceivers have gone out into the world" (verse 7) echoes 1 John 4:1, where John warns to "test the spirits" because many false prophets have gone out into the world.

The warning about those who deny "Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh" (verse 7) directly connects to 1 John 4:2-3, which gives the same test for distinguishing God's Spirit from the spirit of antichrist.

"Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ" (verse 9) reflects Jesus' warning in Matthew 24:11 about false prophets who will deceive many.

The instruction not to welcome false teachers (verse 10) parallels Paul's strong words in Galatians 1:8-9 about rejecting any gospel different from what the apostles preached.

"I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face" (verse 12) mirrors 3 John 1:14, where John expresses the same preference for personal conversation over written communication.

Devotional Thought: “Preserving Our Spiritual Heritage”

There’s an old saying: “What one generation neglects, the next will forget.” That’s why old barns need tending, and family stories need retelling. The same goes for our faith. What we’ve believed and lived for decades is not just for us—it’s a gift to hand down.

John warns, “Many deceivers…have gone out into the world. Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for” (2 John 1:7–8, NIV). He’s not writing out of fear, but out of love. There’s still work to do. We are the keepers of what’s been trusted to us—the gospel of grace, the truth about Jesus, and the love that holds it all together.

Sometimes that means saying a gentle but firm “no” when false teaching knocks on the door. Other times, it means saying “yes” to people who need to see what real, gracious truth looks like lived out.

Theologian J.C. Ryle wrote, “A right heart will always find a right line between truth and love.” We don’t shut our doors in fear, but we don’t swing them wide without wisdom.

Let’s stay watchful, not weary. Let’s keep the porch light on, but the locks fastened with discernment. Our faith is a treasure—let’s preserve it with warmth, clarity, and care.

Culture Connection

Today’s world is full of information—some good, some misleading. With so many voices claiming to speak truth, it’s easy to get confused. These verses from 2 John remind us how important it is to hold fast to the true teaching of Christ and to guard our faith gently but firmly. Doing so keeps the gospel clear for others and shows that truth and love still walk hand in hand.

Traits to Help our Thinking

1. Practicing Spiritual Discernment

Description: A mindset that learns to recognize what is true and what sounds close to truth but isn’t.

Reference: 2 John 1:7 – “I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world.”

Comment: Discernment helps us protect ourselves and others from error. It doesn’t mean being suspicious of everyone—it means being careful and prayerful about what we believe and share.

Reflection Questions:

What helps you tell the difference between truth and “almost-truth”?

Have you ever had to gently correct a misunderstanding about faith?

2. Protecting Without Withdrawing

Description: A balanced approach to faith that knows how to guard against false teaching without closing our hearts to people.

Reference: 2 John 1:10 – “If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take them into your house or welcome them.”

Comment: John isn’t telling us to stop being kind—he’s reminding us that love must include truth. We can be welcoming without letting harmful ideas take root in our homes or churches.

Reflection Questions:

How can you stay kind while also setting healthy boundaries?

What does it look like to “love wisely” in today’s world?

3. Caring for the Next Generation’s Faith

Description: A heart that sees faith not just as personal, but as something to pass down—clearly, lovingly, and without confusion.

Reference: 2 John 1:8 – “Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully.”

Comment: As those who have walked with Christ for many years, we have a spiritual heritage to protect and pass on. Our steady faith can leave a strong foundation for others to build on.

Reflection Questions:

What part of your faith do you most want to pass on to younger believers?

Who in your life might benefit from your wisdom and example?

Session 10: "Living Letters: Hospitality and Faith in Action" - 3 John 1–8

Session Notes— Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Gaius's simple yet profound example of opening his home and heart to traveling workers.
Purpose Statement: To explore practical ways we can still encourage gospel ministry and one another—whether through visits, phone calls, notes, or prayer—revealing our faith in tangible acts of kindness.

Hymn to Hum: My Redeemer-Congregational — Morning Has Broken-Guitar — Jesus, Name Above All Names-Praise Chorus

What to Look For

Watch how John opens with genuine affection and personal concern for Gaius. Notice the connection between spiritual health and practical kindness. See how small acts of hospitality become powerful witnesses to God's love.

Personal Reflection Questions

When you think back over your years of faith, who showed you the kind of practical kindness that made God's love feel real and present?

What are some simple ways you still enjoy showing care to others, even if your energy or mobility has changed over the years?

Read: 3 John 1-8

Audio: (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

Walk in the Truth — Part One- 3 John 1:1–8 

Overview

John writes to Gaius like a proud grandfather bragging about a beloved grandchild. This short letter celebrates the ordinary faithfulness of someone who simply opened his door and shared his table with traveling ministers. In our world of busy schedules and security concerns, we might wonder if such simple hospitality still matters. But John shows us that these everyday acts of kindness are actually profound expressions of faith. As older adults, we may not be able to do all the things we once did, but we can still offer the gift of encouragement. A phone call, a card, a meal, or even a listening ear can be powerful ministry tools in God's hands.

This May Surprise You

Gaius was not a pastor, teacher, or church leader that we know of. He was simply a faithful church member who showed kindness to traveling preachers. Yet John writes him a letter that has been preserved in Scripture for nearly two thousand years. The surprise is that God sees our smallest acts of service as worthy of eternal recognition. The meals Gaius shared, the beds he provided, and the encouragement he offered to tired ministers became part of God's eternal record. This means that every card we send, every prayer we offer, and every kind word we speak has significance that reaches far beyond what we can see.

Seeds for Thought

My dear friend, whom I love in the truth (verse 1): John begins with warm personal affection rooted in shared faith. Comment: Real friendship in Christ grows deeper with time. The relationships we have built over years of walking together in faith become treasures more valuable than gold.

I pray that you may enjoy good health (verse 2): John shows genuine concern for Gaius's physical well-being alongside his spiritual condition. Comment: God cares about our whole person, including our aging bodies. It is right to pray for each other's health and comfort in our later years.

Your faithfulness to the truth (verse 3): John celebrates Gaius's consistent commitment to what is right and true. Comment: Faithfulness over many years is one of the most beautiful qualities we can develop. It may not make headlines, but it makes God smile.

Nothing gives me greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth (verse 4): John finds his deepest satisfaction in others' spiritual success. Comment: As we grow older, our greatest joy often comes from seeing younger believers grow strong in their faith. Their success becomes our reward.

You are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters (verse 5): John praises Gaius for his practical care of traveling ministers. Comment: Faithfulness shows up in practical ways. We serve God by serving His people, especially those who are working to spread the gospel.

They have told the church about your love (verse 6): Gaius's kindness became well-known throughout the Christian community. Comment: Acts of love have a way of spreading beyond their original setting. The kindness we show creates ripples that reach further than we know.

We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people (verse 8): John calls all believers to support gospel workers in practical ways. Comment: We may not all be called to preach, but we can all support those who do. Our behind-the-scenes help makes gospel ministry possible.

Take-Home Thought

God has designed His kingdom to work through ordinary people doing ordinary things with extraordinary love. Gaius shows us that we do not need special titles or unusual abilities to make a significant impact for the gospel. We simply need willing hearts and open hands. The beauty of this truth becomes especially clear as we age and wonder if we still have something meaningful to contribute.

The answer is absolutely yes. Our years of experience have taught us what really matters. We know how to comfort those who are hurting because we have been comforted in our own times of need. We understand the value of encouragement because we have needed it ourselves. We appreciate simple acts of kindness because we know how much they can mean. These qualities make us especially equipped to be like Gaius—people who support God's work through practical expressions of love. Whether we write notes, make phone calls, offer prayers, or simply listen with understanding hearts, we are participating in God's great work of spreading His love throughout the world.

Quotes

D.L. Moody: "A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble."

Francis Schaeffer: "The Christian is not to become a statistic or an abstract entity, but is to become the kind of person who treats each man as made in the image of God—therefore important enough to be died for by Christ."

Biblical Connections

"Walking in the truth" (verse 4) directly echoes 2 John 1:4, where John expresses the same joy about believers who walk in truth, showing this was a consistent theme in his ministry.

The emphasis on hospitality (verses 5-8) connects to Hebrews 13:2, which encourages believers to "show hospitality to strangers," and Romans 12:13, which urges believers to "practice hospitality."

"We ought therefore to show hospitality" (verse 8) reflects Jesus' teaching in Matthew 25:35-40 about caring for others as a way of serving Christ himself.

John's prayer for good health (verse 2) mirrors Paul's concern in Philippians 2:26-27, where he shows pastoral care for both spiritual and physical well-being.

The joy in hearing about others' faithfulness (verse 4) echoes Paul's similar expressions in 1 Thessalonians 3:9 and 2 Corinthians 7:13, showing this pastoral heart was common among apostolic leaders.

Devotional Thought: “Living Letters: Hospitality and Faith in Action”

In a world that moves fast and forgets names, the little things matter more than ever. That’s what made Gaius stand out. He wasn’t famous or powerful—but he had a heart wide open to God’s people. John writes, “You are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you” (3 John 1:5, NIV).

Back then, gospel workers traveled on foot, often with little more than their message and faith. Gaius welcomed them in. He fed them, listened to them, encouraged them—and in doing so, he became part of their ministry. He never left home, but he helped carry the gospel forward.

That’s still true for us. A kind word, a prayer over the phone, a card with Scripture in it—these are not small things. They are kingdom things. We may not travel far anymore, but our love can.

As Henrietta Mears once said, “The man who keeps busy helping the man below him won’t have time to envy the man above him.”

Our lives can still speak—like living letters. Gaius didn’t write a gospel. But his actions were gospel. So can ours be. Whether it’s through hospitality, encouragement, or intercession, let’s show our faith by how we love.

Culture Connection

In a time when many people feel isolated and overlooked, small acts of kindness can speak loudly. Gaius didn’t preach sermons—he welcomed people, supported God’s work, and let his faith show through love. That same spirit is needed today. A warm call, a handwritten note, or even a prayer can carry the gospel farther than we realize.

Traits to Help our Thinking

1. Seeing Hospitality as Ministry

Description: A mindset that treats everyday kindness—especially toward those serving the Lord—as a sacred act of service.

Reference: 3 John 1:5 – “Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you.”

Comment: Gaius’s hospitality wasn’t about having a perfect home—it was about having an open heart. We can do the same in our own ways, using whatever we have to serve and bless.

Reflection Questions:

What does hospitality look like in your life right now?

Who might be encouraged by a small act of kindness from you this week?

2. Supporting the Work of the Gospel

Description: A heart that sees mission work and gospel ministry as something we can all be part of—even from home.

Reference: 3 John 1:8 – “We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth.”

Comment: Not everyone can travel or preach, but we all can help support God’s work. A gift, a prayer, or a kind word to a ministry worker can make a lasting difference.

Reflection Questions:

How can you partner with others in ministry from where you are?

Have you ever been encouraged by someone who wasn’t on the front lines, but behind the scenes?

3. Living Out a Visible Faith

Description: A mindset that values faith not just as belief, but as something that shows up in action and love.

Reference: 3 John 1:6 – “They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honors God.”

Comment: Gaius’s faith was visible to others—so much so that people talked about it. Our goal is not praise, but to live in such a way that our faith encourages others.

Reflection Questions:

What might someone notice about your faith by how you treat others?

In what ways can you “send others on their way” with encouragement or prayer?

Session 11: "Servant Leadership: Humility Over Pride" - 3 John 9–15

Session Notes— Personal Study Sheet — Discussion Handout — Audio

Focus: Contrasting Diotrephes's self-promotion with Demetrius's honorable reputation to uncover principles of godly influence.
Purpose Statement: To reflect on our own sphere of influence—be it family, neighbors, or church—and to choose humble service that builds others up rather than seeking the spotlight.

Hymn to Hum: Just a Little Talk with Jesus - Quartet — I surrender all-Heritage Singers — I Need Thee Every Hour-Solo

What to Look For

Notice the sharp contrast between Diotrephes who loves to be first and Demetrius who is well spoken of by everyone. Watch how John addresses conflict with both firmness and hope. See how reputation is built through consistent character rather than self-promotion.

Personal Reflection Questions

Looking back over your life, can you think of someone who had great influence not because they demanded attention, but because they quietly served others well?

In your current season of life, what opportunities do you have to use your influence to encourage and build up others rather than promote yourself?

Read: 3 John 9-15

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Commendation of Demetrius- 3 John 1:9–14

The Condemnation of Diotrephes- 3 John 1:9–10 

Overview

John ends his letter by holding up two men as examples of very different approaches to influence and leadership. Diotrephes loves to be first and refuses to welcome traveling ministers, while Demetrius has earned respect through his good character. This contrast speaks directly to us as older adults who have had years to observe different styles of leadership in our churches, families, and communities. We have seen people who used their positions to serve themselves and others who used their influence to lift up those around them. John helps us understand that true influence comes not from demanding recognition but from consistently doing what is right and good.

This May Surprise You

John plans to visit and confront Diotrephes face to face, but he still ends his letter with words of peace and friendship. The surprise is that John does not write off Diotrephes as hopeless or treat him as an enemy to be destroyed. Even when dealing with someone who is causing serious problems in the church, John maintains hope for restoration. This shows us that confronting wrong behavior and maintaining love for the person are not opposites. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is speak the truth clearly, even when it is uncomfortable. Our years of life experience have taught us that avoiding difficult conversations rarely helps anyone grow or change.

Seeds for Thought

Diotrephes, who loves to be first (verse 9): John identifies the root problem as a desire for prominence and control. Comment: Pride shows up differently at different ages, but it always seeks to put ourselves at the center. Even in our later years, we must guard against the temptation to demand respect rather than earn it.

He does not welcome us (verse 9): Diotrephes refuses to receive John's authority or his representatives. Comment: When we become too proud to learn from others or accept correction, we cut ourselves off from growth and blessing. Wisdom stays teachable at every age.

Spreading malicious nonsense about us (verse 10): Diotrephes gossips and speaks falsely about the apostolic leaders. Comment: Harsh words and unfair criticism often reveal more about the speaker than the target. Our words should build up rather than tear down.

He refuses to welcome other believers (verse 10): Diotrephes blocks hospitality and fellowship within the church. Comment: True leadership opens doors for others rather than closing them. We use our influence best when we help others succeed and feel welcome.

Anyone who does what is good is from God (verse 11): John gives a simple test for evaluating character and influence. Comment: Good actions over time reveal good character. Our daily choices, especially the small ones no one notices, show who we really are.

Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone (verse 12): Unlike Diotrephes, Demetrius has earned universal respect through consistent goodness. Comment: A good reputation is built slowly through many small acts of integrity and kindness. It cannot be demanded or faked, only earned.

We also speak well of him (verse 12): John adds his personal testimony to the universal praise for Demetrius. Comment: When our character is genuine, it will be recognized by both peers and leaders. We do not need to promote ourselves when our lives speak for us.

Take-Home Thought

The most powerful influence we can have in our remaining years comes not from demanding attention or insisting on our rights, but from consistently choosing to serve others with humility and grace. John shows us that there are really only two ways to approach the influence we have gained through years of life experience. We can use it like Diotrephes, demanding recognition and controlling others to serve our own interests. Or we can follow the example of Demetrius, earning respect through faithful service and using our influence to bless others.

The beautiful thing about this choice is that it remains available to us regardless of our age, health, or circumstances. We may not have the energy we once had or the prominent positions we once held, but we still have daily opportunities to choose humility over pride, service over self-promotion, and encouragement over criticism. The wisdom we have gained through decades of walking with Christ actually makes us better equipped to choose the path of humble service. We have learned what really matters and what truly lasts. We know that the people who have influenced us most were not necessarily the loudest or most demanding, but those who quietly demonstrated the love of Christ through their consistent character and selfless actions.

Quotes

Andrew Murray: "Pride must die in you, or nothing of heaven can live in you. Under the banner of the truth, give yourself up to the meek and lowly Jesus, and He will form you into His own image."

J.C. Ryle: "A truly great man will neither trample on a worm nor sneak to an emperor. He will be kind to the poor and the weak, but he will never be ashamed of truth and righteousness, whatever company he is in."

Biblical Connections

"Diotrephes, who loves to be first" (verse 9) echoes Jesus' warning in Mark 9:35 and Matthew 23:11 about those who seek to be first, and contrasts with His teaching that "whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all."

The warning about "spreading malicious nonsense" (verse 10) connects to Paul's instructions in Titus 3:2 to "slander no one" and Ephesians 4:29 about speaking only what builds others up.

"Anyone who does what is good is from God" (verse 11) reflects Jesus' teaching in Matthew 7:16-20 about knowing people by their fruits, and John's teaching in 1 John 3:10 about the difference between God's children and the devil's children.

The commendation of Demetrius (verse 12) parallels Paul's commendations in Romans 16 and other letters, showing the apostolic practice of recognizing faithful servants.

"I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face" (verse 14) mirrors 2 John 1:12, showing John's consistent preference for personal conversation over written communication when addressing important matters.

Devotional Thought: “Servant Leadership: Humility Over Pride”

Some folks want to be the message. Others just want to serve the message. John tells us about two very different men: Diotrephes and Demetrius. Diotrephes liked to be first. He stirred up trouble and pushed others out. Demetrius, on the other hand, had a good name—because he lived a good life.

John doesn’t mince words: “Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not welcome us” (3 John 1:9, NIV). Then he points to Demetrius, saying, “Everyone speaks well of him” (v. 12). It’s not about popularity—it’s about integrity. The spotlight isn’t the goal. The towel and basin are.

In our later years, we may not lead from a pulpit or chair a committee, but we still influence. Grandchildren are watching. Church friends are listening. Neighbors notice how we carry ourselves.

Chuck Swindoll once said, “True greatness is not measured by the headlines a person commands, but by the legacy he leaves behind.” Humble people leave deep footprints—quiet, but lasting.

So let’s choose Demetrius’s path. Let’s be people who build others up with kind words, who listen more than we speak, and who lift burdens instead of pointing fingers. That’s servant leadership. It doesn’t need a title—just a willing heart.

Culture Connection

In a world where self-promotion and attention-seeking are often celebrated, the Bible gives us a different picture. Godly leadership doesn’t shout or demand. It quietly serves. Demetrius is remembered not for what he said about himself, but for how he lived. That same spirit of humble influence is needed today—steady, faithful people who build others up rather than build their own name.

Traits to Help our Thinking

1. Choosing Humility Over Recognition

Description: A mindset that finds joy in serving without needing applause or attention.

Reference: 3 John 1:9 – “I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not welcome us.”

Comment: Pride pushes others away; humility makes room for them. We don’t need to be noticed to be useful. True spiritual strength often works quietly in the background.

Reflection Questions:

When have you seen pride damage a relationship or community?

What helps you stay focused on serving rather than being seen?

2. Earning a Good Reputation Through Consistency

Description: A way of thinking that values living in such a way that others can count on your integrity over time.

Reference: 3 John 1:12 – “Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself.”

Comment: A good name is built one day at a time, not through grand actions, but through steady, quiet faithfulness. This kind of life speaks for itself and brings honor to Christ.

Reflection Questions:

What qualities in someone else have earned your respect over time?

How do you want to be remembered in your walk with Christ?

3. Using Influence to Build Others Up

Description: A heart that sees leadership—not as control—but as a way to lift others, encourage them, and help them grow.

Reference: 3 John 1:10 – “When I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, spreading malicious nonsense about us… He even refuses to welcome other believers.”

Comment: Diotrephes used his position to tear down and exclude. We are called to use any influence we have—big or small—to create peace, offer help, and guide gently.

Reflection Questions:

Where do you have quiet influence—maybe in your family or community?

What’s one way you can build someone else up this week?

The letters of 1, 2, and 3 John are short but spiritually rich writings from the Apostle John, often referred to as “the disciple whom Jesus loved.” These epistles were written to encourage believers to remain steadfast in their faith, to love one another deeply, and to guard against false teachings. John’s pastoral heart shines through as he reminds the church that truth and love are inseparable in the Christian life. These letters are especially relevant today, offering clarity and comfort in a world full of spiritual confusion.

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———  1 John ——— 

1: "Anchored in Truth" - 1 John 1:1-2:2

2: "Faithful Hearts, Faithful Lives" - 1 John 2:3-17

3: "Holding Fast in Changing Times" - 1 John 2:18-27

4: "Still God's Beloved Children" - 1 John 2:28-3:10

5: "Love That Endures and Encourages" - 1 John 3:11-24

6: "Wisdom for Discernment" - 1 John 4:1-6

7: "Perfect Love, Eternal Hope" - 1 John 4:7-5:21

———  2 John ——— 

8: “Rooted in Love, Firm in Truth” 2 John 1–6

9: “Preserving Our Spiritual Heritage” 2 John 7–13

———  3 John ——— 

10: “Living Letters: Hospitality and Faith in Action” 3 John 1–8

11: “Servant Leadership: Humility Over Pride” 3 John 9–15

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Five Subjects to Interest

God is Light and Love – “God is light; in him there is no darkness at all” (1 John 1:5).

True Fellowship Comes Through Christ – John emphasizes that fellowship with God and one another is rooted in knowing Jesus (1 John 1:3).

Discernment is Vital – “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God” (1 John 4:1).

Love is the Mark of a True Believer – “Let us love one another, for love comes from God” (1 John 4:7).

Hospitality and Truth Go Hand in Hand – 3 John encourages believers to support faithful teachers and reject those who distort the gospel.

Timeless Wisdom for Today

Karen H. Jobes, a respected New Testament scholar, notes that “John wrote these three brief letters in a spiritually confusing time… to assure his readers of their eternal life after death because they knew God in Christ.” That assurance is just as needed today. In a world of competing voices and shifting values, John’s letters remind us that truth is not relative—it is revealed in Jesus Christ. Historian Philip Schaff observed that John’s writings “breathe the spirit of love and truth in perfect harmony,” a balance we still strive for in our walk with Christ.

Practical Applications in Christian Living

These letters call us to live out our faith with integrity. They challenge us to love not just in word, but in deed and truth (1 John 3:18). They urge us to be discerning, to walk in obedience, and to extend hospitality to those who faithfully teach the gospel. For senior believers, these epistles are a powerful reminder that our spiritual influence continues—through prayer, encouragement, and example.

Why This Book Matters

The epistles of John are a call to authentic Christianity. They strip away pretense and focus on the essentials: love, truth, and faithfulness. In 1 John 5:13, John writes, “I write these things to you… so that you may know that you have eternal life.” That kind of assurance is a gift worth studying. These letters help us finish well, rooted in the truth and radiant with love.

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Session 1: "Walking in the Light"- 1 John 1:1-2:2
— Study Notes — Discussion Guide

Focus: The reality of Jesus, fellowship with God, and dealing with sin

Purpose Statement: To understand the foundation of our faith in the incarnate Christ and how confession leads to cleansing and fellowship

Read: 1 John 1:1-2:2

Audio:  (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Word of Life- 1 John 1:1–4

Why Study 1 John?- 1 John 1:1–4

Three Spurious Claims- 1 John 1:5–2:2 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John emphasizes that he has "seen," "heard," and "touched" the Word of life (v.1:1). How does the physical reality of Jesus' incarnation strengthen your faith compared to if Christianity were based merely on abstract ideas?

In 1:8-10, John addresses self-deception about sin. How have you experienced the freedom that comes through honestly confessing sin rather than denying it?

OVERVIEW:

John, one of Jesus' closest friends, wrote this letter to help early Christians understand the truth about Jesus and how to live in relationship with God. In these verses, John emphasizes that Jesus was real—someone he personally saw, heard, and touched. He explains that when we're honest about our sins and confess them, God faithfully forgives us and restores our relationship with Him.

As C.S. Lewis once said, "I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else." Just as light helps us see clearly, walking in God's light helps us see truth in our lives.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people think that being a "good Christian" means hiding your struggles and appearing perfect. But John actually teaches the opposite! In 1 John 1:8-10, he makes it clear that claiming to be without sin makes us liars and shows we don't have God's truth in us. What's surprising is that God doesn't expect perfection—He expects honesty. The pathway to deeper relationship with God isn't pretending we're perfect, but rather being truthful about our imperfections and bringing them to Him. God already knows everything about us, so confession isn't telling Him something new; it's agreeing with what He already knows is true.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today's social media world, we often show only our highlight reels—the best version of ourselves. We filter photos, carefully choose what to share, and create an image of a perfect life. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and isolation when we compare our behind-the-scenes reality to others' public perfection. John's message is refreshingly counter-cultural: there's freedom in being honest about our struggles. When we "walk in the light" by acknowledging our sins rather than hiding them, we experience true community with others and genuine fellowship with God. Just as meaningful friendships require honesty, our relationship with God thrives on authenticity, not performance.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT:

Why is it important that John emphasizes the physical reality of Jesus in 1 John 1:1–2? —John stresses that Jesus was heard, seen, and touched. This affirms that our faith is not based on abstract ideas but on a real, historical person—God made flesh. The incarnation grounds our belief in a tangible truth and offers deep assurance.

What does it mean to have fellowship with God and with one another (v.3)? —Fellowship is more than friendly connection—it’s shared life with God through Christ. When we walk in the light together, we experience a spiritual unity that reflects God's nature and nurtures mutual love, honesty, and grace.

How does walking in the light (v.7) relate to how we handle sin in our lives? —Walking in the light means living openly before God, without hiding our sins. It invites confession, not denial. Rather than pretending perfection, we allow the blood of Jesus to continually cleanse us and restore our fellowship.

What role does confession play in the Christian life, according to 1 John 1:9? —Confession is not just admission—it’s an act of trust in God’s character. When we confess, we rely on His faithfulness and justice to forgive and purify us. This keeps our relationship with God honest, vibrant, and grace-filled.

How does 1 John 2:1–2 offer both encouragement and assurance when we struggle with sin? —John reminds us that we have an Advocate—Jesus Christ the righteous. When we fall, we are not condemned but represented. His atoning sacrifice secures our forgiveness and restores our hope, reminding us that grace, not guilt, defines our standing with God.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Power of Light in Darkness

Imagine you're in a deep cave. The tour guide tells you to turn off all flashlights. Suddenly, you are surrounded by complete darkness—so dark that you can’t even see your own hand in front of your face. It’s unsettling. The longer you sit in the darkness, the more disoriented you feel. Then, the guide lights a single candle, and instantly, the darkness isn’t so overwhelming. That one small flame changes everything—you can see, you feel a sense of direction, and you’re no longer alone in the unknown.

This is how Jesus works in our lives. Without Him, we are stumbling in spiritual darkness, unsure of where we’re going. But when we walk in the light of Christ, we see clearly. Our relationship with God grows stronger, and we experience true fellowship with Him and with others.

John reminds us that Jesus is real—He came in the flesh, walked among us, and showed us what it means to live in the light. He also gives us a way to deal with the sin that creeps into our lives. Just as darkness disappears when light enters, sin loses its grip when we confess it. God doesn’t leave us in our mistakes—He is faithful to forgive and cleanse us.

Think about the last time the power went out in your house at night. Did you immediately reach for a flashlight or your phone? In the same way, when life gets dark, we should instinctively reach for Jesus. He is the light that never goes out.

Reflection Questions:

When have you experienced a moment of darkness, either physically or spiritually?

What does it mean for you to “walk in the light” in your daily life?

Is there any sin you need to confess so that you can experience the cleansing and fellowship John talks about?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Walking in the Light" (1 John 1:1–2:2)

Obedience →Living an active, generally obedient life, not harboring known sin or resisting conviction. →1 John 1:6–7

Fellowship →Enjoying genuine fellowship with God and other believers. →1 John 1:3, 1:

Honesty about Sin →Openly acknowledging and confessing sin, not claiming to be without sin. →1 John 1:8–9

Humility →Recognizing personal imperfection and need for continual cleansing. →1 John 1:8–10

Growth in Holiness →Maturing in faith and growing in Christlike character as one follows Jesus. →1 John 1:7

Integrity →Doing what is true and living transparently, not hiding in darkness. →1 John 1:6

Assurance of Forgiveness →Trusting in God’s faithfulness to forgive and cleanse from all unrighteousness. →1 John 1:9–2:2

Joy →Experiencing fullness of joy through relationship with God. →1 John 1:4

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

John begins his letter by establishing that Jesus was not just a spiritual idea or a good teacher—He was God in human form who could be seen, heard, and touched. This reality is the foundation of our faith. If Jesus truly lived among us, died for us, and rose again, then everything changes. His physical presence on earth means God understands our human experience firsthand.

The incredible news is that this same Jesus offers us ongoing forgiveness. When we stumble and sin—which we all do—we don't need to hide in shame or work our way back into God's favor. Instead, we simply need to confess our sins and trust that Jesus' sacrifice covers them completely. Like a continuous shower that keeps us clean, confession keeps our relationship with God fresh and our fellowship with other believers authentic. God's forgiveness isn't a one-time event but a constant flow of grace that allows us to walk confidently in His light.

QUICK QUIZ:

John writes about "that which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched." Why do you think he emphasizes these physical senses? How might this impact how you think about Jesus?

According to this passage, what happens when we confess our sins versus what happens when we deny them? How might being honest about your struggles actually strengthen your relationship with God and others rather than weaken it?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. C.S. Lewis

On the reality of Jesus and fellowship with God: C.S. Lewis, in his writings, emphasizes the importance of the truth of Christ’s incarnation, describing it as not just a historical fact but a reality that transforms human lives. In Mere Christianity, he writes, “The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God.” This understanding underscores the fellowship with God that is possible through the incarnation of Christ. The fellowship is not simply a relationship that Christians hope for in the future, but one that begins now, through the work of Christ.

On dealing with sin: Lewis also explores the transforming power of Christ's forgiveness in dealing with sin. In The Great Divorce, he illustrates how humans must choose to surrender to God in order to experience freedom from the weight of sin. He believed that as we walk in the light of Christ, we are cleansed of sin not by our own strength, but by Christ’s power. The concept of confession and cleansing aligns with his understanding of grace — that while humans are fallen, Christ's light is sufficient to purify them.

2. John Piper

On the reality of Jesus and fellowship with God: John Piper, in his book Desiring God, stresses that the ultimate purpose of life is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. He notes that fellowship with God is fundamentally about enjoying Him. In his interpretation of 1 John 1:1-2:2, Piper emphasizes that walking in the light is walking in the presence of God, being satisfied in Him, and sharing in the love of the Father through Jesus Christ. He argues that the incarnation of Christ makes this fellowship possible, and it is by beholding Jesus that we find joy and purpose in life.

On dealing with sin: Piper frequently teaches about the necessity of ongoing repentance. In his sermon series on 1 John, he would often highlight the importance of confession and forgiveness, stressing that confession of sin is not a one-time event but a continual process that leads to deeper fellowship with God. He explains that walking in the light means acknowledging our sins, but also experiencing the freedom and joy of being forgiven by God.

3. Tim Keller

On the reality of Jesus and fellowship with God: Tim Keller, in his book The Reason for God, speaks about the importance of the historical reality of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. Keller emphasizes that the Gospel is not merely about spiritual ideas but rooted in historical events that bring about true, personal fellowship with God. In 1 John 1, he highlights how Jesus, through His physical presence on earth, connects humanity to God. Jesus, as the eternal Word made flesh, is the bridge for true relationship with the Father.

On dealing with sin: Keller explains that walking in the light involves both the illumination of our hearts and a response of repentance. He notes in his sermon on 1 John that the light exposes sin, but it also offers grace. True fellowship with God begins when we stop hiding from God’s light and instead bring our sins to Him. By confessing and forsaking sin, believers experience the cleansing power of Christ’s blood and are restored to fellowship with God.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Jesus as the Word of Life

Verse: 1 John 1:1

Reflection: John emphasizes the tangible reality of Jesus—someone he has seen, heard, and touched. This verse reminds us that our faith is grounded in a real, living Savior, not a distant concept.

Discussion Prompt: Why is it significant that John highlights his personal experience with Jesus? How does this help us trust in the truth of the gospel?

Point: Fellowship with God and Others

Verse: 1 John 1:3

Reflection: Through Jesus, we are invited into fellowship with God and one another. True Christian community is rooted in a shared relationship with Him.

Discussion Prompt: What does fellowship with God and others look like in your own life? How can we strengthen these connections?

Point: Walking in the Light

Verse: 1 John 1:7

Reflection: Walking in the light means living in truth and holiness, reflecting Christ's character. It also fosters authentic relationships, as His blood cleanses us from sin.

Discussion Prompt: How can we practice "walking in the light" in our daily lives? What challenges might we face in doing so?

Point: The Power of Confession

Verse: 1 John 1:9

Reflection: Confessing our sins isn't about shame but about receiving God's cleansing and forgiveness, restoring our fellowship with Him.

Discussion Prompt: What makes confession difficult at times? How can understanding God's forgiveness encourage us to confess openly?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Here are related scriptures from the New Testament that align with 1 John 1:1-2:2:

John 1:14: "The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth."

This echoes the reality of Jesus as God incarnate, reinforcing the foundation of our faith.

Ephesians 5:8: "For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light."

A call to walk in the light and live lives that reflect God's holiness.

James 5:16: "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."

Highlights the importance of confession and its role in healing and fellowship.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: Why does John emphasize the physical reality of Jesus in 1 John 1:1?

Commentary: This was critical in countering early false teachings that denied Jesus' humanity. Reflecting on this helps us appreciate the authenticity of our faith and the depth of God's love in sending His Son to live among us.

Question: What does "walking in the light" mean in a practical sense for Christians today?

Commentary: This involves living honestly, pursuing holiness, and fostering genuine relationships. Discussing this encourages participants to identify personal ways to live out their faith.

Question: How can confession of sin transform our relationship with God and others?

Commentary: Confession brings liberation and restores fellowship, removing barriers caused by guilt or secrecy. Open discussion can inspire participants to embrace confession as a gift rather than a burden.

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Session 2: "Loving God, Keeping Commands"- 1 John 2:3-17
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: Obedience as evidence of knowing God and warnings against worldliness

Purpose Statement: To explore how authentic love for God manifests in obedience and rejection of worldly values

READ: 1 John 2:3-17

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Word of Life- 1 John 1:1–4

Why Study 1 John?- 1 John 1:1–4

Three Spurious Claims- 1 John 1:5–2:2

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John writes that "whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked" (v.6). In what specific areas of your life do you find it most challenging to "walk as Jesus walked"?

Verses 15-17 contrast loving the world versus loving the Father. What "things of the world" (desires of the flesh, desires of the eyes, pride in possessions) do you find most tempting even in your senior years?

OVERVIEW:

How do we truly know if we love God? In a world where faith is often reduced to words or feelings, the apostle John gives us a clear test: “We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands” (1 John 2:3, NIV). Love for God isn’t just spoken—it’s lived out through obedience, even when the world pulls us in the opposite direction.

This session challenges us to examine whether our daily choices reflect God's truth or the shifting values of the culture around us. To love God authentically is to desire His ways above all else—and to walk as Jesus walked.

“The Bible knows nothing of a love for God that does not result in obedience.” — A.W. Tozer

Reflect on how your love for God is expressed in action—and how resisting worldly influences strengthens your witness in a culture desperate for something real.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Despite what some may think, John isn’t teaching a works‑based salvation (“do enough good and you’re in”). Instead, obedience is the evidence of a transformed heart that truly knows God. In verses 3–5, he says: “Whoever claims to know Him but doesn’t keep His commands is a liar… but whoever obeys His word, in them the love of God is truly made complete”. That’s not salvation by deeds—it’s the fruit of grace. As one commentary explains about verse 17: “Even if you read it as a causal statement, only those who have been born of the Spirit… can actually do the will of God. And because He has shed His love abroad in their hearts, they obey”.

In short: obedience doesn’t earn salvation—it demonstrates it. It confirms that God’s love lives and works within us. If we say we love God but repeatedly walk in world‑driven patterns—lust, pride, selfish ambition—we expose the reality of our hearts. Those attracted to the world show they’ve not been drawn by the Father. On the flip side, those who’re drawn by Him live in conformity to Christ. That’s the beautiful tension John captures: salvation by grace, yet lived out in obedience.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In a culture that often equates love with feelings and freedom with doing whatever we please, John’s words challenge us to see love for God as obedience shaped by relationship, not obligation. While society encourages us to chase status, pleasure, and self-fulfillment, Scripture reminds us that these desires are fleeting. In contrast, those who align their lives with God's will walk in light, not only resisting the pull of worldly values but also becoming a countercultural witness. In a noisy world of competing loyalties, John's message is clear: true love for God shows up in how we live—not just what we say.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 1 John 2:3-17

Why does John call his readers "little children" throughout this passage (vv. 1, 12, 18)? What does this reveal about his relationship with them? —John's tender address as "little children" reflects his pastoral care and spiritual authority. As an elder apostle, he assumes a fatherly role, guiding with love rather than harshness. This relationship demonstrates how spiritual maturity should lead to nurturing others with both truth and compassion.

In 1 John 2:1-2, John writes about Jesus as our "advocate" and "propitiation." How do these roles comfort believers who struggle with sin? —When we fail, Jesus serves as our advocate (legal defender) before the Father. As our propitiation, He has already satisfied God's righteous judgment against sin. This dual role reminds us that while God takes sin seriously, genuine believers need not live in paralyzing guilt or fear of condemnation. Christ's work provides both forgiveness and restoration.

→How does John describe the relationship between knowing God and keeping His commandments in verses 3-6? What challenge does this present to contemporary Christianity? —John establishes a direct connection: those who truly know God obey His commands. This challenges the modern tendency to separate faith from obedience, or to claim spiritual enlightenment without moral transformation. Authentic relationship with God inevitably produces a lifestyle that increasingly reflects Christ's example.

What does it mean that the command to love is both "old" and "new" (vv. 7-8)? Why is this significant? —The command to love is "old" because it existed from the beginning of God's revelation, yet "new" because Jesus demonstrated its fullest expression and empowers believers to love through His Spirit. This reminds us that God's truth is both timeless and freshly relevant to each generation, finding its clearest manifestation in Christ.

In verses 9-11, John contrasts walking in light versus darkness. How might this metaphor help believers evaluate whether they truly love their brothers and sisters? —The light/darkness imagery provides a stark diagnostic tool. Those in light demonstrate love; those claiming to be in light while harboring hatred remain in darkness. This challenges us to examine not just our public religious activities but our actual treatment of fellow believers. Genuine spiritual enlightenment always manifests in practical love.

What might John mean by "the world" in verses 15-17, and why does he warn so strongly against loving it? —"The world" here refers not to creation itself but to the system of values, priorities, and desires that oppose God's kingdom. John warns that attachment to these temporal things (sensual pleasure, materialism, and pride) diverts our affection from God and leads to spiritual death. Only lives aligned with God's will have eternal significance.

How do verses 12-14 address different spiritual maturity levels? What encouragement do these words offer to believers at various stages of faith? —John recognizes and affirms distinct groups: "children" who know forgiveness, "young men" who have victory over evil, and "fathers" with deep knowledge of God. This passage acknowledges that spiritual growth follows a natural progression, encouraging believers to appreciate their current stage while continuing to mature. Each level has its own strengths and assurances from God.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Love Test and a Fake $20 Bill

Imagine you’re at the grocery store, and you hand the cashier a $20 bill. She holds it up to the light, runs a special marker over it, and checks it carefully. Why? Because counterfeit money looks real, but under close inspection, the truth comes out.

Our love for God works the same way. It’s easy to say, “I love God,” but John tells us there’s a test to see if that love is real—obedience. “We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands” (1 John 2:3). Loving God isn’t just about feelings or words; it’s about actions. When we obey God, we prove that our faith is the real deal.

John also warns us about loving the things of the world—money, status, pleasure—because they are like counterfeit bills. They might seem valuable, but they don’t last. True worth comes from loving and obeying God.

Think about a time when you had to choose between doing what was easy and what was right. Maybe it was speaking the truth when lying would have been simpler, or choosing kindness when anger felt justified. Those moments reveal what we love most—God or the world.

Reflection Questions:

Have you ever struggled with wanting something worldly more than wanting to obey God?

What is one command of God that you find challenging to obey?

How can you make sure your love for God is authentic and not just words?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

Loving God isn’t just about warm feelings or saying the right words—it’s about living in a way that reflects who He is. 1 John 2 reminds us that our obedience is the fruit of truly knowing Him. When we walk as Jesus walked, choosing kindness, honesty, patience, and forgiveness, we show the world that we really belong to God. It’s not about being perfect, but about growing closer to Him day by day, choosing His ways over our own.

The world offers a lot of distractions—things that look shiny and exciting, but fade quickly and leave us empty. God calls us to something deeper and lasting. His commands aren't heavy rules to hold us down, but loving directions meant to lead us into real life, peace, and purpose. When we love God and follow His ways, we begin to see the bigger picture: God is shaping us to look more like Jesus, to shine His light in a world that needs it. That’s the kind of life that lasts—not just now, but forever.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Loving God, Keeping Commands" (1 John 2:3–17)

Trait →Description →Scripture Reference

Obedience to God’s Commands →Demonstrates genuine knowledge of God by keeping His commandments and walking as Jesus did. →1 John 2:3–6

Love for Others →Practices selfless, sacrificial love for fellow believers, avoiding hatred and walking in the light. →1 John 2:7–11

Spiritual Maturity →Progresses from spiritual childhood to maturity, marked by deepening relationship, victory, and knowledge. →1 John 2:12–14

Victory Over Sin and Evil →Overcomes the evil one and resists temptations that would hinder spiritual growth. →1 John 2:13–14

Nonattachment to the World →Forsakes love for the world and its desires, valuing God and His will above worldly pleasures and pride. →1 John 2:15–17

Humility and Dependence →Recognizes dependence on the Father and avoids pride, boasting only in God’s love and grace. →1 John 2:12–14 

QUICK QUIZ:

If someone claims to know God but doesn’t live by His commands, what does that reveal about their relationship with Him—according to 1 John 2:3–6? → Follow-up discussion: Why is obedience such a key sign of truly knowing God?

What are some "worldly" desires or values in our culture today that might pull us away from loving God fully (1 John 2:15–17)? → Follow-up discussion: How can we guard our hearts against these temptations while still living in the world?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. A.W. Tozer

On obedience as evidence of knowing God: A.W. Tozer emphasized that genuine love for God is intrinsically linked to obedience. In his classic work The Pursuit of God, Tozer writes that the essence of true discipleship is not about intellectual knowledge, but about heartfelt devotion that leads to action. He states, “The primary work of the Christian is to walk in obedience, not to show off his knowledge of doctrine.” For Tozer, knowing God is not merely about doctrinal affirmation but is demonstrated through a life of obedience to His commands. In 1 John 2, Tozer would likely emphasize that if we claim to know God, our lives must bear fruit in obedience, revealing the authenticity of our relationship with Him.

On warnings against worldliness: Tozer was critical of the church’s tendency to be influenced by worldly values. He often warned against the dangers of worldliness infiltrating the believer’s life. In The Knowledge of the Holy, he writes, “Worldliness is not a matter of being rich or poor, but a matter of the state of the heart.” Tozer’s emphasis would likely highlight that the love of the world (as mentioned in 1 John 2:15-17) comes when Christians prioritize the transient and fleeting over the eternal love and will of God. Tozer would challenge believers to evaluate their affections and to resist the pull of materialism and secular ideologies that distract from loving God and keeping His commands.

2. John Piper

On obedience as evidence of knowing God: John Piper, in his teachings on Christian Hedonism (as found in Desiring God), asserts that true love for God results in joy-filled obedience. He states, “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” Piper’s understanding of obedience is that it flows naturally from a heart that delights in God. In 1 John 2:3-6, Piper would argue that obedience is the result of knowing and loving God deeply. When we truly know God, our desires are aligned with His, and obedience becomes a natural outflow of our love for Him.

On warnings against worldliness: Piper is clear that the love of the world is a danger that distracts believers from the eternal glory of God. He often stresses that the world’s value system—whether it be the pursuit of material success, fame, or self-satisfaction—competes with the surpassing worth of Christ. In his reflections on 1 John 2:15-17, Piper would argue that worldliness is a subtle temptation, and that believers are called to reject the transient pleasures of the world in favor of an eternal joy in Christ. He might say that Christians are not to be consumed by what is passing away, but to “set their minds on things above” (Colossians 3:2), where true satisfaction and peace are found.

3. Tim Keller

On obedience as evidence of knowing God: Tim Keller has often spoken about the link between love for God and obedience, particularly in his book The Prodigal God. He describes how true love for God leads to a radical transformation of desires, which is manifested through obedience to God’s commands. Keller emphasizes that obedience is not about legalistic rule-following, but rather an expression of the heart’s transformation as we realize the grace and love God has shown to us. Regarding 1 John 2:3-6, Keller would point out that obedience is a fruit of knowing Christ—it’s not about striving to be perfect, but about desiring to honor God out of gratitude for His love and mercy.

On warnings against worldliness: In his teaching, Keller warns about the seduction of worldly values—materialism, individualism, and self-reliance—that run contrary to the values of God’s Kingdom. In light of 1 John 2:15-17, Keller would highlight that worldliness is often more subtle than it appears. It’s not always about overtly sinful behaviors, but often involves giving too much importance to success, appearance, or the approval of others. Keller would emphasize that Christians are called to reject these idols, to refocus on eternal values, and to live lives that reflect the love and priorities of God’s Kingdom, rather than the transient pursuits of the world.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Knowing God Means Keeping His Commands

Verse: 1 John 2:3–4 "We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, 'I know him,' but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person."

Reflection: This verse teaches us that our actions are the evidence of our relationship with God. Loving God means following His instructions. When we obey, we show that we truly know Him.

Discussion Prompt: What are simple ways you try to follow God’s commands every day, and why do you think our actions show our love for Him?

Point: Love for God Expressed in Obedience

Verse: 1 John 2:5 "But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them."

Reflection: Our obedience isn’t about legalism—it’s about letting our love for God grow and show in our lives. The more we follow God’s word, the more our love for Him deepens.

Discussion Prompt: Can you share a time when you felt closer to God because you chose to obey His guidance?

Point: Warnings Against Worldliness

Verse: 1 John 2:15–17 "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever."

Reflection: This passage reminds us that the values of the world—temporary and often selfish—can distract us from God’s eternal truth. When we choose God’s ways over worldly desires, we honor Him and secure a lasting relationship.

Discussion Prompt: In what everyday situations do you notice the pull of “worldly” values, and how might choosing God’s way change those situations?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Here are some related passages from the New Testament that reinforce today’s message:

John 14:15: "If you love me, keep my commands." — This verse directly links our love for Jesus with our obedience, echoing the message from 1 John 2.

Matthew 7:21: "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven." — It reminds us that true faith shows itself in our actions, not just in words.

James 2:17: "In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead." — This passage highlights that our faith must be active and evident in how we live, reinforcing that obedience is a natural outcome of genuine belief.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: What does “keeping God’s commands” look like in our everyday lives?

Commentary: This question invites us to think about practical examples of obedience—whether it’s showing kindness, helping a neighbor, or making honest choices. Our actions reveal our deep connection with God. Sharing real-life examples can help us see how small steps of obedience build up a strong, loving relationship with Him.

Question: How can our obedience to God help us resist the pull of worldly values?

Commentary: This discussion is about balance. The world offers quick and tempting shortcuts, but God’s ways provide long-lasting fulfillment. The conversation might explore how focusing on God’s word helps us make better choices that honor Him, even when society sends a different message.

Question: In what ways does experiencing God’s love empower us to live differently?

Commentary: When we truly understand the link between love and obedience, we begin to see the transformation in our lives. Sharing personal stories about times when choosing God’s way led to positive change can inspire one another and reinforce that our relationship with God is not just about rules—it’s about a loving connection that renews us each day.

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Session 3: "Truth and Lies"- 1 John 2:18-27
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: Discerning truth from falsehood and remaining faithful to sound teaching

Purpose Statement: To develop spiritual discernment regarding false teaching and to hold fast to the truth of Christ

READ: 1 John 2:18-27

Alistair Begg Sermon

A Word of Warning- 1 John 2:18–27 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John warns about "antichrists" who deny Jesus is the Christ (v.22). What false teachings about Jesus have you encountered in your lifetime, and how have you maintained your commitment to biblical truth?

In verse 27, John speaks of the "anointing" that teaches believers. How have you experienced the Holy Spirit guiding you into truth and helping you recognize error?

OVERVIEW:

In this passage, John addresses a serious challenge facing the early church—false teachers who were distorting the truth about Jesus. These "antichrists" were once part of the Christian community but had left, spreading confusion and threatening the faith of believers. John reminds his readers that they have God's Spirit within them to help discern truth from falsehood, and encourages them to hold firmly to the teaching they received from the beginning.

As G.K. Chesterton wisely observed, "Fallacies do not cease to be fallacies because they become fashions." John's warning about discerning truth from error remains as relevant today as it was in the first century.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people assume that "antichrist" refers only to one specific evil figure who will appear at the end of time. What might surprise you is that in 1 John 2:18, John speaks of "many antichrists" who were already present in his day. The term "antichrist" in this context refers to anyone who denies that Jesus is the Messiah or rejects His true nature as both fully God and fully human. John clarifies that false teaching doesn't always come from obvious outsiders—these antichrists "went out from us, but they did not really belong to us" (v.19). Some of the most dangerous spiritual deception comes from those who once appeared to be part of the faith community. This reminds us that spiritual discernment isn't about being suspicious of everyone, but about carefully evaluating teachings against the truth of Scripture, regardless of who delivers the message.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

We live in what many call a "post-truth" society, where personal feelings and opinions often carry more weight than objective facts. Social media algorithms create echo chambers that reinforce what we already believe, while "fake news" and misinformation spread rapidly. In this environment, John's guidance on discernment is incredibly timely. Just as early Christians needed to evaluate teachings according to the truth they had received from reliable sources, we need to carefully evaluate the flood of information we receive daily. John reminds us in verse 27 that we have God's Spirit as our internal "truth detector." This doesn't mean we simply trust whatever feels right, but rather that we prayerfully evaluate messages through the lens of Scripture and in community with other believers. In a world that celebrates "your truth" and "my truth," John reminds us that ultimate truth is found in Jesus Christ and His teachings.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: Discerning Truth from Falsehood

What does John mean by “antichrist,” and how can we recognize such influences today? — John warns of the presence of "many antichrists" (v. 18), not just a singular apocalyptic figure. In context, these are individuals who deny that Jesus is the Christ (v. 22) and who once belonged to the community of faith but have departed (v. 19). Today, the "spirit of the antichrist" may manifest not only in overt denials of Christ but also in subtle distortions of His person and work. Recognizing these influences requires more than doctrinal awareness; it demands an intimate relationship with the truth, cultivated by the Spirit.

How does the “anointing” (v. 20, 27) guide believers into truth, and how should we interpret this in relation to Scripture and church teaching? — John speaks of an “anointing from the Holy One,” which teaches believers all things. This anointing is often understood as the Holy Spirit, who illuminates the truth of Christ and guards against deception. However, this spiritual guidance is not independent of Scripture or communal discernment. The Spirit leads believers through the Word and often within the community of faith. The danger lies in privatized interpretations that ignore the guardrails of apostolic teaching.

In what ways might we unintentionally drift from the truth we “heard from the beginning” (v. 24), and how can we guard against this? —John urges believers to let the original message “abide” in them, implying a conscious effort to retain and remain in the apostolic teaching. The drift may occur subtly—through cultural accommodation, intellectual pride, or spiritual apathy. Guarding against this means cultivating disciplines of remembrance: regularly engaging Scripture, participating in sound teaching, and submitting to godly accountability. The battle between truth and lies is often won or lost in the mundane faithfulness of daily abiding.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: Spotting a Fake Jersey

Imagine you’re a huge fan of your favorite sports team, and you want to buy their official jersey. You find one online for half the price of the real thing—same colors, same logo—but when it arrives, something feels off. The stitching is messy, the fabric is thin, and the logo looks slightly wrong. You realize it’s a fake.

In 1 John 2:18-27, John warns us about “fakes” in our faith—false teachers who claim to know Christ but twist the truth. He calls them “antichrists,” not in the sense of a single end-times figure, but as anyone who denies Jesus as the true Savior. Just like a fake jersey might fool people at first, false teaching can look good on the surface. It might sound wise or spiritual, but when you look closer, it doesn’t match up with God’s Word.

The good news? We have a built-in authenticity checker—God’s Spirit. John reminds us that “the anointing you received from him remains in you” (v. 27). The Holy Spirit helps us recognize what’s true and what’s not, guiding us back to Jesus.

Think about a time when you heard something that sounded spiritual but didn’t quite sit right with you. Maybe someone said, “God just wants you to be happy, no matter what,” but deep down, you knew that obedience matters more than personal happiness. That’s the Holy Spirit helping you discern truth from lies.

Reflection Questions:

How can you tell if something is spiritually true or false?

Have you ever believed something about God that later turned out to be incorrect?

How can you stay grounded in God’s truth so you won’t be deceived?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Truth and Lies" (1 John 2:18–27)

Discernment →Ability to distinguish truth from error and resist deception by false teachers. →1 John 2:18, 2:26

Abiding in Christ →Continually remaining in relationship with Christ and holding fast to the original gospel message. →1 John 2:24, 2:27

Reliance on the Holy Spirit →Trusting the Holy Spirit’s anointing for guidance and understanding of truth. →1 John 2:20, 2:27

Spiritual Maturity →Growing in faith and stability through the Word and Spirit, not swayed by new or false teachings. →1 John 2:21, 2:24

Confidence in Eternal Life →Assurance of eternal life as a result of abiding in the truth and in the Son and the Father. →1 John 2:25

Faithfulness to Apostolic Teaching →Holding to what was heard from the beginning, not seeking novelty or secret knowledge. →1 John 2:24

Fruitfulness →Bearing spiritual fruit by living in fellowship with Christ and growing in Him. →1 John 2:27-28

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

At the heart of this passage is the importance of spiritual discernment. John isn't telling believers to become suspicious or paranoid, but to be mindful that not everything claiming to be Christian teaching actually aligns with the truth about Jesus. The key test John provides is whether a teaching acknowledges Jesus as the Christ—God's Son who came in human flesh. Any teaching that diminishes either Christ's divinity or His humanity fails this test.

What's encouraging is that John doesn't leave believers to figure everything out on their own. He reminds them that they have "an anointing from the Holy One" (v.20), which enables them to recognize truth. This anointing—the Holy Spirit—guides believers as they engage with Scripture and helps them evaluate teachings they encounter. Rather than chasing after new and exciting spiritual ideas, John encourages believers to hold firmly to the foundational truths they received "from the beginning" (v.24). When we remain grounded in the essentials of the faith—that Jesus is God's Son who died for our sins and rose again—we build our spiritual lives on a foundation that will not shift, regardless of what new teachings may come along.

QUICK QUIZ:

John writes about people who "went out from us, but they did not really belong to us" (v.19). Have you ever experienced a situation where someone you thought shared your faith revealed very different beliefs? How did you respond, and what helped you maintain your own spiritual grounding during that time?

According to verses 20-21, believers have "an anointing from the Holy One" that helps them know the truth. What practical steps can you take to better recognize truth and detect falsehood in the messages you encounter daily? How might prayer, Scripture study, and Christian community help sharpen your discernment?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. R.C. Sproul

On discerning truth from falsehood: R.C. Sproul was known for his commitment to the authority and clarity of Scripture. In his teachings, Sproul emphasized that discerning truth from falsehood begins with a solid foundation in the Bible. In relation to 1 John 2:18-27, he would stress the importance of sound doctrine as the key to avoiding the deception of false teachers. Sproul often warned that false teachings are insidious and can subtly distort the truth of the Gospel, leading believers away from the essentials of the faith. He would likely refer to the apostolic teachings and the need to hold fast to the Gospel as passed down in Scripture.

Sproul frequently explained the doctrine of the Antichrist, as referenced in 1 John 2:18, noting that there are many who deny the truth of Christ’s divinity or His atoning work. He would emphasize that spiritual discernment requires a deep knowledge of the truth revealed in the Bible and an unwavering commitment to the gospel.

On remaining faithful to sound teaching: Sproul was a passionate advocate for the sufficiency and clarity of Scripture. He would highlight that remaining faithful to sound teaching is not merely about intellectual agreement but about living in obedience to the truth. The key, according to Sproul, is maintaining a robust understanding of Scripture and continually testing all teachings against the Word of God. He would emphasize the importance of the Holy Spirit’s guidance in helping believers discern falsehood and cling to truth, as mentioned in 1 John 2:20-21.

2. John Piper

On discerning truth from falsehood: John Piper has frequently written and preached about the importance of holding fast to the truth of Christ. In light of 1 John 2:18-27, he would likely emphasize that discerning truth from falsehood is a matter of being rooted in the Person of Christ—His work and His revelation through the Word. Piper often stresses that when believers truly know Christ, they can discern error because they know Him personally. He writes in Desiring God: “The greatest thing in all the world is to have the knowledge of God. If you know Him, you can know truth from error.” Piper would underscore that a vibrant relationship with Christ and a deep engagement with Scripture are essential to recognizing false teachings and resisting them.

On remaining faithful to sound teaching: Piper regularly speaks about the need for the Church to be vigilant in guarding the truth, noting that we must remain grounded in Scripture while being aware of the dangers of false teachings. In his reflections on 1 John, Piper would call the Church to remain faithful to the gospel of grace, avoiding the dilution of biblical truths that often accompany false teachings. He would highlight that remaining faithful to sound teaching means consistently pointing to Christ and His completed work of salvation, rejecting any teaching that diminishes His central role in the Christian faith.

3. Tim Keller

On discerning truth from falsehood: Tim Keller often addresses the challenge of encountering false teachings in today’s pluralistic world. He would likely interpret 1 John 2:18-27 as a reminder that spiritual discernment is not just about rejecting doctrinal errors but also about recognizing how falsehood can be appealing and subtle. Keller often discusses how many contemporary “falsehoods” come in the form of cultural pressures or ideologies that, though not explicitly anti-Christian, pull believers away from the central message of the gospel. He would emphasize that Christians need to be equipped not only with correct theology but also with a deep relationship with Christ, which provides the strength and clarity needed to identify falsehoods.

On remaining faithful to sound teaching: Keller would stress the importance of staying rooted in the gospel of grace and being part of a community of believers who help each other stay faithful. He would point to 1 John 2:24-25 as an encouragement to abide in the truth of Christ and to let His Word abide in us. Keller would likely draw attention to the idea that faithfulness to sound teaching is not just about individual commitment, but it’s also about community. The church is a place where believers are equipped to discern error and hold fast to the truth together. He often encourages Christians to be critical of the world’s ideologies while ensuring they remain grounded in the timeless truths of Scripture.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Identifying False Teachers

Verse: 1 John 2:18–19 "Dear children, this is the last hour; and as you have heard that the antichrist is coming, even now many antichrists have come. This is how we know it is the last hour. They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us."

Reflection: John warns of false teachers, identifying them as those who leave the fellowship and reject the truth. This reminds us to stay rooted in Christ and examine teachings carefully.

Discussion Prompt: How can we discern between authentic teaching and falsehood in the church today?

Point: The Anointing of the Holy Spirit

Verse: 1 John 2:20 "But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and all of you know the truth."

Reflection: The Holy Spirit equips believers with spiritual discernment, helping us recognize and cling to the truth.

Discussion Prompt: How does the Holy Spirit help us understand God’s word and detect false teachings?

Point: Holding Fast to the Truth

Verse: 1 John 2:24 "As for you, see that what you have heard from the beginning remains in you. If it does, you also will remain in the Son and in the Father."

Reflection: Remaining faithful to the gospel message requires continually grounding ourselves in God’s word and teachings.

Discussion Prompt: How can we keep the truth of Christ central in our hearts and lives, especially when facing challenges?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Here are New Testament scriptures related to discerning truth and holding fast to sound teaching:

Matthew 7:15–16: "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them." — A warning to examine the character and actions of teachers to determine their authenticity.

John 14:26: "But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you." — Highlights the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding believers to truth.

2 Timothy 3:14–15: "But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus." — Encouragement to remain steadfast in Scripture and sound teaching.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: Why does John emphasize the dangers of false teaching in 1 John 2:18–19?

Commentary: False teaching can lead believers astray and damage the unity of the church. This discussion can explore ways to guard against deceptive influences while staying united in Christ.

Question: How does the Holy Spirit’s “anointing” empower us to discern truth from lies?

Commentary: The Holy Spirit is a gift, guiding us into all truth and helping us recognize false teachings. Discussing this can deepen participants’ understanding of their personal connection with the Spirit.

Question: What practical steps can we take to ensure the truth of Christ remains in us, as emphasized in 1 John 2:24?

Commentary: Whether it’s through prayer, Bible study, or fellowship, focusing on Christ helps us stay grounded in His truth. Participants can reflect on strategies that work in their own lives.

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Session 4: "Children of God"- 1 John 2:28-3:10
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: The privileges and responsibilities of being God's children

Purpose Statement: To grasp our identity as God's children and the moral transformation this identity requires

READ: 1 John 2:28-3:10

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Children of God- 1 John 2:28–3:3

Sinlessness: Fact or Fiction? — Part One- 1 John 3:4–10 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John writes that "when he appears we shall be like him" (3:2). How does this future hope of complete transformation into Christ's likeness impact how you view your current struggles with sin?

The passage draws a sharp contrast between children of God and children of the devil (3:10). In what ways has your experience of living righteously brought clarity to your identity as God's child?

OVERVIEW:

In this passage, John shifts his focus to one of the most profound truths of Christianity—believers are literally children of God. This isn't just a nice metaphor; it's a spiritual reality that shapes who we are and how we live. John explains how this identity impacts our present conduct and future hope, while drawing a clear distinction between those who belong to God's family and those who don't.

As Max Lucado beautifully expressed, "God loves you just the way you are, but He refuses to leave you that way. He wants you to be just like Jesus." This captures John's message that our identity as God's children involves both unconditional acceptance and ongoing transformation.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people think that being "born again" or becoming a "child of God" is primarily about going to heaven when we die. What might surprise you is that in 1 John 3:2-3, John emphasizes how this identity affects us right now. He writes, "Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is." The surprising part is that our future transformation begins in the present—"All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure." Our identity as God's children isn't just about a future inheritance; it's meant to have an immediate purifying effect on how we live today. John suggests that truly understanding who we are in Christ naturally leads to a process of becoming more like Him now, not just in eternity.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In our achievement-oriented society, identity is often tied to what we do, how much we earn, or what others think of us. Social media amplifies this by turning our lives into performances where likes and comments validate our worth. Against this backdrop, John's message is revolutionary—our most fundamental identity isn't something we earn, create, or project, but something we receive as a gift from God. Being called "children of God" means our core identity is based on relationship, not performance.

At the same time, John challenges the modern mindset that says personal identity should have no moral implications for behavior. Today's culture often separates who we are from how we live, suggesting that authentic self-expression means doing whatever feels right. John presents a different view: our identity as God's children naturally expresses itself in righteous living. Just as a child might naturally reflect their parent's mannerisms and values, God's children reflect His character through lives marked by love and righteousness. This isn't about rigid rule-following but about living authentically from our true identity.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 1 John 2:3-17

Why does John call his readers "little children" throughout this passage (vv. 1, 12, 18)? What does this reveal about his relationship with them? —John's tender address as "little children" reflects his pastoral care and spiritual authority. As an elder apostle, he assumes a fatherly role, guiding with love rather than harshness. This relationship demonstrates how spiritual maturity should lead to nurturing others with both truth and compassion.

In 1 John 2:1-2, John writes about Jesus as our "advocate" and "propitiation." How do these roles comfort believers who struggle with sin? —When we fail, Jesus serves as our advocate (legal defender) before the Father. As our propitiation, He has already satisfied God's righteous judgment against sin. This dual role reminds us that while God takes sin seriously, genuine believers need not live in paralyzing guilt or fear of condemnation. Christ's work provides both forgiveness and restoration.

How does John describe the relationship between knowing God and keeping His commandments in verses 3-6? What challenge does this present to contemporary Christianity? —John establishes a direct connection: those who truly know God obey His commands. This challenges the modern tendency to separate faith from obedience, or to claim spiritual enlightenment without moral transformation. Authentic relationship with God inevitably produces a lifestyle that increasingly reflects Christ's example.

What does it mean that the command to love is both "old" and "new" (vv. 7-8)? Why is this significant? —The command to love is "old" because it existed from the beginning of God's revelation, yet "new" because Jesus demonstrated its fullest expression and empowers believers to love through His Spirit. This reminds us that God's truth is both timeless and freshly relevant to each generation, finding its clearest manifestation in Christ.

In verses 9-11, John contrasts walking in light versus darkness. How might this metaphor help believers evaluate whether they truly love their brothers and sisters? —The light/darkness imagery provides a stark diagnostic tool. Those in light demonstrate love; those claiming to be in light while harboring hatred remain in darkness. This challenges us to examine not just our public religious activities but our actual treatment of fellow believers. Genuine spiritual enlightenment always manifests in practical love.

What might John mean by "the world" in verses 15-17, and why does he warn so strongly against loving it? —"The world" here refers not to creation itself but to the system of values, priorities, and desires that oppose God's kingdom. John warns that attachment to these temporal things (sensual pleasure, materialism, and pride) diverts our affection from God and leads to spiritual death. Only lives aligned with God's will have eternal significance.

How do verses 12-14 address different spiritual maturity levels? What encouragement do these words offer to believers at various stages of faith? —John recognizes and affirms distinct groups: "children" who know forgiveness, "young men" who have victory over evil, and "fathers" with deep knowledge of God. This passage acknowledges that spiritual growth follows a natural progression, encouraging believers to appreciate their current stage while continuing to mature. Each level has its own strengths and assurances from God.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Love Test and a Fake $20 Bill

Imagine you’re at the grocery store, and you hand the cashier a $20 bill. She holds it up to the light, runs a special marker over it, and checks it carefully. Why? Because counterfeit money looks real, but under close inspection, the truth comes out.

Our love for God works the same way. It’s easy to say, “I love God,” but John tells us there’s a test to see if that love is real—obedience. “We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands” (1 John 2:3). Loving God isn’t just about feelings or words; it’s about actions. When we obey God, we prove that our faith is the real deal.

John also warns us about loving the things of the world—money, status, pleasure—because they are like counterfeit bills. They might seem valuable, but they don’t last. True worth comes from loving and obeying God.

Think about a time when you had to choose between doing what was easy and what was right. Maybe it was speaking the truth when lying would have been simpler, or choosing kindness when anger felt justified. Those moments reveal what we love most—God or the world.

Reflection Questions:

Have you ever struggled with wanting something worldly more than wanting to obey God?

What is one command of God that you find challenging to obey?

How can you make sure your love for God is authentic and not just words?

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Children of God" (1 John 2:28-3:10)

Confidence at Christ’s Coming →Lives with assurance and does not shrink from Jesus in shame when He returns. →1 John 2:28

Practice of Righteousness →Habitually does what is right, reflecting God’s righteous character. →1 John 2:29; 3:7

Awareness of God’s Love →Recognizes and is shaped by the great love the Father has bestowed in calling us His children. →1 John 3:1

Hope and Purity →Has hope in Christ’s return, leading to a life of self-purification and striving for Christlikeness. →1 John 3:2–3

Rejection of Sin →Does not make a practice of sinning, since Christ came to take away sins and there is no sin in Him. →1 John 3:4–6

Distinction from the World →Understands that the world does not recognize God’s children, just as it did not recognize Christ. →1 John 3:1

Love for Fellow Believers →Demonstrates genuine love for other Christians, a mark of being born of God. →1 John 3:10

Obedience →Shows evidence of being “born of God” by living in obedience and not following sinful patterns. →1 John 3:9

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

John begins his letter by establishing that Jesus was not just a spiritual idea or a good teacher—He was God in human form who could be seen, heard, and touched. This reality is the foundation of our faith. If Jesus truly lived among us, died for us, and rose again, then everything changes. His physical presence on earth means God understands our human experience firsthand.

The incredible news is that this same Jesus offers us ongoing forgiveness. When we stumble and sin—which we all do—we don't need to hide in shame or work our way back into God's favor. Instead, we simply need to confess our sins and trust that Jesus' sacrifice covers them completely. Like a continuous shower that keeps us clean, confession keeps our relationship with God fresh and our fellowship with other believers authentic. God's forgiveness isn't a one-time event but a constant flow of grace that allows us to walk confidently in His light.

QUICK QUIZ:

John writes about "that which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched." Why do you think he emphasizes these physical senses? How might this impact how you think about Jesus?

According to this passage, what happens when we confess our sins versus what happens when we deny them? How might being honest about your struggles actually strengthen your relationship with God and others rather than weaken it?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. John Piper

On the privileges of being God's children: John Piper emphasizes that being a child of God is one of the greatest privileges available to Christians, offering the intimate relationship of being in God's family. In his teachings, particularly in Future Grace, Piper focuses on the joy and security that come with being adopted into God's family. He explains that God’s children are heirs to an eternal inheritance, with all the promises of God secured for them in Christ. In 1 John 3:1, Piper would highlight the wonder of this love: “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God.” For Piper, the privilege of being God’s children is not just about future blessings but the present reality of being beloved by God.

On the responsibilities and moral transformation required: Piper often stresses that being God’s children demands a radical transformation in how we live. He would likely explain that the privilege of being adopted into God’s family comes with a responsibility to reflect God's holiness in our lives. 1 John 3:3 speaks of the purifying effect of this identity: “Everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure.” Piper would emphasize that our hope in Christ should inspire moral transformation, where believers pursue righteousness in response to God’s love, because they are now children of a holy God. For Piper, true Christian identity involves an ongoing transformation into Christ's likeness—becoming more like Him in thought, action, and desire.

2. Tim Keller

On the privileges of being God's children: Tim Keller often highlights the profound privilege of being adopted into God’s family. In his book The Prodigal God, Keller explores the concept of adoption, explaining that it is a gift of grace. He points out that, as children of God, believers are not only loved but also chosen and given a new identity that changes their purpose in life. In 1 John 3:1, Keller would stress that the privilege of being God’s children is rooted in the undeserved, unconditional love of the Father. Being God’s children means that Christians are now secure in their relationship with God, with access to His care, protection, and guidance.

On the responsibilities and moral transformation required: Keller would stress that the identity of being God's children is a call to moral transformation. In his sermon series on 1 John, Keller would likely emphasize that this transformation isn’t a burdensome obligation but a response to God’s love and grace. As children of God, believers are called to “walk as Jesus walked” (1 John 2:6). Keller explains that this change involves both internal renewal—our hearts and desires being transformed to reflect God’s holiness—and external transformation, as we live in obedience to His commands. He would highlight that 1 John 3:6-10 makes it clear that the behavior of God's children should be in line with their new identity, distinguishing them from those who continue in sin.

3. Dietrich Bonhoeffer

On the privileges of being God's children: Dietrich Bonhoeffer, in his classic The Cost of Discipleship, often speaks of the costly grace of being called children of God. Bonhoeffer would view the privilege of being God’s children as a gift that calls for serious commitment and responsibility. He would point to 1 John 3:1 as a declaration of God's grace, but would remind believers that this grace is not cheap. Bonhoeffer’s understanding of grace is that it leads to an active, ongoing relationship with God that transforms every part of life. For him, the privilege of being children of God is inseparable from the call to live in radical obedience and sacrifice, following Christ no matter the cost.

On the responsibilities and moral transformation required: Bonhoeffer’s theology often centered on the idea of discipleship—the idea that those who are children of God must follow Christ closely and live out His commands. In line with 1 John 3:7-10, Bonhoeffer would stress that being a child of God means living a life that bears witness to that identity by practicing righteousness. He would say that true discipleship involves a moral transformation that is visible in the way we live. Bonhoeffer would argue that the grace of being a child of God requires believers to live differently from the world, rejecting sin and pursuing holiness. He would challenge Christians to live out their new identity, not as an abstract concept but as a visible reality in their everyday lives.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Confidence at His Coming

Verse: 1 John 2:28 "And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident and unashamed before him at his coming."

Reflection: This verse reminds us that abiding in Christ leads to confidence and joy, not fear, when He returns.

Discussion Prompt: How can living in close relationship with Christ today help us look forward to His return with confidence?

Point: Our Identity as God's Children

Verse: 1 John 3:1 "See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!"

Reflection: Being God’s children is both a privilege and an assurance of His love. This identity offers hope and security in a world full of uncertainty.

Discussion Prompt: What does it mean to you personally to be called a child of God? How does this shape your view of yourself?

Point: Moral Transformation Through Our Identity

Verse: 1 John 3:6 "No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him."

Reflection: Our identity as God’s children calls for a change in our actions, striving to live in righteousness and leave sin behind.

Discussion Prompt: What areas of your life can reflect more of God’s character as part of this moral transformation?

Point: Evidence of Our Relationship with God

Verse: 1 John 3:9–10 "No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God."

Reflection: The work of God in us produces visible change, showing others the truth of our faith.

Discussion Prompt: How does the change in our character serve as a testimony to others about who God is?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

John 1:12: "Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God." — This verse affirms that our identity as God’s children is rooted in faith and acceptance of Christ.

Romans 8:16–17: "The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory." — A powerful reminder of the privileges and responsibilities of being God’s heirs.

Ephesians 5:8–9: "For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth)." — Highlights how our identity as God’s children is reflected in a transformed, righteous lifestyle.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: What emotions or thoughts does 1 John 3:1 stir in you when it describes the love of God in making us His children?

Commentary: This verse challenges us to consider the depth of God’s love. Discussing this can help participants connect personally with the idea of being adopted into God’s family.

Question: How does our identity as God’s children impact our daily decisions and the way we interact with others?

Commentary: This encourages reflection on how being God’s child shapes not only internal transformation but also our relationships and actions in the world.

Question: Why do you think John emphasizes that being God’s child includes turning away from sin? How can we rely on God’s strength to do so?

Commentary: This discussion can focus on the concept of grace-fueled transformation, emphasizing that God doesn’t call us to perfection but to a sincere pursuit of holiness.

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Session 5: "Love in Action"- 1 John 3:11-24
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: The command to love one another demonstrated through concrete actions

Purpose Statement: To understand what genuine Christian love looks like in practice and how it assures our hearts before God

READ: 1 John 3:11-24

Alistair Begg Sermon

Loving One Another- 1 John 3:11–18

Salvation: Can We Know for Sure?- 1 John 3:19–24

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John calls us to love "in deed and in truth" rather than just "in word" (v.18). Share a time when someone showed you Christ's love through actions rather than just words. How did this impact you?

In verses 19-22, John addresses how our hearts may condemn us but God is greater than our hearts. How have you experienced God's reassurance when you've felt unworthy or condemned by your own conscience?

OVERVIEW:

In this passage, John moves from talking about our identity as God's children to how that identity should affect the way we treat others. He emphasizes that genuine love isn't just about feelings or words—it requires action and sacrifice. John contrasts the hateful example of Cain with the selfless love of Jesus and calls believers to follow Christ's model of practical, tangible love toward others.

As Mother Teresa wisely said, "Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love." John's message reminds us that Christianity isn't just about what we believe, but about how our beliefs transform the way we love others in everyday life.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

People often assume that the main point of religion is to feel close to God through spiritual experiences or personal devotion. What might surprise you is that in 1 John 3:17-18, John suggests that the authenticity of our relationship with God is demonstrated primarily through how we treat others: "If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?" John doesn't separate loving God from loving others—they're completely connected.

The challenging truth here is that our spiritual life isn't measured by how many Bible verses we know or how often we attend church, but by whether we're willing to meet the practical needs of others, even when it costs us something. John cuts through religious pretense by stating, "Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth." In God's economy, giving your coat to someone who's cold might be more spiritually significant than spending an hour in prayer—if that prayer doesn't lead to compassionate action.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

We live in a digital age where expressing support or concern is often reduced to clicking "like" on a social media post or sending a quick "thoughts and prayers" message. Our culture has made it easier than ever to express sentiment without taking meaningful action. John's message directly challenges this trend by insisting that real love requires more than words—it demands concrete action and sometimes personal sacrifice.

John's emphasis on loving "with actions and in truth" also speaks to our image-conscious culture where appearances often matter more than reality. In a world of carefully curated social media profiles and public personas, John calls for authenticity—love that's verified through tangible deeds, not just passionate declarations. This might mean volunteering at a shelter, sharing resources with someone facing financial hardship, or simply being physically present with someone who's suffering instead of just sending a text. True Christian love moves beyond the virtual to the actual, beyond convenient expressions to committed involvement in others' lives.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 1 John 3:11-24

John begins this section by reminding readers this message about love has been taught "from the beginning" (v.11). Why does he emphasize the consistency of this teaching, and what might this reveal about challenges in the early church? —By stressing this teaching's longevity, John counters false teachers who might claim superior "new" insights. The emphasis on consistency suggests some were introducing innovative theologies that minimized love's centrality. This reminds us that genuine spiritual advancement deepens our commitment to foundational truths rather than abandoning them. The early church, like believers today, needed reminding that love remains non-negotiable, regardless of theological sophistication.

How does the example of Cain in verses 12-13 illustrate the natural hostility between the world and believers? What comfort can this provide when Christians face opposition? —Cain's murder of Abel demonstrated the pattern of hostility righteous living provokes from those committed to evil. John uses this to explain why the world hates believers—their righteous lives implicitly condemn worldly values. This historical perspective comforts persecuted Christians by showing opposition isn't evidence of failure but confirmation they're following Christ's path. Hostility often indicates effectiveness, not ineffectiveness, in spiritual witness.

In verse 14, John presents love for fellow believers as evidence of passing from death to life. How does this challenge individualistic approaches to faith? —John establishes community love as essential evidence of spiritual transformation—not optional but fundamental. This directly contradicts individualistic spirituality that claims personal relationship with God while avoiding meaningful connection with His people. Genuine salvation necessarily creates capacity for love that previously didn't exist. This teaches that spiritual vitality must be measured partly through relationships, not just personal piety or experiences.

How does John define hatred in verse 15, and why does he connect it with murder? What implications does this have for how we view internal attitudes? —John equates hatred with murder in its spiritual essence, echoing Jesus' teaching that internal disposition, not just external action, constitutes sin. This radical perspective eliminates the distinction between "acceptable" and "extreme" forms of personal animosity. It challenges believers to address seemingly "minor" issues like resentment, contempt, or indifference as serious spiritual problems requiring repentance, not rationalization.

What concrete example of love does John provide in verse 16, and how does verse 17 apply this principle to everyday life? —Christ's self-sacrifice establishes the definition of love—willingness to give oneself completely for others' benefit. John immediately applies this to material possessions, showing that withholding resources from brothers in need contradicts claims of divine love dwelling within. This moves love from abstract concept to practical choice: authentic Christian love consistently sacrifices personal comfort and security for others' well-being.

What does John mean by "let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth" (v.18)? How might this apply to contemporary church culture? —John confronts the gap between verbal professions and tangible actions. While not dismissing the importance of affirming love verbally, he emphasizes that words must be authenticated by concrete demonstrations. This challenges church cultures that emphasize emotional worship or theological precision while neglecting practical care. It reminds us that compassionate action, not just spiritual language, validates our claims of transformation.

According to verses 19-22, how does practical love provide assurance to believers whose hearts condemn them? What is the relationship between obedience and confidence in prayer? —Acting in concrete love reassures believers of their authentic relationship with God, even when feelings suggest otherwise. Practicing love creates confidence before God that transcends emotional fluctuations. This establishes the counterintuitive truth that external obedience can heal internal doubts. John connects this confidence directly to effective prayer, suggesting that alignment with God's will through obedience creates spiritual receptivity to receiving what we ask.

How do the twin commands in verse 23 (believe and love) summarize the Christian life? Why does John connect belief in Christ with love for others? —John distills Christian discipleship to faith in Christ and love for others—theological commitment and ethical expression inseparably linked. This teaches that orthodox belief necessarily produces transformed relationships; each authenticates the other. Doctrine without love becomes cold intellectualism; love without proper understanding of Christ becomes mere humanitarianism. Together, they constitute the integrated response to God's grace that defines authentic Christianity.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Peanut Butter & Jelly Challenge

A youth group once tried a fun experiment called the “PB&J Challenge.” One person gave step-by-step instructions on how to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, but the other person had to follow them exactly as spoken—no assumptions allowed. If the instructions weren’t clear, the sandwich ended up as a mess.

The lesson? Love isn’t just about words—it’s about clear, intentional action. Saying “I love you” doesn’t mean much if it isn’t backed up with real kindness, generosity, and sacrifice. John makes this clear in 1 John 3:18: “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth”.

The world often defines love as a feeling, but John defines love as a choice. It’s seen in the way we treat people, especially when it’s inconvenient. It’s choosing patience when someone annoys you, giving when it costs you something, or forgiving when it’s hard. Love is laying down our lives, just as Jesus did for us (v. 16).

Think about a time when someone showed you love through action—maybe they helped you when you were struggling, listened when you needed a friend, or forgave you when you didn’t deserve it. That’s the kind of love God calls us to show every day.

Reflection Questions:

What’s one way you can show love in action this week?

Is there someone in your life who needs to experience God’s love through you right now?

How does loving others help strengthen your own relationship with God?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

At the heart of this passage is John's radical understanding of love—not as a feeling we have but as an action we take. He points to Jesus as the ultimate example: "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us" (3:16). Real love, as demonstrated by Jesus, involves sacrifice for the good of others. It's about giving what costs us something—our time, comfort, resources, or convenience—for someone else's benefit.

What's especially encouraging in this passage is how John connects this kind of practical love to our confidence before God. In verses 19-22, he explains that when we express love through concrete actions, our hearts are assured of our relationship with God. Many Christians struggle with doubt and insecurity about where they stand with God. John offers a practical solution—look at how you're loving others. Are you meeting needs when you see them? Are you extending compassion in tangible ways? If so, this provides evidence that God's Spirit is working in your life.

This doesn't mean we earn God's love through good deeds. Rather, our willingness to love others sacrificially confirms that we've truly received God's love ourselves. Like a mirror reflecting light, our practical love for others reflects the genuine presence of God's love in our hearts. This gives us confidence to approach God openly, even when our hearts try to condemn us, because our actions demonstrate that we belong to the truth.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Love in Action" (1 John 3:11–24)

Love for Others →Actively loving fellow believers, not just in words but in actions and truth. →1 John 3:11, 3:18

Sacrificial Service →Willingness to lay down one’s life or resources for others, following Christ’s example. →1 John 3:16–17

Rejection of Hatred →Turning away from hatred, envy, or murderous attitudes like Cain; choosing love instead. →1 John 3:12, 3:15

Assurance Before God →Gaining confidence and reassurance in one’s relationship with God through loving actions. →1 John 3:14, 3:19–21

Obedience to God’s Commands →Keeping God’s commandments, especially to believe in Jesus and love one another. →1 John 3:22–23

Abiding in Christ →Living in ongoing fellowship with God, marked by obedience and love. →1 John 3:24

Generosity →Meeting the needs of others with material help as an outflow of God’s love. →1 John 3:17

Spirit-led Living →Evidence of God’s Spirit at work, confirming true relationship with Him. →1 John 3:24

QUICK QUIZ:

John writes, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters" (3:16). What might "laying down your life" for others look like in everyday situations? Can you think of a time when someone "laid down their life" for you in a meaningful way?

According to verses 19-22, loving others in action helps assure our hearts before God when we feel guilty or doubtful. Why do you think practical acts of love provide this kind of spiritual confidence? Have you experienced this connection between showing love to others and feeling more secure in God's love for you?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. C.S. Lewis

On genuine Christian love in practice: C.S. Lewis often explored the nature of love in his writings, especially in The Four Loves, where he distinguishes between different types of love. When it comes to agape (selfless, sacrificial love), which is the love commanded in 1 John 3:11-24, Lewis writes about how Christian love is not based on emotions or fleeting feelings but on concrete actions that serve others. He would stress that true Christian love is active, not passive, and it is demonstrated in ways that serve the well-being of others, even at a cost to oneself.

In light of 1 John 3:16-18, Lewis would likely highlight that love is not merely about words or feelings but about how we respond to the needs of others, particularly those within the Christian community. He often spoke of love as something that gives and sacrifices for the good of others, and this is the kind of love that Christians are called to embody—one that actively seeks the good of others, even when it’s inconvenient or costly.

On how love assures our hearts before God: Lewis would argue that genuine love for others serves as a reflection of God’s love for us. In Mere Christianity, Lewis talks about the transforming power of God’s love, saying that as we love others, we become more like God, who is love. In 1 John 3:19-20, the apostle John says, “By this we shall know that we are of the truth and reassure our heart before him.” Lewis would affirm that the assurance we have before God comes not from our feelings or our spiritual status, but from the evidence of God’s love flowing through us to others. True love for others is a sign of God’s work in our hearts.

2. Tim Keller

On genuine Christian love in practice: Tim Keller frequently teaches that Christian love is not an abstract concept but something that must be lived out in concrete actions, especially within the community of believers. He often explains that the love we are called to show is sacrificial and selfless. In his book The Meaning of Marriage, Keller emphasizes that love is not only about feeling affection for someone, but about actively seeking their good. This is the love that is described in 1 John 3:16-18, where John connects love with action, saying, “Let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.”

Keller would emphasize that genuine love involves practical, sacrificial acts. In the context of the Christian community, this love is expressed through the care for one another’s physical and emotional needs, the commitment to forgive, and the willingness to serve even when it’s difficult. He would stress that love is not just about helping people when it’s easy or convenient, but especially when it requires sacrifice.

On how love assures our hearts before God: Keller teaches that genuine love for others is an indicator of our relationship with God. In his reflections on 1 John, he would point to how our love for others serves as evidence of the transformative work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. He often points out that when we are filled with God's love, we are moved to love others sacrificially, and this provides assurance to our hearts that we are truly children of God. In 1 John 3:21-24, John writes about how love for others can give us confidence in God’s presence, and Keller would explain that this love is a way to experience God's assurance in our hearts. The love we show to others isn’t just a command—it’s a sign of God's ongoing work in our lives.

3. John Piper

On genuine Christian love in practice: John Piper, in his teaching on Christian Hedonism, often argues that love is the highest expression of Christian joy and fulfillment. In his reflections on 1 John 3:11-24, Piper would likely emphasize that Christian love is the outward expression of the inward joy and satisfaction found in Christ. Love, in this context, is not merely an emotion or a duty, but an overflow of joy that seeks the good of others. In Desiring God, Piper writes, “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” For Piper, the satisfaction believers find in Christ leads them to love others genuinely, and this love is displayed through tangible actions—such as meeting physical needs and offering forgiveness.

On how love assures our hearts before God: Piper would focus on the concept of assurance in 1 John 3:19-24, particularly the role of the Holy Spirit in confirming our identity as children of God. He would explain that when we love others in concrete ways, it is a sign that the Holy Spirit is at work in us, and this gives us assurance before God. For Piper, the fruit of love in a believer’s life is a sign that God is present and working within them. He would emphasize that assurance is not based on our emotional state or our performance, but on the evidence of the fruit of the Spirit in our lives. Love, therefore, becomes a visible sign of God’s love abiding in us and a source of confidence before God.

KEY POINTS to Reflect On

Love is Our Foundational Command

Verse: 1 John 3:11

Reflection: From the beginning, God’s plan was for us to love one another. This isn’t a suggestion; it’s central to being a follower of Christ.

Discussion Prompt: How can you actively show love to those in your church or community this week?

Love in Action, Not Just Words

Verse: 1 John 3:17-18

Reflection: Genuine love is practical—it meets needs and goes beyond saying “I care.” Actions, not just words, demonstrate the depth of our love.

Discussion Prompt: What simple act of kindness could you do this week to live out your faith?

Love as Assurance

Verse: 1 John 3:19-21

Reflection: Loving others gives us confidence before God. Even when doubts arise, our acts of love confirm the work of God in our hearts.

Discussion Prompt: Has showing love ever reassured you of God’s presence in your life? Share a story if you’re comfortable.

Jesus as Our Example

Verse: 1 John 3:16

Reflection: Jesus’ sacrificial love sets the ultimate example. Loving sacrificially may not always mean grand gestures—it can be small, selfless acts.

Discussion Prompt: What does “laying down your life” look like in everyday terms for you?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Here are other verses that echo the themes in 1 John 3:11-24:

John 13:34-35 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

James 2:15-16 “Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,’ but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it?”

Galatians 6:9-10 “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.”

Matthew 25:40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’”

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS with Commentary

What does it mean to love “not with words or speech but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:18)? Commentary: Discuss how love becomes real when it moves from intention to action. Encourage participants to think of tangible ways they’ve experienced love in action or ways they can embody this themselves.

How can showing love to others help us feel assured before God? (1 John 3:19-21) Commentary: This helps participants explore how living out God’s love reassures us of His work in our lives. Share testimonies or experiences of when this has been true for them.

Jesus laid down His life for us. How can we reflect this sacrificial love in practical ways? (1 John 3:16) Commentary: Highlight that sacrificial love doesn’t always mean large acts—it can be found in everyday moments of kindness, generosity, or forgiveness. Brainstorm small, meaningful ways to live sacrificially in daily life.

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Session 6: "Testing the Spirits"- 1 John 4:1-6
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: Discerning between the Spirit of God and the spirit of antichrist

Purpose Statement: To develop criteria for evaluating spiritual claims and teachings

READ: 1 John 4:1-6

Alistair Begg Sermon

Testing the Spirits- 1 John 4:1–6 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John provides a test for discerning spirits: whether they confess Jesus Christ has come in the flesh (v.2-3). What other biblical criteria have helped you evaluate teachings you've encountered throughout your Christian journey?

Verse 4 reminds believers that "he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world." How has this truth given you courage when facing opposition to your faith or pressure to compromise?

OVERVIEW:

In this passage, John addresses a critical challenge for early Christians—how to tell the difference between true and false spiritual messages. False teachers claiming special spiritual insight were influencing the church, and John provides practical guidance for testing whether a spiritual message truly comes from God. His central test focuses on what these teachers say about Jesus, while also reminding believers that God's Spirit within them is greater than any opposing spiritual force.

As Charles Spurgeon once said, "Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right." John's instructions help believers navigate the often subtle differences between truth and error.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people assume that being spiritually open-minded means accepting all spiritual perspectives as equally valid. What might surprise you about 1 John 4:1-3 is that John actually encourages skepticism rather than automatic acceptance of spiritual claims. He writes, "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God." John doesn't say to reject all spiritual messages, but he doesn't tell us to embrace them all either. Instead, he provides a specific test centered on what a teaching says about Jesus Christ.

The surprising element here is that John doesn't present spiritual discernment as an advanced skill for religious experts—he assumes every believer can and should practice it. In fact, he reminds his readers in verse 4, "You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world." John believes ordinary Christians already have the spiritual resources they need to distinguish truth from error. This challenges both blind acceptance of all spiritual ideas and the notion that only religious professionals can properly interpret spiritual matters.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

We live in an age where spirituality has become increasingly personal and customizable. People often piece together spiritual beliefs from various traditions, creating individualized belief systems. The popular phrase "I'm spiritual but not religious" reflects this trend toward personalized spirituality without institutional boundaries or doctrinal constraints.

John's message speaks directly to this cultural moment by suggesting that not all spiritual paths or teachings are equally valid or beneficial. He provides a clear boundary marker—what a teaching says about Jesus Christ. According to John, spiritual messages that acknowledge Jesus Christ has come in the flesh (affirming both his divinity and humanity) come from God, while those that don't come from the "spirit of antichrist."

This doesn't mean Christians should be closed-minded or disrespectful toward other beliefs, but it does mean being thoughtful about which spiritual influences we allow to shape our lives. In a culture that often treats spiritual exploration like a buffet where we can sample a bit of everything, John reminds us that some spiritual food is nourishing while other portions might be harmful. Discernment isn't about fear or judgment but about making wise choices about what shapes our spiritual understanding.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 1 John 4:1-6

John begins with "do not believe every spirit" (v.1). Why was this warning particularly necessary in the first century, and how does it remain relevant today? —The early church existed in a culture saturated with competing spiritual claims—from mystery religions to imperial cult worship. False prophets could cause significant damage to vulnerable young congregations. Today's spiritual marketplace is similarly crowded with voices claiming divine authority. John's warning reminds us that spiritual enthusiasm without discernment leads to deception. Not everything presenting itself as spiritual illumination originates from God, regardless of its emotional appeal or popularity.

What specific test does John provide in verses 2-3 for determining whether a spirit is from God? Why does he focus on the confession about Jesus Christ? —John establishes the incarnation—Jesus Christ coming in the flesh—as the definitive theological test. This confronted Gnostic-type teachings that denied Christ's genuine humanity while claiming spiritual enlightenment. The confession isn't merely intellectual agreement but wholehearted acknowledgment of Jesus as both fully divine and authentically human. This criterion remains foundational because proper understanding of Christ's nature determines whether one worships the true God or a philosophical abstraction.

How does John describe the "spirit of the antichrist" in verse 3? What distinguishes this from popular notions of a single end-times figure? —John identifies the antichrist spirit as already present and operating through false teaching that denies Christ's incarnation. While not dismissing a potential future embodiment, John emphasizes the current reality of anti-Christian influence manifesting whenever Jesus is misrepresented. This perspective shifts focus from speculative prophecy charts to present vigilance against subtle doctrinal corruption. The greatest danger isn't a distant future threat but present theological compromise.

In verse 4, John reassures believers "he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world." How does this provide confidence for Christians facing spiritual opposition? —This powerful affirmation establishes that the Spirit dwelling in believers exceeds the power of any opposing spiritual force. This isn't triumphalism but realistic assessment of spiritual resources available to even the humblest believer. When facing sophisticated false teaching or cultural pressure, Christians need not feel intellectually or spiritually outmatched. Divine presence within provides capacity for discernment and faithfulness regardless of external challenges.

How does John characterize the relationship between false teachers and "the world" in verse 5? What warning does this provide about popular or culturally acceptable teaching? —False teachers speak "from the world's perspective" and receive the world's approval precisely because they affirm its values rather than challenging them. Their popularity stems from alignment with prevailing cultural assumptions. This creates a critical warning: teaching that consistently receives secular culture's approval should prompt careful examination. Authentic gospel proclamation will always contain elements that confront rather than merely confirm societal values.

In verse 6, John makes the striking claim "Whoever knows God listens to us." What does this reveal about apostolic authority, and how might it guide our approach to Scripture? —John establishes apostolic teaching as the authoritative standard for discernment—those genuinely connected to God recognize and submit to this authentic witness. This bold claim establishes that spiritual authenticity manifests in receptivity to apostolic testimony (now preserved in Scripture). This provides a critical corrective to subjective spirituality by anchoring discernment in the objective apostolic message rather than personal impressions or cultural trends.

How does this passage challenge both uncritical acceptance and cynical rejection of spiritual claims? What balanced approach to discernment does it promote? —John advocates neither gullibility nor dismissiveness but thoughtful evaluation based on established criteria. This middle path requires both theological knowledge and spiritual sensitivity. True discernment distinguishes between peripheral differences among believers and fundamental departures from apostolic faith. It examines teaching's content rather than merely its emotional appeal or presenter's charisma. The goal isn't suspicion but protection of authentic Christian community through loving vigilance.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The "Sniff Test"

Have you ever picked up a milk carton from the fridge, unsure if it’s still good? You check the date, but just to be sure, you take a sniff. If it smells sour, you know—it’s bad. No matter what the label says, your nose tells the truth.

John tells us to do something similar when it comes to spiritual teachings. Not everything that sounds good is actually from God. That’s why he warns, “Do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God” (1 John 4:1). Just like spoiled milk, false teaching can look fine on the surface, but a closer “sniff test” reveals that something’s off.

So how do we test the spirits? John gives us a clear standard: If a teaching acknowledges Jesus as the Son of God, it’s from God. If it denies Him, it’s not (v. 2-3). The world offers plenty of ideas that sound spiritual but don’t align with God’s truth. That’s why we need discernment—the ability to recognize what is truly from God and what isn’t.

Think about the last time you heard a spiritual message—maybe in a book, on social media, or even from a friend. Did you stop to compare it with what the Bible says? The Holy Spirit helps us develop discernment, but we need to stay rooted in God’s Word to recognize truth from error.

Reflection Questions:

Have you ever believed something that seemed true but later turned out to be false?

What are some ways you can “test the spirits” in daily life?

How does knowing God’s truth help you feel secure in your faith?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

At the heart of this passage is John's concern for protecting believers from deceptive teaching. He isn't worried about minor theological differences but about fundamental distortions of who Jesus is. For John, getting Jesus right is essential—everything else in Christian faith flows from a proper understanding of Christ as God's Son who came in human flesh.

John's approach to spiritual discernment involves both content and community. The content test is clear: Does this teaching properly acknowledge Jesus Christ? The community aspect appears in verse 6, where John writes, "We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us." He points to the apostolic teaching—what had been passed down from those who knew Jesus personally—as a standard for evaluating new ideas. Today, we have this apostolic teaching preserved in Scripture, which serves as our measuring stick for spiritual claims.

What's particularly encouraging about this passage is verse 4: "You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world." Even when facing sophisticated or appealing false teaching, believers can stand firm because God's Spirit within them is more powerful than any opposing spiritual influence. This doesn't mean discernment is always easy, but it does mean we're not alone in the process. With the Holy Spirit's guidance, the clear teaching of Scripture, and the wisdom of the Christian community, we can navigate even confusing spiritual territory with confidence.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Testing the Spirits" (1 John 4:1–6)

Spiritual Discernment →Carefully evaluates teachings and influences, testing whether they are from God or not. →1 John 4:1

Christ-Centered Confession →Affirms and upholds the truth that Jesus Christ came in the flesh, rejecting teachings that deny this. →1 John 4:2–3

Reliance on the Holy Spirit →Depends on the Spirit’s guidance and power to overcome deception and remain in the truth. →1 John 4:4

Victory Over Falsehood →Lives in the confidence that God’s Spirit within is greater than any worldly or deceptive spirit. →1 John 4:4

Alignment with Apostolic Teaching →Listens to and aligns with the message of the apostles, distinguishing the spirit of truth from the spirit of error. →1 John 4:5–6

Humility and Vigilance →Maintains a humble, watchful attitude, recognizing that even intelligent people can be deceived. →1 John 4:1, 6

QUICK QUIZ:

John provides a specific test for evaluating spiritual messages: whether they acknowledge "that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh" (4:2). Why do you think John focuses on this particular truth about Jesus rather than other aspects of Christian teaching? What does it tell us about the false teachings that were circulating in his day?

According to verse 5, those who speak "from the viewpoint of the world" find a receptive audience in the world. Can you think of popular spiritual or religious messages today that seem to align more with worldly values than with biblical truth? What makes these messages attractive, and how can we apply John's guidance when encountering them?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. R.C. Sproul

On discerning between the Spirit of God and the spirit of antichrist: R.C. Sproul was passionate about helping believers develop a deep understanding of sound doctrine in order to protect them from deception. In his teachings on spiritual discernment, Sproul would emphasize that the ultimate test of any spirit, teaching, or prophecy is whether it affirms the true nature of Jesus Christ. In his book The Truth of the Cross, Sproul frequently discussed the importance of Christology—understanding who Christ truly is. He would highlight that the spirit of antichrist can never truly confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh, a key test outlined in 1 John 4:2-3. For Sproul, the spirit of God always points to the truth of Jesus’ divinity and incarnation, as well as His work of atonement on the cross.

On evaluating spiritual claims and teachings: Sproul would encourage believers to ground their discernment in biblical truth. In Knowing Scripture, he emphasizes that Christians must not rely on subjective feelings or experiences alone when evaluating spiritual claims but must carefully compare everything to the clear teaching of Scripture. He would argue that the presence of sound biblical doctrine, especially about Christ, is the ultimate standard by which all teachings must be tested. Sproul would likely state that any spirit or teaching that undermines the centrality of Christ or distorts the gospel should be rejected, as it reflects the spirit of antichrist.

2. Tim Keller

On discerning between the Spirit of God and the spirit of antichrist: Tim Keller has often stressed the need for biblical and theological clarity in understanding spiritual movements. In The Reason for God, Keller addresses the dangers of spiritual deception, arguing that discernment is crucial for believers living in a pluralistic world filled with competing spiritual claims. Keller would likely emphasize the importance of theological orthodoxy as the primary way to distinguish between the Spirit of God and the spirit of antichrist. In 1 John 4:2-3, Keller would draw attention to the fact that true teachings from the Spirit of God will always confess Jesus Christ as the true Son of God, incarnate and divine, and will center on His redemptive work.

Keller would also highlight how spiritual movements and teachers can often be seductive, especially when they appear good on the surface but deny or distort key aspects of Christ’s nature and work. He would argue that the spirit of antichrist is not always overtly evil but can often be subtle—offering something that feels spiritual but ultimately leads people away from the true Christ.

On evaluating spiritual claims and teachings: Keller would stress that discernment requires more than just reading the Bible but also understanding sound doctrine and the core truths of the Christian faith. He would encourage Christians to test every teaching, spiritual experience, or prophecy by how well it aligns with the apostolic testimony of Jesus Christ. In practical terms, Keller would advise believers to assess whether a spiritual claim is centered on the gospel of Jesus or whether it distorts or disregards essential aspects of Christ’s work and identity. His criterion for evaluation would be clear: any teaching or spirit that undermines Christ’s incarnation, divinity, or atoning work is not of the Spirit of God.

3. John Piper

On discerning between the Spirit of God and the spirit of antichrist: John Piper places a strong emphasis on biblical theology and the glory of God in Christ as the ultimate measure of truth. In his writings, Piper often warns that false teaching doesn’t always appear evil at first glance but can be subtly deceptive, especially when it involves a distortion of the glory of God as revealed in Jesus Christ. For Piper, the spirit of God will always magnify the supremacy of Christ, whereas the spirit of antichrist will seek to downplay or diminish Christ's role in the salvation of humanity.

In his reflections on 1 John 4:2-3, Piper would argue that the essential test for any teaching or spirit is whether it affirms that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh as God incarnate and as the atoning Savior. He would explain that the spirit of antichrist often seeks to undermine the fullness of Christ's nature—either by denying His divinity or His full humanity or by diminishing the necessity of His atoning sacrifice. For Piper, any spirit or teaching that seeks to shift the glory and sufficiency of Christ in salvation is a sign of deception.

On evaluating spiritual claims and teachings: Piper would teach that biblical truth, especially regarding Christ's person and work, is the primary tool for evaluating any spiritual claim or experience. In his book A Godward Life, Piper states, “The ultimate test of spiritual truth is whether or not it leads you to God as He is revealed in Jesus Christ.” He would encourage Christians to be vigilant, checking every spiritual claim against the gospel of Christ as revealed in the Scriptures. For Piper, any teaching that minimizes or distorts the gospel—whether through emphasizing personal experience over biblical truth, or offering alternative paths to salvation—should be rejected.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: The Call to Test the Spirits

Verse: 1 John 4:1 "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."

Reflection: John emphasizes the importance of discernment, urging believers not to accept every teaching blindly. Testing the spirits helps us distinguish between truth and deception.

Discussion Prompt: What practical steps can we take to “test the spirits” in today’s world of conflicting messages?

Point: The Spirit of God Confesses Jesus

Verse: 1 John 4:2–3 "This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world."

Reflection: True teaching always affirms the identity of Jesus as the incarnate Son of God. This is a clear litmus test for discerning spiritual truth.

Discussion Prompt: How can this verse guide us when encountering unfamiliar spiritual teachings or claims?

Point: God’s Spirit Within Us is Greater

Verse: 1 John 4:4 "You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."

Reflection: With the Holy Spirit dwelling within us, we have the power to resist false teachings and stand firm in faith.

Discussion Prompt: What does it mean to you that “the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world”? How does this assurance encourage you?

Point: Listening to God’s Voice

Verse: 1 John 4:6 "We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood."

Reflection: God’s word and the teachings of His apostles help us distinguish between the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.

Discussion Prompt: How can we cultivate a habit of listening to God’s truth in a noisy world?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Matthew 7:15–16: "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them." — A reminder to evaluate teachings and teachers by their character and actions.

John 16:13: "But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come." — Encourages believers to rely on the Holy Spirit for guidance in truth.

2 Timothy 3:16–17: "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work." — Highlights the Bible as a reliable source for testing teachings and developing discernment.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: Why is it essential for believers to test spiritual claims, as emphasized in 1 John 4:1?

Commentary: This verse acknowledges the reality of false teachers and their potential impact on the church. Discussing this helps participants think about practical ways to guard their faith while being open to the Spirit’s leading.

Question: How does recognizing the Spirit of God in 1 John 4:2–3 help us navigate today’s spiritual and moral landscape?

Commentary: With so many voices competing for attention, this discussion helps anchor participants in a Christ-centered approach to discernment, focusing on the truth of Jesus' identity.

Question: What role does the Holy Spirit play in helping us remain firm in truth, according to 1 John 4:4?

Commentary: This conversation can focus on the assurance and strength believers have in the Spirit’s presence, especially in times of confusion or challenge.

Bookmark for Session 7

Session 7: "Perfect Love"- 1 John 4:7-5:21
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: God's perfect love, our response of love and faith, and confidence in eternal life

Purpose Statement: To understand how God's love motivates our love for others and brings assurance of salvation

READ: 1 John 4:7-5:21

Alistair Begg Sermon

Let Us Love One Another- 1 John 4:7–12

Grounds of Assurance- 1 John 4:13–16

Perfect Love- 1 John 4:16–21

Faith Is the Victory- 1 John 5:1–5

Call the Witnesses!- 1 John 5:6–12

Christian Certainties- 1 John 5:13–21 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John writes that "perfect love casts out fear" (4:18). What fears do you still struggle with, and how might a deeper understanding of God's love help address these fears?

The letter ends with a focus on the assurance believers can have (5:13). After studying 1 John, which aspects of this letter have most strengthened your confidence in your relationship with God?

OVERVIEW:

In this final session, John brings together the major themes of his letter—love, faith, and confidence—showing how they all connect to God's perfect love. He explains that God is the source of all love, proven by sending His Son to save us. This divine love becomes the model and motivation for how we should love one another. John also clarifies how faith in Jesus and love for others go hand-in-hand, giving believers confidence in their relationship with God both now and for eternity.

As Corrie ten Boom beautifully expressed, "The measure of a life, after all, is not its duration, but its donation." John reminds us that God donated His Son out of love, and we are called to donate ourselves in love to others.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people think that loving others is primarily about feelings or being nice. What might surprise you is that in 1 John 4:10-11, John defines love in a radically different way: "This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins." Real love, according to John, begins with God's initiative to solve our sin problem through Jesus' sacrifice.

The surprising part is that John doesn't present love as an emotion but as a costly solution to a real problem. God didn't just feel warm feelings toward us—He took action to address what separated us from Him. This challenges our culture's view of love as primarily about acceptance and affirmation. Biblical love certainly includes those elements, but it goes deeper by seeking the true good of others, even when that requires sacrifice. This might mean having difficult conversations, setting healthy boundaries, or helping someone face consequences that lead to growth—all motivated by genuine concern for their well-being rather than our comfort.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

We live in a culture that's simultaneously obsessed with love and confused about what love actually means. Movies, songs, and social media constantly talk about love, usually portraying it as an intense feeling that happens to us rather than a choice we make. Many people feel intense pressure to find "true love" while also witnessing high rates of broken relationships.

Against this backdrop, John's teaching stands out by grounding love not in changeable feelings but in God's unchanging character. "God is love," John declares in 4:16—not just that God feels love or shows love, but that love defines His very nature. This transforms how we understand love. Rather than a scarce resource we must desperately seek from others, love becomes something we've already received abundantly from God, enabling us to share it freely with others.

John's connection between love and fear in 4:18 also speaks powerfully to our anxiety-ridden society: "Perfect love drives out fear." Many people's relationships are shaped by fear—fear of rejection, abandonment, or not being enough. John suggests that experiencing God's perfect love creates a foundation of security that frees us to love others without these fears controlling us. When we know we're completely loved by God, we can risk loving others openly without the fear of rejection that often holds us back.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: Exploring the Roots and Fruits of Perfect Love

What does it mean that "God is love" (1 John 4:8, 16)? How does this shape our understanding of His character and our own identity as His children? —John doesn’t merely say that God loves, but that God is love—love is essential to His very nature. This challenges us to consider whether our theology begins with the holiness or justice of God in isolation, or whether it must be rooted in this revelation of His essential love. 

Why is love for others presented as a non-negotiable evidence of knowing God (4:20-21)? —John uses strong, almost uncomfortable language—“If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ yet hates a brother or sister, he is a liar.” This reveals that loving God cannot be separated from loving others, especially those within the community of faith. 

How does "perfect love cast out fear" (4:18)? What kind of fear is John referring to, and how does God’s love remove it? —This verse invites a theological and emotional reflection: fear—especially fear of judgment—has no place in a heart fully rooted in God’s perfect love. 

What does it mean to “believe in the name of the Son of God” and how does this faith relate to love (5:1-5)? —John interweaves faith and love, showing they are not opposing paths but complementary responses to God’s self-revelation. Believing in Jesus is not merely intellectual assent but trusting in and aligning with the One who is both the embodiment and source of divine love. 

How can we be confident in eternal life (5:11-13)? What gives this assurance its foundation? —John speaks of assurance—not as arrogance but as the natural result of believing in Jesus and abiding in Him. Many Christians wrestle with doubt and insecurity regarding salvation. 

How does knowing that “we are from God” and that “the whole world lies in the power of the evil one” (5:19) affect how we live as people of love and faith? — John’s closing thoughts remind us of the stark contrast between those who belong to God and the world under the influence of evil. 

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY:   "The Porch Light”

Imagine a cozy little house on a quiet street. Every evening, just before the sun goes down, the porch light clicks on. It’s not the fanciest light—just a warm glow—but it tells you something important:
Someone’s home. And someone’s waiting for you.

God’s love is like that porch light. It’s steady, never flickering. It doesn’t wait for us to be perfect. It turns on before we even walk up the driveway. 1 John 4 says, “We love because he first loved us.” God's love comes first—always. We don’t earn it. We just respond to it.

And when we really know that kind of love—the deep, forever kind—we don’t have to be afraid anymore. Not of judgment. Not of death. Not of anything. “Perfect love drives out fear,” the Bible says (4:18). God’s light is on. He’s not hiding. He wants us to live in that love, and to turn around and show it to others.

So today, think of God’s love like a porch light that never goes out. And maybe… you can be that kind of light for someone else. Kind, welcoming, unshakable.

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

At the heart of God’s plan for us is one powerful truth: God is love. Not just that He shows love, but that love is part of His very nature. From the beginning, God has been reaching out to us in love—through creation, through Christ, and through the gift of the Holy Spirit. When we understand that kind of love—not a love we have to earn, but one freely given—we can rest in the security of knowing we are truly His.

But God’s love doesn’t stop with us. His plan is that this perfect love would flow through us to others. Love becomes our way of life—loving family, loving the church, even loving people who are hard to love. When we love like that, it’s evidence that God’s Spirit is alive in us. It brings peace in the present and confidence about the future. We don’t have to be afraid of judgment or death—because His perfect love gives us assurance of eternal life. Living in that love changes everything.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Perfect Love" (1 John 4:7–5:21)

Active Love for Others →Demonstrates selfless, practical love for others as the defining mark of knowing God. →1 John 4:7–8, 4:11–12, 4:21

Confidence Before God →Lives with assurance and freedom from fear, knowing God’s perfect love casts out fear. →1 John 4:17–18

Confession of Jesus as God’s Son →Openly confesses and believes that Jesus is the Son of God and the Savior of the world. →1 John 4:15, 5:5

Abiding in God →Remains in ongoing relationship with God, marked by mutual indwelling and love. →1 John 4:12–13, 4:16

Love Initiated by God →Recognizes that love originates with God and responds to His love by loving others. →1 John 4:19

Obedience to God’s Commands →Keeps God’s commandments, especially to believe in Jesus and love one another. →1 John 5:2–3

Victory Over the World →Overcomes the world through faith in Jesus Christ. →1 John 5:4–5

Rejection of Fear →Grows in love that drives out fear, especially fear of judgment. →1 John 4:18

Intercessory Prayer →Prays for others, especially fellow believers, as an expression of love and concern. →1 John 5:16

Discernment and Protection →Gains discernment to recognize truth from error and confidence in God’s protection from the evil one. →1 John 5:18–20

QUICK QUIZ:

According to 1 John 4:18, how does God's perfect love affect our fears—especially about judgment or the future? → Follow-up discussion: What does it look like to live with that kind of fearless confidence today?

How can we tell if someone truly loves God, based on how they treat others (1 John 4:20–21)? → Follow-up discussion: Why is loving others such a powerful sign of real faith?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. A.W. Tozer

On God's perfect love: A.W. Tozer's writings often emphasize the vastness and unconditional nature of God's love. In his book The Knowledge of the Holy, Tozer stresses that God's love is not merely an emotion but an essential characteristic of His nature. He would emphasize that God's love, as seen in 1 John 4:8, “God is love”, is the foundation for the Christian faith and life. This perfect love is not dependent on anything in us but flows from the essence of who God is. For Tozer, the realization that God is perfect love transforms everything about the believer’s life, from how they view themselves to how they interact with others.

On our response of love and faith: Tozer teaches that true love for others flows from the abiding presence of God in our hearts. He would likely emphasize that, in 1 John 4:19, “We love because He first loved us,” love for others is a natural response to the love we’ve received from God. In The Pursuit of God, Tozer emphasizes that faith is a key response to God's love, as we trust in His love and act upon it. Tozer would say that the Christian's faith is not passive; it is an active response to God’s love that leads to loving others, especially in sacrificial ways.

On confidence in eternal life: Tozer often spoke of the believer's assurance in salvation as being rooted in God's perfect love. He would emphasize that 1 John 4:17-18, which speaks of perfect love casting out fear, highlights that believers can have confidence in their eternal life because their salvation is secure in God’s love. Tozer believed that the believer’s confidence comes not from their own performance but from God’s unchanging love, which guarantees their eternal security.

2. Max Lucado

On God's perfect love: Max Lucado frequently writes about the personal nature of God’s love and how it impacts our daily lives. In books like He Still Moves Stones and In the Eye of the Storm, Lucado focuses on how God's love is a transforming force that meets us in our deepest struggles. In 1 John 4:9-10, where John speaks about God sending His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins, Lucado would highlight that God’s perfect love is not abstract but incarnational—it took the form of Jesus Christ and was demonstrated through His sacrifice on the cross. Lucado would argue that God’s perfect love is the most powerful force in the universe, and it is available to each person individually.

On our response of love and faith: Lucado would emphasize that our response to God’s love should be gratitude and action. In The Great House of God, he talks about how love for God is always followed by love for others, making it clear that a believer’s response to God’s love must be evident in concrete ways—especially through acts of kindness, forgiveness, and selflessness. Lucado would say that faith in God’s love leads us to trust Him, and this trust is demonstrated through our obedience and love for others. In 1 John 4:11, he would underscore that if God loved us so deeply, we should also love one another.

On confidence in eternal life: Max Lucado often speaks of the assurance of salvation in his writings. He would refer to 1 John 5:13, where John writes that “these things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.” Lucado would emphasize that because of God's perfect love, believers can have full confidence in their salvation, not because of their actions but because of God's faithfulness. He would explain that God’s love is unfailing, and it guarantees our eternal security, giving us confidence to live boldly and without fear of judgment.

3. Charles Spurgeon

On God's perfect love: Charles Spurgeon frequently preached on the boundless love of God, especially in the context of Christ’s sacrificial love for sinners. He often focused on God’s unconditional love as the foundation of the gospel. In 1 John 4:9-10, Spurgeon would likely emphasize that God’s love was demonstrated through the sending of His Son, and that this love is both unmerited and transformative. In his sermons, Spurgeon often emphasized that God’s love is not just a feeling but a sacrificial action—one that seeks out the lost and broken, offering them redemption through the blood of Jesus.

On our response of love and faith: For Spurgeon, a true understanding of God's love naturally leads to a response of faith and love. He would draw from 1 John 4:19, “We love because He first loved us,” to emphasize that love for others is the fruit of experiencing God's love. He would explain that faith in God’s love is what empowers believers to love others, especially when that love requires great sacrifice. In his writings, Spurgeon often connected faith and love, suggesting that genuine faith in God’s love leads to a transformed heart that loves others deeply and sacrificially.

On confidence in eternal life: Spurgeon would strongly emphasize the assurance of salvation that comes from God’s perfect love. He frequently preached on the eternal security of the believer, rooted in God's steadfast love and promises. In 1 John 5:13, Spurgeon would likely proclaim that the believer’s confidence in eternal life is not based on feelings or subjective experiences but on the objective reality of God’s promises. The perfect love of God ensures that nothing can separate the believer from His love (Romans 8:38-39), and this gives believers an unshakable confidence in their eternal security.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: God is the Source of Love

Verse: 1 John 4:7–8 "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."

Reflection: Love originates from God, and our ability to love others is evidence of our connection to Him.

Discussion Prompt: How does knowing God as the ultimate source of love influence the way you interact with others?

Point: God's Love Made Manifest in Jesus

Verse: 1 John 4:9–10 "This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins."

Reflection: God's love is demonstrated through Jesus' sacrificial death, offering us new life and salvation.

Discussion Prompt: What does Jesus' sacrificial love teach us about how we are called to love others?

Point: Perfect Love Drives Out Fear

Verse: 1 John 4:18 "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."

Reflection: God's perfect love removes the fear of judgment, replacing it with confidence and peace.

Discussion Prompt: How has experiencing God's love brought you peace in areas where fear once ruled?

Point: Victory Through Faith

Verse: 1 John 5:4–5 "For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. Who is it that overcomes the world? Only the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God."

Reflection: Our faith in Christ gives us victory over sin and the world, offering assurance of eternal life.

Discussion Prompt: How does your faith empower you to live victoriously in the face of life's challenges?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." — Emphasizes the manifestation of God's love through Jesus and the promise of eternal life.

Romans 8:38–39: "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." — Highlights the unshakable nature of God's perfect love.

Galatians 5:6: "For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love." — Connects faith and love as central to living out our salvation.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: How does the statement "God is love" (1 John 4:8) challenge or deepen your understanding of who God is?

Commentary: Discussing this helps participants explore how God's identity shapes their understanding of love and their personal relationship with Him.

Question: What does it look like to practice the kind of sacrificial love described in 1 John 4:9–10 in your daily life?

Commentary: This question encourages participants to reflect on how they can demonstrate Christ-like love in their relationships and communities.

Question: In what ways does the assurance of eternal life (1 John 5:13) give you confidence and hope in your walk with God?

Commentary: This discussion helps participants connect the promise of eternal life with their daily experiences, reinforcing how God’s perfect love brings peace and hope.

The book of 2 John emphasizes the importance of walking in truth and love while standing firm against false teachings that threaten the faith. Historian and theologian F.F. Bruce reflects, "Truth and love are inseparable in the Christian life, for only by adhering to the truth can love flourish as God intended."

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Session 8: "Walking in Truth and Love"- 2 John 1-6
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: The connection between truth, love, and obedience in the Christian life

Purpose Statement: To understand how Christian love is always grounded in truth and expressed through obedience to God's commands

READ: 2 John 1-6

Audio: (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

Truth and Love- 2 John 1:1–3

Response, Request, Reminder- 2 John 1:4–6 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John addresses his letter to "the elect lady and her children" and mentions loving "in truth" four times in verses 1-4. How does knowing God's truth deepen our love for one another in ways that mere sentiment cannot?

In verse 5, John emphasizes that he's writing about a command "we have had from the beginning." Why do you think Christians need to be continually reminded of the command to love one another, rather than just hearing it once?

OVERVIEW:

In this brief letter, John addresses a Christian community (the "chosen lady and her children"), emphasizing the inseparable connection between truth, love, and obedience. Unlike his first letter, 2 John is much shorter but reinforces the same essential message—that genuine Christian faith involves both holding firmly to the truth about Jesus and demonstrating love through obedience to God's commands. John shows that truth and love aren't competing values but complementary aspects of authentic Christian living.

As Augustine once said, "Love without truth is blind; truth without love is cold." John's message reminds us that truth and love must always walk hand in hand in the Christian life.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Many people view truth as rigid and impersonal, while they see love as flexible and relational. What might surprise you in 2 John 1-6 is how strongly John connects these seemingly opposite values. He doesn't just say that truth and love are both important; he presents them as completely intertwined: "I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another. And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands" (vv. 5-6).

The surprising aspect is that John defines love not primarily as an emotion or even as kind actions, but as "walking in obedience to his commands." This challenges our cultural tendency to separate what we believe (truth) from how we treat others (love). For John, authentic love isn't just doing what feels loving; it's acting in accordance with God's definition of love as revealed in His commands. This means that sometimes the most loving action might not seem loving on the surface—like when a parent disciplines a child or when a friend speaks an uncomfortable truth that someone needs to hear. John reminds us that real love is guided by truth, and real truth is always expressed through love.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

We live in a society that increasingly views truth as personal and subjective—"my truth" versus "your truth." At the same time, we often define love primarily as acceptance and affirmation of whatever someone believes or chooses. In this cultural context, suggesting that love should be guided by objective truth can seem judgmental or intolerant.

John's message speaks directly to this tension by showing that true love and truth aren't enemies but allies. When John writes about "walking in the truth" (v. 4), he's referring to a way of life built on the reality of who Jesus is and what He taught. This isn't about imposing rigid rules but about aligning our lives with how God designed reality to work—similar to how following the "truth" of gravity keeps us from jumping off buildings.

John's emphasis on "the command we have heard from the beginning" (v. 6) also addresses our culture's fascination with what's new and innovative. While our society often values the latest trends or evolving beliefs over traditional wisdom, John reminds us that some truths are timeless. The command to love one another—grounded in Jesus' teaching and example—remains as relevant today as when it was first given. In a rapidly changing world, this connection between enduring truth and authentic love provides a stable foundation for navigating complex relational and ethical challenges.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 2 John 1-6

John introduces himself as "the elder" writing to "the elect lady and her children" (v.1). What might these designations tell us about John's relationship with this community and his understanding of authority? —John's self-identification as "elder" suggests humble authority based on spiritual maturity rather than demanding recognition based on apostolic office. This indicates spiritual leadership characterized by relational wisdom, not mere positional power. The designation of recipients as "elect lady and her children" likely refers to a local church and its members, portraying the church as both dignified (a lady) and beloved (elected by God). This imagery establishes church communities as family units under God's special care and selection, worthy of respectful address.

John emphasizes that he loves the recipients "in truth" and that others "who know the truth" also love them (vv.1-2). How does this connection between truth and love challenge contemporary notions that often separate these qualities? —By repeatedly linking truth and love, John challenges both truth-without-love approaches (rigid orthodoxy lacking compassion) and love-without-truth sentimentality (permissive acceptance without moral boundaries). For John, authentic love always operates within truth's framework, while genuine truth always expresses itself lovingly. This confronts contemporary tendencies to pit doctrinal fidelity against loving inclusion, showing they properly function as complementary, not competing, virtues. Truth provides the essential structure within which genuine love flourishes.

What significance lies in John's statement that the truth "abides in us and will be with us forever" (v.2)? How does this permanence affect our confidence in Christian teaching? —John portrays truth not merely as information we possess but as living reality that actively dwells within believers through the Spirit. Truth's permanent abiding quality provides stability amid cultural shifts and intellectual fashions. This perspective creates confidence—the fundamental realities of Christian faith aren't temporary insights subject to revision but eternal verities that transcend changing opinions. Believers can trust that what was true for first-century Christians remains equally true for twenty-first century followers.

The blessing John pronounces in verse 3 connects "grace, mercy, and peace" with "truth and love." Why does he emphasize this particular combination of divine gifts? —This unique blessing reveals that God's gifts flow specifically within the balanced framework of truth and love. Grace (unmerited favor) operates through truthful understanding of our condition and God's solution. Mercy (compassionate help) expresses genuine love toward the undeserving. Peace (wholeness and harmony) results when truth and love properly interact. This teaches that spiritual blessings flourish only where truth and love coexist—neither rigid legalism nor boundless permissiveness creates the environment where divine gifts properly function.

What does John's expression of joy at finding "some of your children walking in the truth" (v.4) reveal about the challenges facing early Christian communities? —John's qualified commendation ("some of your children") suggests the community included both faithful adherents and potential wanderers from apostolic teaching. This partial affirmation acknowledges the perennial reality that not all professing believers maintain consistent faithfulness. Early churches, like contemporary ones, experienced varying degrees of commitment to apostolic truth. John's joy over partial faithfulness models realistic leadership that celebrates existing obedience while implicitly encouraging greater consistency throughout the community.

How does John's reminder about the command to "love one another" being "from the beginning" (vv.5-6) address potential claims of new, progressive revelation? —By emphasizing the foundational, unchanged nature of the love command, John counters any suggestion that spiritual advancement means moving beyond basic ethical requirements. This refutes proto-gnostic tendencies that prioritized special knowledge above moral transformation. The reference to "from the beginning" grounds Christian ethics in Jesus' original teaching rather than recent innovations. This creates a critical standard: authentic spiritual development deepens commitment to foundational commands rather than replacing them with supposedly superior insights.

In verse 6, John defines love specifically as "walking according to his commandments." How does this definition challenge contemporary understandings that often separate love from obedience? —John's explicit connection between love and obedience confronts the modern tendency to define love primarily through emotion or affirmation rather than alignment with divine standards. True love isn't merely feeling positively toward others but actively pursuing their ultimate good according to God's design. This definition establishes that genuine compassion operates within moral boundaries rather than disregarding them. Love and law aren't opponents—authentic love fulfills God's commands rather than seeking exemption from them.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Train Tracks of Truth and Love

Imagine a train speeding down the tracks. The tracks must be perfectly aligned, or the train will derail. Now, think of those two rails as truth and love—both are essential for the Christian life. If we try to follow truth without love, we become harsh and legalistic. If we focus on love without truth, we end up accepting anything, even if it’s harmful. The key is keeping both together.

John emphasizes this in 2 John 1-6. He reminds us that “walking in love” isn’t just about feelings—it means obeying God’s commands (v. 6). And those commands are rooted in truth. Love without truth can lead us away from God’s way, but truth without love can make us cold and unkind. The two must go hand in hand.

Think about a time when you had to speak the truth to someone, but you had to do it with love. Maybe it was correcting a friend in a way that wouldn’t hurt them or setting boundaries with kindness. That balance isn’t always easy, but it’s what God calls us to.

Reflection Questions:

Do you tend to lean more toward truth or love? How can you keep both in balance?

What’s an example of a time when truth and love worked together in your life?

How can walking in truth and love strengthen your faith and relationships?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

At the heart of this passage is John's concern that believers "walk in the truth" (v. 4) and "walk in love" (v. 6). His repeated use of "walking" imagery suggests that truth and love aren't static concepts but active ways of living that affect our daily decisions and relationships. Like two legs working together to move us forward, truth and love together enable us to progress in our Christian journey.

John's greeting beautifully captures this dual emphasis: "Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father's Son, will be with us in truth and love" (v. 3). Notice that God's blessings come to us "in truth and love"—not just one or the other. When we separate truth from love, we distort both. Truth without love becomes harsh and condemning; love without truth becomes empty sentiment that may actually harm rather than help others.

The encouraging message here is that we don't have to reinvent what truth or love means. John points us back to "the command we have had from the beginning" (v. 5)—Jesus' teaching that we should love one another as He loved us. Jesus himself perfectly embodied both truth and love, never compromising one for the other. When we struggle with how to balance these values, we can look to His example. Did Jesus always speak truth? Absolutely. Did He always act in love? Without question. By keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, we learn to walk the same path of truth and love that characterized His life and should characterize ours as well.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Walking in Truth and Love" (2 John 1–6)

Commitment to Truth →Lives in alignment with God’s revealed truth, holding firmly to the teachings of Christ. →2 John 1:1–2, 4

Active Love for Others →Demonstrates genuine love for fellow believers, rooted in truth and expressed in action. →2 John 1:5

Obedience to God’s Commands →Shows love by walking according to God’s commandments, not separating love from obedience. →2 John 1:6

Faithfulness →Continues steadfastly in the faith, bringing joy to other believers through consistent Christian living. →2 John 1:4

Discernment →Exercises wisdom and caution, especially regarding whom to support and welcome, to guard the truth. →2 John 1:7–8 (context)

Joy in Others’ Faithfulness →Finds deep joy in seeing others walk in truth and love, reflecting shared values in the Christian community.

QUICK QUIZ:

John writes to "the lady chosen by God and to her children, whom I love in the truth" (v. 1). What do you think it means to love someone "in the truth"? How might this be different from how our culture typically defines love?

According to verses 5-6, the command to love one another is expressed by "walking in obedience to his commands." In your experience, how does obedience to God's commands shape the way you love others? Can you think of a specific command that, when followed, has helped you love someone better?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. John Piper

On the connection between truth, love, and obedience: John Piper often emphasizes the importance of truth and love being inextricably linked in the Christian life. In his writings, he underscores that true love cannot be separated from truth, as love must be rooted in the reality of who God is and His commands. Piper would point to 2 John 1:4, where John expresses great joy at finding some walking in truth. He would highlight that love, for the Christian, is not just about feelings but must be expressed according to the truth of God’s Word. For Piper, love is an overflow of a right relationship with God and must reflect the truth about God and His ways.

Piper frequently teaches that obedience is an essential outworking of love, and in the context of 2 John 1-6, he would stress that obedience to God's commands is a natural expression of love for God. He would teach that Christians should not separate love and obedience, as true love for God necessarily leads to a life lived in accordance with His commands. In 2 John 1:6, where John connects love and obedience, Piper would stress that loving God involves following His commandments. For Piper, obedience is the fruit of love and true joy in Christ.

On walking in truth and love: Piper would highlight that walking in truth and love means living in a way that reflects both truth about Jesus and love for Jesus. Truth forms the foundation for Christian love, and it is through the lens of truth that believers are empowered to love others. For Piper, this is not an optional aspect of Christian life; rather, it is a command and a fruit of salvation. He would argue that living in the truth—particularly the truth of the gospel—is what allows believers to love well, not only in their relationship with God but with others in the Christian community and beyond.

2. Tim Keller

On the connection between truth, love, and obedience: Tim Keller often explores the dynamic relationship between truth and love in his teachings. In books like The Reason for God, Keller frequently emphasizes that Christian love must always be grounded in truth, particularly the truth of the gospel. He would note that in 2 John 1:4, the joy of walking in truth is tied directly to the command of love. Keller would stress that love in the Christian life is not a vague or sentimental feeling but is always defined by the truth of who God is and what He has commanded. Love without truth is shallow and easily manipulated, while truth without love can become harsh or legalistic.

Keller would explain that obedience is the natural outflow of love and truth. True Christian love always seeks the good of others in light of God's truth, and this love is expressed through obedient action. He would point to how John, in 2 John 1:6, connects love and obedience, emphasizing that love and obedience are inseparable in the life of a believer. Love that is grounded in truth will always lead to a lifestyle of obedience to God’s commands.

On walking in truth and love: For Keller, to walk in truth and love means living in such a way that God’s Word shapes both what we believe and how we behave. In his teachings, Keller often discusses how the gospel of grace transforms the heart, leading believers to love God and others with actions that reflect the truth of Christ's life, death, and resurrection. Walking in truth and love is about living authentically in response to God's love, letting the truth of Christ shape our thoughts, desires, and actions. Keller would encourage believers to allow the gospel truth to be the guiding principle for how they love and obey God, and how they express that love to others.

3. Elisabeth Elliot

On the connection between truth, love, and obedience: Elisabeth Elliot's writings often emphasized the cost of discipleship and the call to obedience in the Christian life. She would see the connection between truth, love, and obedience as essential and inseparable. In her book Let Me Be a Woman, Elliot talks about how obedience to God's Word is an expression of love and trust in God. She would point out that true love always follows the truth of God's commands and is demonstrated in practical ways in the believer’s life. For Elliot, loving God is not merely about emotions but about obedience—choosing to follow God’s Word, even when it is difficult.

Elliot would likely point to 2 John 1:6 to show that obedience is an act of love that flows from a heart that understands God’s truth. She would stress that love for God requires obedience to His Word. In her teaching, she often spoke of how the truth of God’s love should compel believers to live in accordance with His will, which is always for their good. The obedient life is the loving life—one that reflects the character of Christ.

On walking in truth and love: For Elliot, walking in truth and love means aligning one's life with the reality of God's truth and allowing that truth to shape every area of life. In her work, she often emphasized the need to be intentional in living out God's commands and to allow the truth of God's Word to govern one’s thoughts, words, and actions. For Elliot, the Christian life is about active obedience to God's truth as an expression of genuine love for Him. Walking in truth and love is a lifestyle of sacrificial obedience, where love for God is demonstrated in the obedience of faith.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Truth as the Foundation of Love

Verse: 2 John 1–2 "The elder, to the lady chosen by God and to her children, whom I love in the truth—and not I only, but also all who know the truth—because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever."

Reflection: Christian love is rooted in truth. It’s not based on feelings alone but on the enduring truth of God’s word.

Discussion Prompt: How does grounding our love in truth help us build stronger and more authentic relationships?

Point: Love Means Walking in Obedience

Verse: 2 John 4–6 "It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us. And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another. And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands."

Reflection: True love for God and others is demonstrated through obedience to God’s commands. Walking in truth and love go hand in hand.

Discussion Prompt: Why do you think obedience is such an important aspect of love in the Christian life? How can we practice this in daily situations?

Point: The Interplay of Truth and Love

Verse: 2 John 6 "And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love."

Reflection: Living in truth means expressing love, and living in love means staying faithful to God’s truth. These two are inseparably linked.

Discussion Prompt: How can we ensure our love for others always aligns with God’s truth?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

John 14:15: "If you love me, keep my commands." — Jesus reinforces the connection between love and obedience, mirroring the teaching in 2 John.

Ephesians 4:15: "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ." — This verse highlights the balance between truth and love in our interactions.

1 Corinthians 13:6: "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." — A reminder that true love rejoices in what is good and true.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: Why does John emphasize that love must be grounded in truth (2 John 1-2)?

Commentary: Discuss how truth serves as a firm foundation for love, ensuring it’s not swayed by emotions or societal trends, but is consistent with God’s word.

Question: How can “walking in obedience” be a practical expression of love for God and others (2 John 4–6)?

Commentary: Explore examples of how following God’s commands helps us live out love, such as showing patience, kindness, and faithfulness in our relationships.

Question: What challenges might arise in balancing truth and love, and how can we address them?

Commentary: This can encourage participants to reflect on real-life situations where truth and love seem at odds and discuss how to approach them with grace and wisdom.

This session provides an engaging framework for exploring the profound connection between truth, love, and obedience, helping participants apply these principles in their lives. Let me know if you’d like any further adjustments!

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Session 9: "Guarding the Faith"- 2 John 7-13
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: Discernment regarding false teaching and maintaining appropriate boundaries

Purpose Statement: To learn how to protect the church from deception while maintaining Christian hospitality

READ: 2 John 7-13

Alistair Begg Sermon

Confessional Christianity- 2 John 1:7–13

The Danger of Deception- 2 John 1:7–13 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John warns about "deceivers" who deny Christ came in the flesh (v.7). What modern teachings or philosophies have you encountered that subtly deny core Christian truths about Jesus? How can we recognize these deceptions?

In verses 10-11, John gives strong instructions not to welcome false teachers. How do we balance this command with Christian hospitality and the call to evangelize? When is it appropriate to set boundaries with those who oppose Christian truth?

OVERVIEW:

In this session, we explore the Apostle John's heartfelt warning to the early church about the dangers of false teachers and the importance of staying rooted in Christ's teachings. John emphasizes discernment and the need to maintain boundaries to protect the faith community. As he writes, "Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully" (2 John 8). This passage reminds us that guarding the faith is not just about defense but also about preserving the joy and truth of the gospel.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

John's instruction in verse 10, "If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take them into your house or welcome them," may seem harsh at first glance. In the context of the early church, hospitality was a cornerstone of Christian life. However, John is not discouraging kindness but rather urging believers to avoid endorsing or enabling false teachers. By welcoming such individuals, the church risked legitimizing their deceptive teachings. This teaching challenges us to balance love and truth, showing hospitality without compromising our faith.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today's world, false teachings can come in many forms—social media influencers, popular ideologies, or even well-meaning but misguided individuals. This passage reminds us to be discerning about the messages we consume and share. Just as John urged the early church to protect their community, we too must guard our hearts and minds, ensuring that our faith remains anchored in Christ's truth.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: 2 John 7-13

In verse 7, John identifies "many deceivers" who deny "Jesus Christ has come in the flesh." Why was this specific doctrinal error so dangerous, and what modern parallels might exist today? —Denial of Christ's physical incarnation undermined both His genuine humanity and the reality of His physical suffering for sin. This Docetic heresy effectively denied the gospel itself by spiritualizing Jesus and rejecting His bodily sacrifice. Modern parallels include teachings that emphasize Christ as merely exemplary rather than redemptive, philosophies that separate spiritual "truths" from historical events, and approaches that prioritize subjective spiritual experience over objective revelation. Each similarly diminishes the concrete, historical reality of God entering human existence to provide actual atonement.

John uses strong language, calling these teachers "deceivers" and "antichrist" (v.7). How does this help us understand the proper balance between charitable dialogue and decisive rejection of harmful teaching? —John's uncompromising language demonstrates that genuine love includes protecting communities from destructive influence. While Christians should engage respectfully with different perspectives, certain teachings so fundamentally distort the gospel that they require clear identification as dangerous. This balanced approach distinguishes between secondary theological differences that permit charitable dialogue and core distortions that require decisive rejection. True spiritual leadership includes the courage to identify teaching that undermines salvation itself, regardless of how unpopular such discernment might be.

What does John mean by "going on ahead" in verse 9, and how does this warn against claims of progressive spiritual insight? —"Going on ahead" describes teachers claiming advanced spiritual knowledge beyond apostolic teaching. John warns that such supposed progression actually constitutes regression—moving away from rather than deeper into relationship with God. This timeless principle challenges all claims of spiritual innovation that require abandoning foundational gospel truths. True spiritual growth always deepens understanding of established revelation rather than contradicting it. The desire to appear cutting-edge spiritually can actually sever connection with authentic Christian faith.

How does John connect "abiding in the teaching" with having "both the Father and the Son" (v.9)? What does this reveal about the relationship between doctrine and spiritual life? —John establishes that doctrinal faithfulness directly affects relationship with God—incorrect teaching about Christ inevitably damages communion with both Father and Son. This counters the notion that doctrine and spirituality exist in separate compartments. Beliefs shape relationship; theological error has spiritual consequences. This doesn't demand perfect understanding but persistent commitment to apostolic teaching about Christ's nature and work. Genuine relationship with God happens within the boundaries of truthful understanding, not apart from it.

In verses 10-11, John gives strong instructions about not receiving or greeting false teachers. How might these boundaries be appropriately applied in contemporary contexts? —John prohibits extending hospitality that would facilitate the spread of false teaching or imply approval of it. These boundaries shouldn't be applied to all theological disagreements but specifically to fundamental distortions of Christ's nature and work. Modern application involves discernment about platforms, partnerships, and endorsements that might legitimize harmful teaching. This doesn't prohibit evangelistic engagement with those holding different beliefs but addresses formal association that grants credibility to deceptive teachers.

How do we reconcile John's warning against welcoming false teachers with the Christian call to hospitality and evangelism? What principles might guide this discernment? —This apparent tension resolves by recognizing John addresses specific circumstances—teachers claiming Christian identity while fundamentally distorting its message. Different principles apply to those honestly seeking or holding different beliefs without claiming Christian authority. Key discernment questions include: Does the interaction enable harmful influence over vulnerable believers? Does it communicate endorsement of deceptive teaching? Does it provide resources that further false doctrines? Christian hospitality remains vital but must be exercised with wisdom that protects spiritual integrity.

John mentions his preference for face-to-face communication over writing (vv.12-13). What might this reveal about the importance of personal presence in addressing difficult issues and building community? —John's desire for personal interaction suggests that sensitive matters benefit from direct engagement where tone, expression, and relationship dynamics enrich communication. Written instruction serves important purposes but cannot fully replace in-person community. This reminds us that while digital communication offers convenience, formative spiritual conversation and conflict resolution often require personal presence. The mention of "complete joy" through in-person fellowship suggests something irreplaceable happens when believers gather physically that cannot be duplicated through distance communication.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: The Wrong Delivery

Imagine you’re expecting an important package—maybe a new phone or a special gift. The delivery driver knocks, and you open the door. But as you glance at the box, something seems off. The label has your name, but the sender is unfamiliar. You check again and realize—it’s a scam package! If you accept it, you might be letting in something harmful.

John warns us about a similar danger in 2 John 7-13. False teachers may look like they’re delivering truth, but if their message doesn’t align with Jesus, it’s a spiritual scam. John even tells believers not to welcome or support them (v. 10), because spreading false teaching is serious. At the same time, we’re called to be hospitable to those who do bring God’s truth. The challenge is knowing the difference.

Think about a time when you had to be careful about what you allowed into your life—maybe a questionable message on social media, a misleading news story, or bad advice from someone well-meaning. Discernment means checking everything against God’s truth before we accept it.

Reflection Questions:

How can you recognize false teaching when you hear it?

How can we balance kindness with protecting our faith?

What are some practical ways to guard your heart and mind against deception?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

Guarding the faith is not about building walls but about cultivating a strong foundation. John’s words remind us that the church is a community of truth and love, and both are essential for its health. By staying rooted in Christ's teachings, we protect not only ourselves but also the generations to come.

God's plan for His church is one of unity and purity. While we are called to love and welcome others, we must also be vigilant against anything that could lead us astray. This balance of grace and truth reflects the heart of God, who desires His people to walk in love while holding fast to His Word.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Guarding the Faith" (2 John 7–13)

Vigilance →Staying alert and watching oneself to avoid deception and spiritual loss. →2 John 8

Doctrinal Discernment →Testing teachings and teachers, refusing to accept or support those who deny Christ’s true identity. →2 John 7, 10–11

Abiding in Christ’s Teaching →Remaining steadfast in the original apostolic teaching about Jesus, not moving beyond it. →2 John 9

Protection of Community →Guarding the faith and the church by not enabling or endorsing false teachers. →2 John 10–11

Perseverance →Continuing in truth and love so as not to lose spiritual reward. →2 John 8

Commitment to Truth and Love →Holding together truth and love by obeying Christ’s commands while also protecting the community. →2 John 7, 9

QUICK QUIZ:

Why does John warn against welcoming those who do not bring Christ's teaching? How can we apply this principle today without being unkind?

What does it mean to "continue in the teaching of Christ" (2 John 9)? How can this guide our daily decisions and interactions?

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WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. R.C. Sproul

On guarding against false teaching: R.C. Sproul consistently emphasized the importance of doctrinal clarity and the necessity of guarding the church against false teachings. He would likely focus on 2 John 7, where John warns against deceivers who do not confess the coming of Jesus Christ in the flesh. Sproul would teach that false teachers often distort core doctrines, especially regarding the person and work of Christ, and it is crucial for Christians to protect the purity of the gospel. Sproul would remind believers that doctrinal integrity is a fundamental aspect of faithfulness to God’s Word, and guarding the church from falsehood requires vigilance and a commitment to biblical truth.

In his writings, such as The Truth of the Cross, Sproul often discussed how false teachings can subtly undermine the gospel, and he would emphasize that churches need to be careful in discernment. He would likely advise the church to be equipped with sound theology to be able to identify and reject teachings that deviate from the truth of Scripture. In this session, he would highlight that false teachers can be deceptive, often appearing righteous but leading people away from biblical truth.

On maintaining Christian hospitality: While Sproul would strongly advocate for protecting the church from false teachings, he would also recognize the importance of Christian hospitality. He would highlight how John, in verses 10-11, warns against welcoming anyone who does not bring the true teaching of Christ. Sproul would explain that while we must be hospitable, this does not mean we should tolerate error in the name of love. True Christian hospitality means welcoming people in love while standing firm on the truth. He would counsel that the church should provide hospitality to those who preach the gospel in truth, but reject false teachers to avoid compromise.

2. Tim Keller

On guarding against false teaching: Tim Keller often writes and speaks about the importance of theological discernment in the church. In The Reason for God, he addresses the need for careful examination of teachings that claim to represent Christ, warning that false teachers can subtly distort the truth, especially in our culture of pluralism and relativism. Keller would highlight the importance of sound doctrine in 2 John 7-9, stressing that belief in the truth about Jesus Christ—particularly His incarnation and atonement—is the litmus test for discerning falsehood.

Keller would also address how the church must be discerning about what it allows into its fellowship. He would stress that false teachings can often take on the guise of something appealing or even spiritual, but they ultimately lead people away from the gospel of grace. He would argue that the church must have clear boundaries to protect the integrity of the gospel message. The church’s response to false teaching, Keller would say, must be rooted in a commitment to truth, even if it requires difficult decisions.

On maintaining Christian hospitality: Keller is deeply committed to the biblical imperative of hospitality, as shown in his work The Prodigal God, where he highlights God’s welcoming love. However, in this context, Keller would explain that hospitality does not mean accepting falsehood or welcoming teachers who lead others astray. In 2 John 10-11, where John advises against welcoming someone who brings a false gospel, Keller would teach that Christian hospitality must be balanced by discernment. While we should always be open to those who are seeking Christ, we cannot offer a platform to those who promote error in the name of Christ. Keller would emphasize that hospitality, when practiced correctly, does not compromise truth but reflects a deep commitment to the integrity of the gospel.

3. John Piper

On guarding against false teaching: John Piper, with his passion for biblical truth, would teach that the church is responsible for guarding the purity of the gospel and the faith once delivered to the saints. In Desiring God, Piper teaches that the truth of God’s Word is essential for spiritual health, and guarding it from distortion is a fundamental responsibility of the church. In 2 John 7, where John speaks of the deceiver who does not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, Piper would stress that false teaching often denies the central truths of the gospel—especially regarding the nature and work of Jesus Christ.

Piper would also explain that the church must maintain clear doctrinal boundaries to ensure that the faith is not compromised. He would emphasize that false teaching often comes disguised as truth or is delivered by well-meaning individuals, but it leads people away from the true gospel. Piper would likely point to 2 John 9, which encourages believers to remain faithful to the teachings of Christ. He would argue that being vigilant in guarding the faith is necessary for protecting believers from deception and keeping the church anchored in truth.

On maintaining Christian hospitality: Piper would agree with the necessity of Christian hospitality, but he would stress that this hospitality should always be extended with discernment. He would point out that, while we are called to love others and offer hospitality, the Bible also calls us to be wise as serpents and innocent as doves (Matthew 10:16). In the context of 2 John 10-11, Piper would teach that we should not welcome or support those who spread false teaching, even in the name of Christian love. He would explain that while we are called to love people, that love does not mean tolerating deception or compromising the truth of the gospel. True hospitality means welcoming those who bring the truth of the gospel and rejecting those who distort it.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: Recognizing Deceivers

Verse: 2 John 7 "I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist."

Reflection: John warns against false teachers who deny fundamental truths about Jesus. Discernment is key to identifying deceptive teachings that can lead believers astray.

Discussion Prompt: What modern-day examples of deceptive teachings or philosophies might we encounter, and how can we guard against them?

Point: Remaining Faithful to the Teaching of Christ

Verse: 2 John 9 "Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son."

Reflection: Staying rooted in Christ’s teachings is crucial for maintaining a strong and authentic faith. Straying beyond these teachings leads to spiritual compromise.

Discussion Prompt: How can we remain firmly grounded in Christ’s teachings while still navigating new ideas or interpretations?

Point: Setting Healthy Boundaries

Verse: 2 John 10–11 "If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take them into your house or welcome them. Anyone who welcomes them shares in their wicked work."

Reflection: Christian hospitality is important, but it should not come at the expense of endorsing falsehood. Maintaining boundaries protects the church’s integrity.

Discussion Prompt: What does it look like to balance welcoming others with guarding against harmful influences?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Matthew 7:15: "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves." — A reminder to be vigilant in identifying and avoiding deceptive teachers.

1 Timothy 4:1: "The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons." — Highlights the reality of spiritual deception and the need for discernment.

Romans 16:17: "I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them." — Encourages believers to guard against divisive and false teachings that can harm the church.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: Why does John stress the importance of identifying false teachers in 2 John 7?

Commentary: False teachers undermine the foundation of the gospel and threaten the unity of the church. Discussing this helps participants explore how discernment protects both their personal faith and the church community.

Question: How can we balance Christian hospitality with John’s warning in 2 John 10–11?

Commentary: This discussion encourages reflection on practical ways to welcome and love others while maintaining boundaries that protect against harmful influences.

Question: What role does staying rooted in Christ’s teaching (2 John 9) play in guarding against deception?

Commentary: This question emphasizes the importance of Scripture, prayer, and fellowship in helping believers stay anchored in truth while discerning and rejecting falsehoods.

The book of 3 John highlights the importance of hospitality and support for faithful workers of the Gospel while warning against self-centeredness and divisive behavior within the church. Biblical scholar William Barclay explains, "The elder sets forth a beautiful example of Christian friendship and fellowship, urging believers to act as coworkers in the truth."

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Session 10: "Walking in Truth: Christian Character on Display"- 3 John 1-8
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: Gaius as a model of faithful Christian hospitality and support for ministry

Purpose Statement: To explore how genuine faith expresses itself through practical support of fellow believers and gospel workers

READ: 3 John 1-8

Audio: (NLT)

Alistair Begg Sermon

Walk in the Truth — Part One- 3 John 1:1–8 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

John rejoices greatly in verse 3 when he hears that Gaius is "walking in the truth." Beyond church attendance and Bible reading, what does "walking in the truth" look like in the daily life of a mature Christian?

Verses 5-8 commend Gaius for his hospitality toward traveling ministers, calling such support "fellow workers for the truth." In what ways can seniors in today's church become "fellow workers for the truth" even if they cannot actively serve in frontline ministry?

OVERVIEW:

In this session, we delve into the Apostle John's letter to Gaius, a faithful believer whose life exemplified Christian hospitality and support for ministry. John commends Gaius for his unwavering commitment to walking in truth and for his generosity toward traveling gospel workers. As John writes, "Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you" (3 John 5). This passage highlights how genuine faith is demonstrated through practical acts of love and service.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

In verse 7, John notes that the gospel workers "went out for the sake of the Name, receiving no help from the pagans." This underscores the early church's reliance on the support of fellow believers rather than external sources. It may surprise us to realize how much the spread of the gospel depended on the sacrificial giving and hospitality of ordinary Christians like Gaius. This teaching challenges us to consider how we can actively support ministry efforts today, even in small but meaningful ways.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In a world where individualism often overshadows community, Gaius's example reminds us of the importance of supporting one another in faith. Whether it's hosting missionaries, donating to ministry efforts, or simply encouraging fellow believers, our actions can have a ripple effect in advancing the gospel. This passage calls us to be intentional in building a culture of generosity and hospitality within our own communities.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT:

What does John's commendation of Gaius teach us about walking in truth? —In 3 John 3–4, John rejoices because Gaius is living out the truth, not just believing it. This shows that walking in truth involves a visible, faithful life rooted in integrity and love. It challenges us to examine whether our actions reflect the truth we profess.

How is Christian hospitality portrayed in 3 John 5–6, and why does it matter? —Gaius is praised for showing hospitality “to strangers,” especially gospel workers. His generosity reflects God’s heart and supports the advance of the kingdom. This teaches us that practical acts of kindness are a vital expression of faith and partnership in the gospel.

Why is it important to support fellow believers and gospel workers, according to verse 8? —John urges believers to support such people “so that we may be fellow workers for the truth.” This highlights a shared mission: even if we are not on the frontlines, we play a critical role through our encouragement, resources, and hospitality. Faith is not just personal; it’s collaborative.

What can we learn from Gaius’s example about how faith should shape our relationships? —Gaius’s faith showed itself in tangible care and love. He built trust, offered help freely, and lived in a way that others could witness. His story invites us to reflect on whether our own relationships reflect the selfless, truth-based love of Christ.

How might we cultivate a lifestyle that actively supports others in their walk with God? —By being attentive to the needs of those around us—offering time, prayer, encouragement, or material help—we live out our faith. Gaius didn’t wait for ideal conditions; he simply responded in love. Likewise, we’re called to show up for others with consistent faithfulness and joy.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Open Door Diner"

Imagine a small-town diner known by everyone in the community—a place where the owner always leaves one table open, even if the restaurant is full. When a weary traveler or a hard-working community helper stops by, they are welcomed without question. You might recall a news story about a local restaurant that became a refuge during a severe winter storm, offering free meals and a warm place to rest for people in need. That open table wasn’t just about food; it was a sign of genuine care and trust.

In 3 John, Gaius shows us what true Christian hospitality looks like. Instead of keeping his home closed off, he opened his door to fellow believers and gospel workers. In the same way, our simple acts of kindness—an open door, a shared meal, or a kind word—speak powerfully about our faith. They remind us that true Christian character is not just about what we say, but also about how we support and care for one another, just as the diner owner supported those in need during that storm.

Reflection Questions

How have you experienced the impact of someone's open hospitality in your life or community?

What are some simple ways you might “open your door”—both literally or figuratively—to show kindness and support to others?

In what ways does practicing hospitality deepen your faith and reflect the love of Christ?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

Walking in truth is not just about personal integrity; it’s about living out our faith in ways that bless others. Gaius's life serves as a powerful reminder that even seemingly small acts of kindness can have eternal significance. By supporting gospel workers and showing hospitality, we become partners in the mission of spreading God's truth.

God's plan for His church involves every believer playing a role in advancing His kingdom. Whether through prayer, financial support, or acts of service, we are all called to contribute to the work of the gospel. Gaius's example encourages us to embrace this calling with joy and faithfulness, knowing that our efforts, no matter how small, are part of a much larger divine purpose.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Walking in Truth: Christian Character on Display" (3 John 1–8)

Faithfulness to Truth →Consistently walks in and upholds the truth, living with integrity and sincerity. →3 John 1:3–4

Hospitality →Welcomes and supports fellow believers, especially traveling teachers and missionaries. →3 John 1:5–8

Love in Action →Demonstrates love not just in words but through practical support and generosity. →3 John 1:5–6

Support for Gospel Workers →Provides for and partners with those spreading the gospel, treating them “in a manner worthy of God.” →3 John 1:6–8

Good Reputation →Earns the commendation of others for consistent Christian conduct and service. →3 John 1:6, 1:12

Imitation of Good →Intentionally follows positive examples, striving to do what is good and godly. →3 John 1:11

Encouragement of Others →Brings joy to other believers and leaders by living out the truth faithfully. →3 John 1:3–4

QUICK QUIZ:

How does Gaius's example of hospitality and support for gospel workers challenge us to live out our faith today?

What does it mean to "work together for the truth" (3 John 8)? How can we apply this principle in our daily lives?

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Additional content for the above study

WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. Tim Keller

On Christian hospitality and support for ministry: Tim Keller frequently writes about the profound importance of Christian hospitality and its connection to authentic Christian character. In his book The Prodigal God, Keller emphasizes the transforming power of hospitality, showing how it reflects the heart of God and the gospel itself. He would highlight Gaius’ role in 3 John 5-8 as a model of hospitality, particularly how Gaius supported ministers of the gospel by welcoming them and providing for their needs.

Keller would likely point out that genuine Christian faith is not only about personal spirituality but is also seen in how believers care for one another and support the work of the gospel. In 3 John 6, where Gaius is commended for showing hospitality to strangers, Keller would underscore that true faith is always expressed in love and service. It’s not just about welcoming people into our homes but also partnering in the ministry of the gospel, supporting those who bring the message of Christ.

Keller might also explore the relational aspect of hospitality, showing how serving others in the name of Christ creates an opportunity for believers to express genuine love and support for the body of Christ. For Keller, faith in action is visible when Christians put their faith into practical acts of love, such as supporting missionaries, evangelists, and other gospel workers. Hospitality, in this sense, is a visible sign of a believer’s commitment to spreading the gospel.

2. John Piper

On Christian hospitality and support for ministry: John Piper’s teachings on Christian love and service align with the example of Gaius in 3 John 1-8. Piper often stresses the importance of living out our faith in tangible ways, and in his book Desiring God, he teaches that true Christian joy is found in sacrificial love and service. He would use Gaius as an example of how love for others and the gospel can be expressed through practical acts such as hospitality and financial support for ministry.

Piper would likely highlight how Gaius’ actions in 3 John are an example of genuine Christian character on display, showing that faith without works is dead (James 2:26). In Gaius’ case, his hospitality wasn’t just a kind gesture—it was an expression of his deep commitment to the gospel and to fellow believers. Piper would explain that supporting gospel workers is a critical part of the Christian life, and it involves sacrificing time, resources, and energy to advance God’s kingdom. Piper would encourage believers to see their financial support, time, and resources as means of participating in the mission of God.

He would also explore the reward for those like Gaius who engage in this kind of hospitality and support. Just as Gaius is praised for his generosity, Piper would remind his readers that God honors those who faithfully serve others in His name, and such acts of service are never in vain. Through such service, Christians become part of the ongoing work of the gospel in the world.

3. Sinclair Ferguson

On Christian hospitality and support for ministry: Sinclair Ferguson, known for his emphasis on biblical theology and the gospel, would also view Gaius as a model Christian, especially in his practical outworking of the gospel. Ferguson’s writings often stress the importance of Christian love and the support of gospel ministry, aligning closely with Gaius’ example in 3 John. In his work The Christian Life, Ferguson teaches that Christian character is most clearly demonstrated through acts of service and faithful support for the work of the kingdom.

Ferguson would focus on the way that Gaius is not only a faithful servant but also a partner in the gospel ministry. In 3 John 5-8, Gaius’ hospitality is seen as a co-laborer in the gospel, actively contributing to the mission of the church. Ferguson would likely say that Gaius' support for these traveling missionaries was an expression of his genuine faith—he didn’t just believe the gospel; he lived it out by supporting those who were spreading it.

Ferguson would also emphasize the joy that Gaius experiences in his service, showing that hospitality and support for ministry are not burdens but expressions of Christian joy. For Ferguson, the Christian life is marked by a joyful devotion to the truth, and the example of Gaius highlights that supporting the gospel in practical ways is a fruitful and joyful aspect of living out the faith.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: The Joy of Faithful Living

Verse: 3 John 3–4 "It gave me great joy when some believers came and testified about your faithfulness to the truth, telling how you continue to walk in it. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth."

Reflection: Gaius’ faithfulness brought joy to others and reflected his deep commitment to God’s truth. Walking in truth means our lives align with God’s word and His character.

Discussion Prompt: How do you think living faithfully to God’s truth can positively influence the people around you?

Point: Hospitality as an Act of Love

Verse: 3 John 5–6 "Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you. They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honors God."

Reflection: Gaius’ hospitality to gospel workers demonstrates how genuine love for others can help advance God’s kingdom. Supporting others in ministry is a tangible way to live out our faith.

Discussion Prompt: Why is showing hospitality to others, even strangers, such an important part of being a Christian? How can we practice this in our own lives?

Point: Honoring God Through Support for Ministry

Verse: 3 John 7–8 "It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans. We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth."

Reflection: Supporting those who dedicate their lives to sharing the gospel allows us to partner with them in God’s work. We share in the mission and are part of something larger than ourselves.

Discussion Prompt: What are some practical ways we can support those who are serving in ministry or missions today?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Romans 12:13: "Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality." — Encourages believers to care for one another through acts of kindness and hospitality.

Matthew 10:40–41: "Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me, and anyone who welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. Whoever welcomes a prophet as a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and whoever welcomes a righteous person as a righteous person will receive a righteous person’s reward." — Jesus highlights the value of welcoming and supporting His servants.

Hebrews 13:2: "Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it." — Stresses the significance and blessings of practicing hospitality.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: What can we learn from Gaius’ example of faithfulness in 3 John 3–4, and how can we apply it in our everyday lives?

Commentary: Gaius shows that consistent, faithful living impacts others and brings joy to the body of Christ. Discussing this encourages participants to reflect on their own “faith walk.”

Question: Why is hospitality such a powerful way to demonstrate Christian love, as seen in 3 John 5–6?

Commentary: Hospitality creates opportunities to serve others, reflect God’s love, and advance the gospel. This discussion allows participants to explore creative and meaningful ways to practice hospitality.

Question: How can partnering with gospel workers, as mentioned in 3 John 7–8, strengthen our connection to God’s mission?

Commentary: Supporting missionaries and ministry leaders connects us to God’s larger plan. This question encourages participants to think about their own role in supporting the church and its outreach.

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Session 11: "Power and Humility in the Church"- 3 John 9-15
— Study Guide — Discussion Guide

Focus: The contrast between Diotrephes' self-promotion and Demetrius' good testimony

Purpose Statement: To examine the dangers of pride in church leadership and the beauty of humble service

READ: 3 John 9-15

Alistair Begg Sermon

The Commendation of Demetrius- 3 John 1:9–14

The Condemnation of Diotrephes- 3 John 1:9–10 

LEAD-IN QUESTIONS:

Diotrephes is described as someone who "likes to put himself first" (v.9). What are some subtle ways that the desire for prominence, recognition, or control can manifest in church settings today, even among well-meaning believers?

John mentions he has "much to write" but prefers to speak "face to face" (v.13-14). In our digital age, what are the benefits of face-to-face communication in addressing church conflicts or mentoring relationships that cannot be achieved through other means?

OVERVIEW:

This session highlights the stark contrast between two individuals in the early church: Diotrephes, who sought personal power and recognition, and Demetrius, who earned a good reputation through his humility and faithfulness. The Apostle John warns against the destructive nature of pride in leadership while commending the beauty of humble service. As John writes, "Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God" (3 John 11). This passage calls us to reflect on the kind of legacy we want to leave in our faith communities.

THIS MAY SURPRISE YOU:

Diotrephes' behavior, described in verse 9, reveals a troubling reality: even in the early church, there were leaders who prioritized their own status over the well-being of the community. John writes that Diotrephes "loves to be first" and even spreads malicious gossip to undermine others. This may surprise us, as we often idealize the early church as a perfect model of unity. However, this passage reminds us that pride and self-promotion are timeless challenges that can disrupt any community. It also emphasizes the importance of addressing such issues with courage and grace.

CULTURE CONNECTION:

In today's world, the temptation to seek recognition and power is amplified by social media and other platforms that reward self-promotion. This passage challenges us to examine our own motives and to value humility and service over personal gain. Demetrius' example reminds us that true influence comes not from seeking the spotlight but from living a life of integrity and faithfulness.

SEEDS FOR THOUGHT: Power and Humility in the Church (3 John 9–15)

What does Diotrephes teach us about the corrupting nature of pride when left unchecked in church leadership? —Diotrephes “loves to be first” (v. 9), rejecting apostolic authority and refusing hospitality to faithful believers. This love of prominence is not just personal arrogance—it is spiritual rebellion that fractures fellowship and distorts the gospel witness of the church. His behavior reflects the age-old temptation to seize control rather than serve. Leaders today must guard against similar impulses by regularly examining their motives and submitting themselves to the pattern of Christ, who “came not to be served, but to serve” (Mark 10:45).

How does the commendation of Demetrius model the kind of character we should affirm and follow in church life? —In contrast to Diotrephes, Demetrius is “well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself” (v. 12). His character aligns with both communal testimony and gospel integrity. This suggests that spiritual authority should not rest merely on charisma or position but on consistent, observable faithfulness. Churches are called to honor those who quietly serve in humility, reflecting the character of Christ rather than seeking the platform of Diotrephes.

Why is the pursuit of humility not weakness, but a mark of true spiritual authority in the body of Christ? —Humility is often misunderstood as passivity or lack of ambition. However, in the biblical sense, humility is strength under submission—power surrendered to the purposes of God. The church is healthiest when leadership reflects Christ’s example of washing feet (John 13) rather than demanding titles. This passage in 3 John implicitly calls the church to discern the difference between domineering control and spiritual maturity. True authority is rooted in love, truth, and service.

What role does accountability play in preserving the church from the influence of individuals like Diotrephes? —John intends to address Diotrephes’ behavior “when I come” (v. 10), indicating that spiritual leaders must be prepared to confront sin openly and courageously. This underscores the importance of biblical accountability structures—elders, community, and Scripture—that resist manipulation and ensure leadership remains Christ-centered. Without such correction, pride grows unchecked and spiritual harm follows.

How do we cultivate a church culture where Demetrius-like character is celebrated more than Diotrephes-like power? —Communities often reflect what they honor. If leadership is celebrated for visibility, charisma, or control, the body will mirror those values. But if the church lifts up humble servants, encourages integrity, and recognizes Christlikeness over prestige, it will naturally foster a healthier, more faithful community. Creating space for testimonies, mentoring, and shared leadership can help cultivate such a culture.

DEVOTIONAL ALLEGORY: "The Two BBQ Organizers"

Imagine your local community gathering for a big summer BBQ. Two volunteers are in charge of running the event. One of them, let’s call him John, loves to be in the spotlight. He's always talking about how great he is at organizing the event and makes sure everyone knows it was his idea. He even stops others from sharing their ideas because he believes his is the only one that matters.

Then there’s Peter, the other volunteer, who works quietly in the background. Peter makes sure every helper feels important. He welcomes suggestions, gives credit to others, and gently nudges the team along. At the end of the day, while John is remembered for his loud self-promotion, it’s Peter’s humble service that brought the team together and made the BBQ a warm, united success.

In 3 John 9-15, we see a similar contrast. Diotrephes, like John, seeks to promote himself and rules with pride, causing division in the church. Meanwhile, Demetrius is remembered for his good testimony—his actions show humble service and true love for others. This story reminds us that real power in the church comes from serving quietly and selflessly, instead of seeking personal acclaim.

Reflection Questions

What does the story of the two organizers teach us about the value of humility in leadership?

Can you recall a time when someone's humble service made a difference in your life or community?

How can we encourage and celebrate humble service in our own church gatherings and community events?

TAKE-HOME THOUGHT:

The contrast between Diotrephes and Demetrius serves as a powerful reminder of the kind of leaders and followers God desires in His church. Pride and self-promotion may bring temporary recognition, but they ultimately harm the community and dishonor God. On the other hand, humility and faithful service reflect the heart of Christ and build up the body of believers.

God's plan for His church is one of unity and mutual support. By following the example of Demetrius, we can contribute to a culture of encouragement and integrity. This passage invites us to consider how we can use our influence—whether great or small—to serve others and glorify God.

SERIOUSLY THINKING- Growing Traits in the Person Who Takes Seriously "Power and Humility in the Church" (3 John 9–15)

Humility →Rejects self-promotion and the desire to be first, choosing instead to serve others and submit to godly authority. →3 John 9–10

Respect for Authority →Honors apostolic and spiritual authority, rather than rejecting or undermining it. →3 John 9

Hospitality →Welcomes and supports fellow believers, especially those serving in ministry, despite opposition. →3 John 10

Imitation of Good →Intentionally follows positive examples (like Demetrius), not negative ones (like Diotrephes). →3 John 11

Discernment →Distinguishes between good and evil in leadership and conduct, refusing to imitate what is evil. →3 John 11

Good Reputation →Lives in such a way that even outsiders and the wider church community can affirm their character. →3 John 12

Peacemaking →Seeks to promote peace and blessing within the church, rather than division and strife. →3 John 14–15

QUICK QUIZ:

How does Diotrephes' behavior serve as a warning for church leaders and members today?

What qualities in Demetrius' life made him a positive example for the early church, and how can we emulate those qualities in our own lives?

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Additional content for the above study

WORDS FROM NOTABLE PEOPLE:

1. John Piper

On the dangers of pride in church leadership: John Piper frequently speaks about the dangers of pride and self-promotion, especially in leadership roles. In his writings, he emphasizes that humility is not just a virtue but a necessary quality for true Christian leadership. In the case of Diotrephes, who is described as someone who loves to be first (3 John 9), Piper would likely explain how pride in leadership can distort the purpose of church leadership, which should be to serve and point others to Christ rather than seeking personal gain or status.

Piper would highlight that pride in leadership can lead to disunity and strife within the church, as it focuses on the leader's desires instead of the church's mission. He would likely reflect on the importance of servant leadership—a principle Jesus modeled by washing the disciples' feet (John 13:1-17). For Piper, true Christian leadership is about being lowly in heart, serving others, and putting the needs of the church above one's own ambitions.

On the beauty of humble service: Piper would emphasize the beauty of Demetrius' testimony (3 John 12), which stands in stark contrast to Diotrephes' self-promotion. Demetrius is praised for his good reputation and faithfulness. For Piper, Demetrius exemplifies the kind of leadership that reflects Christlikeness—a life marked by humility, integrity, and a desire to honor God above all. He would likely explain that humble service in leadership doesn’t seek recognition but trusts that God will honor the faithful in His time.

Piper would encourage leaders to follow the example of humility and servanthood, focusing on faithful witness and godly character rather than the pursuit of power, influence, or control.

2. Tim Keller

On the dangers of pride in church leadership: Tim Keller often writes and speaks about the dangers of pride in leadership and the importance of self-forgetfulness in Christian service. In the context of Diotrephes’ actions in 3 John 9-10, Keller would highlight the toxic effects of self-centered ambition in leadership, particularly when it eclipses the gospel and hinders the unity of the church. He would likely argue that when leaders like Diotrephes focus on personal prestige, it leads to division and exploitation of others, especially those who are genuinely working for the church’s mission.

Keller would draw attention to how Diotrephes' pride creates barriers to Christian fellowship and hospitality—fundamental aspects of the church’s life together. He might point out that pride in leadership leads to control, as seen in Diotrephes’ refusal to receive John’s authority or the ministry of other leaders (3 John 10). For Keller, the pursuit of power in the church leads to spiritual stagnation and a lack of genuine Christian love.

On the beauty of humble service: In contrast, Keller would celebrate the example of Demetrius (3 John 12), whose good testimony is a reflection of humble service and faithfulness. For Keller, humility is key to any form of Christian leadership. Demetrius’ faithfulness and good reputation are a result of serving others rather than seeking personal gain. Keller would likely point out that true greatness in the kingdom of God is found in humble service, as Jesus Himself taught (Matthew 20:26-28).

Keller might also emphasize that genuine Christian leadership is about serving the church and seeking the glory of God, not personal fame or success. He would encourage church leaders to focus on building others up, knowing that humility is not only a biblical command but also the path to true Christian greatness in God’s eyes.

3. Sinclair Ferguson

On the dangers of pride in church leadership: Sinclair Ferguson frequently stresses the importance of godly leadership and humility in his writings. He would likely take a strong stand against pride and self-promotion, as seen in the behavior of Diotrephes in 3 John 9-10. Ferguson would explain that Diotrephes' desire for preeminence shows the destructive nature of pride within leadership. When leaders seek power for their own sake, they hinder the work of the gospel, creating division and confusion among the people of God.

Ferguson would teach that true Christian leadership is about humble service—following Christ's example of self-sacrifice and serving others. He would point out that prideful leaders like Diotrephes don’t just damage the church but also deny the gospel's power to transform lives. Ferguson would likely reflect on the biblical call for leaders to shepherd the flock with humility, not to lord it over them (1 Peter 5:3), and to remember that their authority is ultimately God-given and must be exercised in love and service.

On the beauty of humble service: In contrast to Diotrephes, Demetrius is praised for his good testimony and faithfulness in 3 John 12. Ferguson would point out that true greatness in the church is not about seeking attention or recognition but about living a life of faithful service. Demetrius exemplifies the Christian leader who seeks no personal gain but lives to serve others, trusting that God will honor him in His time.

Ferguson would likely conclude by emphasizing that humble service is the heartbeat of Christian leadership. He would challenge church leaders to emulate Demetrius, being marked not by ambition but by faithfulness to the gospel and a desire to serve God’s people with integrity and humility.

Key Points to Reflect On

Point: The Danger of Self-Promotion

Verse: 3 John 9–10 "I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not welcome us. So when I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, spreading malicious nonsense about us. Not satisfied with that, he even refuses to welcome other believers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church."

Reflection: Diotrephes exemplifies how pride and self-centeredness can harm the church and its unity. His desire for power led to divisive actions that disrupted the community.

Discussion Prompt: How can pride negatively impact church leadership today, and what steps can we take to guard against it?

Point: The Beauty of a Good Testimony

Verse: 3 John 11–12 "Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God. Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true."

Reflection: In contrast to Diotrephes, Demetrius is praised for his good character and strong testimony. His life reflects God’s truth and serves as an example of humble service.

Discussion Prompt: What qualities stand out in someone with a “good testimony,” and how can we strive to cultivate these in our own lives?

Point: The Call to Humility in Leadership

Verse: 3 John 14 "I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name."

Reflection: John’s personal and caring approach exemplifies humble leadership. True leadership prioritizes relationships, peace, and the well-being of the church community over personal gain.

Discussion Prompt: How can leaders today model humility and prioritize relationships within the church?

CROSS-REFERENCE:

Matthew 23:11–12: "The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." — A reminder that humility is the path to true greatness in God’s kingdom.

Philippians 2:3–4: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." — Encourages believers to adopt a mindset of humility and selflessness, especially in leadership roles.

1 Peter 5:2–3: "Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." — Highlights the responsibility of church leaders to lead by example through humble service.

Discussion Questions with Commentary

Question: What warning can we take from Diotrephes’ actions in 3 John 9–10, and how can we ensure pride doesn’t take root in our lives?

Commentary: Pride often leads to divisiveness and hinders the work of God. Discussing this helps participants reflect on the importance of humility and accountability in leadership.

Question: How does Demetrius’ good testimony in 3 John 11–12 inspire us to live in a way that reflects God’s truth?

Commentary: Demetrius serves as a model of Christ-like character. This conversation encourages participants to think about how their actions influence others and honor God.

Question: Why is humility essential in church leadership, as seen in John’s example in 3 John 14?

Commentary: Humility fosters trust, unity, and a focus on Christ rather than personal agendas. This discussion can explore practical ways leaders can prioritize the needs of the church over personal recognition.

The historical context of 1 John, 2 John, and 3 John is tied closely to the Apostle John and the challenges faced by the early Christian church in the late first century. Tradition holds that John, likely the last surviving apostle, wrote these epistles while residing in or near Ephesus, around 85–95 AD. The church was grappling with internal and external pressures, including the rise of false teachings such as Gnosticism, which denied the incarnation of Christ and undermined core Christian doctrines.

John's writings reflect his pastoral concern for the spiritual health of the community. In 1 John, he addresses the need for discernment, truth, and love to combat these heresies. In 2 John, he cautions against extending hospitality to false teachers who might lead believers astray. Finally, 3 John shows a more personal side, dealing with matters of hospitality, church authority, and interpersonal conflict within the community. These letters provide insight into the apostle’s deep love for the church and his firm resolve to safeguard its unity and doctrinal purity during a tumultuous time.

What were the main conflicts in the early church during this time?

Many conflicts were tied to theological disagreements, cultural tensions, and challenges to church unity. One of the major issues was the rise of false teachings, particularly Gnosticism, which denied the humanity of Christ and distorted foundational Christian beliefs. These heresies created divisions and confusion among believers, prompting John to emphasize truth and sound doctrine.

Additionally, the church contended with conflicts over authority and leadership, as seen in 3 John, where a figure named Diotrephes is mentioned for rejecting apostolic guidance and acting in a self-serving manner. There were also challenges in maintaining fellowship and love within a diverse and growing community, as cultural differences between Jewish and Gentile believers sometimes led to tension. Amid these struggles, the early church was also navigating its identity within a hostile Roman Empire, striving to stay faithful under external persecution while addressing internal divisions. These conflicts shaped much of the pastoral and theological focus of John’s epistles.

Gnosticism, a prominent heresy during the early church, encompassed a variety of beliefs that diverged significantly from orthodox Christian doctrine. Some key examples include:

Dualism: Gnostics often believed in a strict dualism between spirit and matter, viewing the physical world as inherently evil and created by a lesser, flawed deity (sometimes called the Demiurge). Only the spiritual realm was considered pure and good.

Denial of Christ's Humanity: Many Gnostics taught that Christ did not truly take on human flesh because matter was seen as corrupt. Instead, they claimed He only appeared to be human (a belief known as Docetism).

Salvation through Secret Knowledge: Gnostics believed that salvation came not through faith in Christ’s atoning work, but through acquiring hidden, esoteric knowledge (gnosis) about the divine realm. This knowledge was said to be accessible only to a select group of enlightened individuals.

Rejection of Resurrection: Because they viewed the material body as corrupt, Gnostics often rejected the idea of a bodily resurrection, which is a core teaching of Christianity.

Divine Sparks: Some Gnostic sects taught that within certain people were divine "sparks" trapped in the material world, and the goal of salvation was to liberate these sparks to reunite with the divine realm.

These beliefs caused significant conflict within the early church as they directly contradicted foundational teachings about the incarnation, resurrection, and the nature of salvation. This is why the Apostle John and other early church leaders strongly opposed such teachings in their writings.

How do these early conflicts influence contemporary Christianity?

The early church conflicts, like those surrounding Gnosticism and false teachings, continue to shape contemporary Christianity in significant ways. These struggles led to the development of core doctrines, creeds, and a commitment to preserving the integrity of Scripture. For instance, the Apostles' Creed and Nicene Creed emerged as responses to early heresies, and they remain vital confessions of faith for many Christian traditions today.

Moreover, the emphasis on discernment and guarding against false teachings persists, with churches actively working to address challenges such as modern relativism, secularism, and theological distortions. The call to balance truth and love—seen in John’s writings—still resonates as Christians navigate cultural and moral complexities, striving to hold onto biblical convictions while fostering unity and compassion. The foundation laid by the early church provides a roadmap for dealing with similar tensions and challenges in our present age.

What historical events contributed to these early church conflicts?

Several historical events contributed to the early church conflicts during the time of 1 John, 2 John, and 3 John:

The Spread of Christianity Beyond Jewish Communities: As the Gospel spread among Gentiles, cultural and theological tensions emerged between Jewish and non-Jewish believers. These differences led to disputes over practices such as circumcision, dietary laws, and the application of the Mosaic Law, forcing the church to address issues of unity and inclusivity (e.g., Acts 15 and the Council of Jerusalem).

The Rise of False Teachings: During the late first century, movements like Gnosticism began to infiltrate Christian communities. These teachings questioned the nature of Christ, salvation, and creation, creating division and prompting leaders like John to reaffirm orthodox doctrines.

The Persecution of Christians: Under Roman emperors such as Nero and Domitian, Christians faced severe persecution, which tested the faith of believers and caused both external pressure and internal anxiety. Persecution sometimes led to conflicts over who could be trusted within the community and how the church should respond to threats.

The Decline of Apostolic Leadership: As the first generation of apostles and eyewitnesses to Jesus’ ministry passed away, the church faced a leadership vacuum. This gap made communities more vulnerable to division, as seen in the power struggles within 3 John, where Diotrephes rejected apostolic authority.

Geographical and Cultural Expansion: Christianity’s growth across different regions introduced diverse languages, customs, and philosophies into the church, sometimes leading to misunderstandings and the need to establish clear theological boundaries.

These historical developments laid the groundwork for the early church’s need to navigate doctrinal clarity, community integrity, and faithful perseverance in the face of internal and external challenges. The writings of John and other New Testament leaders arose directly from this context.